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Pisareva Lyudmila Viktorovna. Consultation for parents “Family and family values”

Consultation for parents "Family values".

Family values are the main principles on which our lives are based...Each person adheres to his own personal scale of values.

Kindness is important to someone

Courage, courage and bravery...

For some, willpower is important

Politeness and honesty are rewards.

Careful attitude towards relics -

The source of morality,

Family values -

A spring of spirituality!

Ideological family values include memories, documents, letters... All this is evidence of the life and affairs of family members and relatives. Children are the main moral value of any family. Parental duty is to be responsible for ensuring that a worthy person grows up in their family, educated, healthy physically and spiritually! It is very important that children take an active part in family life on an equal basis as members of the family team.

According to K. Ushinsky, “a person can become truly educated in an environment in which the traditions and customs of generations are respected, where there is continuity between the past, present and future.” The family in the life of every person from an early age shapes consciousness, feelings, will, and influences the nature of the relationship between its members. Family values must be brought up from childhood through stories about the family’s past, its history, captured in photographic materials, carefully stored in family archives and passed on by inheritance. Introducing a child to family values should be done gradually, with interest, and not under coercion.

Working on this issue, you can consider the possibility of creating a project “MY FAMILY!”, where the main goal is to develop ideas about family values within the framework of spiritual and moral education. Here are some family poems that were created in the joint activities of children and parents:

1.I have a beloved family -

This is dad, mom, grandma, grandpa and me!

We are all very friendly

And they are important to each other!

2. We are a great family

Everyone knows this, yes!

We keep in our memory

THE WHOLE HISTORY OF THE FAMILY!

3. Family values -

These are our traditions

Memorable dates-

"HISTORY IN THE FACES!"

4. Customs of our family -

They are in good memory!

Traditions of our family

Let's keep it in our hearts!

The development of ideas about values can be carried out in three directions:

1.Working with children;

2.Work with parents;

3. Joint activities of adults and children.

The following methods of moral education were used in working with children:

artistic, social, gaming. Conversations were held, stories were created from personal observational experience, they used reading and analysis of works of art, which were embodied in collective games - activities, dramatization games, fairy tale games, role-playing games.

The most productive forms of working with parents were various consultations on the topic, conversations, presentations, and surveys. It is also possible to work through parent corners, which helps convey any specific information, intensify their activities, and improve psychological and pedagogical competence in matters of the formation and development of family values.

While working on the topic of the project, information newspapers were created by the parents themselves. Joint classes and master classes were held, where created family genealogical trees were demonstrated, works were presented: “My beloved home”, “What we dream about together...”, “Family is the basis of goodness”, “A day off in my family!” The albums “Traditions of our Family”, “Pets”, “My Dream House” were created, poems and songs were composed about family and family traditions.

The result of the project was an exhibition of joint handicrafts made by children and parents from natural materials, and an exhibition of children's drawings "My Family". Work on the project contributed to providing conditions for children to study family traditions, the emergence of a desire to be like loved ones in deeds and actions, the manifestation of an emotionally positive attitude towards their family, pride in it, respect for family values, the emergence of a desire to know about the family’s past, to preserve customs.

Family and kindergarten are two centers that each in their own way provide the child with social experience, and only in combination with each other do they contribute to the entry of a little person into the big world of adults

LOVE EACH OTHER! TAKE CARE OF FAMILY TRADITIONS!

Consultation for parents “Family and family values”

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

For an adult, the family is a source of satisfaction for a number of his needs and a small team that places various and quite complex demands on him. At the stages of a person’s life cycle, his functions and status in the family change successively.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money, inherited or stolen. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. Of course, it is difficult to talk about all the stages of family formation in one article. Therefore, let's talk about how you can introduce family values, such as family traditions.

About family traditions

The real desire for family happiness and family well-being is expressed in the creation of family traditions. Once upon a time, traditions were a mandatory feature of a “united” family and reflected the moral position of its members. Early involvement of children in discussing all issues of family life is a long-standing good tradition.

Family traditions are the spiritual atmosphere of the house, which is made up of the daily routine, customs, way of life and habits of its inhabitants. Thus, some families prefer to get up early, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems.

