My native quotes. Statuses about family, relatives, close people: quotes about relatives, aphorisms and sayings

Statuses about relatives - We think least about loved ones when they are there, and we suffer the most when they are not there.

Don't try to change your loved ones! A person will not change according to your will - he will only begin to dodge, pretend and lie. It's simpler and easier. But change - no, never.

God always surrounds us with those people with whom we need to heal from our shortcomings.

Happiness is when there are no sick people in the house. There are no relatives in prison. There are no rotten friends among them.

Appreciate those with whom you can be yourself. Without masks, omissions and ambitions. And take care of them, they were sent to you by fate. After all, there are only a few of them in your life...

With your hands, feet, claws, teeth, cling to the people who make you better.

They say that those who we deserve are next to us... Where did I screw up so much?

Never reject an old friend or loved one because you won't find someone to take their place. True friendship is like good wine: the older it gets, the stronger it gets.

Life is arranged unfairly: close people are far away... distant people are close... And close people are very close by!!!

Sometimes the degree of intimacy between people is determined by the degree of pain they can cause each other...

Don't put off your loved ones until later. Then they won't exist.

People close to me are in my thoughts. Loved ones are in the heart. Dear ones - in prayers. And someone was lucky three times...

Don't trust mirrors... they are lies. Only love in the eyes of others is a true reflection.

Happiness is when your family and people very close to you are healthy! We'll repair the rest, throw it away, buy it, forget it...

Today, in the morning, complete harmony reigns in our family: the baby took “Vrednolin”, mother took “Stervozol”, and dad took “Papazol”. Everyone is happy!

My family believes that they have only one responsibility towards me - to teach me how to live.

You must see the difference between those who talk to you in their free time and those who free up time to talk to you.

Our real loved ones are not our brothers, sisters or relatives in general, but people who have the same aspirations, desires and way of thinking as us. (M. Prentice)

The best things in life are free: hugs, smiles, friends, kisses, family, sleep, love, laughter and good mood!

If you take poor care of your neighbors, then you will have to endure those who are far away.

Relatives and loved ones hit harder than others, because they are so close that a miss is impossible...

Don't ask me how I'm doing. If you are a person close to me, then you already know this. And if you are nobody to me, then I will never tell you the truth.

I noticed that my relatives began to rarely call me. They are clearly hiding something, most likely money.

Don't reject people who want to be with you, perhaps they will be the only ones who will stay with you in the most difficult moments of life.

There are two types of relatives: “Hurray, you’ve arrived!” and “Hurray, they won’t come!”

Everything changes. Strangers become family. Relatives are strangers. Friends turn into passers-by. Favorite ones are among acquaintances.

If your relatives don’t call you for a long time, then everything is fine with them.

Statuses about relatives and loved ones - It is easy to love those who are distant, but it is not so easy to love those close to you.

Close people most often have the difficult role of keeping our dirty secrets.

Most of all I hate people whose actions contradict their words! Especially if they are also close or relatives. It’s shameful and painful to have such a relationship.

How do you understand that a person has become close to you? If you are no longer looking closely at each other, then the barrier has been broken.

You understand most clearly how cruel life is in those moments when it separates you from people who are good and close to your heart.

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If, in the process of communicating with a person, you suddenly realize that you are no longer trying to look at him more closely, then you are like-minded people.

Some words cannot be forgotten, and some actions cannot be forgiven. This is why often the people closest to us can become nothing to us.

Out of a sense of self-preservation, at the moment when it seems to you that a feeling of love is spreading throughout your body, remember the most unpleasant moments of previous romances. This will prevent people from hurting you.

If you do not hesitate to speak evil of people close to you, be prepared for the fact that they may turn out to be much more talented inventors.

Close people will never say “as you wish.” People close to you will never let you go.

I am grateful to a truly close person simply for the fact that he exists.

A poor person is hated even by those closest to him, but a rich person has many friends.

Loved ones are valued less when they are close.

I must confess that my relatives cause me the most intense disgust. This happens, apparently, because it is impossible to bear when others have the same shortcomings as you.

Everything will be fine as long as loved ones are nearby.

