You have pairs now. Tricky questions for a guy (man)

You just met and you don’t know how to break up a boring conversation? Every girl should have interesting and funny questions in her arsenal, to some extent with a trick, in order to test her ingenuity as best as possible, which will not let any guy get bored (maybe even vulgar ones). We present a whole list of questions for all occasions, with which you can 100% forget about uncomfortable silent pauses in communication with guys.

This block of questions will allow you not only to hook your interlocutor for further communication, but also to find out all his sides, which of course will give rise to certain conclusions. As a rule, these are questions of a general nature that are very flattering to a guy, because contrary to the stereotype about all women being talkative, men simply love to talk about themselves to their loved ones. First of all, ask the guy about his hobbies and preferences. These questions will be relevant to everyone without exception, both men and women. Think about what question you would be happy to answer and ask it without any hesitation. For example:

• What music can you not imagine your life without?
• What's the most recent movie you watched?
• Do you like camping?
• What food do you hate?
• How do you feel about religion? Do you believe in God?
• What's your favorite dessert?
• Are you afraid of spiders?
• Do you like to go to discos? Have you been to costume parties?
• Who are you according to your zodiac sign? Do you believe in the horoscope?
• Have you had your hand read?
• Do you have a best friend? How did you meet?
• What do you like more – accepting or giving gifts?
• What were your fears as a child?
• What can throw you off balance?
• What would you not be able to forgive?
• What not to do when first communicating?
• What's the funniest incident in your life?
• Do you believe in ghosts?
• Tell me about your first crush. Do you believe in love at first sight?
• What is the first memory in your life?
• Imagine you win a million dollars, what will you spend it on?
• Have you ever fought?
• What words did you say incorrectly as a child?
• What item do you use every day and consider irreplaceable?
• Have you had prophetic dreams?

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These simple topics will allow you not only to find common interests and discuss common taste preferences, but also to discover new styles of music, movie genres and other useful information. But under no circumstances should you criticize him. As they say, there are as many opinions as there are people. Try to initially tune in to listen, let the interlocutor open up and do not impose. At such moments, it is important to feel whether the given topic appeals to the young man. Ask more clarifying questions to the given topics, thereby showing genuine interest in the conversation.

Cool questions

This block of questions will be useful to you if you decide to defuse the situation after some serious conversation, or if you don’t want to talk about serious topics at all. Particularly interesting and funny are the answers to questions like “what would you do if ...” or “what would you do ...”:

• If you were sent to a desert island for a whole year and could take 2 people with you, who would you invite with you?
• If you stayed overnight in a hypermarket, what would you do?
• Would you like to star in a porn film and what genre would this film be?
• How would you react if suddenly everyone's clothes disappeared?
• Would you like to become a woman for one day and what would you do first?
• Would you like to change your appearance forever with someone and what would you never change?
• What superpower do you want to have and why?
• Who do you think you were in a past life?
• Ever woke up in an unfamiliar place?
• Imagine that you were given the opportunity to commit any crime with impunity, would you do it and what kind?
• What is better, a fat girl, but with big breasts, or a thin girl, but with a bad neckline?
• When will we submit the application to the registry office?
• Would you take the surname of your future wife?
• Let's do this right now, ready?
• You have the opportunity to make any wish within 30 seconds. Tell me quickly which one!
• If you knew that the world would end tomorrow, how would you live your last day?
• Did you go on a blind date and did you like the girl? What would you do if she wasn't your type at all?
• Imagine that you have a time machine, what time will you go to?

It is very important not to cross the line into flirtatious humor. It is such a simple dialogue that will help him relax and open up as much as possible. Try to make jokes about off-topic topics without touching on family, friendship, religion, or his salary, so as not to make the person uncomfortable.

Trick questions

Every girl tries to find out as much as possible all the “skeletons in the closet” of the opposite sex. But how to do this without the guy even suspecting it? It's very easy! All you have to do is ask a couple of tricky questions, and he will rat himself out.

• Can you openly tell a person about his shortcomings?
• Have there been cases of theft on your part?
• Should a wife report to her husband about her purchases?
• Would you lend money to someone you barely know?
• How do you feel about cheating? How many times did you cheat?
• Slept with ex-girlfriends?
• Are you able to trust your email or social network password to your girlfriend?
• Are you a jealous person?
• What would you answer if a girl approached you on the street and asked you to have sex?
• What incident from your life would you like to forget?
• Imagine the situation: you were invited to your ex-girlfriend’s wedding, will you take your current girlfriend with you?
• How do you cut loved ones out of your life?
• Have there been times when you thought you were in love with two girls at the same time? How did you do?
• What three points can you not imagine the ideal girl without?
• What parts of the body do men pay attention to first?
• What was the most expensive gift you gave to your loved one?
• What would your reaction be if your best friend admitted that he was gay?

