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People are not always frank and openly express the feelings they experience. And oddly enough, good emotions are much more difficult to show than bad ones. If a person is dissatisfied with something or someone, then most likely, no matter how much he restrains himself, he will soon voice it in one way or another. And he is able to skillfully hide his sympathy for a long time, and in such a way that no one will guess about his true feelings. This is especially true for guys in love. Sometimes, while feeling sympathy for a girl, they demonstrate the exact opposite attitude, trying to mislead her. To understand that a guy likes you, you need to know the main signs that indicate falling in love. By “trying” them on a man, you can easily bring him to light.

If a guy stubbornly does not want to show his feelings and intentions, then you will have to stock up on observation, analytical skills and evaluate his behavior. Even the most cautious conspirators, as a rule, give themselves away very quickly, because, having built a certain strategy of behavior, they simultaneously send unconscious signals that are worth paying attention to.

Even if a guy carefully hides his feelings, he can still be identified by certain signs

Visual cues

Even without talking to a person, you can try to understand what feelings and emotions he is experiencing by his behavior, gestures and facial expressions. All these are visual signs of sympathy, that is, those that can be seen with the eyes.

1. Sight. A person who does not have particularly strong feelings for someone who is nearby looks at the interlocutor directly, but calmly, sometimes averting his eyes as the conversation progresses. And someone who has strong emotions usually cannot maintain adequate eye contact. A guy who likes a girl either literally glares at her or, conversely, hides them. Which of these options depends on his temperament, self-confidence and the reason why the feelings are carefully hidden from their object. For example, if a man is silent about sympathy because, despite his emotions, he does not want to burden himself with a relationship, then he will look at the girl without any embarrassment. And if the reason for silence is self-doubt and the feeling that he is not good enough, then you will often see eyes averted to the side.
2. Pupils. One of the most uncontrollable reactions is the reaction of the pupils. They will definitely betray the slightest excitement experienced by a person. Dilated pupils clearly indicate that the guy is experiencing something.
3. A guy's attempts to invade a girl's personal space. The desire to be closer pushes him forward, and as a result, without realizing it, he comes almost close.
4. Thumbs tucked behind the belt. A gesture similar in meaning is to have your hands in your pockets and your thumbs outside. This is how guys emphasize their masculinity. Although in fairness it is worth noting that even if there are no girls nearby, such gestures can still be used, because you want to feel more courageous both in the company of men, and even alone.
5. Pose. It is believed that people turn their toes and body towards the person they like. Therefore, if in a large company a man’s body seems to “look” towards the same girl, then, undoubtedly, he likes her.

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An overly frank look that a man casts without embarrassment at a woman’s breasts and hips certainly speaks of his sympathy, but does not mean at all that there is anything more than ordinary sexual interest in this. Therefore, psychologists advise carefully monitoring a man’s attitude in general, and not drawing hasty conclusions.

Verbal signs

The most convenient reason for studying a guy's behavior for sympathy is a conversation, during which you need to pay attention to some signs.

1. Nervousness in speech. It manifests itself in shy guys. When they see the object of their adoration, they get lost, forget what to say, slow down or, conversely, speed up their speech.
2. The timbre of the voice becomes lower than usual. This is an attempt to look more courageous in the eyes of a girl.
3. Boasting and bragging. In an attempt to gain admiration, guys can talk for hours about their existing and non-existent exploits. As a rule, in addition to this, you can observe a modestly lowered gaze. Philosophical sayings are also practiced, accompanied by heavy sighs of a person wise with life experience. And, of course, this “prince on a white horse” will claim that if he has not achieved something in life, it is only because he does not need it, because a person like him is definitely above all this vanity of the material world .
4. Clumsy attempts to find out information about the girl. Asking directly about how her personal life is going would be too simple. This happens, of course, but mostly this question is asked casually, without obvious interest.
5. Coarseness. Yes, this happens too. It's good that this doesn't happen too often. Complex men (usually very young) can go to the other extreme in attempts to disguise their feelings. And then it’s simply difficult for them to stop, they are in a confused state and don’t know how to behave.

