Favorable time for a wedding. What day of the week to get married

From this article you can find out which month is better to get married, in accordance with folk signs. The text gives advice and guidance on which month is best to get married.

Many newlyweds consider choosing a wedding day a responsible process. Most people want the date to be beautiful and memorable. When making such a choice, it is advisable to pay attention to folk signs.

Our ancestors knew which month is better to get married. For each month of the year, there is a sign that says how suitable it is for a wedding:

January. This month does not bode well for the young family. A marriage made in January will not last long. From the point of view of our ancestors, this month can be called one of the worst for organizing a wedding;

February. This month, you can safely get married, the family will be strong, and the children will be healthy;

March. This month is considered unfavorable. The family, formed in March, will soon leave their native lands. The same fate will befall their children;

April. If you get married this month, you can not count on a quiet family life. Adversity will alternate with happy moments. The whole life will be full of various events, both good and bad;

May. As for this month, everyone knows the saying: “you get married in May - you will toil all your life.” To this day, this statement is considered true, although, most likely, its roots go back to the distant past, when May was the “hottest” month for farmers, since sowing was carried out, and there was no time to get married;

June. This month is one of the most favorable for marriage. It was believed that for those who were married in June, all life would be "honey";

July. For this month, the same signs are true as for April, that is, all life will be like a zebra, the stripe is white, the stripe is black. You won't be bored;

August. This month can also be called one of the best for a wedding. Families born in August will live in harmony. They will always have mutual understanding, both between spouses and between children and parents;

September. This is a month for those who wish for a calm and serene family life. Troubles bypass the families that appeared in September;

October. Marrying this month is strongly discouraged. Troubles and hardships will haunt the family, married in October. There will be neither agreement nor mutual understanding in them;

November. This month is considered good for those who want to live in abundance. In a family born in November, not only mutual understanding, but also money will never stop flowing;

December. This month is also considered very auspicious. The couple will love each other all their lives. In their family there will always be a place for love, and born children will honor their parents.

Our ancestors believed that a wedding played in the harvest month would be successful, so they most often got married in late summer - early autumn. At this time, the tables were bursting with cooked dishes, people rested after harvesting, and weddings were played almost every day.

When choosing a wedding date, our ancestors paid attention not only to the month. There are several church prohibitions on marriage. This applies to the four great fasts in which a church wedding is not held. These include:

• Christmas post. From November 28 to January 6;
• Great post. From Maslenitsa to Easter (seven weeks);
• Petrovsky post. From the second Monday after Trinity to July 12;
• Assumption post. From 14 to 28 August.

In addition, you cannot get married during some Orthodox holidays, such as the Trinity, Intercession, Christmas, Exaltation, Candlemas, the Annunciation, etc. It is not customary to play weddings on Maslenitsa and on the days of commemoration of deceased relatives.

So, following the recommendations of the ancestors, and discarding the "forbidden" months, we get the following most favorable months for a wedding: February, June, the second half of July and the first half of August, September and November. Thus, about half the days of the year it is not recommended to get married.

You can refer to folk signs not only to choose the month of the wedding. With their help, you can find out the most favorable day of the week for the celebration:

• Monday. A wedding played on this day will bring a lot of happiness and joy. The marriage will be happy and the children healthy;
• Tuesday. Married on this day, spouses may not be afraid for their health. They will always have plenty of it;
• Wednesday. This day was considered one of the best. Prosperity and success awaited the young family;
• Thursday. It is not recommended to get married on this day, as there is a danger of misunderstanding and various adversities.
• Friday. Many would be surprised, but our ancestors believed that those who married on this day doom themselves to many hardships. Currently, this day is one of the most popular for marriage;
• Saturday. It was believed that a marriage concluded on this day would be happy only if the spouses were ready to sacrifice everything they had for the sake of the happiness of their beloved.
• Sunday. On this day, marriage was strictly not recommended. Sunday can be called the worst day for marriage.

In the modern world, of course, one cannot rely on folk signs, they are rather interesting from the point of view of acquaintance with folklore. Nowadays, many people prefer to get married in the summer or early autumn, since this is a warm season and the celebration, or at least part of it, can be held outdoors. In addition, at this time of the year you can go on a honeymoon trip to the southern countries.

The disadvantages of a summer wedding can only be attributed to the fact that this is the holiday season and some guests may be absent due to a trip abroad, but this problem is quite easily solved, you just need to warn everyone about the planned celebration in advance, preferably a few months in advance.