These topics are quite sensitive, especially for men. People prefer not to discuss some moments in life; the main thing is not to make a mistake and not step on this “mine”. Be vigilant, learn to feel the subtle threads of dialogue so as not to accidentally break them. You should not insist on answers if the person is obviously not in the mood to discuss them. You also shouldn’t expect 100% truth; men’s answers to such topics very rarely coincide with reality. Avoid questions of a personal nature (related specifically to you) - they are useless. You risk hearing unpleasant things or obvious lies. Be content with the fact that he is communicating with you, and this is obviously a good sign!

Vulgar questions

What to do when you have known each other for a long time and it’s time to move on to “piquant topics”? Then these questions will definitely come in handy for you to take note of.

• Do you like to watch 18+ films and what kind exactly?
• What size is your penis?
• What was your first time having sex like? Describe your first sexual partner.
• The funniest incident during lovemaking
• Have your parents ever caught you pleasuring yourself?
• How often do you satisfy yourself?
• Kissed a man?
• Tell us about your most extreme sexual experience.
• Have you ever had a threesome, and if not, did you want to try it?
• Used the services of a prostitute?
• Have you tried phone sex?
• What is your favorite position?
• Do you give girls oral sex in the bikini area?
• Had sex with a complete stranger?
• What was your longest break from sex?
• Have you ever had nocturnal emissions?

Don’t even think about asking these questions during your first conversation! In any case, this is a sign of bad upbringing. Communicating in this spirit, you can safely forget about searching for a gentleman who will valiantly seek your hand in marriage. And remember that not all guys are equally relaxed in matters of this nature. Try to find an individual approach to everyone. Good luck!

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When a relationship is just beginning, each of us, like a girl, is tormented again and again by questions: What to say? What to wear? To call or not to call? What is he thinking? How will he react? Everything has been discussed with my friends a billion times, but not everyone can ask him frankly without fear of scaring him (or hearing the truth?).
We asked four quite ordinary men several frank questions that interest most women. And they calmly listened to their answers. There is something to take note here. The men were not lying, but when reading their opinions and destroying some stereotypes, do not rush to create new ones. All men, like all women, are very different. And everyone is looking for the main thing - understanding.

Our heroes:

Sergey, 27 years old, businessman. Divorced, living in a civil marriage.
Matchmaker's profile: Manages to combine two rare qualities: ambition in business and love of being a homebody. He prefers to work at home, “in the nest,” so to speak. He is ready to solve all family problems on his own, but appreciates women’s advice. The character is soft and pliable. Average height, a little plump.
Peter, 30 years old, journalist, teacher. Married, has a daughter.
Matchmaker's profile: Gifted with a developed imagination, romantic, has a subtle sense of humor. He extols women and, like a true knight of pen and heart, is ready to serve and worship them. But, rather, he is hovering in romantic dreams rather than really being ready to “go to the left.” Modest, patient, gentle. Tall.
Vladimir, 36 years old, art director. Widower, raising a son.
Matchmaker's profile: Metrosexual. Moderately selfish, but also romantic at the same time. He is looking for his beautiful “lady” and in the process sincerely loves all pretty women. Sharp-tongued, frank, decisive. As a person of a creative profession, he strives for self-realization and loves to have good fun. Tall.
Andrey, 44 years old, businessman. Divorced.
Matchmaker's profile: Self-confident, purposeful. He has a wide range of interests, travels a lot, plays various sports, and maintains a wide circle of acquaintances. Decisive, reserved, knows how to listen to people, but in everything he relies only on himself. Average height, thin, athletic.

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1. Do men prefer younger girls?
There are those who are looking younger, there are those who are looking smarter. In terms of everyday intelligence, not higher education. If a man has succeeded as a person, he is looking for a woman equal to himself, a woman “partner”.
Yes. Looking for fresh skin and supple softness. But we are ready to see the beauty of experience and tranquility in 30-40-year-olds, and to appreciate the smile of understanding. This is even more important than skin and elasticity. They don’t forgive bitchiness in middle-aged (after 30) women - never.
I like sexy women, but I definitely don’t need young ones anymore. It's nice to look at little kids, but sleeping with them is no longer pleasant. Not interested. My age range is from 25 to 45.

Certainly. Drawn to beauty, to toned shapes. Attracts youth, cheerfulness, naivety, childishness. Gentlemen prefer blondes also because they behave directly, like children. You want to take care of your youth, give you advice, and lead you.
Women the same age are loaded to the brim with their thoughts and problems, they analyze relationships “from start to finish,” draw analogies, stall for time, thinking. And in love, spontaneity and impulse are important. What happens next is the third question. A flash is always much more interesting than some logically based decision: let’s go, eat, take a walk, come, lie down and it will happen...