In each house, during its existence, its own ritual develops. The house gets used to its residents and begins to live at their rhythm. Its energy structure changes somewhat under the influence of traditions. After all, by and large, traditions are not only the family way of life, but also the relationships that develop between family members. It is these relationships that the house captures. If a family sets traditions for themselves as obligatory, then they can do a good job. Often following traditions helps us live. And no matter how strange they may seem, one thing is important: family traditions and rituals should not be cumbersome and far-fetched. Let them come into life naturally.

It is extremely difficult to form a family tradition if the children have grown up and have already formed a common attitude towards the family. Another thing is young families, where parents are free to show the child all the beauty of the world, envelop him with love and form a reliable position in life throughout his life.

A small child perceives the world through the eyes of adults - his parents. Dad and mom form a child's picture of the world from the very first meeting with their baby. First, they build a world of touches, sounds and visual images for him, then they teach him the first words, then they convey their attitude to all this.

How a child subsequently treats himself, others and life in general depends entirely on the parents. Life may seem to him like an endless holiday or an exciting journey, or he may see it as a frightening foray into wild places or as boring, thankless and hard work awaiting everyone right outside the school gates.

If most of the usual family rituals do not carry restrictions, but only joy and pleasure, this strengthens in children a sense of family integrity, a sense of the uniqueness of their own home and confidence in the future. That charge of inner warmth and optimism that each of us carries within us is acquired in childhood, and the greater it is, the better. Of course, a child’s character is not formed in one day, but we can say with confidence: the more childhood was like a holiday, and the more joy there is in it, the happier the little man will be in the future.

Start small - reading at night. Even if your child is still too small to understand what you are saying to him, just the sound of your voice will be incredibly useful for the baby. Every book should teach a child, educate him.

If necessary, you can compose evening stories yourself. Firstly, it will not take you much time (20-30 minutes a day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;

in your family what has been established will take place;

give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;

set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";

create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;

allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.

You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Don't forget just three main rules:

a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the baby;

Tradition is a tradition to always be observed;

you can use smells, sounds, visual images,

The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. What can family holidays and rituals be like? Instead of the usual “hello-bye”, a friendly family can agree to greet each other with a special “code” word, understandable only to “their own”! For example: “Great, hero!” or “Hello, princess!” It’s funny if, when saying hello, someone says the first half of the word, and his interlocutor says the second. You can also come up with special forms of farewell - like funny wishes or advice to each other for the whole day. There is great scope for creating family traditions in the kitchen and culinary talents of one of the family members. It's great if everyone gets together for a family lunch or dinner on the weekends. The main thing is that it is not a dull eating of delicacies, but is remembered by the clink of glasses, the appetizing smell of delicious dishes and the smiles of household members. It will be even more interesting if you give your child the opportunity to master his “signature dish,” which will take pride of place on the table. Or invite him to learn something new together every Sunday. Kitchen experiments are good for little ones because the result is always visible, tangible, and... smells very tasty! You can also organize celebrations of “national” cuisine - one or a variety of different ones! This way, the baby will be able to learn a lot of new things about the world around him and master the exotic intricacies of table manners - for example, how to hold chopsticks or... drink from a saucer. Here are some more ideas for lasting culinary traditions: a variety of preparations “for the winter,” a unique way of making tea or coffee, or a traditional picnic for the first weekend of summer. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child’s birthday is... truly celebrating this day as the best holiday! Many adults sadly recall that in their family “it was not customary to celebrate birthdays.” Let your baby never utter this sad phrase!

A birthday as a noisy, cheerful holiday with exactly those guests whom the hero of the occasion himself wants to invite is the best gift. Let the baby feel his importance to loved ones from childhood, learn to receive guests and... of course, get used to the tradition of celebrating birthdays! And for adults, this holiday is an occasion to fantasize about special rituals. In many families, it is customary to mark the child’s growth on a special ruler. You can trace the baby’s arms and legs every year or create a photo gallery. In a word, do something that will help him, then remember his childhood. Together with your child, you can start drawing up a family tree or start collecting some kind of collection; the scope for imagination is limitless! The main thing is to feel that it is truly “yours” and brings joy to all family members. An excellent option is an annual trip with the whole family to the sea or out of town for a picnic. During such trips, the family becomes even closer, resolving internal conflicts.

