Are there faithful husbands? Rating of the most faithful husbands by zodiac signs

Men who do not cheat always behave in this way with their loved ones.

Most of us expect fidelity from our beloved, while the number of infidelities is increasing. According to a study conducted in 2016 in America, 41% of married couples cheat on their spouses, and half of the men and women surveyed said that they had a relationship on the side before.

But don't worry! If the behavior of your man corresponds to the 15 signs we have listed, then he is definitely true to you:

He keeps his word

Your man always fulfills the promise. You know for sure that if he promised to do something for you, your family or friends, then he will definitely do everything to fulfill the promise.

He likes your friends

He is not burdened by the company of your friends, but always keeps some distance. He is attached to you, and he has no friends closer than you.

He hides nothing from you

There are no secrets between you, because he is confident in you and knows that he can tell you everything.

He knows the limits

He understands what situations can lead to infidelity (for example, a joint business trip with an employee) and avoids anything that could put your marriage in jeopardy. Sometimes, at work, he may need to be alone with a woman, but even in this case, he communicates with her strictly according to the rules of business etiquette.

He doesn't talk to his exes

He does not consider it right to communicate and spend time with his ex. He cut ties with them completely.

He knows that he is not only the love of your life, but also your best friend.

Friendship is the foundation of a strong and loving relationship.

He draws clear boundaries of what is permitted in relations with employees.

He doesn't allow himself to get too close to the women he works with. He doesn't hide his marriage and always keeps his co-workers at a distance so they don't confuse his courtesy with flirting.

He knows that you appreciate him.

One possible reason for infidelity is a wife's lack of attention to her husband, says family psychologist Harry Newman. Indeed, his research shows that 48% of men have committed adultery because they no longer feel emotionally connected to their spouses. In a relationship, it is very important to show your husband how grateful you are for him and how much you appreciate him.

He is not selfish

Male narcissists are much more prone to infidelity as their self-love is off the charts. They resort to intrigues in order to amuse their pride.

He loves being close to you

Your man appreciates the emotional and physical connection that exists between you. According to statistics, 52% of couples who were not satisfied with their intimate life in marriage found someone on the side, while among those who were completely satisfied with their spouse, this figure was 17%. If you have any problems in your intimate life, then tell your spouse about them. Work together to resolve them or see a doctor.

He does not need your constant approval in order to be in a normal mood.

Even without your compliments, he knows that you are dear to him, but this does not mean that he does not want to hear about how you feel about him. Raise his self-esteem by praising his appearance, or tell him once again that you love him very much.

He does not try to control the family budget

He does not hide his earnings from you. He does not mind planning the budget together and allocating money for purchases.

He doesn't flirt with other women

He loves you, so he does not need to be free with other women.

He admits his mistakes

He knows that he is not a perfect person and is not afraid to admit that he was wrong. He believes that you can help him cope with his shortcomings, which he already works on every day.

He says "we" not "I"

For him, you are a single whole and he cannot imagine his future without you. He does not make important decisions without consulting with you, because he knows that marriage involves working together.

How often a woman is tormented by the question of whether her man is faithful to her. In the movies, deceived heroines find their favorite lipstick stain on their shirt collar, but is this the only evidence of treason. Many men and women are quite neat and do not leave such obvious traces.

In order to find the truth, a woman will have to turn into a real detective, paying attention to the smallest details in the behavior and environment of her beloved man.

So what can betray a traitor

In this age of mobile communication, you can always check his cell phone. Some may say that this is mean, but it is about confirming or dispelling their suspicions. And here all means are good. Of course, you should not advertise your plans to your spouse. After all, if it turns out that a woman was mistaken, a rare man will be able to forgive her distrust. You can look at the latest SMS and calls while he is in the shower or ask the phone to call, arguing that the money has run out. And then just click in the wrong place and see his reaction. One who has nothing to hide will not worry. But if, when calling, a man tries to go out to talk, or vice versa, he often drops calls, then you should still look at who called.

If until recently you reminded him to change his shirt or socks, but now washing machine works tirelessly, And you men spend more time in the bathroom, then this is a bad sign. Men, by their very nature, are conservatives, and rarely change something in the usual rhythm of life for no apparent reason. This also applies to the appearance in his wardrobe of new things that are different from those that were, addiction to a different perfume and, in general, something that stands out from the usual things. Even if he started listening to another radio station in the car, this is a reason to wonder why.

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Unexpected problems at work, meetings and business trips that piled up at one moment may indicate an upcoming promotion, or may confirm suspicions. Having mobile phones at their disposal, few people now use city phones. But in vain. You can always call the office and casually ask how your beloved spouse is doing.
And by the way, if the husband works a lot, but does not bring money, then a reasonable question arises. Does it work at all? There are no words, there are all sorts of situations, and at work there can really be parks and salary delays, but this sign should not be crossed out.

