Discharging from maternity hospital. How to organize everything

The birth of a baby is a happy event in the life of a family. As a rule, they prepare for it in advance, many issues are discussed and resolved: preparing a dowry for the baby, decorating a children's room, choosing a maternity hospital, as well as discharge from it.

Recently, there has been a tendency to organize colorful celebrations in honor of the release of a newborn from the hospital. There are special agencies that can develop a meeting scenario, focusing on a specific family. However, it is better to discuss the scale of such events with the child’s mother, and her answer will depend on how she, the baby feels, what the family’s budget is, and even on what the weather is like outside the window. If you have to organize the meeting yourself, there are several points that you should pay attention to.

1) It is not necessary to arrange a grand affair on the day of discharge. You can make a young mother happy long before that. For example, place a heart or words of gratitude from lighted candles or flowers under the windows of the ward, hang a poster with similar content on the fence of the maternity hospital, or launch a Chinese lantern. Such touching moments are remembered for a lifetime, and on the day of discharge it will be enough to give the woman a beautiful bouquet of flowers, kiss her, hug her and go home.

2) Be sure to capture the moment of meeting your baby on Photo and video. You can turn to professionals for help or handle this task yourself. You just need to discuss the issue with the maternity hospital staff in advance: at what point will it be possible to take photographs. As a rule, strangers are not allowed into the discharge room (with the exception of photographers, whose services are offered by the maternity hospital itself), but this rule has exceptions. For example, you can agree that the mother and baby are discharged last, in which case the nurse will not rush and will give the opportunity to be present while the baby is getting dressed.

3) An alternative to fresh flowers (but not replacing them 100% - at least one real bouquet must be present) can be a bouquet made of balloons. It looks very cute when a child gives a daisy made from balloons. In addition, this option is useful if the special event occurs during the cold season. In addition to a bouquet of flowers for your mother, prepare flowers for the medical staff.

4) To maintain a joyful mood for yourself and those around you, you can decorate the car, in which mother and baby will go home. These could be balloons, arrangements of flowers or ribbons, even a toy doll on the hood. Inscriptions on the car like the following look original: “I’m going to pick up my son,” “My daughter was born,” “A stork flew to us,” and the like.

5) Find out in advance about traditions existing in the maternity hospital. Some maternity hospitals maintain the festive atmosphere of discharge with certain rituals. So, in the maternity hospital where I gave birth, at the exit from the department there was a small bell with the symbolic inscription “Good luck” - you can ring it when taking the baby home. There is also a custom of planting a tree near the maternity hospital with a name plate (the child’s name, date of birth and the doctor delivering the birth) - thanks to this, a park will soon appear around the hospital. Similar traditions can be transferred to your family: for example, planting a tree in honor of each baby born in the family.

6) The festive atmosphere should be present at home too: you should clean the room, prepare the crib for the newborn, take care of dinner, because the mother who has left the hospital will not be able to immediately begin her typical household duties. The room can be decorated with posters and balloons, but do not overdo it, because balloons attract dust very well, and the baby will have to breathe in it.

AND one more tip– you don’t need to get too carried away with creating a festive event. It’s better to try to provide help to your mother and take on household chores. Usually the mother is still too weak after childbirth to withstand the abundance of people and any pre-planned scenario, and the baby requires silence, comfort and peace. And the most important thing is not an artificially created holiday, but a feeling of holiday in the soul from the fact that the smallest and most beloved person will live nearby.

What can be compared in importance to the discharge of mother and baby from the maternity hospital? Yes, practically nothing!

On your wedding day you share attention with the groom, while buying a car or apartment you enjoy material values, but the holiday on discharge from the maternity hospital means special emotions, special photos and completely different feelings!

Today we will tell you how to organize discharge from the maternity hospital so that the baby’s mother is delighted! Of course, it’s worth slipping this publication to future dads and godparents, grandparents and aunts :). Let them take charge of organizing the fun!

Organizing discharge from the maternity hospital is a complex and time-consuming process if you do it alone! But what if we divide powers and responsibilities and take on ideas for discharge from the maternity hospital point by point?

• Organization of discharge from the maternity hospital
• Meeting of a young mother and baby at home
• Menu for discharge from the hospital

The first point can easily be taken care of by your friends, the second by your husband, but the third will definitely fall on the shoulders of the parents (grandparents of the baby).

Beautiful and original extract from the maternity hospital: meeting place

Of course, every couple wants their graduation ceremony to be the most stylish and beautiful! That is why I propose to move dozens of steps away from the banal posters “Thank you for your son/daughter!” and move on to more romantic and modern ideas!