A man in love always tries to seem cooler than he is

How different zodiac signs hide their feelings

• The Aries man will always be somewhere nearby, will always try to touch the object of feelings, violate personal space. This sign loves development, including when it comes to relationships. Therefore, he will not beat around the bush for long. Either he will decide to talk frankly, or he will switch to another girl altogether.
• Taurus becomes very attentive and courteous. He tries to help in everything, show concern and generally seem kinder than he is.
• Gemini wants to immediately demonstrate all his strengths, and sometimes this can be intrusive. He prefers to lure the woman he likes with humor.
• The Cancer man is perhaps the most secretive of all the signs. It is difficult to understand from him what he is experiencing. He communicates with the object of his sympathy calmly and reservedly, and may even avoid communication altogether until he definitely decides that he needs a relationship with this girl.
• A lion. This is someone who loves to demonstrate strength and success even more than Gemini. Leo will immediately tell you in detail how good he is. Likes to impress with gifts.
• The Virgo guy is in perfect control of himself, so it is unlikely that he will be able to understand how he feels until he decides to show it. But in general, his attitude will be emphatically friendly.

A guy in love always takes care of the girl

• Libra always tries to devote as much time as possible to the object of feelings. He talks a lot and jokes. At the same time, it is unobtrusive. As a rule, natural indecision for a long time prevents him from taking any more specific actions.
• The Scorpio young man loves girls to fall at his feet, so he often plays with them, moving closer and further away. At first he aggressively seeks a meeting, but during it he demonstrates coldness or even disdain. Jealous and touchy, including when the girl does not yet belong to him. Therefore, he often gets irritated and cannot always hide it.
• Sagittarius has neither complexes nor the desire to think about the prospects of relationships and make far-reaching plans. Therefore, he immediately begins to win the object of sympathy, while absolutely not hiding his intentions. Well, even if he doesn’t talk about feelings for a while, everything is clear from his meaningful glances.
• Capricorn can hint at his chosen one’s feelings for a long time in the hope that she herself will take the first step. This sign is very shy and afraid to show excessive emotionality.
• Aquarius men, despite the fact that they give the impression of being rather gentle people, firmly go towards their goal. They do not rush things, but systematically increase the number of meetings and the duration of communication, starting to devote a lot of time to the girl they like.
• The Pisces guy is very caring, to the point that he begins to control the girl he liked. He is interested in what she does, what she eats, how many hours she sleeps, etc. At the same time, he is very shy, so in the presence of the object of sympathy he may at times look confused.

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How else can he give himself away?

The behavior of a guy in love may, among other things, depend on what kind of relationship connects him with the object of his sympathy.

If you are just communicating or know each other only by correspondence

If communication between a guy and a girl has just begun and has not yet developed into friendship, then a young man in love, of course, will try to get as close as possible to the object of his adoration, somehow “get hooked,” and find common interests and common ground. For example, if people communicate by correspondence, then he responds to the message immediately, as if he was deliberately sitting and waiting for it to arrive. He asks questions, trying not to end the conversation prematurely, and when the correspondence is interrupted, he starts the next conversation first. Although, if a guy has firmly decided not to show his feelings, then he can deliberately delay responding to messages sent to him, pretending that he is not expecting them and is generally thinking about something else. This is a favorite technique of girls, but it turns out that the stronger sex uses the same methods.

If he's too shy

Shyness is not a very good quality, especially for a man. If he is like this, then it is unknown when he will take the first step and show sympathy. Most likely, this will not happen soon, because he is very afraid of being rejected. Shy guys tend to get very confused in the presence of the girl they like. He will not be able to be witty and charismatic, he will not talk much about himself, extolling his qualities and achievements, and it may be difficult for him to even take the initiative in communication. He often looks away and is afraid to touch the girl. Therefore, if she has an interest in this guy, it is better to be the first to take the initiative. Just be very careful, because especially shy young people can easily be scared off.

If you don't know him or he's an unfamiliar guy

If a guy likes a girl, but they have never communicated with her, he will think about what reason to find to meet her. Well, while he’s doing this, he’ll probably try to be somewhere nearby all the time. For example, visit places where she often visits, pass by work or a fitness room where a girl frequents. He will go to the same store, sign up for the same club, and start walking the dog under her windows. And of course, everything will be clear from his glance. Although he may be looking at the girl without her noticing. In the end, the unfamiliar young man must still make up his mind and approach, one can only hope that he will not come up with some sophisticated way for a “casual” acquaintance.

If a guy carefully hides his feelings, most often his eyes still give him away

If it's a friend

As you know, it is very difficult to transform a relationship from friendship into something more. Psychologists say that if people communicate in a certain way for some time, then it is difficult for them to get out of the role that they have chosen for themselves in the relationship. Other roles in communication with a certain person begin to seem inappropriate to them. Therefore, it is especially difficult for a friend who wants to become more than just a friend. As a rule, he does not know what approach to find to the girl, and if he makes some hints, she stubbornly does not want to understand them. So sooner or later he will still have to say everything directly. Until that happens, he will be very caring. Such a person is always ready to help, even sometimes to the detriment of his own interests. And girls sometimes consult with friends about young people they like. Of course, a friend in love will try with all his might to discourage his beloved from other men.

