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A woman creating peace with a man. A woman creating a hero How good it is that at every moment of our lives there is freedom of choice

Every woman wants to have powerful feminine energy, to be strong in a feminine way, attractive, to feel her feminine resources, right?

We do many practices in order to get closer to this goal, to become harmonious, feminine, holistic, and internally calm.

It is important for us to be strong as a woman so that there will be a courageous man nearby, strong as a man, responsible, protective and faithful. After all, it is our feminine energy and its quantity that allows a man to remain faithful and not gain energy from other women.

We also want to be strong as women, so that when we encounter obstacles in life, we can look at them wisely and calmly, learn a lesson from them and see the care and love of God in this situation, instead of being nervous, complaining and asking “for what?”, bring yourself to nervous breakdowns and ultimatums to God!

We want to become strong as women, so that we have enough patience, love and endurance to raise our children in an atmosphere of tenderness and acceptance, so that for them their mother will always be an unshakable support and haven of love at any age, and not a nervous, overwhelmed woman who is not herself. enough strength to live.

We need feminine strength for friendship, because sometimes our beloved friends feel bad and difficult, and with our energy and love we can once again inspire them to develop and move forward, we can give them faith in themselves and the strength to create their reality.

We really need feminine strength to live harmoniously, internally easily, calmly and happily as a woman.

Feminine power or shakti is the basis of the creation of the world, it all began with her and she is the source of everything in this world. Our feminine energy creates reality, it is she who creates the material world, she gives birth and nurtures, she beckons and attracts, this is an eternal value more significant than gold and diamonds, because feminine power is the essence of creating reality, the key to life!

And that’s why men really need female muses to create great things, children need affectionate mothers, grandmothers need caring granddaughters with love in their eyes!

Everyone needs a strong woman, because wherever she goes, she awakens life and energy in that place, she creates the energy of space and fills it with vibrations of love.

Lately I have been paying a lot of attention to my feminine strength, not my mind, not my knowledge, but my internal energy! And I noticed this thing: people’s attitudes towards me are changing very much, men take care of me, even people I barely know - they help, protect and offer support. My daughter began to treat me with great affection and tenderness. Acquaintances and friends help in the common cause, support and always come to the rescue if I suddenly feel sad. If I’m in a good mood, everyone becomes joyful; if I’m sad, then those around me (especially men) begin to make efforts to make me cheer up, because they depend on my energy.

Being an energetically strong woman is very beneficial

Firstly, you create the mood and energy around you, and don’t fall under someone else’s influence. I wanted it - everyone laughs, I wanted it - everyone is nostalgic, or suddenly everything became romantic - and everyone around was drowned in thoughts of love.

Or, for example, I came home and my husband was angry after work. She put herself in a calm, gentle mood, walked up to him, silently hugged him, kissed him, wrapped him in her energy like a soft blanket, and went about her feminine business in the kitchen. 5-10 minutes pass, the husband comes into the room, already calm, and inquisitively asks how you are doing. He has already calmed down and everything is fine again. Convenient, right?

Or the child cries and is capricious, and you take him in your arms and say: “You are my good one! I understand how sad you are…” and you bathe him in your love. And after 2 minutes the cub is already smiling and running to play.

There is no need to swear, explain, prove, be nervous, overthink and worry. I personally always use my feminine power, even at work: the workers had a fight in the team (they are doing repairs in my studio), everyone is on edge, something is going wrong, you go up to the foreman, put your hand on his wrist or on the edge of his shoulder and calmly, softly say, “You have already done such a great job, everything is already so beautiful...” or you can say nothing at all, just immerse the person in your state through touch, and that’s it, he will calm down. A few minutes pass, they are already working smoothly and everything is fine again.

Secondly, you create your own reality. When a woman has strong energy, all she needs to do is wish for something in a good mood and let it go, just continue living. It won't be long before her wishes come true!

Third, you feel like you are part of God’s great creation, part of the great cosmic feminine power, and you are always protected. You always feel and realize that the Great Ma are guiding and protecting you.

And it’s not just some words that really protect, through people. You just need to trust!