For example, it would be appropriate if your wife (daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, etc.) receives her first bouquet upon waking up from the delivery room. Nothing pleases a woman’s eye like an elegant bouquet of flowers that will remind her that she is loved and appreciated! Just note that the flowers do not have to be very fragrant (like lilies).

Let the unusual discharge from the maternity hospital begin from the first minute! The cheerful mime will scatter rose petals in front of the mother and lead her to where the young father, parents and family friends are already waiting!

Be sure to hire a professional photographer who can capture vivid emotions and beautiful shots! Believe me, you will have no time to photograph mother and baby, because all your emotions and energy will be spent on congratulations!

An interesting solution would be to make various attributes for the meeting - arches, paths, fireworks and other “chips”. Discharge from the maternity hospital and the “pleasures” organized with your own hands will not go unnoticed on this day!

Please note that it should be decorated in delicate colors - pink, peach, yellow, coral.

Don't forget to prepare balloons and firecrackers with rose petals, but don't buy too many flowers - let only the husband, who is most looking forward to his girls home, be with the bouquet :).

It will be fun to issue a discharge from the maternity hospital in the style of the birth of a Princess! Then the key element of the entire design can be a small crown, which will crown the girl’s name, flags, balls and other accessories!

Give small crowns to everyone present :). Let them feel like they are at court!

But maybe it can be more restrained :). Blue and light blue tones are more traditional for babies of this gender.

Give preference to a holiday in the style of a little gentleman. Funny mustaches, butterflies and blue balloons - such a creative discharge from the maternity hospital will be remembered by everyone without exception!

Give all your guests a piece of candy - let them feel the sweetness and fun even before the buffet table :).

After mom comes out, congratulations and a few photos of the newborn and parents should be sent home!

Perhaps you are planning a small buffet for discharge from the maternity hospital? You will find ideas for it below!

Extract from the maternity hospital: what to think of for apartment decor

The holiday doesn't have to end with arriving home! It should just begin there! Depending on the gender of the child, place garlands and congratulations, photographs with the pregnant mother, things and other little things on the walls!

Frames with ultrasound photos and a pregnant photo shoot in the album will complement the overall atmosphere!

A good solution would be to arrange gifts in the house, decorate the crib and place children's soft toys!

If you're planning to invite guests home, don't forget to send them fun invitations!

Just for friends and family, place a book of wishes at the entrance, where they can congratulate the baby and mother. By the way, the first pages of a children's photo album can serve as a book of wishes. This way, you will forever preserve the wishes of those closest to you for your daughter or son!

Many people ask the question “How to celebrate being discharged from the maternity hospital?” The next section of our article is exactly for you!

How to arrange a discharge from the maternity hospital: a celebration of the belly

It is better to leave a noisy feast, alcohol and a large number of guests until the wedding or christening. Then mother and child will adapt to each other, the situation and the environment at home and will be able to fully enjoy the holiday. For now, a circle of close people is enough :). Treat people to light snacks and sandwiches, skewers and tartlets, recipes for which you can find on our website.

Give preference to desserts and tea, which will be enough for a festive meeting!

Don't forget about the little things that will brighten up your holiday!

For entertainment, you can arrange competitions when you are discharged from the hospital. For example, conduct a short quiz among your guests with questions on the topic “What is the weight of the newborn baby?”, “Length of the foot in millimeters,” etc.

Let your guests have fun by guessing children's songs and riddles, playing games or other children's activities!

We are sure that our tips on how to decorate a discharge from the maternity hospital will help your family create a unique holiday!

Hello. Thanks to my work as a realtor, I communicate with different people very often. Naturally, I ask who works for whom. One day a woman came to me and needed to sell her apartment. It turned out that she was a passport officer for the HOA. I gave her a big discount for her help in completing the transaction, and now I consult with her on issues of extracting or registration. These instructions are written based on her experience.

In the article, I described in detail 4 ways to check out from an apartment - we immediately register at the new place of residence, we check out “to nowhere”, by proxy and through the “State Services” portal. I advise you to read all the options and choose the most suitable one (some points in the instructions are repeated).

A small addition: For a long time there are no such concepts as registering or checking out of an apartment. But only - registration at the place of residence/stay or deregistration. But they ask me precisely in old terms. That's why I indicate them in the article. This makes it simpler and clearer for readers.

