Romance and chic - a European-style wedding: decor and scenario. How to have a European style wedding

A European-style wedding is conducive to slowness, restrained emotions and luxurious details, including a magnificent wedding dress Dnepropetrovsk at the bride. A buffet table is more appropriate in this case than the usual feast for us. However, it is worth taking care that there are enough places at the table or tables for each guest. After all, during the wedding toast, everyone should sit and enjoy the meal.

After registering at the registry office, getting married, walking around the beautiful places of the city, the newlyweds go to a restaurant, where they are already expected. At the entrance to the restaurant, guests build a living corridor, each is given a handful of rose petals, ribbons, wheat, sweets, with which they will shower the heroes of the occasion.

Sprinkling the bride and groom with petals, the guests give their wishes. In addition, you can prepare a wedding speech in advance, which everyone will repeat in unison. Along the "living corridor" the couple enter the hall, where a pyramid with glasses of champagne awaits them on a large table. The newlyweds take the top glasses, decorated with ribbons and flowers, after which each guest chooses a glass.

Host: Dear guests, friends, relatives. I propose to raise glasses for the happiness of the newlyweds and congratulate the young family. Congratulations on the wedding day sound, guests approach the newlyweds, present flowers and gifts and drink for happiness.

After congratulations, the presenter invites to the buffet table and announces a musical pause. At this time, the newlyweds can put themselves in order after numerous congratulations. The newlyweds take pride of place at the most luxurious table, which stands on a small hill. At the same time, guests are seated at tables of 6-8 people according to seating cards.

Leading: Every holiday should be full of toasts, a wedding is no exception. Let me, on behalf of all those present, congratulate the newlyweds and wish them a long and happy family life. And now I wish you all a pleasant appetite, everyone is invited to the dance floor. Light music sounds, some couples are spinning in a slow dance.

After a musical break, the floor is given to the groom's parents and soon to the bride's parents.

Host: Dear friends, I present to your attention an incredible surprise! Any pop number begins, which can make the holiday more interesting and dynamic, as well as enliven the wedding program.

After the performance, the guests have the opportunity to approach the newlyweds, chat and congratulate them on this solemn event. The host gives the floor to the friends of the young who were present when the couple met. After the wedding toasts, the newlyweds are invited to remember their first meeting.

Host: So, let's start the wedding quiz. This competition will allow us to determine how accurately our newlyweds remember their first meeting. While the groom listens to music with headphones, the bride answers 3 questions, then the bride puts on her headphones. After the talk show, the guests applaud good memories and the music that was on the day they met is played.

After that, the first dance of the newlyweds is announced. Usually the dance is accompanied by special effects, such as launching confetti, soap bubbles, fireworks. After the end of the music, everyone is invited to the dance floor. Hot meals are served during the dance break.

Several guests make toasts, after which the host proposes to arrange a wedding contest. Several volunteers are invited, I blindfold each of them, and hand them a felt-tip pen. On a blank sheet of paper, you need to draw a bride and groom. The prize is given to the person who makes the most understandable drawing. The "masterpiece" of the winner is sold at a wedding auction, and the money goes to the fund for the young.

After a dance break, a wedding cake decorated with fireworks is served in the hall. The newlyweds cut off the first piece of cake that they eat together. After that, each piece is sold to guests for a symbolic amount. At this time, the waiters serve dessert.

The bride throws a bouquet to the circle of unmarried girls, and the groom removes the garter from the bride and throws it to the bachelors.

Host: We invite everyone to the final dance of our program - "Dance of Desires". While the newlyweds are dancing, the guests make wishes.

The newlyweds thank the guests and leave the hall, setting off on their honeymoon.

Recently, more and more weddings are held without the usual bride price, accordion songs and noisy contests. From Europe, the fashion for more concise and restrained celebrations came to us. European style wedding is a fashion trend. In this material we will talk about the features of a European wedding.

European wedding scenario

First of all, European is extremely thought out to the smallest detail. In the entire scenario of the holiday, there must be a special one, to which everything obeys, from the color of the tablecloth on the tables to the bride's bouquet.

The script is compiled by a specially hired person - the organizer of the wedding. All the chores of arranging the holiday lie with him.

The bride and groom are invited to choose the color according to which the hall for the ceremony and banquet will be decorated. In the attire of guests, the presence of this shade is also desirable.

In the case of a European-style wedding, you cannot do without a photographer. A good wedding photographer in Kharkiv will be able to make a great photo session by preparing wedding attributes and accessories in advance in accordance with the main color of your wedding.

special an attribute of a European wedding is the distribution of invitations. They are made on expensive paper, in a beautiful font and sent to guests in advance (2-3 months).

Holding a European-style wedding ceremony

European wedding ceremony takes place not in the registry office that is familiar to us, but, as a rule, in some beautiful natural corner, whether it be a park, forest or a country estate. Recently started practicing marriage registration service, provided that all costs for the transportation of the registrar fall on the shoulders of the newlyweds.

At the place of registration, an altar is organized, near which the newlyweds conclude their marriage. A carpet path leads to the altar, on both sides of which there are places for guests. A platform for dancing and tables is also being created, on which refreshments will be located.

Special place in european style wedding ceremony occupied by the bridesmaids. Their dresses are sewn in a single color, suitable for the general style of decoration.

European wedding ceremony does not last long. After the announcement of its beginning, the groom and his friends go to the altar and stand on one side of it. On the other side are the bridesmaids.

Then a girl and a boy walk to the altar, carrying flowers and wedding rings. After them, the father of the bride follows the aisle, who leads her to the groom.

In Europe, the marriage is performed by a priest, in our country, the marriage is concluded by the registrar of the registry office. Then the bride and groom exchange wedding rings and pronounce wedding vows.

