How to win a man psychological maneuvers. Steps to conquer a man

If you decided to read this article, most likely you are having problems with your beloved man. It is possible that you, like thousands of other women, are waiting for your beloved to finally take the plunge and offer you a hand and heart. Or at least offer to live together.

At worst, he will offer to meet.

But he doesn't offer. Moreover, every day he moves further and further away from you. And you have no idea how to win a man's love.

You think that you have already tried all the means that could help a man like you and establish a wonderful relationship with him. But nothing comes out, does it?

I hasten to please you: perhaps you have tried NOT ALL ways to seduce a man! Or you WRONG used the methods available in the women's arsenal, and which men are so greedy for.

But don't worry! Read the article to the end, and you will understand for yourself not only what you were wrong about, trying to get a man and win his heart.

About how to win a man and is it worth it?

I want to warn you right away: if you tried the methods that glossy magazines “scream” about on your man (beautiful underwear, passionate sex, a romantic candlelit dinner, etc.), it’s not surprising that you didn’t succeed. With these methods, a man can only be SEVENTED, but not conquered!

But you need your beloved in order to live happily ever after with him, right? Otherwise, you would not be looking for an answer to the questions “how to charm and charm a man?”. For a fleeting affair, you don’t need to try hard - seducing a man is easy. Any man, even married!

It’s just not a fact that after that he will remain in your life for at least a week ... Yes, and you will not have enough patience or desire to “invest” as much strength and energy as I advise in my article, to conquer the man that you is, in fact, not needed at all.

That is why I wrote this article - to help women who want to know how to win a man's heart for a long time. Ideally, for life. But for this you will need to try!

Just remember: you will need to try exclusively in a feminine way!

When they tell you that a MAN should hunt and conquer, they tell you the TRUTH. It is the man who must take the initiative. And your role in the conquest is to show your hunter the "goods face" and convince him that in this forest there is no more valuable animal than you. And then it remains only to captivate the man with him into the jungle of a happy life together.

So what do you need to remember before you learn how to please a man?

1. Everything that I recommend in my publication, check only with a free man! This is my request as a man.
2. The man you chose should have already “fallen” on you! That is, you already know him, you already communicate not only as friends, and you are sure that you attract him as a woman. If you want to attract the attention of men who have not noticed you yet, there is a separate article on my blog on the topic "".
3. If you go too far and start showing purely masculine activity (you begin to achieve a man with MALE methods: call him first [although in some cases this is even good, but that’s not about it now], invite to meetings, give gifts, or God forbid pay for him in a cafe), then you will ruin everything. And then don't complain that I didn't warn you.

Step by Step Relationship Psychology for Women: How to Win a Man's Heart in 90 Days

I will briefly tell you one feature that the psychology of men possesses. Not all women know about it. And not even all men.

And this is not about a pleasant pastime, but about really vivid emotions, emotional peaks.

A woman can create such emotional peaks by surprises, actions in contrasts, a sudden release of OWN positive emotions, etc. The main thing is to do this REGULARLY, but INFREQUENTLY, unobtrusively. Since a man, after such outbursts of emotions, needs to “digest” the information received, lower it into his subconscious. This takes 7 to 14 days. And only after that the man is ready to accept a new portion of the positive that you will bestow on him.

Therefore, all of my recommendations that I have described below can be performed in any order, but no more than once a week (and ideally once every two weeks). There are 12 of them, one per week (or a little less often). Later, you yourself will be able to come up with many similar emotional peaks that will work no worse than those recommended by me.

The main condition is to observe the time intervals between the peaks, and try to do your best so that the man receives a huge surge of positive emotions that he will forever connect in his heart with you.

After all, it’s not difficult to deliver moments of joy to a man once a week or two, from which he will become attached to you for life, isn’t it?