Sunday watching movies together not in the cinema, but at home. Remember how before, when there were no computers and tablets, the whole family gathered around the TV and watched a film, discussing the characters, sharing their impressions of what they saw. This is very unifying. Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which a family lives, which do not leave children any “freedom of maneuver,” overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

MUNICIPAL PRESCHOOL EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTION "KINDERGARTEN "ROSINKA" G. NADYMA" (MDOU "KINDERGARTEN "ROSINKA" )

Educator: Pisareva L.V.

What is family?

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

About family traditions

The real desire for family happiness and family well-being is expressed in the creation of family traditions. Once upon a time, tradition was a must-have feature. "united" family, reflected the moral position of its members. Early involvement of children in discussing all issues of family life is a long-standing good tradition.

If necessary, you can compose evening stories yourself. First of all, it won't take you much time (20-30 minutes per day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.
You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Don't forget just three main rules:
a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the baby;
Tradition is a tradition to always be observed;
you can use smells, sounds, visual images,

The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. What can family holidays and rituals be like? Instead of the usual “hello-bye”, a friendly family can agree to greet each other with a special “code” word, understandable only to “their own”! For example: “Great, hero!” or "Hello, princess!" It’s funny if, when saying hello, someone says the first half of the word, and his interlocutor says the second. You can also come up with special forms of farewell - like funny wishes or advice to each other for the whole day. There is great scope for creating family traditions in the kitchen and culinary talents of one of the family members. It's great if everyone gets together for a family lunch or dinner on the weekends. The main thing is that it is not a dull eating of delicacies, but is remembered by the clink of glasses, the appetizing smell of delicious dishes and the smiles of household members. It will be even more interesting if you give your child the opportunity to master his “signature dish,” which will take pride of place on the table. Or invite him to learn something new together every Sunday. Kitchen experiments are good for little ones because the result is always visible, tangible, and... smells very tasty! You can also organize celebrations of “national” cuisine - one or a variety of different ones! This way, the baby will be able to learn a lot of new things about the world around him and master the exotic intricacies of table manners - for example, how to hold chopsticks or... drink from a saucer. Here are some more ideas for lasting culinary traditions: a variety of preparations “for the winter,” a unique way of making tea or coffee, or a traditional picnic for the first weekend of summer. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child’s birthday is... truly celebrating this day as the best holiday! Many adults sadly recall that in their family “it was not customary to celebrate birthdays.” Let your baby never utter this sad phrase!

Sunday watching movies together not in the cinema, but at home. Remember how before, when there were no computers and tablets, the whole family gathered around the TV and watched a film, discussing the characters, sharing their impressions of what they saw. This is very unifying. Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which a family lives, leaving no opportunity for children to "freedom of maneuver" , overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

What is family?

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

About family traditions

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.
You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Don't forget just three main rules:
a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the baby;
Tradition is a tradition to always be observed;
you can use smells, sounds, visual images,

May your home be cozy and bright!

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For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. Family holidays and traditions play a huge role in raising a child who is mentally healthy and prepared for adult life. After all, he feels the support of loved ones and their love, helping to bring ideas and plans into reality. If a child grows up in a warm, cozy environment, then in the future he will want to recreate a similar atmosphere in his own family.

Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. This is the spiritual atmosphere of the house, which is made up of the daily routine and customs. Thus, some families prefer to get up early, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems. Start small - reading at night. Every book should teach a child, educate him. You can compose evening stories yourself. Firstly, it will not take you much time (20-30 minutes a day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions :

- allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;

- in your family what has been established will happen;

- give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;

— set the child up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday;

- create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;

- allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.

You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Only three rules are important:

— a recurring event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the child;

— tradition is a tradition to always be observed;

- you can use smells, sounds, visual images.

The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child's birthday is truly celebrating this day as the best holiday! Many adults remember with sadness that in their family it was not customary to celebrate birthdays. Let your baby never utter this sad phrase! And remember, family traditions are, which is regularly observed by members families. Honor the good ones traditions and pay more attention to each other, because you family and this is the most important thing in life.

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