2. Are men intimidated by smart women?
I'm not here. There is intelligence, and there is tediousness. Women who are too qualified in something and constantly talk about it scare away, suppress. One is attracted by a woman who is smart “in life”, not a woman who is a genius, but a woman who is a human being.
Not always. I would say they are scared away by strange women. And incomprehensible actions can stem not only from a great mind...
Smart men - no, fools, probably, yes. It’s another matter if a woman begins to “press” with her intellect. I remember Klara Novikova joked: “How smart do you have to be to seem like a complete fool? And how stupid do you have to be to pretend to be smart..." A woman should be able to stop talking in time. Intelligence does not lie in erudition, but in the ability to “read” a man, to understand him. And the man will reciprocate.

Yes, intellectual women are intimidating. They begin to get clever, give assessments and definitions: this is so, but this is not so. A man doesn't need this. He wants to be the smartest, to lead, to make the last decision. And smart women not only encroach, but win all these rights in the struggle, suppress men, turning them into house slippers. And then they themselves are surprised at this.


3. How should a woman dress?
Good, expensive, varied. She must value her image, her clothes, and has the right to demand from a man that all this be paid for. To be, if not in fashion, then in style.
Excessive frankness infuriates me. It is important that the clothes fit.
Skirts, trousers, low-necked blouses, classic jackets, sweaters - everything is beautiful if everything is in place. To the place - that means it creates an image. I think there’s no need to talk about all sorts of absurdities like when a girl with an imperfect figure puts on tight jeans and a top.
Sometimes women dress as if they have a powder compact mirror hanging in their home, in which they see only one of their eyes. I don't need a cleavage or a miniskirt. Beautiful breasts are visible even in a turtleneck: you can’t throw mud at the sun. Clothes must suit the woman. In addition, a woman's self-confidence is important. And then sometimes a beautiful woman walks along, but she’s hunched over, with a complex, dressed in something gray... And that’s it - it’s no longer interesting...

Classically - skirts, dresses, stilettos, manicure. A woman should have a sense of style. No, you don't have to be naked. If you go naked, you will attract the same males. I like women with a sophisticated feminine look. With manners as soft as water. Women who radiate calm in everything - in their clothes, in their gaze - and at the same time confident in themselves.


4. Ideal female proportions...
Absence of breasts is bad, excessive size is bad, and the same with hips. Harmony is important. I don't like thin, thin and small people. A centner of weight is also too much. I like it a little more than average.
I really like it when the female form fits comfortably in my hands, when it’s convenient to hug my shoulders or waist with my hand. If this is impossible, you need to compensate for the deficiencies with the proportions of the heart (laughs). I'm attracted to skinny people. And plump ones too. It doesn’t have to be 90-60-90, you can do 90-70-100, for example.
Long neck, thin shoulders, size 3 or 4 breasts, waist, beautiful hips, toned butt, long legs...

One blonde says to another: “I recently found out what 90-60-90 is.” - “Oh, and what is this?” - “240”.
The ideal figure of a guitar is: narrow waist relative to hips, proportional feminine butt and breasts. And, of course, below me. However, not all my women were exactly like that, although beauty is very important to me. But it’s more important if it’s easy and comfortable for you to communicate with a woman. I myself, in general, am not a tall handsome man and, of course, I am not sure that a beautiful woman will stay with me for a long time... And I will have to keep an eye on the beautiful one...



5. Should a woman be able to cook well?
In a metropolis, there is often no time to cook, and you can always have a delicious meal in a cafe. But this is more of an excuse. If you live in a small town, there are no options: a woman must know how to cook. And in general it’s just a shame if she doesn’t know how. And you don't know how.
The ability to cook well is a consequence. An intelligent, kind, loving woman cannot help but learn to be a good housewife. But that comes later. In a few years.
Yes, definitely. If the food at home is not tasty, then there is no home comfort. You don't want to come to such a house.

Not necessarily good, but you should be able to do it. Well, and not rubbish, of course. Food in itself does not inspire love. But when a man is full, he begins to think about everything else: about her hands, her body, about talking, looking into her eyes, and so on.