After the ceremony, guests will have a gala dinner. At the tables they are seated in accordance with a pre-agreed plan.

Gifts from guests are stacked on a separate table set in the designated place. Guests also receive gifts from the bridegroom. Usually these are sweets or memorable souvenirs.

Wedding ceremony ends with cutting the cake, then the bride calls unmarried ladies to the center of the dance floor, turns her back and throws a bouquet to them. After that, the guests continue to have fun, and the newlyweds go on their honeymoon.

The bride usually throws the bouquet immediately after the wedding ceremony or upon leaving the church where the wedding took place.

The wedding reception begins with speeches prepared in advance by close relatives and friends of the bride and groom. These are not toasts, but well-composed touching and humorous texts, which, however, can also be improvisation.

Before or after this, the newlyweds perform the first dance - the same element is present at our weddings. Now both in our country and in Europe they cook more often not classical dances, but surprise dances, often funny . Slow music is replaced by modern fast music: rock, r&b, rock and roll, pop music. The dance, of course, is prepared in advance, rehearsing a lot.

A tradition at a European wedding has become performances by the bridesmaids and groomsmen . They prepare different dances or perform a joint number, and sometimes the bride and groom dance with them.

In general, European weddings are not much more dignified and boring than ours: there is also enough fun, humor on the verge of a foul, endless raising glasses and hot dancing.

It is believed that at European weddings there are practically no games and competitions traditional for us, but this is not so. Future newlyweds select entertainment in advance that matches the theme and style of the wedding, trying to entertain the guests. For example, on European weddings quite often they carry out a banal, according to our compatriots, musical chair game (there are 1 less chairs than the participants - whoever did not have time to sit down when the music stopped, then leaves).

There are also team games: for example, which team will score more goals in the basket. There are also funny mini-relay races, and sometimes games with adult overtones. For example, women and girls in dresses are invited, they stand up like a “train”. Men who wish to participate crawl under this engine, face down. Accordingly, the participants should spread their legs wide. Whoever refuses to do so is eliminated. The second round - between the legs of the remaining men crawl again, but already face up (crawling on their backs). Many more women are already self-disqualifying here. And those who remained get warm applause and prizes.

In order to receive some valuable prize (for example, a gorgeous photo frame with a romantic picture of the newlyweds), the host can instruct guests who have come with their cameras to take a picture of a person in clothes of a certain color and capture something funny. Whoever completes the task the fastest wins the prize.

Almost always at a European wedding there is such entertainment as collecting advice for the newlyweds. To do this, they prepare either an album or cards where guests enter their wishes and advice. At a nautical-style wedding, they can float a large sea shell in a circle and invite guests to listen to advice from the “other world”, and then voice what they heard. Of course, guests from the shell will not hear anything but the sound of the surf, but this is the whole point: they must, holding the shell to their ear, independently come up with a wish or advice supposedly from otherworldly forces. Humor is welcome. Wonderful, touching game!

Sometimes talent contests are held at a European wedding: guests, including children, are invited to demonstrate their talent - to sing, dance, show an acrobatic number or trick, etc. This both entertains the guests and engages them in the celebration.

In order to introduce guests to the newlyweds and to each other, European wedding scripts often include elements such as slide shows or videos from the Honeymoon Love Story and something like a quiz for guests. But the questions in this quiz concern only other guests - in particular, new relatives from the bride or groom. The question might be, for example: “Cousin of the groom Alice, please tell me which of the bride’s relatives graduated from the law school of the university exactly two and a half years ago?” or like this: “Aunt Sarah, do you know which of the groom’s relatives has three Rottweilers?”.

In general, there are fewer games and competitions as such at a European wedding than at ours, but the celebration there, as a rule, lasts less time. However, the emphasis there is on entertainment: professional artists, magicians, flairists (bartender show), pyrotechnics are invited.

European wedding: more attention to detail

Be sure to order seating cards for guests and unique paper napkins in the color of cards, invitations and. Chairs should be in beautiful covers. Place a bouquet of flowers on each table for guests. Order a cake with a unique design, either related to or related to your relationship or hobbies. Even the candles on the tables at a European wedding can be unique - made to order.

There are no trifles at a European wedding. There, it is the decor (and not food and drinks, as it was with us) that is given increased attention. The thoughtfulness of every little thing is the main highlight of a European wedding.

Exit registration of marriage- an interesting, original and modern solution that allows you to get rid of conventions and formalities, and hold a wedding without the traditional visit to the registry office on the day of the celebration. An offsite registration ceremony is beautiful, romantic and touching, and most importantly, it means endless possibilities for organizing and holding a wedding.

How much does an outdoor ceremony cost?

This question cannot be answered unequivocally, since the cost consists of so many factors. To understand the approximate prospects for holding an outdoor ceremony, first of all, it is worth deciding whether the registration will be official or not. The cost of such official registration is indicated on the official website of the UZAGS of Moscow, so I will not dwell on this issue. So, the cost of an exit ceremony in my understanding consists of the following questions:

• Location. The fact is that if the ceremony is held far from the restaurant, the newlyweds will have to resolve the issue of transferring guests from the ceremony site to the banquet site, and this is a significant part of the costs. Similarly, with the ceremony and banquet outside the city.
• Number of guests. This issue affects the size of the ceremony site, the number of chairs, the size of the transfer, and even the number of photographers and videographers. Of course, the more guests will be present, the more the budget for the ceremony will grow.
• Site cost. This should be the first question the bride and groom ask the landlord. Often, unscrupulous banquet complexes are silent about this, and ultimately, a couple of weeks before the wedding, they stun the couple with the news: “How? Didn't you know? We have a rental site N thousand!”. Further, of course, the calculation is simple: the higher the cost of rent, the less budget your ceremony will take place.
• Decor options. Everything is possible. And a homemade beautiful corner, and tons of professional decor. Everything will depend on the desire of the couple.
• Services of the wedding registrar. The registrar market varies greatly in cost, find out what is included in the cost of its services. And be sure to choose the registrar to your liking;)
• Additional options. What is the cost of DJ services and sound equipment rental? The more participants, the bigger the budget, the trend is simple. I do not advise you to neglect the services of a DJ for lack of such a line in the budget, since an outdoor ceremony is a complex event, the success of which depends on all participants in the process.