There are a number of fortune telling and other rituals online that promise to lift the veil of secrecy. Believe them or not is your choice.

If it's an ex-boyfriend

With ex-boyfriends, unlike friends, everything is very simple. As a rule, they do not show any shyness, communicate calmly and allow themselves a lot of things. The whole problem is to talk frankly and offer to make peace. But they cannot be the first to do this, giving such an opportunity to the girl. In any case, if a guy has firmly decided to break up, then he will not provoke his ex-girlfriend to communicate, but, on the contrary, will avoid her in order to quickly normalize the situation and start a new life. If he continues to be nearby, then the breakup occurred due to misunderstanding, but the feelings still remain.

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How men of different ages hide their feelings: a little psychology

It seems that with age people become more reasonable, get rid of complexes and learn to talk about their feelings. But it only seems so. Regardless of age, a man can go out of his way to show indifference when in fact he cares about a woman. And he has even more reasons for this than a young guy, who, as a rule, is driven either by self-doubt or a reluctance to be “driven under the thumb” and, as a result, ridiculed by friends.

A man who has reached the age of at least 30 - 40 years can hide his feelings for the following reasons:

• he considers the girl too frivolous and unsuitable for a relationship;
• for some reason he decided that she wanted to “sit on his neck” or use him in some other way;
• he has a wife and a mistress, so the poor guy doesn’t have enough time for women;
• he is generally tired of women and wants to rest;
• he understands that he needs to find a more profitable party, because it’s time to think not only about feelings, but also about urgent matters.

In all these (and not only these) cases, he expects all emotions to subside on their own. But he continues to behave very strangely. Just like a young guy, he will try to appear better and more courageous than he really is. I must say that the older the man, the funnier it looks from the outside. All other verbal and non-verbal signs of sympathy may also be present. Some men, just like in their youth, may even begin to feel shy when communicating.

But still, we should not forget that an experienced man is much smarter and more cunning than a young man, and therefore is able to deliberately act out signs of ineptly hidden sympathy in order to arouse the girl’s emotions and make her become interested in him. Although now this can be expected from young guys. Some even deliberately learn to manipulate women, for example, in pickup courses.

The reluctance of guys to talk about their feelings is not a big problem, because by studying the external verbal and non-verbal signs of these feelings, you can easily understand everything on your own. In principle, a woman perceives most of the signals sent by men at the subconscious level, without focusing attention on them, but at the same time intuitively feeling that they feel sympathy for her. Problems arise only when she herself is in love. At such a moment, all girls begin to look for confirmation of reciprocity and sometimes wishful thinking. This is where you need to remember the signs by which you can determine whether a guy is experiencing any feelings or not, and try to soberly assess the situation. This will help protect yourself from unnecessary worries and uncertainty.

What should a girl do who has warm feelings for a man, but does not feel reciprocity? How to determine that a guy from a crowd of women has chosen you? Are there visible signs that a man likes a woman and how to learn to distinguish between them. This is exactly what we will talk about in this article.

A man subconsciously wants to be as close as possible to the object of his adoration

According to scientists from the field of psychology, the language of the human body says much more than words about people’s attitude to the world around them. According to experts, the body language of men is significantly different from women. When communicating with the opposite sex, women use more than fifty different gestures to display their emotions and feelings. Men are more constrained in this regard, and their “vocabulary” consists of only ten gestures. It is thanks to these gestures that you can determine the degree of your attractiveness in the eyes of a man.

How to understand that a man likes you? First of all, you should pay attention to eye contact. When looking at a woman to whom a man is subconsciously attracted, eye contact is established for quite a long time (about five seconds). Raised eyebrows and wide open eyes can indicate interest. Another manifestation of the presence of feelings can be an invasion of personal space and an attempt to take a closer distance during a conversation.

Particular attention should be paid to the hands and fingers of the interlocutor. Most people during a conversation place their hands towards the interlocutor, which indicates interest in communication. Body language is almost impossible to control, which allows you to “read” a man like an open book. Trying to tidy up your appearance, straightening your tie, brushing away specks of dust and smoothing your hair is one of the manifestations of interest. If we draw an analogy with the animal world, then this behavior of a man can be compared with a peacock that demonstrates its beauty in front of a female.