How to win a man: examples of step-by-step actions from Yaroslav Samoilov

1. Actively listen to the man, without interrupting, when he talks about anything that is currently bothering him. Listening actively means not interrupting, not being distracted, sometimes asking or briefly commenting on some points, but in no case trying to advise him what to do! You can hear about his affairs daily, but I'm talking about a topic that is really important for a man. It could be a problem at work, or a bad memory, or a story about his business. He can talk for hours! Your task is to pay attention to him all this time without being distracted. Yes, men also need to talk out sometimes, and the woman who is able to listen to him will hit the bull's-eye. Believe me, most likely, you will be almost the first woman in his life who, at the third hour of a male monologue, does not get tired of hearing about brake pads, kayaks or programming. He will remember this for the rest of his life, and will look forward to the moment when he can communicate with you just as wonderfully again. It will be a solid 1:0 in your favor!
2. Do not throw a tantrum when a man is mentally ready for it. It's READY! That is, a man, having committed some serious misconduct (he was late for a date or home, forgot about an important date for you, flirted with another woman in your presence), will expect standard female behavior from you: tears, screams, breaking dishes, collecting things and care for parents. But don't wait! Because you will not do anything like that. You will calmly and quietly explain to him that this is unpleasant for you, or it hurts you. But you do not intend to cry and be offended, since you completely accept it with all its shortcomings. Well, or something like that. He will not expect such a reaction from you! And therefore, your behavior will be a pleasant surprise for a man, which he will definitely appreciate. And next time I will try not to do such bad things. And you get one more point.
3. Tasty food! You can feed him dinner all the time, but at least once in these 3 months, take it and cook something special for him. And satisfying. Herself. With love! Ideally, sweet, as dessert will cheer up a man, make him kinder and more affectionate, and this will benefit both him and you. It can be a cake, or some eclairs, sweets or unusual cakes. Something he can't buy in a store. Loyal, dependable, and gentle men love sweets, so you can't go wrong. Just let it be a surprise. Don't ask him what he likes, show your imagination. An unexpected tasty gift made by your own hands, your man will remember for a long time, and will give you another ball as an excellent future wife and mistress of his house.
4. Show your admiration for him as a man and a specialist. Choose the moment when a man will tell you about his successes, or show you the result of his work. And sincerely admire them! It's hot, with emotions, you can with tears in your eyes :). For 5-10 minutes. During the day, several times every 20-30 minutes, remind him how you were amazed by his talents and successes. And let your man pretend that he is embarrassed, that it’s nothing, that everyone can do that ... But at that moment you will touch his sensitive string, playing on which you can “play out” before the wedding, and before the children, and until a happy joint old age.
5. Tell me what you like and don't like in bed. If you already have an intimate relationship between you, or they are just starting, be sure to tell the man what you love about sex. You can't even imagine how afraid men are to ask a woman what she loves. They are afraid to seem clumsy, inexperienced, not men. But if you yourself tell about it - before sex, during it, or even after - he will be grateful to you for the rest of his life! Since he does not have to suffer from the thought that he is doing something wrong. He will know for sure: everything he does is a pleasure for you. His self-esteem as a man will increase, and you will become the reason for this growth. +1 point for you.
6. Approve his friends and family, evoke their reciprocal approval. If your man decides to introduce you to his friends or parents, try to please them IMMEDIATELY! Be nice, kind, funny and attentive. Since getting to know friends and parents is a kind of test. And in this case they check you. If neither your best friend, nor even your mother likes you, the chances that he will choose you as his woman will greatly decrease. For your part, you must accept both his relatives and his friends as they already are. Do not criticize them in any way. Be sure to praise for something, even for some trifle, and make it clear that you will never get between your man and his family and friends (with whom, by the way, he has known much longer than with you). A man is sure he will appreciate it, since each of us is worried that family life will separate us from friends at the request of the beloved woman.
7. Show that you do not claim his freedom. It is advisable to practice this item when you are already living with your man. But you can try to perform in other situations. Make it clear to the man that you are not going to tie him to you 24 hours a day. That you appreciate and respect his personal space. That you are calm about fishing at 4 in the morning, and football with friends until 2 am, and the desire to be alone and relax for a few hours, including from you. You can’t imagine how powerful an effect free space has for a man ! If a man likes you, and at the same time you do not try to bind him to yourself, the man will return to you again and again. He will call, come, invite you on dates or visit, and it is unlikely that he will want to leave forever. After all, he receives his portion of freedom near you, and he does not dare to dream of more.
8. Show and tell about. This item is desirable to perform 2 - 3 times a month in parallel with all others. Since for a man there is nothing more attractive than a woman admiringly talking about something. Have you made a new dress? Show it to your man and be sure to show off with emotions how you tried, how carefully you did everything. Have you painted a new picture? Have you read an interesting book? Cooked a culinary masterpiece or made a deal of the year? Be sure to tell this man PERSONALLY (not in a letter or by phone) and with EMOTIONS of joy, delight, happiness. And let the man not understand a word of what you said, but he will feel the energy that will come from you. He will receive a charge of vivacity from you, and he will want to surprise you with his achievements! To make you happy for him too. As a result, you will become a muse for him, which will motivate him to exploits. After all, a man in a woman is looking for exactly this energy, which will feed him weekly. Perhaps this is one of the most important points that you should do regularly!
9. Show that you can be useful in his life goals, and these goals appeal to you. Did you hear that he likes to go hiking? Share his passion with him. Did you find out that your man is in construction? Tell me that you have friends who are ready to build a house for themselves. Did he share his plans for starting a business with you? Show how specifically, in addition to moral support, you can be useful to him. Joint work and interests (precisely HIS work and HIS interests) often bind a man to a woman stronger than a wedding ring. Men are practical creatures. If he met a woman who is not only beautiful, talented, cheerful, kind, non-hysterical, but also can share his life goals with him, then he is unlikely to exchange her for another woman who does not have such dignity.
10. Show that you fully accept him for who he is. You accept your flaws and don't try to fix them. If your man snores at night, buy earplugs and sleep peacefully. If he likes to drink beer with friends, go to a cafe with your friends these days. A man does not always joke successfully, especially in front of outsiders? Laugh at his jokes anyway, even if you are the only one who does it. If something annoys you in your man, think of something you can change / apply / do without changing a man? Such women are valued by men more than gold (as men are valued by women). After all, it is not so often that you meet a person who does not want to change you, because he will like everything about you from the very beginning! Not to mention the fact that 80% of all female tantrums are connected precisely with attempts to change a man. And the chance to reduce quarrels and scandals in the family by 80% for a man can be a weighty argument in your favor.
11. Show that his opinion and decision will always be the main one. Naturally, if it concerns HIS life. And at the same time, let the man understand that you will make decisions regarding your life on your own. Does your man want to change jobs or occupations? Support him, and don't say it's stupid or financially unprofitable. Does he want to go to personal growth training? Listen carefully and with admiration to all the details (after all, not every man wants to develop, and this is 1000 times better than if he sits in front of the TV in shorts and with beer, do you agree?). If a man decided that it was time for you to leave the party - agree with him and do not argue. You will see for yourself how much happier and more fun your man will become on the way home! Your goal - to evoke a bright positive emotion - will be fully achieved.
12. . You can practice this point at least every day, but now I'm talking about a really important help for you. Here, the role will be played not so much by the fact that a man will prove himself a knight, but by receiving a sea of ​​gratitude from you. They don’t thank you for a small service, but for something more serious ... If you, with tears of gratitude in your eyes, throw yourself on a man’s neck with the words “Thank you, my dear! Without you, I would never have coped! ”, He will shed a tear himself. In the shower. Somewhere very deep. Of course, I exaggerate this, but you understand the direction in which you need to move.