6. What behavior irritates women the most?
When women wear full war paint makeup wherever they go and whatever they do. It’s especially annoying when cosmetics are out of place or you need to leave the house quickly. And I also don’t understand why you need to buy so much cosmetics if you only use 20%.
I’m not little anymore, and I’ve learned to see a person in my woman. She relies on me for her weaknesses and shortcomings, in the hope that I will help her cope with them and improve. Therefore nothing irritates. In others, the coquetry infuriates, infuriates, infuriates. This is a misunderstanding that you are not a painted fool, but a human being. I really don't like it.
Obsessiveness. All these SMS: “Why don’t you write, why don’t you call? You forgot me?" This is terribly infuriating and repulsive. Well, I just got confused, forgot to put money on the phone, and got stuck in a meeting. Excessive and inappropriate talkativeness is unpleasant. It is unbearable to be insulted or humiliated in public.

It’s unpleasant to realize that a woman is openly interested in your status, to feel how she calculates and measures the benefits in her mind. You can just hear the calculator buttons clicking. This immediately lowers the level of interest.
I don't like it when women refuse to accept the fact that they should always look good, be well-groomed and tastefully dressed.
What turns women off the most is masculine behavior and harshness.
Another unpleasant thing is a woman’s desire to constantly control you. Out of self-doubt and instead of understanding the reasons why a man wants to leave home, with her screams she wants to suppress the desire to go anywhere at all. It is much easier to take the position of a victim than to simply clean yourself up.


7. What should a woman never say to a man?
About other men. It's just not worth it. You can seriously ruin a relationship by using one of your exes as an example.
A woman should not humiliate a man, even if he really is a complete schmuck. Suffice it to say that they are not on their way.
Criticism is possible, but you need to be able to present it. Let this be a proposal to change, and not a mountain of reproaches that hurt pride.

A woman should tell a man everything, even what hurts his pride. It's all about intonation. I am a philologist, and I know that the main part of the meaning of a statement is conveyed not by words, but by intonation. It all depends on what feeling is put into the words, and not the words themselves.
At the very least, I would like to know everything she thinks about me. The question is not what she should say or not say, but her feelings for me. In love for me.
Shouldn't make scenes of jealousy. Especially unfounded ones. A man can go to the side. But if this didn’t happen, or even happened, but he wasn’t caught, all these reprimands and hysterics really hit his pride and destroy relationships. I think that if you are together, you need to trust each other.

She shouldn’t nag: “I told you, I warned you... They came to visit once like normal people, and then you managed to get drunk like a pig...” Sometimes they do this not because you really deserve it, but as a preventive measure.
You can't criticize a man. Women's wisdom is to gently lead a man to a solution to a problem, to make the man want to change. The best way is to set an example yourself. If you want him to lose weight, don’t eat at night, sign up for a gym, start running in the morning. Good examples are just as contagious as bad ones.


8. If a woman earns more...
It is unpleasant. But, rather, what’s unpleasant is that you can’t earn more at the moment. This is not a problem for me if I know that the situation will change soon. If you perceive a woman as your equal, then her success makes you strive upward. If a woman reproaches you with this, then yes, it becomes a serious test.
I am happy for her, for us. And I'm looking for a new job. I'm not nervous, I don't drink.
This is good. I have no complexes about this. But on condition that the woman does not reproach me for this. My job brings me pleasure, and I will not change it to earn more. If a woman has a talent for making money and she likes it, I will not interfere. And since it is absolutely necessary for someone to sit at home and cook borscht, I can do it too.

It doesn't matter if you are a family... A woman must be wise. It is important how she behaves, how she positions herself, what role she claims to play. Of course, we are not talking about a situation where a man is lying on the sofa. To be honest, the successful women I met were too masculine. I didn’t want to have close relationships with them.

9. Are men monogamous or polygamous?
I'm monogamous, but I can't speak for everyone. For now, all I can think about is one woman.
I believe that I am both monogamous and polygamous at the same time. I have no desire to get into bed with other women, but I enjoy having heart-to-heart conversations with other women. Under certain conditions, I could have sex-love with them, but I can’t and don’t want to.
Polygamous. And although I can only truly love one woman, my eyes will always glance sideways at other people’s asses. And if suddenly a safe option for the family arises, in which my woman does not find out anything, I will take the opportunity. And most men will do the same.

Polygamous people, myself in particular. Climbing up a hill, looking around, choosing more victims and hunting - this is the essence of a man. There are monogamous men. I think there are 20 percent of them. But there are also those who become monogamous if they have found a woman who completely suits them, and no matter how you hunt, you won’t find more tempting prey.

10. Perfect sex...
Perfect sex - like the first time with this woman. When you don’t really know it yet, you study it and try to be better. Every time I try to repeat this.
For me, intimacy is important in sex - physical intimacy as a continuation of mental, spiritual. She must belong to me completely and accept me the same way. Sometimes just hugs and touching naked bodies mean more than inventive, technical sex. In general, the most important thing for me in sex is love.
This is sex without boundaries. Full access to everything (again, by mutual desire). There should be absolutely everything in sex and no restrictions. If you have sex, do it selflessly. Turn off your brain and move on.