Preparing for the check-in ceremony

The basis of a successful on-site registration is an interesting and thought-out scenario literally to the minute. However, the script is the “soul” of the ceremony, and its “body” is the choice of location, original design, preparation of musical accompaniment and a number of other aspects that are responsible for what the newlyweds and guests of the celebration will see and hear.

On-site registration can be carried out almost anywhere that is allowed for visits and public events - in the picturesque corners of the Moscow region, in old estates, in unusual places in the capital, etc. The choice of seats is almost unlimited.

The basic design of the outdoor ceremony is chairs for guests, an arch with a place for a wedding registrar, and decorative elements - bouquets of flowers, ribbons and others. It is also necessary to prepare two very important things - umbrellas in case of rain and blankets in case of cold weather. Umbrellas and blankets are provided for each guest, and are selected so that they match the style and color scheme of the ceremony.

Musical accompaniment is the basis that creates the atmosphere of the ceremony. There are many options for musical arrangement, but live music can create real romance. Usually string quartets, a saxophone and a harp are chosen for the ceremony, but very often a DJ is responsible for the music at the registration, whose capabilities are wider than the musician.

Exit registration of marriage: how does it happen?

Regardless of the theme and features of the wedding, exit registration is carried out according to approximately the same scenario. I will tell you how the outdoor ceremony goes, and also consider some of its nuances, which may not be noticeable at first glance, but play a very important role.

Before the ceremony, guests are seated on chairs. The first rows are intended for the parents of the newlyweds and their close relatives. For convenience and proper seating, plates with the names of guests are attached to the front chairs. Seating is free on the chairs in the back rows.

Simultaneously with the seating, the bridesmaids give the guests flower petals, which they will shower the newlyweds after registration is over. For beauty and convenience, the petals are placed in special wicker baskets or original bags, decorated in a wedding style.

Upon completion of the preparation, the host of the wedding announces the start of the solemn ceremony of the exit registration. In a short opening speech, the host talks about the course of the ceremony, about when and how the guests should shower the newlyweds with petals, and also talks about other important nuances.

The exit registration opens with the entrance of the bridesmaids, who pass in front of the guests and stand to the left of the arch. The solemnity of the moment is emphasized both by the special musical accompaniment and the girls' outfits, which are performed in the same style. Ideally, the bridesmaids' dresses are custom-made according to the style of the wedding.

After the bridesmaids take their places, the groom's friends come out - their exit is also accompanied by a certain musical composition. However, the groom's friends do not have to be dressed in the same suits - it is enough to have the same elements in their image, most often these are boutonnieres for flowers, or ties or bow ties made in the same style and color scheme.

It is important to note that the music for the entrance of the bridesmaids and groomsmen must be chosen in advance. Also, before leaving, the wedding registrar tells young people and girls how best to go to their places, in what order to stand up, and what to do directly during the ceremony.

The groom's friends pass in front of the guests and take their places to the right of the arch. This arrangement is very beautiful and emphasizes the solemnity of the ceremony.

Now it's the groom's turn - he also comes out to the arch to a pre-selected musical accompaniment. Usually the groom passes through the rows of guests who can greet him. The groom takes a seat to the right of the arch, closer than his friends.

Finally, one of the most beautiful moments comes - the exit of the bride. Traditionally, the bride goes out to the groom, accompanied by her father, brother, grandfather or other close relative, and this exit is accompanied by a beautiful and touching melody. However, there are no rules here, so the bride's exit can be anything!

The bride passes to the arch along the path between the rows of guests. At the arch, the father passes the bride to the groom, and this important moment can also be interestingly played up - usually the father shakes hands with the groom or gives a short parting word that only the groom hears. After that, the father takes his place in the front row, and the bride stands on the left side of the groom.

It is important to note that until this moment the place of the father must be free, usually the mother of the bride makes sure that no one takes the place of the father. In order for everything to be done according to the script, the father is taken to the bride in advance, even before the ceremony begins.

Finally, the most solemn moment comes - exit registration. During registration, a solemn speech is delivered, which is discussed in advance and agreed with the newlyweds. Often, the newlyweds themselves take part in writing the speech, which turns the speech into a touching love story, which became the reason for this wedding.

Closer to the end of the ceremony, wedding rings are taken out, and this can also become a very beautiful and original element of the wedding. The rings are placed on a specially prepared pillow (which, like other accessories, is made in the style of a wedding), and a child or several children dressed in smart clothes can carry the pillow.

Either specially invited "wedding angels" or children from among the guests can take out a pillow with rings.

The groom takes the wedding ring first and puts it on the bride's ring finger.

Then comes the turn of the bride, who solemnly puts the ring on the ring finger of her lover.

After putting on the rings, the field registrar makes a short solemn speech, declaring the newlyweds husband and wife. Then he invites the newlyweds to walk along the path between the rows of guests, where a symbolic and incredibly beautiful ceremony of shedding flower petals will take place.

At the same time, all the guests get up from their seats and prepare to congratulate the newlyweds passing along the path with shedding petals.