Method No. 1. Discharge by registration to a new place of residence or stay

Important! If you want to check out and register in one city, then it is not necessary to check out in advance. You can simply register at your new place of residence and they will discharge you from your previous apartment. But the process of discharge and registration itself usually takes 14 days and a maximum of 30 days, and if you want to register in another city, it can take 2-3 months.

Some passport offices at a new place of residence do not want to sign citizens out from their previous place of registration and will send you to sign up first, but in this case their actions are unlawful. Threaten with the prosecutor's office for arbitrariness. Usually it helps. And if you don’t want to “bother” with this situation, then you can check out first - instructions.

Instructions for citizens who are not registered with the military registration and enlistment office

If you are the owner/one of the owners of an apartment and are not registered with the military commissariat, then here are the instructions:

1. Appear at the passport office at the new place of residence, fill out an application(click on the names of the statements to download a sample). Forms will be provided at the passport office, and samples of completion are also available on the information board in the passport office. At the top of the application, indicate information about the new place of residence, and at the bottom about the previous one.

   (I advise you to submit both originals and photocopies):

   • Russian passport;
   • link to instructions for obtaining this extract;
   • house book if you are registering in a private house.
2. The passport office employee will check application and submitted documents, will pick up your passport And will appoint the day it was received. Typically, registration takes 14 days and a maximum of 30 days.
3. Pick up your passport on the appointed day with a stamp confirming the extract from the previous place of residence and registration at the new one. You are discharged and registered.

Instructions for citizens registered with the military registration and enlistment office

Important! Often, passport offices claim that, before issuing an extract and registration for citizens registered with the military registration and enlistment office, they must first deregister from the previous military registration and enlistment office and register with the new one. This is a separate topic for debate, because... According to the law, only after a change of place of residence or stay is it necessary for a person liable for military service to register with military commissariats. You can threaten to appeal to the prosecutor's office against such employees for arbitrariness. Usually it helps.

If the passport office has agreed to handle your extract and registration, then (click on the link) there is already a procedure in this case. But if you are denied registration and you do not want to waste your time on disputes and court, the instructions are as follows (some points are taken from the instructions above):

1. Appear at the passport office at the new place of residence, fill out an application in form No. 6 with a tear-off coupon. It is necessary to fill out both the upper part of the “Application for registration at the place of residence” and the lower tear-off slip “Application for deregistration at the place of residence” (click on the names of the applications to download a sample). Forms will be provided at the passport office, and samples of completion are also available on the information board in the passport office.

   In the upper part you indicate information about your new place of residence, and in the lower part about your previous place of residence.

   Present to the passport office employee(we recommend submitting both originals and photocopies):

   • Russian passport;
   • a document confirming the ownership of the housing in which you want to register. Since 2017, the document that confirms ownership of any real estate is an Extract from the Unified State Register of Real Estate about the property (in our case, an apartment). Title registration certificates have now been canceled and have not been issued since July 2016. Here is a link to instructions for obtaining this extract;
   • military ID or certificate of a citizen subject to conscription for military service (hereinafter referred to as capital).
   • house register if you are registering in a private house;
2. The passport office employee will fill out registration card in form No. 9 and will give it to you. You also pick up your documents along with the application in Form No. 6.
3. Next, you need to deregister with the previous military registration and enlistment office and register with the new one.(if there is only one military registration and enlistment office, then simply “redirect”).
1. Contact the military registration and enlistment office at your previous place of residence and notify of your desire to be deregistered. There you sign a standard application based on the following documents: Russian passport; military ID or capital; application from the passport office in form No. 6; citizen registration card according to form No. 9.

   After signing the application, the military registration and enlistment office employee will stamp the deregistration on the military ID (or capital) and on the registration card. You have been removed from the military register.

2. It is necessary to register with the military registration and enlistment office at your new place of residence. The procedure is the same - sign the application and present: Russian passport; military ID or capital; application from the passport office in form No. 6; citizen registration card according to form No. 9; a document confirming the ownership of the housing in which you want to register. Since 2017, the document that confirms ownership of any real estate is an Extract from the Unified State Register of Real Estate about the property (in our case, an apartment). Title registration certificates have now been canceled and have not been issued since July 2016. Here is a link to instructions for obtaining this extract.

   After signing the application, the military registration and enlistment office employee will put a stamp on registration on the military ID (or capital) and on the registration card. You have registered for the military.