One that satisfies both. It can be both fast and long - different. And it’s very important to see that a woman is just amazing, just as good as you. This makes you feel like a man.

In this article you will learn about what topics of conversation exist with men.

A correctly posed question can become a successful start to a dialogue and influence your relationship with a man. In order not to get confused at an important moment and always interest your interlocutor, it is important to know in advance what you can and should ask him about.

Questions for correspondence:

• Hello! How are you spending your evening?
• How are you feeling today?
• What are your plans? What are you doing?
• How to cheer you up?
• I want to surprise you with something, do you think I can do it?
• Hello! Let's play something?
• I want adventure, and you?
• There are evenings when it’s especially boring, don’t you think?
• Mortal melancholy! Can you recommend any good movie?
• How did you spend this day? Was he successful today?
• Would you like to chat with a dreary but terribly interesting person?
• I'm boiling inside, don't you want to listen?
• Let's spend the evening together?
• Have you watched this series (title)?
• I love music, can you give me a couple of great tracks?
• Long time no chat, how are you? What changed?
• Do you still play sports (fishing, basketball, dancing)?
• Have you heard the latest news about (person's name)?
• When was the last time you went to the cinema? Maybe we can go see something together?
• I’m listening to a great track, you’ll definitely like it, can I send it to you?
• Do you remember how we danced to this song? (drop track)
• Hello! I already forgot what you look like, maybe we can meet?

What questions can you ask a guy when talking on the phone: list

Questions for a telephone conversation:

• I haven't heard from you for ages, how are you?
• How nice it is to hear your voice! Are you all right?
• Thanks for calling! I hope nothing happened to you?
• It's good that you called! Let's agree that you will call me more often?
• Hello, are you bored tonight?
• Hello, have you forgotten my voice yet?
• Hello! Guess who's calling?
• I'll give you 3 chances to guess my name. Will you try?
• Hello! Do you want some fun tonight?
• How would you like me to invite you to have a couple of cocktails together?

What questions can you ask a guy when meeting him: list

• Dear, does your mother need a daughter-in-law by any chance?
• I’m sure I saw you somewhere, maybe in my dreams?
• Are you by any chance the man of my dreams?
• I really want to meet you, won’t you leave your phone number?
• My mom will definitely like you, let's check it out?
• I have never seen such a handsome man in my life! Have you already been told something like this?
• Will you leave me your phone number so we can talk later and have a good time?
• Do you happen to want a new romantic and completely crazy relationship?
• I liked you at first sight, and you liked me?

IMPORTANT: Do not hesitate to ask a man even the most “piquant” questions, getting to know him better.

What questions can you ask a guy to get him interested?

Question options:

• Do you like my eyes?
• People often tell me that I look good, what do you think?
• I have a feeling that we knew each other, don't you think so?
• I have many interests, would you like to share some?
• I'm sorry, but can I fall in love with you?
• You have a beautiful look, have you heard that before?
• How often do you go on dates? I want to invite you to another one!
• How long have you watched a movie with kissing spots?
• I was once told that I am a good kisser, would you like to check it out?
• Have you ever drank champagne under the moon? Me not. Let's try it together?

What questions can you ask a guy on a first date?

Every woman's dream is the perfect date. It can only go well if you know exactly what you can talk about on a date. Preliminary preparation of topics and questions can help you with this.

Good question options:

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What questions can you ask a guy when communicating?

If communication with a man is established, you can fully count on signs of attention from him. Try to ask him as many questions as possible about his hobbies and passions.

Things to talk about:

Conversation Ideas

What questions will tell you more about a man? What can you ask a guy?

When you get to know your beloved man better, you will be able to understand what your life with him will be like in the future. Use a selection of “interesting” questions designed to obtain as much detailed information as possible.

Things to ask:

Themes and ideas

What questions and what can you ask a guy you like?

It’s very easy to “scare off” the guy you like with a funny or inappropriate question, so choose your phrases carefully and take into account all the features of your relationship.

Ideas:

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What questions can you ask your boyfriend, your beloved?

If your relationship has already “started”, you should not let your guard down and relax. Try to remain interested in your man's life. This way you can earn his trust and attention!

Conversation starter ideas:

Selection

What question can I ask a guy to find out if he likes me?

Very often, a woman is tormented by questions about mutual sympathy on the part of a man; try to ask him about this directly and independently, asking a delicate question.

Conversation ideas:

Selection

Questions for meeting a guy on the Internet, VKontakte?