This is the psychology of the relationship between a man and a woman. Let's summarize:

1. You're a woman! And you should not actively conquer a man. Never! Only to attract, only to bewitch and provoke him in a good way so that he himself begins to conquer you.
2. Follow all recommendations unobtrusively. Try to feel the mood of a man and adapt to this mood, otherwise there will be no effect.
3. All actions should be regular, but not daily, otherwise the man will get bored, or he will get used to it, which is even worse. The ideal interval is once every 7-14 days. And this does not mean that the rest of the time you can be a complete bitch 🙂
4. When you feel that a man is "conquered", this does not mean that you can relax. Come up with new methods that will cause a surge of positive emotions in a man, constantly maintaining his interest in yourself, do not relax. The response and the male reaction so desired by you is guaranteed.
5. Also remember: if suddenly something doesn’t work out with your man, this is not YOUR man! It's just not destiny. I recommend looking for another, more suitable man who can appreciate the treasure that you will become in these 90 days.

I'm sure you will succeed! I hope you will tell about the results of your "experience" in my blog or in the comments to the article.

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How to win a man?

In the modern world, a woman sometimes has to take the first step towards the man she likes. Guys can be timid too, some of them don't show any interest in themselves until they are pushed in the right direction. How to understand that he cares about you if he himself does not take any decisive steps?