Car- this is generally the sovereign territory of the owner, and many men use the car not only for its intended purpose. If, getting into the car, a woman notices that the seat has been moved, this does not mean at all that her husband helped a friend transport the TV to the country. When there is no smoking in the car, any smells are quickly absorbed into the upholstery and it will be very easy to smell other people's perfumes. Hair also has a habit of treacherously sticking to the upholstery of the chair. Also, a homeowner can accidentally or deliberately drop some little things like lipstick.

If you want to confuse a woman, ask her to describe the ideal of her man. For most of us, this is a complete mystery. I would like to have a strong, courageous, decisive, independent and at the same time caring, gentle, sensitive and devoted companion nearby. It is unlikely that one person can possess these qualities. Or can it still?

Most men do not accept control over themselves in any of its manifestations and are often very freedom-loving and changeable, especially in terms of changing partners. These are typical "bad guys", which, unfortunately, are the most popular among girls. Less categorical in terms of their independence, men are endowed with a more accommodating character (or deprived of power, who knows J), they have problems with fidelity less frequently. On such positive characters, women put the stigma of "boring", in other words - a nerd.

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The age-old question that torments more than one generation of women: “Is there a decisive and freedom-loving, but sensitive, faithful and gentle man?” Mystery man, dream man. Doctors, for example, believe that the lack of fidelity is not at all a reason to be upset. It turns out that this quality can be corrected with the help of hormonal drugs.

Male fidelity depends on the amount of the hormone oxytocin in the body. It is responsible for trust, loyalty and affection. Scientists conducted a study in which they analyzed the behavior of men after taking drugs containing oxytocin. Both groups, control and experimental, were placed in the same situation. Surprisingly, members of the “oxytocin” group rarely dared to get close to unfamiliar women, even if they considered them very attractive and sexy. Otherwise, their attitude towards the opposite sex remained the same, that is, “enhanced” fidelity did not affect the level of self-esteem. Thanks to oxytocin, it just became easier for them to make the right choice.

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Just think: male fidelity, the lack of which has destroyed many couples, can be stimulated artificially! Drugs containing oxytocin will help with this.

Interestingly, scientists initially expected completely opposite results. After all, oxytocin also increases the sociability of a person and contributes to the easy adaptation of a man in society. They were supposed to meet as many women as possible. However, instead, men began to show more affection and interest in their existing partner.

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The sky is blue, the sun is yellow, fish swim, men cheat... A number of obvious statements can be continued indefinitely. Although recently it is customary to say that the sun is white, it’s just that we “see it that way.” However, this does not affect male infidelity. Under the white, yellow and even red sun, the triumph of adultery takes place daily. So the interest of the female half of humanity in the causes of this phenomenon is quite natural. But is it possible to find out once and for all why men go "to the left"?

A similar question and the most ridiculous answers are everywhere: in the media, friendly conversations, newfangled trainings and even psychology literature, which was actually intended to help people understand human nature, and not drive them into despair. In the end, I want to ask: at least someone figured it out? Has this information helped you or someone you know?! Is there at least one woman in the world who has secured herself from male infidelity without resorting to the help of garden shears?

Here I am about it.

Let's just take a sledgehammer today and break down stereotypes that don't work. Go!

Cheating has no reason

Free yourself from prejudice. Not in the sense that men are heartless and don't need a reason to betray family or love. Cheating is just sexual intercourse on the side. I know this situation has a thousand and one shades, but we need a universal definition to understand what we are talking about.

Whatever you consider a prerequisite for treason, there will always be a case in the world when a man lived with it and did not change at all.

It is customary to think that he has changed, which means that he lacks something in sex. And role-playing games or the search for non-standard places begin. And then - bam, an unambiguous SMS comes from an unfamiliar number. And then, sitting in the kitchen with cold coffee, the woman goes over in her head other reasons that she "did not see." And they are not.

A man can say that, for example, little attention was paid to him, but what about that neighbor, Tolik, whose wife also works and has children, and at the same time he sits so tightly in the family. Looks, of course, at other people's priests, but no more.

Nothing leads to treason, except treason itself. And you don't have to overthink it.

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Change everything

Or rather, all types of men. After all, people can still be divided into types, am I not behind the times? Well, the world is full of stories about men with all sorts of characteristics who cheat. And I assure you, not a single type was lost. And if you think that yours is definitely not like that, then most likely he has already planned everything. A man will not allow himself to be doubted. This point may seem controversial, but should not be confused with "all men are traitors." Most likely, your man will never cheat, but this does not mean that he is not capable of it.