Suitable topics:

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Interesting questions for a guy, on any topic: list

A love relationship is not only about sex and attention, it is also about conversations and mutual interests. Don't lose the thread of understanding by asking your partner questions about his personal life, adventures, successes and women.

Suitable topics:

What can you ask?

What intimate questions can you ask a guy?

Questions like these will help you improve your sex life, make adjustments to it and set rules. Feel free to talk to your partner about sex.

Conversation ideas:

"Intimate" selection

What erotic questions can you ask a guy?

There is one secret: every man not only loves sex, but also any conversations about sex. Feel free to be interested in any topics about sex: experience, technique, number of women.

Conversation ideas:

Erotic compilation

What kind of dirty questions can you ask a guy?

Every man has his own hidden sexual fantasies and dreams; by talking to him about this, you not only give him your attention, but also show him love.

Conversation ideas:

"Vulgar" selection

What tricky, tricky questions can you ask a guy?

Do you want to surprise your man? Intrigue? Show that you are not such a simple person? Feel free to ask him unusual questions and let him try to answer them!

Conversation ideas:

"Tricky" selection

What “unusual” questions can you ask a guy?

Surprising the man you love is not easy, but try asking him a non-standard question and see how he answers it!

Ways to start a conversation:

What to ask your “other half”?

What “frank” questions can you ask a guy?

The line between an interesting and an unnecessary question is very thin. With the help of “frank” questions, you can not only become closer, but also ruin your entire relationship. Try to choose the right topics for conversation.

What to talk about:

Original selection

What romantic questions can you ask a guy?

Having learned some nuances about the romantic nature of your beloved man, you will be able to understand what your relationship will be like in the future.

What to ask:

What questions about love and relationships can you ask a guy?

Relationships are difficult work and if you do not discuss some of the nuances between each other, you can lose understanding and trust.

Suitable questions:

Selection “love”

What questions can you ask a guy to confuse him?

Conversation ideas:

• Are you just looking at me or do you have special plans for me?
• Tell me honestly: do you want me?
• Am I attracted to you as a woman?
• Would you like me to show you something interesting?
• Do you think I can surprise you in bed?
• Is this your friend or lover?
• Have you ever slept with your friends' girlfriends?

Video: “Men’s questions?”

Girls often don’t know what to ask a guy via correspondence in order to interest him and get to know each other better. Asking vulgar questions and talking about personal topics when meeting people is not always appropriate. It all depends on the character of the young man. Psychology experts believe that you should first take an interest in the guy’s hobbies and life goals, ask about his favorite music, films and books that made a lasting impression on him. Based on the guy’s answers, you can create a psychological portrait of him and establish normal communication.

Rules for correspondence on intimate topics

When communicating or corresponding on provocative and frank topics, the following rules should be observed:

• The young man should not doubt that he is in control of the situation (even if this is not the case in reality), and should feel comfortable. When communicating in real life, you can monitor a guy’s reaction to an intimate question, and when communicating virtually, you can analyze his answers.
• You cannot criticize his manhood and doubt his sexual capabilities, ironize on this topic or openly laugh at his shortcomings.
• You should not ask your loved one how many partners there were before this relationship and compare yourself with them.

Vulgar questions can be veiled without resorting to rudeness and obscene language; there is no need to write slang words and names of genital organs.

What you should never say to a man

Dirty questions for a guy

You can ask interesting and tricky questions of an intimate nature after prolonged communication and the establishment of a trusting relationship with a pen pal.

A list of vulgar, tricky questions for a guy who likes a girl:

1. 1. Tell me about your first sexual encounter.
2. 2. What do you prefer in intimate caresses?
3. 3. Name the most erotic and attractive part of a woman’s body.
4. 4. Do you think that making love and having sex are identical concepts?
5. 5. Do you like to experiment in intimate relationships?
6. 6. Played role-playing games? What images excite you the most?
7. 7. What things do you consider unacceptable in intimate relationships?
8. 8. Are you a fetishist? Do you love lace erotic lingerie and fishnet stockings?
9. 9. Share your erotic fantasies and desires.
10. 10. Describe the first girl you felt sexually attracted to.
11. 11. Which famous singer or Hollywood movie star would you like to have sex with?

To get to know your lover better and find out about his sexual preferences, you can ask the following questions:

1. 1. Do you like long foreplay or think only about yourself during sexual contact?
2. 2. How do you feel about female domination?
3. 3. What are your favorite positions during sexual intercourse?
4. 4. The most unforgettable sex or lovemaking of your life.
5. 5. How did you feel when you lost your virginity?
6. 6. If I am not ready for sexual relations before marriage, can you refrain from intimate relationships with other people or is this unacceptable for you?
7. 7. What size is your manhood?
8. 8. Breast size that your lover should have.
9. 9. How often can you make love and how long does sexual intercourse last?
10. 10. Do you like hair on your private parts or do you prefer perfect smoothness?
11. 11. Your attitude to tattoos and piercings in intimate places.
12. 12. Do you watch films for adults? If yes, which category do you prefer and what are your favorite paintings?