A wedding played in the winter also has many advantages, and in no case should you be upset if it cannot be played another season. It is in winter that you can stand out among the monotonous summer weddings. Photoshoots held this season are simply amazing in their splendor, especially if they are made by a talented photographer.

In winter, it is easier to choose a beautiful date for a wedding, since the number of people getting married is much lower, for the same reason the celebration itself will cost much less, because in all restaurants prices drop by several tens of percent. At a winter wedding, the bride can appear in a magnificent outfit made of furs, a wedding dress can also be made to match the style, for example, it can be knitted.

There are many signs regarding the date of the wedding. However, in which month it is better to get married, only future spouses should decide. After all, in fact, the date does not matter, the most important thing is love and mutual understanding.

The choice of an auspicious day takes into account religious canons, folk signs, advice from astrology, numerology, and lunar cycles. Religious canons forbid weddings on fasting days and religious holidays. Astrologers take into account the influence of the planets on the days they rule. Folk signs are formed on the basis of centuries-old observations and traditions. Numerologists make formulas using the dates of birth of the newlyweds. When concluding secular marriages, the choice of an auspicious day for the wedding is not obligatory; religious canons are strictly observed during the ceremony.

Monday() - a day off in most registry offices. Therefore, on this day it is impossible to formalize a marriage, which, according to folk signs, brings joy and wealth to young people. This day, according to astrology, is moderately favorable, because. the Moon patronizes him, controlling the hearth, family and children, but causing variability in the life of spouses.

Tuesday() - a secular wedding and a wedding ceremony are prohibited according to Orthodox canons. The most unfavorable day in astrology, because. Mars, which controls it, is aggressive, militant, quick-tempered, uncompromising, increases conflict in family life, lack of harmony and warmth in relations between spouses. In rare cases, dynamic passionate relationships are possible, which, according to popular signs, contribute to the good health of the young.

Wednesday() - a happy day for a wedding according to folk signs. It is also quite favorable in astrology for a couple with common interests and a large number of mutual friends, because. ruled by Mercury, which promotes communication, exchange of opinions, compromises. For couples who are somewhat neglectful of the value of their relationship, Mercury promotes the calm settlement of emerging problems.

Thursday() - the wedding ceremony and the wedding are prohibited by Orthodox canons. Support this ban and folk signs that warn of the inevitable difficulties in married life. Astrology considers this day very successful for concluding marriage contracts, success in the material side of family life, but the most unfavorable spiritually, entailing detailed analyzes of each conflict situation. This is due to the fact that Jupiter, ruling Thursday, accompanies good luck, success in the material side of life and is responsible for jurisprudence.

Friday() - the most successful day for a wedding, because ruled by the planet of love and happiness, Venus, which promotes sincere mutual feelings of love and happiness of spouses. At the same time, Venus also contributes to material well-being, good luck in financial support for the family. The material well-being sent down often causes a desire for a luxurious festive atmosphere, which does not go well with the desire to work. Therefore, folk signs speak of difficult trials awaiting spouses. For the Jews, after sunset, Shabbat begins and the prohibition of weddings.

Saturday() - it is forbidden to hold weddings and weddings according to Orthodox canons, and according to Jewish canons until the end of Shabbat (before sunset). In astrology, this day is ruled by Saturn, which affects the dryness of feelings, lack of luck, but, on the other hand, responsibility and stability. Therefore, astrologers do not recommend holding a wedding on Saturday, but recognize that marriages and marriage contracts, with a lack of happiness and harmony, can remain stable. Folk signs warn that a marriage can be stable if the spouses sacrifice everything to save the family.

Sunday() - the opinion of astrologers about the auspiciousness of this day is divided, although everyone considers it good for celebrations. The Sun controls the day, which, according to some, is not responsible for a married couple, but for individuality, therefore it is better to arrange a marriage in which one of the spouses assumes all responsibility for the family on another day, and to hold a wedding on Sunday. According to others, the Sun favors warm relations and mutual understanding of the spouses, so it is good to hold a wedding on Sunday.

When preparing for such a significant event as a wedding, even the biggest skeptics need advice. If we analyze the horoscopes in combination with the signs that we got along with the folk calendar, there is a feeling that our ancestors determined the days favorable for weddings no worse than real astrologers, their opinions differ little.

To astrological and folk advice, church prohibitions were added, which are of great importance for religious people. If you try to summarize all of the above, it turns out that there is not much time left for a happy wedding. It is believed that each day of the week has its own patron, influencing future life.