A person’s behavior can tell about many of his qualities, including his feelings.

Pay more attention to how the man sits, gestures and moves. When a representative of the stronger sex is overcome by warm and bright feelings, he subconsciously tries to evoke certain emotions in his companion. Trying to leave a good impression comes in the form of participation and interest in your conversation.

People do not always communicate with words; sometimes they prefer to show their affection through gestures, glances and facial expressions.

As mentioned earlier, special importance is attached to visual contact in this situation. A guy in love practically does not take his eyes off his chosen one, trying to “catch” every awkward glance. To determine the level of interest, you should respond to an attempt to make eye contact, and after a few seconds, look away. After this, return your gaze back and carefully analyze the interlocutor’s reaction. Guys in love often look at the lips of their interlocutor during a conversation. It is thanks to this “sign” that you can determine your interest in a woman. If a man avoids eye contact, then this indicates that he is not interested in you.

According to experts, even shy guys try to establish eye contact with the objects of their adoration. A brief glance skimming the face is one of the manifestations of interest and sympathy.

Behavior model

In order to determine the degree of male attention to your person, you should find time for a detailed analysis of the behavior of the men around you. A clear sign of interest on the part of the male sex is an attempt at touching. At the same time, it is very important to correctly evaluate the gestures “expressed by a man.” If during a conversation a man tries to touch your hand or take it into his hand, then this is a clear sign of overwhelming feelings. If you are sitting next to each other, an attempt to press your body together can also be regarded as a demonstration of caring.

Finding out that a man likes you is quite simple. It is enough just to touch his hand or face during a conversation and carefully study his reaction. An attempt to withdraw and move your hand away indicates that this person does not have any feelings for you. A guy in love can respond to a touch or try to hide the emotions overwhelming him, but he will never try to take the hand of his beloved woman away. Shy and self-conscious guys may respond to touch with a slight wince. In order to correctly assess such a reaction, one should more closely observe the further behavior of the young man.

Guys with high self-esteem often hug the girls around them. That is why when analyzing behavior you should pay attention to various nuances. Such nuances include excitement. Deep breathing, the inability to sit in one place, inappropriate laughter and excessive sweating are clear signs of the excitement that men show when in love. These changes in behavior, combined with an attempt to make a good impression, are an attempt to establish closer relationships.

One of the manifestations of falling in love is the mirror reflection of your body movements. Take a close look at the guy. Trying to copy your actions is a sure sign of being fascinated by you. Responsive actions on your part will be perceived by his subconscious as a kind of signal to begin more decisive actions. It is the copying of gestures that is the main signal from the subconscious about the presence of warm feelings. You can determine the degree of your attractiveness to a man by being in a large company. A man in love will subconsciously take a seat either next to you or opposite you in order to have direct eye contact.

If a man is very timid, then this prevents him from starting a relationship with a girl he really likes

More obvious signs of sympathy

Many girls often ask the following questions:

1. Are there any signs that he likes me?
2. How do you know if a guy likes you?
3. How to determine the difference between friendship and falling in love?

In order to answer all these questions, you should analyze in detail the gestures, body movements and manner of speaking of a man. Most men in love experience a feeling of awkwardness when talking to a girl and do a poor job of hiding slight nervousness. Most often, guys try to talk about themselves in order to interest their interlocutor. Particular attention should be paid to the interlocutor’s manner of speech and reaction to your words.

There is a special technique that allows you to find out about a man’s feelings. During a conversation, approach the guy and tell him something in a half-whisper. You can increase the force of influence by lightly touching the back of your interlocutor. Reciprocal approach, an attempt to catch the eye and reciprocal touches are a clear sign of interest. Lack of reaction and a step back is a kind of demonstration of indifference and friendly attitude. A guy who doesn't have feelings will react negatively to an attempt to invade his personal space.

Men in love often show interest in women's hobbies. They begin to become interested in musical genres, films and TV series that interest the woman they love. He invites you to concerts and invites you to attend various events together dedicated to a topic that interests you. Shared hobbies allow you to find common ground for the further development of relationships. Enthusiastic guys try to learn as much as possible about the girl's interests in order to be able to communicate on various topics.