A very important point: for shedding, it is recommended to use petals either only in red and its shades, or assorted petals of red and white - such petals look very beautiful in photographs. If the baskets are filled only with white petals, then the photos will turn out faded and inexpressive. White petals have another drawback - they will merge with the bride's white dress (if the bride, of course, is dressed in a classic white dress), in this sense, red or assorted red, white or blue petals have a clear advantage.

By the way, you need to take care of the petals in advance, and after choosing the place of registration, decide which petals will be used - natural or artificial (paper or fabric). If the exit registration will be held in a room with expensive floors, including marble, then preference should be given to artificial petals - natural petals will definitely fall under the guests' feet, and when crushed, they leave dark spots on the floor.

The registration ceremony is over, and now the host gives the floor to the guests, who can congratulate the newlyweds and give them gifts. It makes sense to carry out this action in a specially designed registration area.

Among the gifts there will be many beautiful envelopes - they are traditionally given to the groom, taking place in the pockets of his suit. This is not very convenient and not very beautiful, so for envelopes it is worth preparing a special box, box or bag, decorated in the style of a wedding.

After congratulations and gifts, it's time for a wedding photo shoot. Newlyweds are required to take pictures with their parents, with individual guests, take general photos, etc. It is at this time that the most beautiful and important photographs for the family archive are taken, because in the future, during the banquet, it will be almost impossible to get such photographs.

And the photo session ends with a series of general photos, in which the newlyweds and all the guests of the celebration are present!

The ceremony is over and the wedding host announces the start of the wedding banquet. The newlyweds and guests leave the place of registration to the music, with smiles and happiness in their eyes.

Everything you need to organize
outdoor marriage registration ceremony

There are a lot of important details that need to be taken into account for the on-site registration, from choosing the right on-site registrar to the rose petals to shower the newlyweds.

For offsite registration
you need to take care of:

• choosing a suitable place of registration
• choosing a field registrar
• a folder for a marriage certificate and a pen for signatures
• wedding rings and a special ring pad
• musical accompaniment that perfectly matches the tastes of the couple (it can be a harp, a DJ with the appropriate equipment, a string quartet)
• if a large wedding is planned, it is necessary to take care of the presence of a microphone and sound equipment in advance so that all guests can clearly hear the speech of the field registrar and the vows pronounced by the newlyweds
• copy of registration certificate
• rose petals and seating cards

How to behave during the ceremony?

Be yourself. You have already done everything, prepared all the contractors, selected the host of the ceremony. Look at your loved one and don't think about anything. We advise you to put the registrar's table and the registrar on the side of the arch, so that nothing and no one will prevent you from enjoying each other. Do not look at the guests, do not look at the registrar, look into the eyes of your soul mate.

Unifying wedding ceremonies

On their wedding day, newlyweds unite their two lives, their identities, by saying "YES" and vows of eternal love and respect. A beautiful symbol of this decision to go together and build a life together, one day, were unifying wedding ceremonies, different in execution and origin, but invariably filled with the meaning of the merging of two loving souls.

1 Homemaking Ceremony

This tradition came to us from the United States. Traditionally, immediately after the exchange of vows, the ceremony of lighting a common candle takes place, symbolizing the creation of a home. Most often, candles are lit by the mothers of the bride and groom, representing two families. From the candles of their mothers, the bride and groom light their own candle, symbolizing the union of two families and the creation of their home. Fathers can also join this ceremony, their participation will reflect the agreement and understanding in families. The common candle of the newlyweds can be larger in size or a different color, or placed in the center between the candles of their families, symbolizing respect for their loved ones. After the ceremony, the bride should keep all three candles to keep the warmth of the hearth. In our country, this ceremony is also very popular among newlyweds. Unlike American weddings, in our country there are no strict rules for this ceremony. It can take place after the marriage registration ceremony, and at a festive banquet, or be the final stage of the holiday. But the meaning of this spiritual tradition is the same in all countries.

2 Sand Ceremony

Since ancient times, the sand ceremony has been performed at the wedding of the native islanders in Hawaii, where sand of any color can be found. This beautiful ceremony is also popular with modern newlyweds and has become a symbolic attribute at weddings. The ceremony is carried out immediately after the exciting “YES!” or before the vow exchange ceremony. To hold it, the bride and groom each take their own vase of sand, while the color of the sand of the bride and groom is different, symbolizing the individuality of each of the newlyweds. Then each of them pours sand from his vase into a common vessel. This vessel with the resulting bizarre sand pattern symbolizes the union of two lives, two destinies into one, which will never be separated. The newlyweds can be joined by their parents, personifying harmony, mutual understanding and harmony in families, as well as friends and relatives, as a symbol of the unity of everything that surrounds the bride and groom.

3 Hourglass Despite the transience of time, all newlyweds want to keep their feelings and the harmony of the wedding day for life. As such a symbol, the unifying ceremony "Hourglass" is held. The hourglass vessel is simultaneously filled by both newlyweds, and each pours sand from his vase. This process means that they want to unite the time of their whole life separately into one life together. The hourglass is kept by the newlyweds as a reminder of the immutability of their decision to spend their whole lives together, because the number of grains of sand in the vessel will forever remain unchanged.