Recently, in my studio, movers left the faucet open overnight and flooded the floor with water, causing the beautiful chocolate-colored parquet to swell and deteriorate. Not only did I lose a lot of money, but I also lost precious days, because I already wanted to quickly move into the studio and start doing great women’s things there. I sat down and became sad. I didn’t think about anything at all, I just sat and was quietly sad. They immediately started calling me, and when they heard my voice, help and support immediately began to flow. The next day the guys arrived and not only laid new floors in 1 day, but also stood up for me and made those careless movers take responsibility for their actions.

Fourthly, you feel everything great!

When you are in touch with yourself, you perfectly feel the states of people and their needs. Women are very empathetic by nature, and for them clairvoyance, clairvoyance, and clairaudience are not a special gift, but a common thing. All women who have come into contact with their nature have these opportunities. And therefore, a strong woman feels everything in advance, without any logic, she already knows on a subtle level how what she started will end. And therefore, having learned to listen to our intuition and our heart, we, women, receive the key to world knowledge, to foreseeing and controlling our destiny.

Each of you has at least once received answers from the universe in the form of dreams, premonitions, inner voices or sudden awareness. But when we are in touch with our feminine nature, we can be connected to this state constantly.

For example, in my circle, where women live in accordance with their nature, feeling each other is a completely normal phenomenon.

Just a couple of days ago, my cosmoenergetics mentor called me and said: “Yulia, yesterday I was minding my own business in the evening, and suddenly I felt that you were unwell, I received information that I need to keep you under certain energies. What has happened with you?". And in fact, at that time I had a very serious condition and everything that she described to me fit perfectly into reality.

Do you think it's magic? Nothing like this. We can feel this way for everyone if we enter our energetic feminine pole, instead of our mind we begin to listen to our heart and trust our feelings.

In a word, there are a lot of benefits and benefits from strong feminine energy. I can describe them for a long, long time.

Lately, in my consultations, I have been increasingly asked the question: “How can I become strong as a woman?” What does this force consist of? How to get it? How can I multiply it in myself?

I think this question is relevant for many women!

Let's find out!

Where does female power begin?

From realizing oneself as a woman. Not just the understanding that I have this gender identity, but precisely the feeling and acceptance of myself as a woman, my body, my characteristics.

It is very important for a woman to accept several facts about herself and treat them with acceptance and calm.

The first most important fact: “A woman is a creative force. When a woman feels bad, everyone feels bad. When a woman feels good, everyone prospers!”

This awareness is very important so that a woman does not exhaust herself, does not suffer from a deficit and always takes care first of all about her emotional state, knowing that all the people around her depend on it. A woman who has realized herself always understands that you need to give and create only out of abundance, and first you need to fill yourself with grace, your body with pleasure, and your heart with love! When you realize that you are psychic energy, then many things in life fall into place: you stop adapting to men and their gloomy mood, you stop depending on the opinions of your friends, you are calm about the whims of a child and are able to cope with it. And knowing this, you will always care not about doing as many things as possible, but about your mood and state, because they are the key to your joy and the joy of others.

Second important fact which we all know about, but are trying to fight: “A woman is not stable”

Feminine energy itself is unstructured and chaotic; it is a clot of power that can turn into good or evil. We are not constant and stable, our mood often changes, because we strongly feel the vibrations of the planets, the general energy of the city, country, planet, energy flows pass through us and we periodically broadcast the pain or suffering of various egregors.

We are mediators, guides. Therefore, even if everything is good in a woman’s life, she may periodically cry from internal pain of unknown origin. This is how women's karma is worked out - through states.

It is not possible to explain your condition to a man.

One day I was driving a car with my husband, everything was fine, and suddenly I saw a couple of old men crossing the road: a lame, blind old man, led by the arm of his exhausted and tired of life wife. They were approaching the store. And looking at them, I felt their state so much: alienation, uselessness, loneliness, despair, powerlessness in front of the world, pain from their helplessness and weakness. I burst into tears. I cried and couldn't stop! The husband, as always, did not understand what was happening. Just now my wife was telling her review of the film normally and cheerfully, and now she’s sitting there crying!

I think the story is familiar to you.

And many women try to fight their instability, discipline themselves, suppress emotions, and as a result, their masculine strength increases.

Instead, you need to accept your impermanence and emotional changeability, and take it into account in your life. You can laugh at him sometimes, because sometimes it is very funny. And you need to make allowances for this in everyday life, and not reproach yourself for coming to the store to buy boots and leaving with new underwear. Or if you are overcome with sadness, do not look for reasonable reasons to be sad in order to explain your condition to people. Just say, “I'm just sad... for no reason! It's nobody's fault. I'll cry now and calm down. Stay with me, hug me…” - this means being in touch with your emotions.