Today, in the morning, complete harmony reigns in our family: the baby took “Vrednolin,” mom took “Stervozol,” and dad took “Papazol.” Everyone is happy!

A loved one is not necessarily a member of your family... It can be anyone who cares about our experiences and troubles, who will always listen and give practical advice, who will understand and say that everything will be fine.

A friend is a person who believes in you even when you have already lost faith in yourself.

Intimacy is like wine: the longer it ages, the higher the value.

It’s a shame that close people often listen to people from the outside and draw incomprehensible conclusions...

God gave us relatives. Thank God, we choose our friends ourselves!

It’s better to give yourself away piece by piece to friends and family than to be stuck in a dead end, but whole.

Kinship and friendship have great power.

If loved ones do not know how to appreciate us, then there is no point in appreciating them!

How can you love your neighbor if he resists?

Friends restore our self-confidence when we have almost lost it.

People spread rumors when they don’t know how else to explain why someone is succeeding and they are not.

There is no greater duty than to help your neighbor.

Don't reject people who want to be with you, perhaps they will be the only ones who will stay with you in the most difficult moments of life.

So where does so much evil, self-interest and stinginess come from in people? My beloved daddy has already been cheated on his salary so many times. But those people don’t even think that his family is starving somewhere.

Friends are the family we choose ourselves.

We communicate with each person completely differently, if they are people close to us.

A poor person is hated even by those closest to him, but a rich person has many friends. – King Solomon

Respect your neighbors! Don't die on Friday!

The attraction of minds gives respect. Attraction of souls, gives friendship. The attraction of bodies gives passion. The sum of three attractions gives love.

Wherever you are, whoever you become, do not disgrace those who raised you!!!

Family is one of nature's masterpieces.

I turned on the music, danced with my headphones on, and only then I saw that the door was open. The whole family is standing and freaking out over me!

Don't read manuscripts to your wife. Read only to very close people. – Boris Zamyatin

In order to not live your life in vain, make sure that you have already told all your dearest and most beloved people how dear they are to you, not only in words, but also in deeds.

It's good to visit family and friends, but not to live near them. – Thomas Fuller

If people are created for each other by fate, then no matter how they leave, fate will still bring them together...

My family is strange: dad talks to his car, mom with flowers, sister with cats, I’m the only normal one - with a computer and phone.

Don’t shout about love, let only your closest people know about your happiness)

It’s far from your loved ones, close to your distant ones, so you go to the distant ones. – Emil Krotky

Only a very close person knows how clenched the teeth are behind the lips stretched into a smile.

You never love your loved ones more than when you risk losing them.

People become close not when they start sleeping together, but when they stop trying to impress each other...

Your husband left you, problems at work, conflicts with children. Well, to hell with it, but they gave me hot water.

Yesterday's loved one becomes a passerby...

It’s far from your loved ones, close to your distant ones, so you go to the distant ones.

We think least about our loved ones when they are there, and we suffer the most when they are not there.

– It’s unfair: close people are far away, distant people are close! - And the narrow-minded are everywhere!

How offensive it is to realize that all close people are not so close.

The Lord brings certain people into your life for certain reasons, and removes them from your life for even better reasons.

A truly close person is one who understands your past, believes in your future, and now accepts you for who you are...

Your immediate environment is yourself.

No one is so close to his own grave as the one who digs it for his neighbor.

Close people always seem narrow-minded. – Leonid Leonidov

All people are like people... When drunk, they call their exes... And I, a dibiloid, called my mother.

For me, you are the closest person in the world, I love you and know that you are mine forever!

Appreciate, love and respect the people you care about...

We are tied to life by those to whom we serve as support.

Learn to appreciate someone who cannot live without you. And don’t chase after someone who is happy without you...

Your child has matured if, when asked: “What to give?”, he answers: “Give me money.”

I was the happiest when I walked down the street in your big jacket, holding your hand. I love you, brother!

The closest person to a woman is her child. Because only he saw her heart from the inside...

The most painful blow is dealt by those close to you, just like those who are close to you will never miss...

There are many people with whom you want to be close, but few with whom you want to be close.

How nice it is when people themselves realize that they are no longer worthy of being my friends and move away.

I love my grandmother, for her I am always thin.

Real tears only happen when the people closest to us leave...