This issue is quite delicate and requires a responsible and balanced approach. In matters of the heart, one should not rush, demonstrate excessive interest and affection when the relationship itself has not yet developed and has not become obvious to both partners. At the stage of conquest, both men and women behave cautiously and judiciously. Few people are ready to immediately radically change the rhythm of life and adjust to the "schedule" of the partner. There are such people, but most often, in the pursuit of happiness, they lose themselves.

The mental organization of a man

Those ladies who are worried about how to win a man should know a few simple things. If we take into account the following positions, then the likelihood of success in personal affairs increases significantly. Act as your heart tells you, but never do things for which you would be ashamed.

The Need for Leadership

Every man is by nature a winner. He wants to feel that he controls his own life by two hundred percent. It is for this reason that any imposition of some actions from the outside is perceived with difficulty. A man himself needs to go the way of conquering his beloved woman. When a girl starts chasing a guy herself, not letting him pass, she automatically becomes uninteresting to him. A man likes to show signs of attention, to take care of a woman. At the same time, he himself feels naturally, easily, because he acts according to his inner nature. But notice, when a girl begs a guy to give her some time and attention, she is sure to contradict herself and feel unnatural. Most often, such relationships do not lead to anything good. The best way to win a man, at the initial stage, is not to express your interest in him.

Desire to control the situation

Any man at the stage of relationship development wants to be sure that everything happens according to the way he originally conceived and thought for himself. Such is the male psychology. He wants to be strong and brave, to see admiration in the eyes of a woman. For a beloved girl, such a young man will do anything. Of course, provided that he loves her. Therefore, women who are not sure about a man’s attitude towards them should not rush things, this can be repulsed.

To win a man, you need to allow him to take his leading position, to show the best qualities of character. You need to become interesting to him, help him notice himself. This can be done in several ways.

In order for a young man to notice your unique personality, you must constantly keep his attention on you. You should not rush, let everything go on as usual, smoothly and measuredly, the main thing is that the result will pleasantly surprise you in the end.

Work on appearance

What woman does not like to dress beautifully and spend hours in front of the mirror? Meanwhile, many of the beautiful half of humanity do not feel beautiful and desirable. Uncertainty about your own attractiveness stems from a subconscious belief that happiness bypasses you. It's just that no one ever told such girls that they were beautiful, did not admire their natural charm. And this is a big omission.

If the stronger sex or its desired representative does not pay attention to you, then take the leadership into your own hands. But only on the inside. Outwardly, everything should look as if the man himself is interested in you. Let him think the same. Work on how you look in the eyes of others. If you think that you are not naturally chic, remember that this is just a delusion. Even the most ugly ugly girl can be turned into a pretty girl if her significant advantages are correctly emphasized.

Change your hair style, clothing style, develop a new tactic of behavior. The ability to behave in society is the main factor determining personal success. Men love inaccessible and mysterious persons who win hearts with their mere appearance. Become a real princess for yourself, discover the woman in you.

Be natural

Some women suffer from the fact that they constantly try on someone else's roles. They simply cannot afford to be natural with their individual thoughts and feelings. It seems to them that they need to demonstrate coldness and independence, as a result of which they remain lonely for a long time. It should be accepted as a fact that men do not like women who are too distant and thoughtful. Such persons seem unattainable and insensitive to them. The matter becomes more complicated when a girl (especially a young one) begins to demonstrate her outstanding mental abilities to the world. She, of course, has a chance to be successful among candidates and doctors of sciences, but not among ordinary guys who like cheerful and active ones.

Take your natural features for granted. Try to express yourself in a natural way: at a party, at a party, while studying, on a trip. The fact is that when a girl is relaxed, she shows herself as fully as possible from the best side and such sincerity is always felt.

Accept courtship

Let him show signs of attention towards you. Do it with willingness, not fear. Understand that you deserve to become happy, to find your love in the face of a particular person. You will not understand what the point is until you yourself have gone all this way. There is no need to hide and run if you feel that the person is deeply sympathetic to you. Men are sometimes not so far-sighted as to accurately guess the inner state of a girl, and even more so to guess about all the experiences.