One is to blame

The myth that two, three or even five are to blame for treason (there are different cases) is the fruit of many years of chewing on the question “why”. If all men are able to change, but in the end not everyone changes, then it is easy to calculate the weak link: this is the cheater himself.

People are not polygamous

Polygamy is too cool a word to take and just give up. It is so mesmerizing that it is already used as an axiom in relation to men. Believe me, understanding the true meaning of the term, as in cases of polygamy, is not as fun as saying that a man is not bad with two. But if it comes to that, it is not polygamy that defines men, but they define it. It is simply a pattern of behavior that a zoologist fixes in the animal world through observation. In order to claim that men are polygamous, it is necessary to confirm such behavior. In fact, the percentage of cheating men, although much higher than we would like, is not enough to characterize the entire species. Yes, and polygamous males do not sneak out of the hole to cheat, and then do not suffer remorse.

If someone lacked biology, then search Google for a species with offspring exceeding ours in terms of helplessness.

The statistics are lying

Recently, people have grown fond of receiving information in the form of numbers: give everyone a share or a percentage. But there are different statistics. For example, everyone understands how to get the average size of an elephant tortoise shell. Turtles were measured and then counted. But the statistics of opinion polls is like interrogating a rabbit about the color of a lily of the valley and ordering him to dance. The accuracy will be about the same. All information about male infidelity is obtained from surveys of men themselves. So the results are not confirmed by anything, but you should not pounce on sociologists. A faithful man does not show himself in any way, he is not visible. But betrayal is always in sight, it is discussed and even praised. Change is information. Therefore, it seems that the problem is really popular.

What to do? It turns out that the situation with treason can not be influenced in any way and no one controls anything? In my opinion, there are three actual reasons for

which treason, bypassing all of the above, still breaks out.

1. Sex education for men

It's at zero. Which of the men can boast of some norms of sexual behavior received from their parents, except for the notorious condom? Carry it with you everywhere and always. It is important. Otherwise, you will make children and you will not end up with problems.

How are you? The best thing the world has to offer men in terms of sex education is family bullying. Like, sex has nothing to do with family. You do it, but no children until you decide for yourself three times. The family has been exposed as the main enemy of sex since childhood, when there are no ideas of one or the other. And then, why does this man consider it in the order of things to arrange fun "on the side" and return back as if nothing had happened? Moreover, no matter how strange it may be, even mothers who have experienced adultery are in no hurry to limit their child in sexual freedom. Men have some kind of their own world, in which only understandable sex rules for us. But nothing will happen to the boy if you tell him that he is also responsible for the psychological side of sex and that one cannot exist without the other.

And yes, we remember that a condom also protects against sexually transmitted diseases. But illness is no reason for your boy not to have sex whenever possible. The main thing is to have a cherished "protector".

2. Hypocrisy regarding adultery in women's society

No, this is not about "with whom all men cheat, if all women are faithful." But male infidelity is almost always in the public domain. A man can get mechanical sex at home. The psychological aspect of “achievement” is important here, and it is difficult to feel it if no one knows. “Prove nothing to anyone” - looks good only on motivating pictures on social networks. In life, everything works the other way around, but do other women condemn male infidelity? Not very convincing. And then, knowing about the previous “achievements” of the partner, they also enter into new long-term relationships with him, which do not carry any special prospects. Of course, the aforementioned misconception about the responsibility of a woman for male adultery plays a role in such behavior. Only now the situation does not begin to look better from this. As a result, a man not only does not receive a “stick” for his wrong actions, but is also awarded a “carrot”. But no one will tell men that cheating is bad, except for the women themselves.

3. Changes in the woman herself

Dear ladies, we do not marry you in order to change. If a man chose you, then you are completely satisfied with him. I know that “arranging” is not the ultimate dream, but in the context this word fits. I'm not talking about changes in waist size. A woman can change psychologically much more than outwardly. Of course, change is inevitable (actually not, but you can’t be convinced of this). But on this basis, a dichotomy of his feelings for you may arise. It is possible that the changes will not affect in any way what he loves you so much for. But if the intersection is nevertheless achieved, then perhaps you are developing, but your partner has lost some important feature of your image and he begins to miss it. He also doesn't understand how it happened. After all, she was, but now she is not.

If a man marries you, this does not mean that exponential personal growth awaits you now. He expects, no matter how stupid it is, that from now on everything, at least related to you, will be the same as it was at the time of the marriage proposal. And no, you are still not to blame for his betrayals. This is just friendly information and you decide what to do with it.

The result is approximately the following, girls: do not take responsibility for other people's actions, drive the unfaithful men behind you and do not trust sociologists.

A faithful man is always somewhere near. He just doesn't sleep with just anyone, so you don't hear anything about him.