A woman is Chaos, a man is Cosmos (translated as “order”), and if you feel that you have become Cosmos, it means you have moved away from your power. For a woman, chaos is a completely normal phenomenon, she knows what is where in her chaos :). A good example is a women's bag. This bag only has a couple of compartments, but they hold a million things. How to find what you need? You put your hand in, close your eyes, turn on your intuition and voila - you have the thing in your hand the first time. I observe this phenomenon in myself and other women. For order and structure, a woman needs a man, and then there will be a place for him in the relationship, and he will grow and develop in it.

People often ask me: “Julia, tell us about your time management, how do you manage to do everything?”

I honestly don't know. My time management is pure intuition, I intuitively feel which road to take, which business to start, which to postpone, where to go, what to do first. All my attempts to bring myself to classical discipline were crowned with a loss of strength and irritation, as well as an increase in male energy. Sometimes it even happens to me that I leave home and don’t yet know where I’m going, I just trust my hands, the feeling of the road, and then suddenly I find myself in a very necessary place or meet a particularly important person. Pure chaos, no man will understand me.

Don’t try to force yourself into strict boundaries, discipline, organize - this requires a man! Remain chaos, and Cosmos will come to you...

What else makes a woman strong, powerful?

Women's skills and abilities. Yes, they are the ones who increase our female self-confidence, prepare us for relationships, and create the foundation of female strength.

Let's look at an example of two women:

Skills and abilities of the first: she is a doctor of legal sciences, two higher educations, speaks a computer, speaks languages, studied at the best business schools and knows how to negotiate clearly, drives a car, understands politics.

Skills and abilities of the second: she is an excellent cook (she has completed several culinary courses), knows sexual practices (tantra, vumbilding, Danish practices and of course, she has read “Peach Branches” translation into Russian of the Kama Shastra), she knows how to do massage, knows the psychology of women and men , deals with energy and knows how to control his conditions and treat.

Which of these women do you think will feel most confident and calm in a relationship?
Which of them will find it easier to attract a man into their life?
Who will find it easier to create a strong family?
With which of these women will a man develop a harmonious relationship?

The more purely feminine skills a woman has, the more chances she has to build harmonious relationships, the more in demand and unique she is.

This summer I often had to communicate with men of a fairly high level. In a dialogue with one of them, it accidentally turned out that I can give a massage, cook deliciously, heat a bathhouse, soar with a broom, dance and do a bunch of other feminine wisdom. He looked at me as if I had descended from heaven to earth and timidly asked if I could teach his wife, because, in his opinion, these skills make a woman simply a treasure in the family!

Think about what kind of women's fields will education bring you greater self-confidence as a woman?

Maybe you will feel more confident inviting guests to the table and preparing for them a signature dish that makes them moan with pleasure?

Maybe you want to discover the priestess of love within you and learn sexual practices and techniques that will not only make you a desirable woman, but also deepen relationships on an energetic level?

Maybe you want to improve your qualities as a hostess and learn how to create comfort and welcome guests with warmth and love?

Personally, I know exactly what trump card I can pull from my deck of trump cards when I want to charm a man. And every woman has her own signature trump card. Which one do you have now? And are you planning to expand the deck with trump cards?

And of course, the most important condition that gives a woman strength, making her invincible is the ability to love! Sincerely, truly, with the heart, not the mind...

Love and its experience is one of the most important goals in a woman's life. We women are ready to do a lot for the sake of love... we are ready to suffer, ready to overcome the impossible, ready to wait, and sometimes even die for it!

But are we ready to just let her in and let her be in our lives? Are you ready to love yourself? Love those around you? Or is it safer to live without feelings?

In the modern world, there are a lot of dogmas about love, stereotypes that come to us through the painful experiences of other people, through fairy tales and stories, through films and beliefs.

Almost every woman has in her mind a set of these stereotypes that separate her from great power

1) Because of love you will have to suffer/give a sacrifice...

2) If people love each other, they should be together. If they are not together, it is not love...

3) You can only love once...

4) It is impossible to love everyone at once...etc.