Questions that you can only ask a close man:

1. 1. Have you ever had group sex or several partners at the same time? If not, do you dream of sex with two people at once?
2. 2. The funniest moment during sex.
3. 3. How do you feel about virtual explicit entertainment or phone sex?
4. 4. Has there been a time in your life when your parents came home at the most inopportune moment?
5. 5. How do you feel about oral sex?
6. 6. Have you had any experience of communicating with a girl of easy virtue?
7. 7. Have you ever had sex with a girl you only knew for a few days?
8. 8. Describe your ideal sexual relationship.
9. 9. Attitudes towards sexual minorities and sexual intercourse with representatives of other races.
10. 10. Do you visit stores with intimate goods or buy toys for sexual entertainment on the Internet?
11. 11. Do you feel comfortable buying contraceptives or do you feel awkward when doing so?
12. 12. What do you think about self-pleasure and how often do you do it?

Intimate questions for a guy with whom a girl wants a sexual relationship:

1. 1. Have you ever had unprotected sexual contact in your life? If not, then what is your attitude towards such intimate relationships?
2. 2. Does dirty language during intercourse turn you on?
3. 3. Attitude towards anal caresses and sexual contact.
4. 4. Would you sleep with a very mature lady for a lot of money?
5. 5. What are you willing to do for a beautiful girl to give herself to you?
6. 6. How do you feel if during sexual intercourse a stranger watches the intimate process?
7. 7. Your attitude to explicit photographs and home videos of sexual content.
8. 8. What smells excite you?
9. 9. Do you like making love while intoxicated?
10. 10. Sexual intercourse in water or in the shower - how do you feel about such sex?
11. 11. Is a one-night stand acceptable for you?

What to ask a young man when meeting him in order to interest him:

• Who are you according to the horoscope and the eastern calendar?
• Do you like extreme sensations and adrenaline in your blood?
• What do you value most in people? Name the main character traits.
• Who is closer to you, dad or mom, and why?
• Active recreation - your attitude towards it.
• Tell me about the action you are most proud of.

Normal questions to get to know a guy better:

• How do you feel about assault and showdowns with fists?
• What annoys you the most?
• Tell us about your childhood fears.
• Do you have any phobias at the moment?
• The most vivid memory from childhood - tell us about it.
• Do you trust your sixth sense?
• Do you prefer to give or receive gifts?
• An act that you will never forgive?
• Your negative sides.
• Describe yourself in four words.
• What offends you?
• Have you ever taken revenge on your offenders? If yes, then tell us about it.

A young man will enjoy topics about cinema, literature and other questions that help him learn about the guy’s hobbies and preferences:

• How do you feel about magical rites and rituals?
• Do you believe in psychic abilities?
• Name your favorite musical composition.
• What feature film or documentary will you remember for the rest of your life?
• Do you like cartoons?
• What is your attitude towards serial films?
• Literature that influenced your life and changed your worldview.
• What cuisine do you prefer and the name of your favorite dish?
• How do you feel about balls and costume parties?
• Do you attend cultural events?
• When was the last time you went to the opera or theater?

List of interesting questions for communicating with a guy:

• Do you like rain and walking together under an umbrella?
• Have you ever had prophetic dreams?
• What animal or living creature do you associate yourself with? And why?
• The most necessary thing for you.
• How many hours do you spend in the virtual world?
• Is love possible at a great distance from each other?
• Love at first sight is your attitude.
• My favorite holiday.
• Did you gamble?
• What country or city do you dream of visiting more than anything in the world?
• If you became a superhero, which famous movie and cartoon character would you like to be?

Tricky questions:

• If you suddenly find yourself naked in the middle of a crowded street, how will you behave?
• If you could break the law and get away with it, what crime would you commit?
• Could you take your wife's last name or do you think it's unacceptable?
• If you have the opportunity to visit the past, where would you go and why?
• If you broke up with your girlfriend, is a repeat relationship possible between you?
• Will you tell your lover the codes for social networks and email, or do you have something to hide from your significant other?
• Is it possible to love two people at the same time?
• The most shameful act or situation that you would like to erase from your life.

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If you don’t know what questions to ask a guy when talking on a date, then today’s selection is just for you. Here you will find the top 100 interesting questions for a guy that you can ask him in various situations, as well as in VK correspondence. You will be able to maintain a conversation, arouse his interest in you, and also get to know him better.