Monday considered neutral - not the best, but not the worst day for a wedding. The patroness of this day is the Moon, responsible for the economy and family ties. Communication with relatives, their advice, as well as joint housekeeping will help strengthen such a marriage.

Mars, the god of war, is considered the patron Tuesday. Its influence can bring a large number of quarrels and aggression from others into the life of young people. But such a marriage can be successful if one of the spouses is associated with military or police service, security, etc., and the other "half" supports him in everything.

Not the most successful day for marriage is considered Wednesday. Her patron is the frivolous Mercury, which does not contribute to the construction of reliable long-term relationships, relationships can range from the maximum heat of passion to complete cooling between the newlyweds, and joint travel and entertainment will come to the rescue here.

Jupiter is the patron Thursday- favors purposeful people who bring all undertakings to the end. A marriage concluded on this day is dangerous with long clarifications of "who is the boss in the house." If the leader was revealed in the process of getting to know each other, then this will strengthen such an alliance, as well as mutual assistance in studies or careers.

Friday- one of the most favorable days for creating a family. His patroness Venus is responsible for harmony, beauty, and also promotes sensual pleasures. Such a marriage will be exemplary for romantic, addicted natures, it promises "eternal love." It is worth preparing for this excellent day a wedding dance.

Frequent confrontation is possible in families that have arisen in Saturday. The influence of Saturn makes this day a symbol of self-restraint and asceticism. People who get married will have to sacrifice something in order to save the family. But for those who are absolutely confident in their partner and are not afraid of trials, this will not be a hindrance.

AT Sunday very harmonious unions are fastened, which are promoted by luck, since the patron of this day is the Sun. It will warm those who love all their lives, help in the implementation of joint plans, bring warmth and affection to relationships. In addition, according to the Christian calendar, you should not marry during fasting or on major church holidays. From the point of view of astrology, unions will be more successful, fastened during the periods of the growth of the moon. But the main thing - love each other, this is the most important guarantee of your happiness!

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2018 is the second year following a leap year and is generally considered the year of the widower. And therefore, many people do not recommend getting married in 2018 - as it is doomed to failure. But the most terrible factor in marriage can be called the fact that the spouse, due to an accident, will lose his wife and remain a widower.

Astrologers believe that you should not puzzle over whether to get married in 2018. As in other periods next year, you can enter into relationships. But if you believe in omens so much, then be careful when choosing a wedding date. It is unacceptable to marry on such days:

• lunar day;
• retrograde Venus;
• eclipse days;
• retrograde Mercury.

It is worth avoiding such days for marriage when the planets were located in the region of destructive degrees.

Lucky days for a wedding

Many people believe that 2018 is a leap year, and therefore you should not get married in it, so as not to be a widow. In fact, this is not the case, and 2018 is not a leap year. In January, the ideal day for marriage is the first number. But no matter how much the newlyweds like this date, they will not be able to paint it, since this day is a day off in all of Russia. However, do not be upset, and favorable days for creating a family in January are the 21st and 26th.

In February and March, there is only one date for the wedding, in winter it is the 25th, and in the spring it is the 23rd. Astrologers advise getting married in April on the 20th, 27th or 29th. Only such a union should be rich in mutual understanding. Many people consider May not a good month for marriage, as lovers will “toil” all their lives. This is a delusion, and the most favorable May numbers are the following: 20, 25 and 27.

Of course, any woman dreams of a summer wedding, since at this time you can realize almost any of your ideas. Favorable in June are - 15 and 25, in July - 15, 20, 23, and in August - 17, 24, 26. September is also not rich in the choice of lucky dates, in the first month of autumn, 16.21 and 23 are considered favorable numbers , in October - 14, 19, 21, and in November - 9, 14 and 18. In December, there are only 2 good days for celebrating a wedding - these are 14 and 21.

As we can see, in most cases, the second half of the month is a good day for celebrating. The first two weeks are undesirable for creating a family due to the waning moon. It is better to get married in 2018 during periods when the moon is growing.

Auspicious feng neck days

Choosing a wedding date according to Feng Shui is much more difficult than according to the astrological calendar. It will be very difficult to make forecasts on your own, and therefore often young couples seek advice from experienced professionals. In this science, thanks to the data on the spouses, you can choose not only favorable days, but also good hours for the wedding. If a couple chooses a not very favorable date for the wedding ceremony, then by choosing a “good” time, you can make your day the happiest.