The ability to accept courtship is just as important as to interest a guy. Why? The future well-being of the existing couple depends on the correct tactics of behavior. A man can be easily pushed away by showing doubts about whether or not to date him. Even if inside you don’t think so at all, but simply worry about your own insecurity, the guy may perceive your coldness as a signal that you don’t need him and are not interested. Be flexible, learn to listen to your own emotions.

Thus, you can win a man by taking on a natural female line of behavior. A man just needs not to interfere with his natural activity and initiative. If you were able to attract his attention, then he will not stop further until he conquers you himself, proves to you his own viability and serious intentions regarding a joint future. In fact, I would like to wish such a serious relationship to everyone who is looking for their soul mate.

In order to win a man and marry the “right” guy, you don’t need to be a beauty at all, as experience shows. And often it is more difficult for beauties to find their happiness, because external beauty is far from a guarantee of personal happiness.

Question How to make a guy fall in love with you , excite so many girls, but the answer is sometimes closer than expected.

It turns out that the rules for conquering a man are the same for both very beautiful and quite ordinary women. The secret is not in some supernatural rites, but in psychology.

We took the rules from the popular books by Helen Fein and Sherry Schneider "The Time-Tested Rules - How to Get Married". This is said to be one of Blake Lively's favorite books.

Do you want to win a man? Remember the main rules:

1. Thin out self-confidence and your own attractiveness through every cell and you will shine in any room.

2. The initiative should come from him - no need to invite him to a dance or a date

3. You can attract the attention of a man simply by contacting him with a request. They love when they are needed.

4. Do not look at him all the time and do not talk all the time without letting him utter a word

5. At the initial stage, he does not need to call himself, do not pick up the phone every time he calls.

6. You must end all phone calls.

7. Do not agree to meet with him on Saturday evening if the offer came later than Wednesday.

8. Do something enjoyable before the date, like reading an interesting book or taking a bubble bath.

9. If he didn't ask you out on a date or call you after the date, don't think about him, you're probably not his type.

10. You should be the first to say goodbye on a date

11. If this is an office romance, then during working hours you do not need to answer his love messages, leave everything for Saturday evening.

12. Don't date him again unless he gave you a romantic gift for Valentine's Day or your birthday.

13. For starters, it is enough to see him 2 times a week.

14. First date shouldn't have more than one kiss

15. Wait at least 3 dates to have sex with him.

16. At the initial stage of the relationship, you should not try to tell him what and how to do, regardless of the direction of the advice.

17. Give him the opportunity to sometimes control the situation, it will give him great pleasure.

18. Do not try to hint to him that you want to change him, and do not try to do it. Maybe you need another?

19. He should not be too open on first dates, this usually scares people away.

20. Answer his questions honestly, but always leave a little untold.

21. Only on the fourth date you can invite him to your home, only if you want to.

22. Do not get over to him completely until he offers it to you. Leave a minimum of your belongings in his bedroom.

23. Don't expect him to leave his wife for you. And don't mess with a married man at all.

24. Introduce him to your family members but take your time to fully integrate him into your life.

25. Do not show him your feelings if you notice that he does not respect you and does not love you.

26. If you get rejected, be sure that you will find someone much better and who will treat you the way you deserve it.

27 . Go to parties and talk even if you don't feel like it.

28. In a long distance relationship, wait until he visits you 3 times before going to him.

29. If after a year of relationship he did not talk about a common future or a wedding, then you need to think and analyze all your options. Ask yourself if you can wait another 1 year for his intentions to become more "serious".

30. The rules teach you not to marry the first person you meet, so you need to be very careful in your choice. Does he criticize you? He is greedy? Doesn't like spending the weekend with you? Do not close your eyes, always ask yourself the question: Am I happy with him, and do I need someone else? If the relationship does not bring joy, then you need to end it before it's too late.

31. On dating sites, wait until several candidates have responded to your profile and then choose the one you like best.

32. The question is not whether he will propose to you or not, but when.

33. These rules do not teach how to marry the first person you meet. Be careful and selective with who you want to start a relationship with. Is he mean? Criticize you? Be more attentive to his actions and not to his words, if you are not happy in him, the relationship should be ended as soon as possible.