This will be even more useful if you are going on a date with your new acquaintance. The main thing is to know a few rules on how to ask questions correctly:

#1 Don't bombard your interlocutor with questions. In this case, the guy will be tense, and he will want to immediately run away from you.

#2 Ask about what interests you. For example, you want to find out what hobbies a guy has, how he likes to spend his free time. If you are really interested, you can easily continue the conversation. If you ask just to fill a pause, communication will not go well. The third point follows from this.

#3 After asking a guy about something, develop the topic. Express your attitude to the situation. Ask a clarifying question and so on. In this way, natural communication develops.

100 questions for a guy

1. Name one thing that makes you smile?
2. What are you most proud of?
3. What makes you smile?
4. At what point in your life were you most scared?
5. What moment from your childhood do you remember most?
6. What gives you the most pleasure in life today?
7. What's your favorite movie?
8. Tell me about one thing, important or not, that you haven't told anyone else?
9. If you had to urgently move to another country, what three things would you take with you first?
10. Do you have pets?
11. What's your favorite ice cream?
12. Who are you closest to in your family?
13. Tell me your favorite joke?
14. What's the stupidest thing you've ever done?
15. If you could change your past, what moment would you choose?
16. What is your most positive trait?
17. When you are in a bad mood, how do you try to get out of it?
18. What are your hobbies?
19. What do you enjoy most about your job?
20. What trait characterizes you most?
21. Describe yourself in three words?
22. Which country did you like best of all the ones you've been to?
23. How would your best friend describe you?
24. What's your favorite alcoholic drink?
25. What is your idea of ​​an ideal date?
26. If you could have three wishes granted, what would they be?
27. Best compliment you've ever received?
28. What are your talents?
29. Describe your best friend?
30. The main thing you should do before you die?
31. If you were given a million dollars right now, what would you spend it on?
32. How do you usually spend your weekend?
33. Who are you according to your zodiac sign? Do you fit the general characteristics of this sign?
34. What do you regret most?
35. What can immediately improve your mood?
36. What would you change about yourself?
37. If you had the opportunity to start your life over, would you take the opportunity?
38. When was the last time you cried? For what reason?
39. Would you like to have children?
40. What scares you most about the future?
41. What kind of future family do you imagine?
42. Favorite saying or proverb?
43. Have you ever truly fallen in love?
44. Have you had your heart broken?
45. How do you understand the concept of “love”?
46. What lesson did you learn from your past relationships?
47. Craziest thing you've done?
48. Where do you see yourself in five years?
49. What's your dream job?
50. What's your favorite word?
51. Favorite book?
52. What is the main goal in your life?
53. Name 3 of your shortcomings?
54. What questions would you like to ask me?
55. Who is your idol?
56. What are your bad/good habits?
57. Tell us about your first kiss?
58. Which famous person would you like to chat with?
59. Do you believe in love at first sight?
60. What do you like more: reading books or watching movies?
61. What's your favorite song?
62. If you had one day to live, what would you do?
63. Is the glass half empty or full? What's in the glass?
64. If you wanted to write a book, what would it be about?
65. What do you usually think about in the morning after waking up?
66. Any tattoos?
67. They gave you a yacht. What will you call her?
68. What's your favorite color?
69. Favorite season?
70. Would you feel comfortable if you went to a restaurant or movie alone?
71. If you had an extra hour in the day, what would you do with it?
72. What do you keep in the trunk of your car?
73. What was your name at school?
74. What is your favorite sport?
75. If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first anniversary?
76. Have you ever cried while watching a movie?
77. What's your favorite car brand?
78. Favorite dish?
79. What do you pay attention to when meeting a girl?
80. Your favorite restaurant/cafe?
81. What will you do on a rainy day?
82. What's your favorite computer game?
83. Are you a believer?
84. Can you dance?
85. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
86. What qualities attract you in a girl?
87. Do you prefer active or passive recreation?
88. What inspires you?
89. Are you afraid of old age?
90. How do you imagine yourself at 60?
91. At what age did you first fall in love?
92. At what age did you confess your love?
93. How important is sex in a relationship in your opinion?
94. What do you think about open relationships?
95. What would you choose: wealth or fame?
96. Do you like cleaning your room?
97. Do you believe in love at first sight?
98. Favorite month of the year?
99. Do you sing in the shower?
100. If you could choose a superpower, what would it be?

Don't ask an endless number of questions, one after another. It’s better to choose a couple of interesting ones, depending on the situation, and develop a conversation from them. This will be the most interesting and natural way. Good luck!