The optimal days for creating a family can be called the days of Success, Balance, Stability, Establishment, Discovery. There are very few days on these dates, and therefore, most often, according to Feng Shui, newlyweds marry exactly on time.

Lucky days according to the Christian calendar

Although many people no longer belong to the church life, there are many couples who want to assure their love by performing the ordinance of baptism. It is best to discuss the date of your wedding with a priest and look into the Orthodox calendar. Good wedding days are Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. The most successful date for a wedding is April 8 - Easter.

You will not be able to get married in 2018 on the following dates:

• January 7-18, 29-31;
• 1-3, 12-17, 19-28 February;
• 1-7, 9-14 April;
• May 17, 27, 28-31;
• June 2, 4-30;
• July 1-11;
• August 14-27;
• November 28-30;
• December 1-31.

As we can see, it will not be possible to choose a date for the wedding quickly, since you can only get married in 2018 on some days. In March, September and October, you can choose any date you like; on the other days, you can’t get married, according to church customs.

Beautiful dates

Every year has beautiful wedding dates and 2018 is no exception. Of course, the most remarkable day can be called the 18th of any month. But hardly anyone wants to play a wedding at the beginning, in the middle of the week or on Sunday. Popular dates include:

• 01/18/18 - Thursday;
• 05/18/18 - Friday;
• 08/18/18 - Saturday;
• 10/18/18 - Thursday.

February 14 is a popular date every year, but in 2018 it will be Wednesday, so many couples are unlikely to want to register a relationship. Surely, many will want to seal their union on September 1 - Saturday, the day of knowledge and the first day of autumn.

The article described the dates and times when it is better to get married in 2018 from the point of view of different sciences. Do not believe the rumors that this year is doomed to failure and a man who marries next year will remain a widower for the rest of his life.

Today, a lot of superstitious people, and especially brides, on the eve of the wedding, experience and listen to all traditions and customs. Therefore, the question: is it possible to get married in 2018 worries many. On this score, astrologers, psychics and healers have different opinions. Below we will try to figure out whether this is a happy year for marriages. It has been repeatedly proven that even those women who never believed signs, before the wedding, begin to listen to them, so as not to frighten off their female happiness.

Observance of signs begins with the choice of a “successful” date for the marriage. It is now rare to find a newlywed couple who have chosen their wedding date only because of convenience or because it is associated with some serious event for them. Most newlyweds choose their wedding date by reading a bunch of astrological forecasts and books.

Our people know that if you want to get married or get married, it is better to follow all the signs and rules that our grandmothers followed. Why this is needed - few people think, but not everyone risks arguing with centuries of life experience. This article will talk about when it is better to get married so that the marriage is strong and happy.

All in all

If a girl thinks: “When should I get married?” - she will most likely have to study various signs in order to understand what they are based on. So, different seasons and even months can bring special nuances to family life. You need to pay attention to the day of marriage, and the state of the planets, this is also important from the point of view of harmony in the future.

Winter

So, if you want to get married in the winter, you need to know what each month can bring to family life. December is very favorable for marriages, because all relationships concluded at this time will be warm, love and tranquility will reign in the family. As for the main month - "revelers", January, it is better not to visit during this period. After all, women who signed this month are at risk of becoming widows. If a lady wants a beautiful winter wedding and thinks: “When should I get married?” - it is better to do it in February. Marriages concluded this month will be strong, and relationships will be trusting.

Spring

If a girl marries, they say that she will most likely live on a foreign side, with her mother-in-law in the house. And it is because of this that she will have a rather difficult life. As for April, this month is very changeable in terms of weather. It is believed that the relationship of the spouses will be the same: then everything will be fine, then there will be a period of quarrels and failures. Regarding May, many people know that you should not marry this month, because you will have to toil for the whole century. According to other legends, if a family is formed this month, betrayal will soon be seen in the house. After reviewing the whole spring, we can conclude that not a single month is considered favorable for marriage. Why? It's simple, because it has been going on since past years, when spring was considered the most difficult time of the year in terms of labor - sowing in the fields and cultivating their gardens. Therefore, there was simply no time to engage in amorous affairs. And so it happened that even modern people, not working on the land, still do not risk creating their families in the spring, remembering grandmother's advice.

Summer

If a lady thinks: “When should I get married?” - she should also know what each summer month will say about herself. People say that those who marry in June will last a lifetime. July marriages will share everything equally: both joys and sorrows. Such a family will be full of both good and bad minutes in equal numbers. As for the last month of summer, this is probably the most favorable time for marriage. It is believed that if you get married at this hour, then the husband will be a true friend and comrade all his life.