People usually torture their neighbors under the pretext that they wish them well.

It's good to visit family and friends, but not to live near them.

Sometimes those whom we have been looking for for so long turn out to be much closer than we thought.

Never go back to the past - it kills your precious time. Stories don't repeat, people don't change. Never wait for anyone, don’t stand still. Just go forward, don't look back. The people who need you will definitely catch up with you.

It is worth returning only those people who left due to our fault.

Parents are sacred, they are the closest people, and they raised you too... you have to give everything for them...

Sometimes the people closest to us hurt us...

It's much easier to travel through life if you have someone you love nearby.

When people close to you get sick, you begin to understand how much is secondary in life...

Someone close to you can hurt you more than someone else. He knows where to hit.

Love finds joy in any stupidity if a loved one shares it with you!

A wedding is not a reason to worry, it is a great reason to gather all those people who are dear to you!

- Mom, mom, the sobering station is on fire! - How do you know? “Dad goes and sings: “The enemies burned down their home.”

Close people always seem narrow-minded.

The only thing you should worry about is your family, and let him worry about the rest!

Close people are never ex...

If a loved one needs to be explained, then there is no need to explain. – Grigory Landau

I want a snowy winter... the smell of spruce... bright lights... nearby, so that the closest people will be...

Friends come and go, but an empty refrigerator remains.

The people closest to you give extraordinary happiness and cause wild pain... Everything is mutually compensated...

Habit is a terrible force. Grandma slobbers on her finger when she scrolls through photos on her iPhone.

People close to us are leaving. Do not realize that - forever, Do not exhaust all the pain of separation, And it hits backhand - never.

The worst thing is when your loved ones and relatives leave this earth...

Happiness is not in dreams or hopes, it is in the people close to us!

A happy marriage is a marriage in which the husband understands every word that the wife does not say.

Don't read manuscripts to your wife. Read only to very close people.

People in whose eyes there is nowhere to fall lower are called friends...

Family Day today in the world - how many of you are in the family, four? Let it quickly become ten: More noise, din, songs! Let the family grow and become stronger. Never upsets!

It is difficult to live apart from loved ones, not to be able to speak a language with which you can express the most subtle shades of feelings and sensations.

After getting acquainted with Photoshop, there is no mercy for anyone: neither family, nor friends, nor pets.

My family comes first, and right after them are my close friends. They are another one of my family.

Russian folk tales, as a rule, end happily: “They lived, lived and died together. Damn, how cool! xDD

Father, mother and relatives always have a reason to be dissatisfied with their daughter (son).

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The day will come when I will appear outside to breathe clean air and enjoy the sun's rays. Then I will dial the phone number of my family and closest ones and ask for forgiveness. Don't think ill of me, my dears!

Don't you see the meaning of life? Think about your family and imagine what will happen to them if you suddenly find yourself in the next world? You need to live for your family.

You are neither among the “family” nor among the “friends”. I just gave up on you.

If a mistress has a young man, this is not at all a reason for a scandal in the family.

Stop being sad, because in life you can find many reasons to be happy. Smile at those you meet, give happiness to your loved ones. Let you be pleased even by what previously caused only negative emotions.

Mom: “How do you protect yourself?” Daughter: “Moral principles, mom!”

The fastest way for a mother to get her children's attention is to sit down and act like you're having a good time.)

It was a great holiday! I especially remember the Russian folk skating on police bobbies...

There are only two normal guys in the world, but one is my dad and the other is my brother.

– Why do you need to get a dog? What's the use of it? - Don't know. I still don’t understand why I started you, and what’s the use of you...

Selling my husband, in good condition - 24 rubles. (two eggs for 7 rubles and a pipette for 10).

Carefully! Mom at the computer...

Goodbye, mom and dad's credit card... Hello, new blouse, mini skirt, dress and lectures about finances and their problems...

Boys girls snort cocaine, does your mother know what you are doing? LSD, ecstasy, methodone, heroin, different speeds, everything is for everyone. You hear the forbidden fruit, brother, don’t pick it up, think about your family, think about your health. There is no need, brother, you hear, don’t ruin your life, don’t leave salt on your relatives’ cheeks.