4 Love Tree Ceremony Planting a tree as a sign of the creation of a new family is an ancient tradition that exists in the cultures of many peoples of the world, in which the tree is associated with love and family. The bride and groom entering marriage are like young shoots of trees that have to find their true mate to weave their lives with her, support each other and strengthen their love and family over the years, as the roots of a tree grow stronger in the depths of the soil. The Tree of Love ceremony is held after the exchange of vows between the newlyweds and their consent to marry. If the wedding ceremony itself takes place in the open air, then the solemn planting of a tree will be its logical continuation to beautiful romantic music. If the wedding ceremony was indoors, then after its completion, the bride and groom go to the garden or park, where the “Tree of Love” ceremony will be held. The tree can be planted in the front garden or in a beautiful pot that will take its rightful place in the newlyweds' new home. It is also symbolic that the newlyweds collect the soil for planting in the gardens of their parents (or take it from domestic plants), thus personifying consent, understanding and mutual respect in their families, which they want to create in their own. A mixture of soil from parental homes with love and care during planting and further care will give excellent fruits in the future, just as a family in which everyone treats his beloved with love and care will be strong and prosperous.

5 Stone ceremony

6 Locking ceremony

There is another wedding tradition that came to us from Japan - this is the "Locking the Castle" ceremony. The idea of ​​this wedding ceremony is quite simple: the union of the hearts and souls of the newlyweds forever. After the ceremony, uniting their lives forever and locking the lock, the newlyweds release the key to the sky in balloons, throw it into the water or bury it in the ground, thus symbolizing their desire and aspiration to be always together.

7 Wine ceremony #1- aging wine

Like fine wine, marriage gets better with age. Following this thought, many newlyweds choose a wine ceremony as their wedding ceremony of unity. For this ceremony, the bride and groom must write each other vows, but not wedding vows, but those that they can read only on a certain anniversary chosen by them. After the ceremony, a bottle of selected wine and wedding vows are placed in a wooden wine box, which may be engraved with the newlyweds' initials and their wedding date. The box is tightly sealed or locked. The term of its storage is determined by the newlyweds themselves. By opening this box on their anniversary and reading the love vow left several years ago, the couple will again plunge into that wonderful romantic atmosphere of their wedding day.

8 Wine ceremony #2- a combination of two varieties of wine

The unifying wine ceremony at a wedding symbolizes the idea that two people, as different as two varieties of wine, have decided to combine their lives into one. During it, the bride and groom pour different types of wine into a common vessel, each from their own vessel. After that, the groom pours some wine from the common vessel into his glass, and the bride does the same. After that, they drink wine from a common vessel for the union of their two lives into one family. Guests are also invited to drink a new wine, created as a symbol of a new family, harmony and mutual respect for her.

9 God's Knot Ceremony

“Where one may be powerless, two will support each other. A knot of three ropes will not fray soon ”- these ancient lines illustrate the importance of the family in the Christian religion. The "God's Knot" unifying wedding ceremony has its origins in this religion, which believes that two people united by God are stronger than separate individuals. In the Christian religion, marriage is more than a union between a man and a woman, it is also a union with God. Therefore, the wedding ceremony of the "God's Knot" is the weaving of a knot of three ropes by the newlyweds, symbolizing each of them and God. A rope representing God is placed in the middle so that his love will continue to support the family. Each rope is attached to a metal ring held by the groom. And the bride, in turn, weaves them together. The ropes have specific colors: gold represents God, red represents the groom, and white represents the bride. During the ceremony, the master of ceremonies can tell the story and meaning of everything that happens to the parents, friends and loved ones present at the ceremony. You can also complement it with slow soulful music to complement the special atmosphere that is created at this ceremony.

10 Knot Tie Ceremony

After the consent of the newlyweds and the exchange of vows, one of the unifying ceremonies "Tying the Knot" is held. The newlyweds each take their own rope, which differs in color, and tie them with a sea knot while telling about the symbol and essence of this ceremony. By tying their two ropes, the newlyweds personify their lives with them, which they want to tie together and forever, unite them with a common goal and the essence of existence, thereby presenting a unique gift to each other. Like a knot, love and family are lifelong support and strength, and like a rope, a marriage grows stronger after trials and pressures.

11 Secret Knot Ceremony

Among the followers of the teachings of Feng Shui, there is a wedding tradition "Secret Knot", which is held to bless the family for good luck, harmony and longevity. According to this tradition, you need to wrap the rope around the hands of the newlyweds 6 times without crossing it. These six circles symbolize the infinity of the circles of birth and resurrection. In the Catholic and Anglican churches, it is customary to tie the hands of the newlyweds only once as a sign of their marriage forever.

12 Chemical ceremony

Molecules are similar to people, some do not react, and some combine to form a new element. This is exactly the meaning of the chemical unification ceremony at the wedding - to unite your lives and create a new family. To conduct this ceremony, each of the newlyweds must pour the substance from their small (100-200 ml) flask into one common (1000 ml). After that, the molecules react, forming a new chemical element. Of course, to obtain the desired result, it is necessary to provide the right chemical elements. One option is as follows: Large flask 2/3 white vinegar and 1/3 water Small flask 2/3 baking soda and 1/3 water. Upon reaction, the compound will sizzle, and after the release of carbon dioxide, it will become a beautiful purple color.

13 Ceremony "Foot washing"

This tradition is rooted in the gospel and is a great idea for a Christian wedding. As a wedding ceremony of unity, it represents that both family members respect each other, are committed and are always ready to support each other. For this ceremony, the bride and groom take off their shoes, put their feet into the basin and pour water from a beautiful jug, lightly washing each other's feet. After that, they dry their feet with a towel, which may have their initials or the date of the wedding, and put on shoes.