Every woman wants her husband to keep her impeccable fidelity and never cheat. However, from the pages of the media, from TV screens and from computer monitors, a stream of information is constantly pouring on us, convincing us of the following: a man, by definition, cannot be faithful to one woman, they are all polygamous by nature, change absolutely everything, just some know how to hide well their betrayals...

How can you believe that there is loyalty and devotion in the world? Are these qualities really a thing of the distant past, and the fate of a modern woman is to put up with the fact that she is not the only one in her man's life?

Now let's try to figure it out.

Causes of male infidelity

To know how to treat a disease, you need to find out its causes - the main rule of medicine. In fact, there are as many reasons for male infidelity as there are for men. Among the huge number of them, the most typical ones can be distinguished:

Forced abstinence (for example, during a business trip);
- Excess alcoholic libations (for example, at a party or at a corporate party);
- The monotony of marital sex;
- Such a nature!

Does everyone change?

According to studies, 24% of married husbands do not at all seek to find mistresses, and even, it happens, refuse very tempting female proposals. What makes them do this?

Explanation first. The man “worked up” before marriage: he had many sexual partners, and by the age of 30 he settled down, got married and does not consider it necessary to look for a mistress on the side. He does not need self-affirmation by the method of seduction, his self-esteem is already at a fairly high level. There are not very many such men: out of the 24% that we mentioned, a fourth belongs to this group.

The second explanation. Three quarters of faithful husbands are men who got married quite early, much earlier than their peers. Premarital sexual experience of such men is minimal. They often suffer from depression, they have low self-esteem. If everything is more or less clear with the first group, then in this case the question arises: what prevents them from cheating on their wives? If you ask this question head-on, a man, without hesitation, will give a hardened answer: I love my wife, I don’t want to betray my family, moral principles do not allow. In reality, however, the situation is different. The main reason for their loyalty is banal fear. No, not the fear of exposure and not the fear of destroying the family. We are talking about the fear of being insolvent with a new partner, causing her ridicule. I must say that these fears are not unfounded: such men very often suffer from sexual dysfunction, such as early ejaculation or a decrease in potency. With his wife, they are calmer.

What do psychologists and sexologists think?

Now you will be surprised. Most psychologists and sexologists are convinced that for a full-fledged sexual life and the preservation of physical and mental health, a man simply needs to cheat on his wife sometimes. Romance "on the side" is an excellent way to increase your self-esteem, as well as compare your own spouse with a new woman (almost always the wife is better). In addition, going “to the left” brings some freshness to marital intimate relationships, making them more vivid and exciting.

As for faithful husbands, they do not receive all these shocks that contribute to the revitalization of their sex life, which means they risk getting depression and frequent mood swings.

How should wives behave?

Observe "safety precautions"! And this also applies to those women whose husbands do not cheat on them. Don't relax! Let you have been happily married for 20 years, let your husband never even look in the direction of another woman, let him give you flowers and compliments ... A “midlife crisis” will come (and most often it is 40 - 45 years), and it will happen " explosion". The accumulated and unused sexual energy will break out of control, and the husband may, one far from perfect day, collect things and leave the family for a young mistress.

How to prevent this? Now I will surprise you again. According to experts, it is necessary to provoke the husband's interest in other women 10 years before the alleged crisis, that is, when the man turns 30-35 years old. No, you don't need to push him to cheat. Just act like your husband's affair on the side could happen at any moment. Emphasize his male attractiveness in every possible way. From time to time say: “How that girl over there looked at you!” or "I'm the envy of all the women at work because you're so cool."

How to understand that a loved one is cheating?

It is necessary to be in the know - at least in order not to feel like a complete fool. How to "decipher" the husband's affair that happened?

1. A man suddenly decides to update his wardrobe (although he used to be completely indifferent to new clothes), he enrolls in the gym.

2. The husband either almost stops paying attention to you, or, on the contrary, trying to make amends for his guilt, shows increased signs of attention.

3. He has constant "hands on work" at work, he is "called" to work on weekends and evenings.

4. Despite the previous paragraph, there is less money in the family.

5. Inspect the husband’s car: did strange things appear in the “glove box”, did the position of the seats change?

6. The long-term habits of the husband, brought to automatism, have changed. It was she, the mistress, who influenced him!

8. Pay attention to the behavior of women you know, "family friends", husband's colleagues, neighbors, etc. Practice shows that men do not like to go far in search of pleasure, but prefer to establish relationships with those who are closer. If your girlfriend suddenly stops calling you, and at a meeting she looks away and tries to sneak away - this is no accident ...

9. Finally, such banal and even anecdotal evidence as traces of lipstick on a shirt, the smell of unfamiliar perfumes, someone else's handkerchief in his pocket, etc.

Also pay attention to your intuition: almost all women "inside" feel adultery, and if you are "tormented by vague doubts" - this is no accident ...