I like lovers, they are so air-oxygen or something

Nothing sobers you up like a call from your parents!

A well-timed barrel of wine turns popular unrest into celebrations.

Today you, tomorrow mom, then me...” Dad, are you sure that’s how family panties are worn?”

In our family, only the mobile phone is charged in the morning.

Only a stupid woman can follow her husband. Smart people take care of themselves...

Teachers are gardeners. They plant seeds in the fertile soil of knowledge, water them, and turn them towards the sun. And then from such small defenseless seeds wonderful, noble flowers grow. And these flowers are us...

A second marriage is a victory of hope over common sense.

Congratulations to all women on the upcoming March 8 - International Day of Friends of Defenders of the Fatherland.

My grandfather said that there are only two opinions: the first is his, the second is not correct...)

I'm happy that I have you, mommy.

It is sometimes easier to answer: “No, I don’t know,” than to explain to parents how to use this or that program, etc.

Love for a mother is the highest feeling!

A few months after we met. – Darling, isn’t it time for you to introduce me to your family? – I don’t even know what to do. The children are now with the mother-in-law, the wife is on vacation...

I’ve never fought off guys, I’ve never gotten completely drunk, I haven’t cheated on an asshole guy to get revenge... But I respect adults, I understand my family and best friend, and I love Life with all my heart.

- You and I are sisters in misfortune. - yes, and judging by the extent of the badness - relatives.

I love my dad very much! He has not been with me for more than a year... I will always remember him. Take care of your loved ones! Love them! It hurts to lose loved ones. Hope you're in heaven!

I stole her personal diary from my sister – let’s say “YES” to slavery! 🙂

folk signs for the New Year If you don’t know who broke the wine glass, it means they’re celebrating at your place

As soon as you start living separately from your parents, the auto-fill function of the refrigerator is automatically turned off.

Friends are your family and friends in difficult times)))

How timely these porn sites are displayed. Right at the moment when the ancestors enter the room...

Mother-in-law: – When does my train leave? Son-in-law: - At 20 hours 45 minutes 36 seconds.

I saw him with an arch... I went to the hairdresser, bought new clothes, changed my makeup, came to visit him... And this is his sister...)

In general, I don’t care about your plans! In my plans, I will marry you in a couple of years!)

First, our parents teach us to walk and talk, and then they want us to sit and be silent!

How I want love! To make you dizzy, to make your heart beat faster, to look into his eyes for a long, long time, so beautiful and dear, so that they are two halves of one whole. Naive, right?! Is it really possible in this world to truly love, be sweet, gentle. Immediately naive?!

We stood on the edge of the abyss for so long that we began to call this region our home.

without pathos and unnecessary phrases in pajamas and woolen socks, without makeup with a cup of steaming tea, so familiar and cozy, sometimes cheerful and sometimes in tears and with a cigarette, support and support in any situation, a storehouse of advice and a grave of secrets, we just have each other and this is the main thing

Let our children have rich parents!

Happiness is when there are no sick people in the house. There are no relatives in prison. There are no rotten friends among them.

My heart is so empty now. My brother left for the army. So lonely. And you sit and wait, out of habit, for him to come home from university.

Love for mother is the most important thing in our life!

The house is devastated, children are hungry, mom spends hours on the Internet.

As dad said, so it will be like mom’s!

When my brother is home, you can see that he is home. There is trash and unwashed dishes everywhere. And when I’m at home, you can hear that I’m home! 🙂

Eh, the ancestors left... In vain... They don’t feel sorry for their neighbors at all!)

Close people always seem narrow-minded...

International news: A tanker with silicone sank off the coast of Cuba. Now a huge tit is swimming to the shores of America.

Well, this is too much! Status: “I got married today.” Why did you immediately run from the registry office to write your status?! And instead of her wedding night, she chatted with her husband?!

It’s so nice when you come up to your dad and ask: “Dad, am I good with you?” And he replies: “You are my best!”

The honeymoon is especially wonderful when the honey is not fake!)

The bonds of friendship are immeasurably stronger than the bonds of kinship, for we choose our friends ourselves, but fate sends us relatives... Boccaccio Giovanni

If you want to marry a smart, beautiful and rich woman, marry three times.