14 Rose Ceremony

In the language of flowers, roses mean love, and one rose means the phrase "I love you." During this ceremony, the bride and groom exchange roses as the first gifts to each other, in a new capacity - spouses. If desired, the bride and groom, having exchanged roses, can give them to the mothers of their beloved. After the ceremony, the couple may plant their roses in the garden in front of their house to keep their first gifts to each other as husband and wife. Every anniversary you can give each other a rose, which will mean that your marriage is based on love. Unfortunately, there are difficult moments in family life .. when you can offend the most important person for you with a randomly thrown phrase. After all, it is easiest to upset those whom we love the most. And here, when it is difficult to find the right words to explain, remember your wedding ceremony of roses and put a beautiful rose in the vessel of your choice on your wedding day. The flower will say for you: "I'm sorry", or "I forgive you" or "I need you."

15 Salt Ceremony Since ancient times, salt has been considered a sign of prosperity and harmony in the home. In connection with this giving, there are several variants of unifying ceremonies associated with salt. The bride and groom pour salt from each of their vessels into one common vessel, symbolizing prosperity and harmony in the families of their parents and their individuality. Another variation of this ceremony is that the groom picks up a handful of salt in his hand and sprinkles it on the bride, who in turn does the same. This symbolizes eternal harmony and respect in their home. You can also invite parents for this ceremony, symbolizing the union, love and harmony between the two families.

16 Ceremony with a pattern

One of the more recent wedding unification ceremonies is the pattern ceremony. It symbolizes the union of two creative personalities, which, in turn, will become the basis for new creative achievements. The white canvas at this ceremony is the beginning of a new joint path, and the colors that the bride and groom will paint with are their life, the one they want to create together. The bride and groom draw with different colors, which symbolize their individuality, and the resulting creation - them together.

17 Puzzle Folding Ceremony

This is one of the new wedding unifying ceremonies. One of the possible options for its implementation is that the bride and groom combine different elements into one picture (it can be made of wood or cardboard), symbolizing the union of their two lives into one. Also, to connect the puzzle, you can invite parents and guests, inviting them to write their name and wishes on each element. These elements will symbolize the entire environment of the bride and groom, united by their couple. As a logical preparation for this ceremony, you can also make wedding invitations in the form of puzzles, collecting which guests will find out the place and time of the ceremony.

Farewell to the maiden name at the exit registration

This is a ritual that today symbolizes the bride's farewell to the girlish life and her entry into a new, now married, life. The essence of any parting ceremony with a maiden name is that the bride in some way "destroys" his old surname and thereby enters into a new status. The usual such ceremony is arranged either immediately after registration, or at the end of the wedding banquet.

1. Let go to heaven

This is perhaps one of the most common options for parting with a maiden name. It consists in the fact that the letters of the bride's surname are made from some light material, balloons filled with helium are attached to them, and then the bride, together with the guests, releases the letters into the sky.

This version of the farewell ceremony with the maiden name may have several options. For example, you can attach not individual letters to balloons, but the whole surname, or you can use not balloons at all, but sky lanterns.

2. Set sail

If the wedding takes place on the banks of the river, then launching a small paper or wooden boat can be an excellent option for a farewell ceremony with a surname. The bride's maiden name is written on the sail of such a boat, and then, in a solemn atmosphere, the bride sets it sailing.

An alternative to launching a boat can be sealing the maiden name in a bottle: the bride must write the maiden name on a piece of paper, roll it up and lower it into a specially prepared empty bottle, after which the bottle is solemnly thrown into the water.

3. Give into the power of the flame

A very unusual way to say goodbye to the maiden name, but at the same time deeply symbolic: burning the old surname in the fire, the bride seems to be cleared of all the past and reborn in a new status. For the ceremony of farewell to the surname, in this case, only a sheet of paper, a marker, a candle and matches are required: the bride writes the surname on the sheet with a marker, then brings a lit candle to the sheet and sets it on fire.

In order for the ceremony to be beautiful, it is worth taking care of suitable musical accompaniment or discussing with the host the possibility of somehow “beating” it. Let, for example, the bride during the ceremony, following the host, repeat the words of a special oath in which she promises to proudly bear a new surname.

4. Explode

No, no, no one will really blow up the maiden name, of course. Just for the ceremony, a large balloon is taken, filled with confetti and sparkles, and then inflated. After that, the bride writes her maiden name on the balloon, and then, to loud applause, the bride and groom burst the balloon together - bam! Not a trace of the old surname remained!

Inside the ball, by the way, you can put a bundle with the common surname of the spouses written on it, and then the action will be even more symbolic: the bride will not only say goodbye to the old surname, but also acquire a new one.

5. Eat

Confectioners spell the bride's last name on the cakes. Cakes are eaten by guests.

6. Humorous option: close the tin tightly, having previously folded a piece of paper with the last name into it, make an inscription on the bank like “Open in case of urgent need”.

7. The most favorable option for parents, by which the bride can also express her gratitude to them for, so to speak, “using” the surname, is the return of the surname along with thanks and gifts.

Directly during the ceremony, it would be good to explain to the assembled guests what is happening now. To do this, the bride can, for example, make a farewell speech in which, in a serious or joking manner, she will thank the maiden name for having served her well, and solemnly promise not to return this surname under any circumstances.

What to do with guests before the outdoor ceremony?

In order for the wedding ceremony to be bright and unforgettable, the bride and groom should take care of many important details, including how to keep the guests from getting bored.

During the gathering, you should not overload guests with activities, but be sure to immerse them in the holiday atmosphere. The wedding host must meet your guests, get to know them and talk about possible activities before the ceremony.

1. Photo zone

Now there are many opportunities for organizing a photo zone. The most classic option is to make a banner on the theme of your wedding, against which guests can take pictures both individually and in cheerful companies. As a rule, a table with various accessories and voluminous inscriptions for perky photos is also installed for the photo zone. The fashion trend is to use a slate instead of a regular banner. It can be beautifully painted and made drawings in the style of a wedding.