Autumn

September will give the newlyweds a quiet and calm life. All marriages that take place this month are strong, and families are positive from all sides. A hard and difficult life is at risk for a couple who wants to get married in October. This month is extremely unfavorable for creating family unions. Well, the last autumn month - November - is very favorable, it will especially seem to those who wish to bring material well-being into their lives through marriage. This month promises the newlyweds a rich and beautiful joint path. So, answering the question of when it is better to get married (month), the bride can choose any time, because each couple needs something different from the relationship. You should not completely dwell on the above, but it is better to take into account the experience of centuries.

About the years

Every mother thinks about the time when her daughter gets married: is it auspicious, will marriage bring happiness. So, many people, for example, know that it is better not to marry because life will be hard. However, this, by the way, has no basis. Moreover, such beliefs were not noticed in history. The only caveat: in the houses of mothers-in-law, indeed, nothing was ever started at that time, but the newlyweds could get married without problems. The thing is that the leap year was considered the time of brides, that is, the girls themselves could go to woo guys without problems and embarrassment. Another thing is that in our country this happened extremely rarely, so there were really few weddings in such a period. That's all the explanation. Also, people may hear that the next year after the leap year is the time of widows, and after it is the year of widowers. However, again, this belief arose after the hostilities in which many people were involved. That's all the explanation. Now it has completely lost its relevance and does not make sense. So if a girl thinks, "When should I get married?" - she can easily choose any year that she likes.

Days of the week

Also, girls should know that the day of the week on which the marriage takes place depends on what the relationship in the family will be like. So, it’s worth figuring out when you can get married so that you stay happy. Marriages concluded on Monday will bring young people a lot of nuances. So, the mood in the family will depend on various little things, even on a change of mood. Scandals are also frequent, because family members who signed on this day can hardly be called indifferent to each other. A person will either strongly love or vehemently hate his soul mate. However, this state is not always stable, and it will change from a terrible war to a complete truce. Tuesday, like Thursday, is considered an unlucky day for marriage. So, alliances concluded on the second day of the week will go under the sign of the planet Mars, which is inherently warlike. In such a family, there will be frequent quarrels and conflicts. As for Thursday (this day is ruled by a planet like Jupiter), marriages made on this day will constantly be in a state of finding out who is the boss in the house. The eternal struggle for primacy, supremacy in the family - this is the main activity of spouses who wish to sign on this day. With regard to the environment ruled by Mercury, such marriages will be very cold. However, if people are liberally minded and ready to give their soul mate freedom of choice and action, these families will be happy. Saturday is also dual. Happiness in a marriage concluded on this day promises only those who are ready to sacrifice a lot for the sake of the family. And only when both members of the couple are ready to work on the relationship. The most ideal days for marriage are Friday and Sunday. Friday, ruled by Venus (who is considered the patroness of lovers), will bring happiness, peace, tranquility, harmony and complete satisfaction to the family. Sunday - the day of the Sun - is no less a wonderful time to create a family. The couple will be a support and support for each other, and the relationship will be strong and happy.

Unfavorable hours

If a girl wants to figure out when to get married, she must also know what time can be extremely unfavorable for marriage. First: you need to make sure that you do not move in the opposite direction, i.e. was not retrograde. newlyweds a quick cooling off to each other and the loss of any interest in their soul mate. It is also worth knowing that this time is not particularly stable, it changes. In one year it is from July to September, in another it is from August to October. The same applies to Mercury retrograde, but this time will be difficult from a bureaucratic point of view. Marriages entered into at this time may be invalid for some reason, for example, the procedure for obtaining a certificate or other unpleasant nuances will be complicated.

Moon

The state of the moon is also of great importance. It is believed that it is better to play weddings in such families. In such families, people will constantly experience interest and attraction to each other, and there will not even be a question of cooling relations. It is considered a good sign if the Moon falls into the signs of the Zodiac, which positively affect family life - Taurus, Cancer, Libra. The Moon in Aquarius promises young people to quickly annoy each other. In Scorpio or Virgo - the loss of your soul mate under tragic circumstances. 3, 6, 12, 17, 24 are considered ideal for marriage. It is also not recommended to get married during an eclipse, this symbolizes the imminent dissolution of marriage.

About widows

Some women may be interested in the question of when a widow can get married. So, according to Orthodox canons, women can create new families after the death of their husband. It is desirable to be guided by the same rules that have been created for people who are building their family for the first time. There are no restrictions or prohibitions here.