New Year... The eternal smell of tangerines, multi-colored fireworks outside the window, and the champagne is intoxicating, and the main thing is that all the closest and dearest people, those dear to you, gather on this very day.

The mother had three sons. Two are smart, and the third... An athlete.)

Do you want trouble? Take your sister's phone while you're talking. Typhoon of emotions!

So you look into a person’s eyes, and he seems so dear to you, so loved... but you look at his actions and realize that all this is far from true...

Graduation is getting closer and closer: farewell to school, farewell to childhood, to the people I loved so much, for me – farewell to my hometown... But most importantly: farewell to the one I have loved since I was 10 years old. He won't even remember me. I'm sure about it. But I will always keep it in the recesses of my soul... Always...

I always thought that everything I wanted was impossible to achieve. but now I’m with him, so dear and the best, and every five minutes I receive SMS from him. and it doesn’t matter how long and hard you went towards this. The main thing is not to sit still. everything will work out

We have been together for 2 months... We will separate for 12 months... During these 2 months I fell in love with you, I got used to you, you became the closest and dearest to me... It will be difficult, but we will cope with you... I will wait! Definitely... The army is not the end of the world. That's how it should be. Just checking. We will survive!

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Appreciate every moment when you are near!!! Give your loved ones and friends love and joy!!!

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How nice it is to sit with the people closest to you!

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Sometimes I go to the pages of people close to me and see the inscription “add as friend”

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Close friends are such special villainous “bastards” whom heaven sends to us to teach us humility. :)))

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The most understanding people live so far away...

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It's good to have close people nearby! Thank you!

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Life is too short and unpredictable. And it is precisely this quality of hers that awakens in me the desire to please loved ones before it is too late

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If you take poor care of your neighbors, then you will have to endure those who are far away.

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Those who have become very close to us will still disappear. In the meantime, they are with us, we must do everything possible to remember them for a lifetime...

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To start a new life, you need to cut off all relationships with loved ones! Otherwise they will not give life!

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Foreign cities take away those closest to us

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You will find Happiness when you can understand the Truth and become a life-giving source of inspiration and happiness for your loved ones, family and friends!!!

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Fatigue is not a reason to take it out on your loved ones.

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...if your hand is in the hand of a loved one, this is not at all an indication that there will never be a knife in it...

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When loved ones say “I can’t do this anymore,” everything falls out of my hands. and the worst thing is that it’s as if something is breaking inside, and you don’t know how to help

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The main thing is the health of your loved ones... We'll buy the rest.

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What we fear most is what usually happens to us. Therefore, do not be afraid to lose people dear to you.

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About 20 thousand of my close friends said that I was exaggerating too much!

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It happens that close people do not notice what a simple passer-by understands at first glance.

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Give flowers to your loved ones more often. After all, as a rule, we bring them after the person has died.

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There are people close to us, and there are people close to us)))

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Close people, the love that we are able to feel, the very fact that we are alive... There are few truly important things in the world!

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Only the closest person knows what is going on in your heart!

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Often, loved ones are much dearer than relatives)))

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The narrower the circle of those who understand, the wider the boundaries of understanding.

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Never reject an old friend or loved one because you won't find someone to take their place. True friendship is like good wine: the older it gets, the stronger it gets.

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Sometimes my loved ones behave in such a way that I begin to think that the employer is my closest person, and work is a cure for depression

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My reflections are not in mirrors. They are in the souls of my loved ones...

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The most difficult thing in life is to lose a loved one, and even more difficult to learn to live again without him.

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Life does not make sense without a loved one, for us our close parents and those we love, and this is something without which it is impossible to live! Take care of your loved ones!

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It’s in vain that when we judge our loved ones, the court is merciless and dashing. We must live by forgiving people for our opinions about them.

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To avoid blaming yourself in life, don’t make mistakes, don’t run away from love, don’t abandon your loved ones...

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Sometimes we don’t have time to tell people how much they are dear to us...

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Sometimes the degree of intimacy between people is determined by the degree of pain they can cause each other...

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The most valuable thing is not what we have in life, but those who we have in life!!!

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Don't ask me how I'm doing. If you are a person close to me, then you already know this. And if you are nobody to me, then I will never tell you the truth.