I think you can add many more conditions and restrictions for love to this list.

But no matter what we think, no matter how we interpret the rules of love, it still remains a state that is available to everyone who is ready to open their heart...

And it is very important for us women to get rid of the dogmas that keep our hearts closed. The heart center fills a woman, gives her meaning and strength to live, it brings sensations, feelings, depth into her life. It gives peace and magical power... if it is open.

We are very much limited by the conventions of our society, which says that if you break up, you must hate each other and be offended, you can no longer love each other.

But that's not true. Sometimes fate turns out in such a way that we lose the people we love, but this does not mean that we should stop loving them, and it also does not mean that everything is over with this love and your heart will never feel that way for anyone else.

Love is all-encompassing and great. After all, when relatives die, we continue to love them, and we can also continue to love people with whom fate separated us...

It is absolutely necessary for a woman to fill her most important love with trust - love for God and love for herself. And when this love lives in her heart, she very clearly feels that “my task, as a woman, is to bring love and tenderness, to bring lightness to the world, and God will arrange everything else in the best way!”

Karma is now unfolding very quickly, in one life we meet several very important karmic people with whom we must share true love, without an admixture of guilt, shame and pain.

A loving woman is beautiful! Remember your state when you love, everything around takes on meaning, content, colors, clarity... and the feeling comes that “this is what I want to live for.” The main thing is not to confuse the state with the object to which it is routed. And then we can preserve this state and live with it forever. And it won’t be so painful for us to let go, because the most important thing remains with us!

Put your hand to your heart and feel if you have the strength to live with love in your heart? Are you ready to discover this power within yourself? And partly, in dissonance with society, continue to live with an open heart?

At some point in my life, I made this choice, and it brought me incredible feelings about life. I chose love so decisively that the people next to me involuntarily begin to open their 4th chakra. And many are afraid of me, because they are not ready to live like this... and others begin to open their hearts, release from it everything that was hidden there, all the power of their love and its thirst. This affects men especially strongly. One of the most frequent phrases I hear from them is: “Julia, what I told you now no one knows about me / a couple of people know / I never told anyone about this!”

Because a woman connected with her heart full of love quenches the thirst for trust! And trust is the foundation of healthy and strong relationships!

A loving woman has powerful strength, she can forgive, she can be merciful!

You know, when I became acquainted with Vedic knowledge and heard that a woman should communicate with a man in this way, should cook for him, should massage her feet, I thought, “This is so difficult!” What kind of patience and endurance you need to have!”

But everything turned out to be much simpler, it’s enough to just love a lot so that you have the strength to create women’s miracles every day!

Therefore, please forgive all the grievances in your heart, restore the thread of love in your relationships with people! You need this. This is for your happiness!

Now just put your hand to your heart and ask:

“What separates me from being in love right now?”

And if you don’t have any compelling arguments, then live this day with love in your heart!

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Every girl was taught from childhood be good.

Any of us will list a whole list of rules, functions and requirements that an ideal daughter, student, wife, employee, mother must meet...

We will not dwell on the details; you can create your own list yourself. But, if we look at it in general, it comes down to several points.

What a comfortable, “good girl” SHOULD do

1. Listen to your elders

There is always someone who knows what is “right”.

First - parents and grandparents. Then - teachers, bosses, husbands...

Even if a woman has already become a mother and seems to be able to teach her children the “rules,” she is not exempt from “listening to elders.” After all, there is her mother, and even her mother-in-law.

It turns out that there will always be someone “more authoritative” than you, and there seems to be no end in sight to this cycle.

2. Don’t ask unnecessary questions, especially “Why does it have to be this way?”

That's why. Our grandfathers lived this way, and so will we.

You need to walk along convenient paths trodden by “generations of ancestors.”

3. Carry out the accepted list of actions for a particular social role

Which? And you wrote it above, for example, for “a good mother” or “a good wife.”

Clean every day, make 50 liters of jam, don’t argue with your boss, go to the factory, force the children to study well...

Who determines this list - see the paragraph above.

Try to sit down and write down all the qualities that distinguish a good mother, in your understanding, from a bad one. Then re-read this list, and you will see for yourself that NO MATTER YOU WANT, you cannot live up to this role.

4. Care about others, not yourself

You were convenient for scoundrels, because you are so kind...
E. Yevtushenko

Think about others first, think about yourself last (if time and energy remain). Yes, by others we mean not only close ones, but also generally unknown “all people”.