Do not forget about fun photo booths and even photo machines that will become not only entertainment for guests, but also part of your decor. It's a great idea to rent a polaroid so that guests can take pictures themselves and attach photos with clothespins in a place prepared in advance. The main thing is that your photographers and videographers must work in the welcome zone. It will also be very interesting for you to see how the guests gathered and communicated before the ceremony, because you will not be with them at that moment.

2. Wish zone

Think over the wishes zone in detail: guests will be pleased to do this while waiting for the ceremony. You can buy a classic wish book - now the choice is simply huge, and you can also make an album specially in the style of your wedding and, for example, paste Polaroid pictures taken on your wedding day into it. You can make special cards in the style of your printing and prepare a mailbox for them! Invite guests to leave a return address with a promise to send them a postcard from their honeymoon! Also, cards in the form of flowers or fruits can be hung from a tree by strings or put into suitcase pockets, which will also fill the welcome zone with decor.

3. Workshops and games

Depending on the style of your wedding, you can think of small workshops for guests - culinary, floral, or even arrange a blind wine tasting. On your part, it will be right to think over fun entertainment for guests from the first minutes of the event in order to immediately set the festive mood! Talk to the host ahead of time about what games might work for your wedding. For example, you can divide all the guests into 2-3 teams and prepare a flash mob with them, which they will implement immediately after the ceremony or at a banquet. Also for an outdoor wedding, games that are usually played on the lawn or in parks are well suited: mini-golf, petanque, huge Jenga or even badminton. The main thing is that the activities are as simple as possible and everyone can take part in them, then each guest will have a feeling of personal care.

In the end, I would like to turn to the brides and their grooms. Do not be afraid! Experiment! Ask for advice from professionals, they will definitely help you. An exit ceremony is real magic, which is done by the hands of mortals. You, too, everything-everything is sure to succeed. Good luck and easy preparation!

By transferring all your worries to my reliable hands, you can completely immerse yourself in the experience of this magical moment, being sure that the exit registration will be just perfect.

Holding a European-style wedding will appeal to people with an impeccable sense of style, as the celebration combines elegance, grace and charm. There are no too pompous traditions and vulgarity on it, all elements are combined with each other and make up one of the most romantic themes.

Many people know this style from foreign films, in which the bride walks to the altar arm in arm with her father, and then the lovers swear to each other about eternal love, respect and fidelity. The same atmosphere can be created without leaving the country, you just need to responsibly approach the organization process - choose the right place, decorate it, think over outfits, menus and other details.

Peculiarities

The first feature of a European-style wedding is the lack of improvisation. Every minute of the holiday is adjusted to the smallest detail, and this despite the fact that it takes not 2, but only 1 day. The wedding should take place without fuss, so it is thought out in advance what time the guests should gather at the registry office, when they should arrive at the place of the banquet, how long it takes to congratulate each guest, etc.

As part of the European theme of the celebration, future newlyweds will have to give up the ransom of the bride, "fireworks" of rice and coins, fun contests at the banquet and much more. Such a holiday involves an exceptionally intelligent pastime.

The tradition of holding stag and hen parties in their modern sense also originates in Europe. These events are valued almost on a par with the wedding itself - they are also prepared for them, a photographer is invited to them, and the photographs taken are subsequently placed in the wedding album.

In most cases, the bride, along with her girlfriends and relatives, goes to the SPA-salon, where she orders massages, masks and other procedures for all participants of the bachelorette party. During pleasant procedures, the girls communicate, remember the pleasant moments of their friendship, think together about what it means to be a wife. Sometimes, after the salon, everyone goes home to the bride, where they stay for the night and watch their favorite films while having intimate conversations. Or is the whole event

The groom on the same day, usually young people choose a golf or baseball field for a meeting place, after which they can look into a local bar and talk about seeing off the bachelor life. Outside of Europe, men can go bowling or billiards, where the atmosphere will be heated by the excitement of the game.

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Since a European wedding is very different from a Russian one, newlyweds need to consider whether this option would be appropriate for their relatives and friends. In some families, only established traditions are recognized.

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It is necessary to choose in advance the color scheme in which the celebration will take place and, when organizing, follow the chosen palette.

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There are other features that should be considered when organizing a European-style wedding:

• instead of a witness and a witness - friends of the groom and bridesmaid;
• it is advisable to select outfits that are the same in model or shade for them;
• Boys' costumes should be in harmony with girls' dresses in at least one detail.

The banquet lasts only a few hours, guests do not stay late. After the celebration is over, the newlyweds usually immediately go on their honeymoon trip. It is advisable to hire waiters for the celebration. They will be able to immediately refill drinks or replace empty plates with full ones so that guests do not experience inconvenience.

European-style wedding - no hand-made. All the necessary elements for decor are purchased in stores. Not a toastmaster, but a leader. Since the European wedding does not accept vulgarity, the wedding should be led by a professional who can organize a sophisticated celebration with romantic contests and entertainment.

Venue and decor

To begin with, the bride and groom should decide where they want to celebrate - in a banquet hall or in open nature. In good weather, it is better to give preference to an outdoor ceremony, and in the cold season, choose a suitable restaurant or hotel banquet hall. The latter option is convenient if there are many guests from other cities.

If the solemn part of the wedding will take place indoors, then it is enough to choose an institution with a suitable interior, then you will need a minimum of decorations. If the banquet hall does not look the way the newlyweds would like, then it can be decorated with drapery from thin, light fabrics of the desired shade, monochrome garlands and miniature bouquets.

Tables should be small, for 4-6 people, so that guests can move freely and do not interfere with each other. It is best to use plain tablecloths - white or any pastel shade that matches the overall design style. It is desirable to place a small bouquet on each table, and the serving must be done in accordance with all the rules. If the chairs do not look too presentable, you can put covers on them to match the tablecloths.