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“We don’t know how long we can be around the people we care about most... ENJOY!”

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Don't try to change your loved ones! A person will not change according to your will - he will only begin to dodge, pretend and lie. It's simpler and easier. But change - no, never.

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When a loved one lies to you... Your soul, of course, will not die from this. But the question goes on from century to century... “What if he’s lying?... Is he a close person???

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It is very painful to lose loved ones who have become a part of every day. There aren't enough of them in life.

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Don't trust mirrors... they are lies. Only love in the eyes of others is a true reflection.

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Love is a strong desire for happiness for a loved one...

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God bless our family and friends. Protect them from troubles and adversity. Always be close to those who we love, who are part of our lives.

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Time places obelisks instead of dots. Thrown curses cannot be brought back!
Close your eyes today to the shortcomings of your loved ones - Suddenly eternity will close their eyes tomorrow...
© zulnora

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I am grateful to a truly close person simply for the fact that he exists.

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Close is not the one who sends text messages with kind words, but the one who was there in difficult times. And it doesn’t matter whether he was silent or spoke, the main thing is that with this person you felt calmer and easier.

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You don't have to have wings to fly. You need to have people in your life who won’t let you fall.

Statuses about loved ones and friends

Statuses about relatives - We think least about loved ones when they are there, and we suffer the most when they are not there.

Don't try to change your loved ones! A person will not change according to your will - he will only begin to dodge, pretend and lie. It's simpler and easier. But change - no, never.

God always surrounds us with those people with whom we need to heal from our shortcomings.

Happiness is when there are no sick people in the house. There are no relatives in prison. There are no rotten friends among them.

Appreciate those with whom you can be yourself. Without masks, omissions and ambitions. And take care of them, they were sent to you by fate. After all, there are only a few of them in your life...

With your hands, feet, claws, teeth, cling to the people who make you better.

They say that next to us are those whom we deserve. Where did I screw up so much?

Never reject an old friend or loved one because you won't find someone to take their place. True friendship is like good wine: the older it gets, the stronger it gets.

Life is arranged unfairly: close people are far away... distant people are close... And close people are very close.

Sometimes the degree of intimacy between people is determined by the degree of pain they can cause each other...

Don't put off your loved ones until later. Then they won't exist.

People close to me are in my thoughts. Loved ones are in the heart. Dear ones - in prayers. And some were lucky three times.

Don't trust mirrors... they are lies. Only love in the eyes of others is a true reflection.

Happiness is when your family and people very close to you are healthy! We'll repair the rest, throw it away, buy it, and forget it.

Today, in the morning, complete harmony reigns in our family: the baby took “Vrednolin”, mother took “Stervozol”, and dad took “Papazol”. Everyone is happy!

My family believes that they have only one responsibility towards me - to teach me how to live.

You must see the difference between those who talk to you in their free time and those who free up time to talk to you.

Our real loved ones are not our brothers, sisters or relatives in general, but people who have the same aspirations, desires and way of thinking as us. (M. Prentice)

The best things in life are free: hugs, smiles, friends, kisses, family, sleep, love, laughter and good mood!

If you take poor care of your neighbors, then you will have to endure those who are far away.

Relatives and loved ones hit harder than others, because they are so close that a miss is impossible.

Don't ask me how I'm doing. If you are a person close to me, then you already know this. And if you are nobody to me, then I will never tell you the truth.

I noticed that my relatives began to rarely call me. They are clearly hiding something, most likely money.

Don't reject people who want to be with you, perhaps they will be the only ones who will stay with you in the most difficult moments of life.

There are two types of relatives: “Hurray, you’ve arrived!” and “Hurray, they won’t come!”

Everything changes. Strangers become family. Relatives are strangers. Friends turn into passers-by. Favorite ones are among acquaintances.

If your relatives don’t call you for a long time, then everything is fine with them.

Statuses about relatives and loved ones - It is easy to love those who are distant, but it is not so easy to love those close to you.

A loved one is not necessarily a member of your family... It can be anyone who cares about our experiences and troubles, who will always listen and give practical advice, who will understand and say that everything will be fine.