34. The rules can also be applied in order to preserve the zest and passion in a relationship with a husband or fiance.

35. Always ask yourself, do you need another man to be happy?

To charm a man is already a lot. But the main task: to conquer it forever! And here the advice of a psychologist, the abilities of a diplomat, and, of course, the whole rich arsenal of female charms will come in handy. On the eve of Valentine's Day 2015, the topic becomes especially relevant: everyone wants love even more! Use the top 8 methods of female diplomacy proposed by psychologist Valentina Meged

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Remember that a man loves with his eyes? This does not mean that the rest can be ignored. He cares about being with you. So, your mood, energy, behavior and, of course, what is in your head. So love yourself, develop yourself, take care of your body, but be a diplomat and be sincerely interested in who you are going to conquer. Consider strategy and tactics.

1. Arouse interest in yourself and a desire to get to know each other if you are not already familiar. First of all, you can attract his attention with your sociability, charm, cordiality and goodwill in communicating with others. He will also be impressed by your out-of-the-box thinking and actions, as long as they do not look stupid in his eyes. Very much attracted by clothes, elegance of gestures, lightness and swiftness of gait, lively facial expressions.

2. Deepen your interest in getting to know each other better. Behave like a sensitive and attentive interlocutor, sincerely delving into his problems, but do not "get into the soul", do not force him to immediately open up to you.

Show him your insight and understanding without words. A man is very sensitive to the manifestation of femininity and light, giving vague hopes, coquetry. Just don't be too approachable. Winning him forever, you must constantly maintain in him the illusion of a happy conqueror, if you want him to value you no less than you value him in the future.

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3. Become the most attractive in moments of intimacy. First of all, create a relaxed atmosphere and a sense of complete trust. Respond sensitively to his unspoken desires, do not demand words from him, but express your feelings more boldly yourself. Avoid unnecessary questions about the past and statements like "now you're mine!". The owners immediately push away. If the first moment of intimacy was not ideal, do not focus on it. Next time, try different caresses, positions, or create a more relaxing atmosphere. Don't forget the music, the scents, the confidence in all those banal things still work.

4. Learn to cooperate. If you have already established a relationship and even decided to try to live together, sort out objectively and impartially about your and his abilities and distribute joint work or activities in such a way that everyone does what he likes best and what he is best at. Do not forget that your feature of diverting the conversation away from the topic under discussion, inability to listen to the end and vehemence in a dispute devoid of solid logical argumentation will only annoy him. He is looking for support in you, which he cannot find in himself, so he is unlikely to allow you to grab onto a new business without finishing what you have started, to scatter over trifles when you need to solve the main issue. Finding a middle ground means letting him lead, and becoming a follower herself, helping with deed or advice only when he asks you about it. To maintain his respect, demonstrate your abilities in the area in which he is weaker than you, not forgetting to praise some of his virtues before this. In joint work, it is even more important than in personal life not to allow disputes. And in no case do not put the interests of work above harmony in personal relationships. But, if a quarrel did occur, hurry to correct the situation before it is too late.

5. Compromise. In no case do not start to sulk, do not dramatize the events, but try to look at everything with humor, understand and forgive. Admit your part of the blame first. This will soften him and make him quickly realize his wrong and, in turn, look for ways to atone for his guilt before you. Know that neither noble pride, nor silent suffering, nor tears will cause him anything but annoyance. It will be better if you manage not to fall into aggression, especially in the presence of strangers. He will shudder internally for a long time, remembering your face distorted by anger and harsh thoughtless words. If you lose your temper, apologize and say that you need to leave immediately. Calm down - come back.

6. Don't act repulsive. First of all, the “blue stocking” repels the man - a dry, smart, businesslike, completely devoted to her work, female leader. He also does not like women who have lost their femininity, the desire to flirt and please, and the proud "Amazons" irritate him - emancipated women who do not need anyone's help and support. He cannot stand it when a woman is aggressive and disloyal to others. And he despises gossips. He also does not tolerate affectation and ostentatious languor, does not like sugary sentimentality.
If he is not in a good mood, talk about his problems, console him. A woman should always be benevolent, moderately naive, disinterested. A man must always be able to set up, and not upset, prepare emotionally, intrigue, captivate, give hope, inspire confidence. Most importantly, be tolerant of other points of view, tastes and inclinations. Be forgiving of imperfections. Don't put any pressure on him.