Important! At a European-style wedding, you should not focus on the table of the newlyweds with the help of an arch or balloons. It is enough that he will stand at the head of the room.

When choosing an outdoor ceremony, you need to consider the placement of each zone - for an official ceremony, for a banquet and for a photo session. The painting is usually carried out under the wedding arch.

The European theme allows decorating the frame with pastel colors or light fabrics. A path should lead to the arch, and chairs or benches for guests should be installed on both sides of it.

Banquet tables should be placed under a tent so that the vagaries of the weather cannot affect the celebration. The requirements for decorating and serving them are the same as for indoor celebrations. Decorative lanterns or planters with compact bouquets can be hung from the ceiling of the tent.

The photo zone must be organized depending on the characteristics of the area where the celebration will take place. In some cases, you can find picturesque places near the banquet tent, then you do not have to carry out additional preparation. You can also organize a small thematic corner for photos, for example, an elegant park table on which a tea set will stand.

invitations

The tradition of sending wedding invitations to guests also comes from Europe, so this attribute is required for a wedding in this style. Newlyweds need to think over the layout of the postcard in advance, and then send it to the printing house indicating the names and surnames of all the guests. The design of invitations should be discreet but elegant. White postcards with a photo of the future newlyweds on the front side, text and a pattern on the other side are suitable. Invitations are sent out 2-3 months before the wedding.

In addition to invitation cards, you can immediately order seating cards made in the same style from the printing house. They are needed so that guests immediately know where they are sitting and do not lose their place during the whole holiday. You can go even further and order cards with warm words of gratitude to guests for making bonbonnieres. These are boxes or bags in which the bride and groom put a symbolic gift for each guest.

Outfits of the newlyweds and guests

For a European-style wedding, the bride can choose any style of dress to her liking, and the shade must be selected in accordance with the overall design palette. Most often, girls choose a classic snow-white shade that will look harmonious with any shades in the decor. The style of the outfit can be chosen by studying the latest work of wedding designers in Europe. A long train and veil is welcome.

Hairstyle and accessories are matched directly to the dress. It is necessary to avoid only too pompous or, on the contrary, simple styling - the sophistication of the girl should be traced in everything. If desired, you can replace the veil with a hat with a veil or a large hairpin.

Shoes need to be selected stable, with a heel of medium length. Make-up should be natural, discreet. It is better to order it from a stylist to get exactly the desired result. The foundation should not be noticeable, shadows are applied to the eyelids that are in harmony with the shade of the dress, and a light accent can be made on the lips with matte lipstick. Manicure should also be without frills - plain varnish, natural nail shape.

The bouquet must be made up of the so-called noble flowers - or the Hue should contrast with the dress, but not be so bright as to draw all the attention to yourself. You can also choose the shape at your discretion - a classic hemisphere, a bouquet on long stems, and a cascade will do.

The groom will not need to choose his suit just as scrupulously - any classic version that fits the figure and matches the appearance in color will do. Standard "twos" and "threes" can be replaced with a tailcoat or tuxedo to make the couple look even more elegant. Shoes should be only classic, oxfords or derbies are suitable. should repeat the bride's bouquet both in shades and in components.

Guests can come to the wedding in any formal costumes. For women, evening or cocktail dresses are suitable, which differ in shade from the bride's wedding dress. Men, like the groom, can wear any suitable classic suit. Some adjustments may be required due to the chosen color scheme of the celebration, in which case guests must be notified in advance.

Scenario

The night before the wedding, the bride and groom must spend in the homes of their parents. In the morning, at the appointed hour, the groom, together with the guests, for his part, sets off in a single cortege to the house of his beloved, where he once again solemnly asks her father for her hand and gives the girl a wedding bouquet. After that, the couple goes to the place of the official mural.

When the wedding took place, all the guests go to the place of celebration. The host introduces those present to each other in general terms, after which congratulations begin.

The European-style wedding scenario implies that first the parents of the bride and groom take the floor, then all close and distant relatives, and then friends. When all congratulations are voiced, the newlyweds take a return speech, thank everyone for the kind words and willingness to share this happy day with them.

After that, the solemn part can be considered closed, the rest of the evening, all those present will only need to enjoy. The host will hold contests to keep the guests from getting bored, symbolic prizes will be awarded for the victory. The evening ends with a dance of the young and wedding fireworks.

European-style wedding decoration will not tolerate inconsistencies, so you need to think through everything to the smallest detail. If you wish, you can hire professionals from a special agency to organize a celebration in the best possible way. If the newlyweds want to plan their own celebration, they need to additionally pay attention to the following details.

• Love story. In Europe, it is customary to show on the big screen a video of joint photos and videos of the newlyweds, starting from the moment they met and ending with the wedding.
• Menu. There should not be an abundance of dishes at a banquet. There will be enough hot, a couple of salads and light snacks - this is European style.
• Dessert, on the contrary, should be lush, multi-tiered, richly decorated. At the top you can place figurines of the bride and groom.
• Tuple. It is advisable to select imported cars, you don’t need to decorate them abundantly, a slight hint of a wedding will be enough, for example, a compact bouquet.
• Music. It is best to invite a musical group to perform the selected compositions live, as is often the case at celebrations in Europe.

Summary

A European-style wedding, photos taken by a specialist, will delight every couple who has chosen this theme. Having organized a celebration, the newlyweds will receive a lot of the warmest and most romantic emotions that will delight them and all those present at the celebration for many years to come. The theme requires close attention to every detail, so planning such a celebration on your own is not always easy. To achieve the desired result, the newlyweds need to share any ideas with each other and choose the most optimal solutions.