It hurts when you lose loved ones, friends, and it hurts doubly when you lose because of some stupidity.

Relatives are a given, friends are a gift.

Live in such a way that your relatives are more upset by your death than pleased by your inheritance.

Enmity with relatives is much more painful than with strangers.

Sometimes family ties are only needed in order to appreciate friendships.

Quotes about relatives - Move away from an insidious person, even if you are related or close to him.

Mutual benevolence is the closest kinship.

How important it is to do everything on time, including important, sincere, bright words that must be spoken on time. As long as you can do this, as long as the one to whom these words are addressed is next to you, while these words are important and relevant. But, as often happens, unfortunately, we remember in hindsight the important things that we did not have time to say at the time. Moreover, in most cases we think about these omissions in some negative situations.

In a quarrel and after. It often happens that a man and a woman. being in a state of quarrel, they understand how good they were with the person with whom they now quarreled. Or how wonderful it could be if they paid more attention to each other, told each other more often how much they love, admired each other, said compliments and words of gratitude.

In the distance. There are situations when your family, loved ones, friends are near you, but you do not always pay enough attention to them, not as often as you would like and not as often as you should, you tell them how dear they are to you, how much you love and appreciate them. You don’t always find time to talk about what worries your loved ones, what’s important to them, you don’t always find time to talk heart to heart with them. And then you, or one of them, leaves to live in another city. And this is where the lack of communication with loved ones arises, here you realize that when you were close, you could easily have time to do more, tell and ask more, and just tell people dear to you more often that they are dear to you and loved.

What if tomorrow doesn't come? Unfortunately, there are times when we ourselves or someone we love get very sick, even end up in the hospital, and then different thoughts arise... What if this was my last day? How often have I told my family and loved ones how much I love them, how much I value and respect them, how dear they are to me? How often have I expressed my gratitude to them for having them, for all the wonderful things they do for me? What feelings and memories would people have after me?

Lack of approval and praise. Many, already at a fairly mature age, understand that they could achieve more, or would go through life and achieve success with greater ease, if they were praised in time, pointed out to their strengths, encouraged, and told that they believed in them. It is also important that a person is told that he is beautiful, smart, brave, strong, and so on. They would not over-praise, but they would make it clear that he has certain wonderful qualities, and in general he is wonderful the way he is.

And how in difficult moments we need support, words of understanding and faith in us.

So why wait for an extreme, extreme, or even irreparable situation, and then lament that we did not give enough love, kindness, warmth, gratitude and approval to the people important to us.

Why don't we become more open in expressing our sincere bright feelings? Why not pay more attention to our loved ones?

Talk about your feelings right now, when you are near, when
everyone is alive and well when the desire to speak arises, when something needs to be said.

You look at your loved one and smile inside, but he is not a telepath and does not hear your thoughts. Just when you have a thought, express it, just say: “Well, how I still love you!” It won't be redundant.

If you have a strong desire to say nice words to your loved ones now, but you will only see them in the evening, or a day later, write them a message, call them, leave a greeting on their Internet mail, why put it off until later? There is no need to wait for the next impulse, speak right now.

Your friend looks great - tell her about it - it will be important, pleasant, and will give her confidence and joy.

Your loved one or your child has done something well, succeeded in something, even if it is a small achievement - praise him! And if something didn’t work out, especially tell him that everything will definitely work out for him (her), and you believe in him.

If at one time you did not have enough recognition from your loved one, or you were not praised often enough by your parents, or you were not encouraged enough during your studies and work, or your friends were not particularly attentive to your achievements and you lacked all this (we are not talking about psychological trauma, but about situations when you could have spoken more, better and more often), maybe your loved ones and loved ones have similar feelings, maybe you are not giving them something. So do what you can, right now.

There cannot be too much love, care, warmth and gratitude. Don't be afraid to go overboard. Just start saying out loud your positive emotions, your bright, sincere thoughts, and it will soon become a habit - this is a very useful and, by the way, quite pleasant habit. After all, giving is much more pleasant than receiving. So start giving your tenderness, love and care to the people around you and all this will definitely come back to you.

Love, warmth and joy to you. Love your loved ones and give them the attention they deserve!

Sincerely, Olga Sheina.


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