4. Go to the passport office again and submit: Russian Federation passport; military ID or capital letter with new registration stamps; application from the passport office in form No. 6; citizen registration card according to form No. 9; a document confirming the ownership of the housing in which you want to register; foundation agreement; house register if you are registering in a private house;
5. Passport office worker after checking the submitted documents, will pick up application, citizen registration card, passport and will appoint the day it was received. Typically, registration takes 14 days and a maximum of 30 days. If you are registering in a private house, then the corresponding entry will be made in the house register and a stamp will be placed.
6. On the appointed day come to the passport office to get a passport with stamps confirming your extract from your previous place of residence and registration at your new one. You are discharged and registered.

If you are going to check out and register not in your own apartment, but in the same city, then the procedure for registering in someone else’s apartment is suitable for you.

Method number 2 – check out “to nowhere”

If you just need to check out “to nowhere,” for example, when selling an apartment, then the required procedure is presented below.

1. Appear at the passport office and fill out an application according to form No. 6 on deregistration at the place of residence. You can download the application form and a sample from here. The form will also be given at the passport office; a sample form is hanging on the information board. The application will need to indicate the address of the new place of residence., moreover, you can specify any address, even if you are not going to register there. But if after discharge you will register in another place, then indicate the real address of your future registration.

   Together with the application to the passport office employee present only your passport.

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2. Passport office worker will check the application will pick up your passport and set a day for receiving it. Typically, many passport offices issue passports on the same day of application, but the processing may take a maximum of 7 days.
3. On the appointed day come to the passport office to get a passport with a stamp indicating deregistration at your place of residence and a departure slip. You have been discharged. The departure slip cannot be lost; it is needed for future registration at a new address. Its validity period is maximum 30 days.

If it is necessary to discharge a minor child from the country, the process becomes a little more complicated. Follow this link to read the conditions and instructions for discharging a minor.

Important! As stated above, passport offices often require those liable for military service to first de-register with their military commissariat before being discharged. But according to the law, this requirement is unlawful, because Removal from military registration must be done within 14 days after discharge. Threaten with the prosecutor's office, because... this is arbitrariness.

If the passport office has agreed to handle your discharge, then there is already an order in this case. But if the passport office employees disagree and you don’t want to waste your time on disputes and court, read the order with minor additions:

1. At the passport office, fill out an application for registration, sign the citizen registration card according to form No. 9 (filled out by the employee). After signing, pick up the application and registration card.
2. Next, you need to deregister at the previous military registration and enlistment office and register at the new one (if there is only one military registration and enlistment office, then simply notify about the change of registration). To do this, at each military registration and enlistment office, sign an application in the established form and submit: a passport; registration applications from the prescriber and from the owners; military ID or certificate of a citizen subject to conscription for military service (capital). The employee will put a stamp on removal or registration for military registration on the military ID (or capital) and on the citizen registration card.
3. Go to the passport office again, where you can hand over your applications, registration card and passport. The employee will check the submitted applications and documents, pick up the passport and set a day for its receipt.
4. On the appointed day, pick up your passport with deregistration stamps.

According to Decree of the Government of the Russian Federation dated July 17, 1995 N 713 (as amended on May 21, 2012), citizens are required to register in a new place within 7 days from the date of arrival at the new place of residence, and not from the moment of discharge from the previous one.

For detailed instructions on registering in a new apartment, read this article. Otherwise, you will face a fine of 1.5 thousand rubles.

• But if there is a good reason why you could not register at your new place of residence within 7 days, then the reason must be explained at the passport office. Possible reasons:

  business trip;

• You will need to submit to the passport office: a waybill, a certificate from your place of work, etc.

  hospitalization or outpatient treatment (staying at home on sick leave);

• You are required to present a sick leave certificate or an extract from the hospital, which should indicate the duration of your illness.

  sale and purchase of an apartment.

For example, you first sold an apartment and then bought a new one. At the same time, the procedure for processing documents for the sale and purchase of housing took more than seven days. Accordingly, you, having in your hands a purchase and sale agreement and a document confirming ownership of the apartment, can easily prove your reason for not having time to register in a new place within the specified period.

Method No. 3 - sign out with the help of a trusted person

If you cannot, for some reason, sign out on your own, then another person can do this for you by issuing a notarized power of attorney for him.

Passport office employees are not too fond of dealing with issues with an extract by proxy, because in some cases scammers take advantage of this. Therefore, first call the passport office at your place of registration and find out if they will issue you with a power of attorney.

The power of attorney must be issued not as a general power of attorney, but as a special one, which can be clarified with a notary - he himself will formalize everything as required. If you need an experienced notary, you can contact us for contact information. To call, write to our online legal consultant at the bottom right. You can also consult with him for free.

Method No. 4 - sign up via the Internet on the State Services website