7. Maintain a constant interest in yourself. You should always be a little unexpected and unpredictable for him. This will bring into your life the elements of novelty that both of you need so much. To be an interesting and meaningful person, causing his admiration and respect, the desire for spiritual intimacy, share his hobbies and interests. Bring him new information that is interesting for him, read and discuss what he read with him. In difficult times, be his support and comfort. Encourage your loved one to move up the career ladder, to personal growth. Let's not be discouraged. Inspire hope, draw realistic perspectives, save from blues and boredom. Today there are many more opportunities: bowling, ice skating, karting are available in almost every large shopping center. Not to mention that you can join a fitness club together.

8. Earn eternal love. No matter how close you are, leave room for mystery and mystery. Let him not know about your depilation (and sees only smooth legs), about how you first apply cream, then foundation, then tonal, and so on ... It is useful to visit together, visit new places, spend holidays in an interesting and pleasant company . Be not only mysterious and unpredictable for him, but desirable and attractive to others, both physically and intellectually, then you can save love for a long time. Attacking the mind, soul and body at the same time, do not forget from time to time to awaken in him the ancient instinct of the hunter, conqueror, protector and patron. Be independent, but always patronized, always needing him.

So that after winning a man, not to push him away from you later, build your relationship on the basis of mutual respect for each other's interests and moods. Do not be intrusive and intrusive, do not seek to control all his time and activities, be unreasonably jealous or limit him in choosing his activities. Be loyal and tolerant of his views, hobbies, working methods, friends and relatives. See to it that everything maintains a balance of equality, mutual compromise and fairness. Sometimes it is even better to sacrifice something than to turn your hearth into a boxing ring.

Valentina Meged, psychologist

Women are usually called the weak half of humanity, but are they so weak if they are able to subdue a man, "disarm" him and force him to retreat before the feminine whims and weaknesses of even the strongest.

First of all, a man or a guy needs to learn to understand and listen. If you can listen carefully to him, you will understand his desires, you will be able to understand his habits, because for every person, whether a man or a woman, understanding is necessary. This is one of the important rules in order to conquer a man.

Always remember that everyone is interested in what he says, to discuss topics of interest to him. Listen to a man when he selflessly talks about things that are of little interest to you and this will be the first step towards achieving your goal. At the same time, do not forget that female talkativeness is enemy No. 1 in conquering a man.

One more piece of advice: To avoid unnecessary insults, when addressing him with some kind of request, try not to get to the moment when he is busy with something else. It doesn't matter if he reads his favorite sports column or does something more serious. Keep in mind that a man cannot listen and do something at the same time. The structural features of the male brain do not allow him to concentrate on a few episodes. He will be able to hear you if nothing else distracts his attention.

From this follows the second rule, how to conquer a man. It comes down to not distracting a man during his "serious" activities. Contact him with a request in a polite manner, ask him to help solve your problem, but at this point, avoid details, as you may fall into disgrace.

Familiarize yourself with the characteristics of the male psyche. Many men are laconic. The brain of a man, unlike a woman, cannot function by focusing on a few problems. In addition, men are usually laconic, and talkativeness is most often the result of drinking alcohol.

In order to avoid the problem of how to conquer a man, try to express your thought so that he has the opportunity to think it over. There should not be several of them at once, since it is difficult for men to follow the multifaceted female speech. Clearly state the essence, otherwise the man will be inclined to think that you yourself do not know what you want from him. Your eloquence and ornateness of the conversation can completely discourage his interest in the essence of the question or request.

In the rules of how to conquer a guy, pay attention to the moment when he has problems. During this period of time, your chosen one may withdraw into himself. He does not have a need, like women, to have a heart-to-heart talk with someone. Going into himself, he tries to solve the problem, so unnecessary questions will distract and anger him. Give him the opportunity to solve this problem and find a way out of a difficult situation. Having found a solution, he will certainly return to a cheerful mood. Try not to give him unnecessary advice, they can put him in an awkward situation, or he may treat himself as a loser.

In the question of how to conquer a guy, you need to understand that men are creatures that are devoid of excessive manifestations of emotionality. This is not to say that they do not experience and do not experience emotions. All of them pass in his soul and heart, only without any special external manifestations.

Young people and men are not the way to be critical of themselves, so if you want to win their affection and love, refuse to criticize them. In this case, you can nullify their significance for you.

Remember that there is also the shortest way to a man's heart - gastronomic. Cook, surprise and your goal is achieved!