Be kind (Oh-oh-oh!... What scope there is for manipulators who use your kindness for their own purposes).

Don't upset anyone. But no matter what you do, someone will definitely be upset or offended... You can be led by this rope for a long time.

In general, a good girl is called that because she is good and convenient for everyone. Except yourself. And everyone enjoys using this...

5. Pass on this experience to other girls (daughters, students)

Because otherwise she will be called a “bad mother” or “bad teacher.”

A bleak picture... It turns out to be a vicious circle of “endemic goodness.” Some women, who do not love themselves, teach growing girls to live the same way as they do, and they teach their daughters, and so on...

But there is one colossal thing about all this that makes me very happy. FREEDOM OF CHOICE.

And it is from this that is born Woman Creator.

She creates her own reality. The word “should” disappears from her vocabulary. It kills the ease and freedom of creation. Such a woman uses the words “ I want" And " I choose».

Of course, she is conscious and adequate; freedom for her does not mean complete disregard for social rules.

She just thinks and chooses every time how she will act in every next moment of her life.

An internally free woman will be happy, she will find a resource and a way out of any difficult circumstances. The internally unfree will suffer even in a prosperous situation.

What does a Creative Woman CHOOSE to do?

1. Listen to yourself

Listen to your body, heart, ask for advice from your Higher Self. Be guided by your own wisdom and intuition.

No one knows your life, the circumstances and motives of your choices better than you. There is not a single person in the world who knows “what is right” for you to do in your life, except you.

2. Constantly ask questions and look for new ways

Of course, the Creative Woman has a list of habitual and understandable patterns of behavior that are pleasant to her and work well in her life (for example, going to bed at a certain time).

But she found them herself, by listening to herself and studying her body and psyche.

She possesses the experience of previous generations, but does not accept all of it “on faith,” but takes only what is truly comfortable and valuable to her.

Her feminine energy is very high. She creates every moment, looking for non-standard options. She sees and creates beauty and magic even in the simplest, everyday things. A dance, a painting, playing with a child or dinner - everything becomes a miracle in her hands.

3. Try to be as happy as possible, regardless of what social role you currently play.

The beauty of a woman is not in her clothes, figure or hairstyle. It glows in her happy eyes. After all, the eyes are the gates of the heart in which love lives.
Audrey Hepburn

A good daughter, wife, mother, employee - first of all, in every case, a Creative Woman is happy. She chooses joy and pleasure, and does not do anything that contradicts this. Even if someone thinks they “should do it.”

Next to a happy woman, her husband, children, and colleagues are happy. Her feelings are sincere and easy, and every family member feels inspired next to her.

And various household or professional affairs in this flow are done as if by themselves. And yes, those around you are very happy to help with their implementation.

4. Love and value yourself

Take care of your physical health and psychological comfort.

Relax, relax, engage in pleasant sports activities, go for massages and spa treatments.

Find time and solitude for self-development and meditation. Chat with nice people.

A self-loving, happy woman fills the surrounding space, family, and work team with warmth and light.

5. Support others' value and freedom of choice.

Girls should always be told that they are beautiful and that everyone loves them. If I have a daughter, I will always tell her that she is beautiful, I will comb her hair and I will not leave her alone for a minute.
Marilyn Monroe

A Creative Woman does not impose her way of life on anyone and does not condemn someone else’s.

But everyone who communicates with her is imbued with a feeling of lightness and self-worth. She has accepted her beauty and strength, and now sees it in others.

A Creative Woman is truly inspiring for her friends, daughters, students...

How good it is that at every moment of our lives there is freedom of choice!

Each woman can choose for herself whether to remain a good and comfortable girl until retirement, or take life into your own hands and create it with pleasure...

And I made my choice. I wish the same for you, dear friends.

Ulyana Radnaya,
specifically for Keys of Mastery.

P.S. I suggest you go through Alena Starovoitova’s amazing meditation “On the Top of the Mountain” to connect with yourself as a Creative Woman.

Every girl was taught from childhood be good.

Any of us will list a whole list of rules, functions and requirements that an ideal daughter, student, wife, employee, mother must meet...

We will not dwell on the details; you can create your own list yourself. But, if we look at it in general, it comes down to several points.