Meeting a man's friends also plays a fairly significant role. Most guys will not miss the opportunity to make a couple of jokes regarding the affection of a young man. Often it is a man’s friends who try to find out whether the feelings are mutual. Observing the guy’s behavior in the company, as well as his immediate circle, will allow you to obtain all the necessary information for further actions. However, extreme caution should be exercised here. There are times when a young man’s friends talk about him falling in love, although all the accompanying signs in his behavior clearly demonstrate the opposite. For fun, young people may deliberately pit you against each other in order to make fun of the situation.

You can determine that a man likes you if you pay attention to his gestures and phrases

Various signals that appear during close communication

Many young people express their feelings through humor and teasing. This kind of attention is more typical for young guys. It is very important to correctly assess such human behavior. Evil jokes directed at you must be nipped in the bud, no matter what their motives.

The correct interpretation of compliments is also of no small importance. When a man notices the slightest changes in a woman's appearance, this is a direct demonstration of his feelings. Most guys pay little attention to the appearance of the girls around them, and try not to express their comments or admiration. If you hear that a young man likes your hairstyle or your outfit, then this is a clear demonstration of interest in your person. However, if you have known a young man for a long time, then such compliments are not an indicator of falling in love. It is also important to remember that not every guy is able to find the right words to express his own feelings. This should be treated with understanding and wait for more decisive action.

Thanks to social networks, it is much easier to find out about a young man’s love. There are a lot of different hobbies on the Internet, but the fact that a man pays attention to you indicates that he is interested in you. It is possible that in this way the young man may be trying to kill boredom, but frequent messages on social networks clearly indicate the opposite. In this situation, you should pay attention to the style of writing messages. Emoticons and brackets at the end of a sentence do not always mean that a person is happy to communicate. Quite often, such signs are placed out of habit.

It is very important to correctly evaluate the words of your interlocutor. A veiled form of admitting your own feelings may just be context that you have misunderstood. That is why it is very important to analyze the motivation for writing a message.

To understand that a man likes you, you should watch him very carefully

What is required from a woman

Are you wondering how to tell if a man likes you? First, count the number of your “random” meetings this month. Frequent dates in rather unexpected places may indicate that the man specifically creates all the necessary conditions for such meetings.

It is very important to show the correct reaction to signs of attention that a man shows. When giving compliments, smiling and saying hello, a man expects politeness and goodwill in return. If you have reciprocal sympathy, then you should not waste time and should try to invite the man to spend time together on your own. If you do not have reciprocal feelings, then you should tell the man about this as gently as possible. Try not to hurt his feelings and tell him that you appreciate the attention he receives.

Conclusion

When analyzing male behavior, it is very important to correctly interpret the signs of attention shown. Soberly evaluate the actions and signs of attention on the part of representatives of the stronger sex. Many girls mistakenly perceive attention to themselves as a sign of falling in love.

Also, women should be extra careful when communicating with taciturn guys. If you regard an invitation to meet from such a person as a hint of a romantic date, you should find out the purpose of this invitation in advance. Otherwise, an awkward situation will be created when one of you thinks about romance, and the other pursues other goals.

When love comes to a girl, she tries in every possible way to figure out how the object of her sympathy treats her. Every day she observes his behavior so that at least somehow lift the veil of mystery. After all, being in the unknown and uncertainty brings melancholy and contributes to sadness and detachment. Don't despair, this article will give a detailed answer to the question of how to know if a guy likes you or not?

Of course, any girl wants the sympathy to be mutual, and she tries to understand what kind of girls guys like and how to make it so.

For a girl in love, the slightest signs of the object of her love seem like a great feeling. Alas, this is not always true. Here are some signs to tell if a guy likes you:

How to understand that a guy in your classmate likes you

If you are interested in a classmate, but you don’t know how he feels about you, try watching him. Pay attention to his gaze and how he communicates with you. Show him some attention yourself and look at his reaction. There are signs of behavior that will make it clear that your classmate cares about you.

Here are some of them:

How to tell if a shy guy likes you

Shy guys can be hard to understand, but we'll tell you some signs that will help you determine if a shy guy likes you. You will have to carefully observe the object of sympathy:

1. Compare his behavior with you and towards other people. If he only acts very quiet around you or is nervous or irritated, then he has feelings for you. He may be so in love with you that he is afraid to say something stupid or out of place, hence his nervousness.
2. Watch his gestures. In the behavior of a shy young man, you should not look for traces characteristic of other guys (touching, stroking or other “words” of the body). Here you need to pay attention to how awkward he feels next to you: if he avoids looking directly at you, but looks down, fidgets with the hem of his clothes or constantly adjusts something, crosses his arms or, conversely, makes nervous gestures, then There is a high chance that he is making efforts to hide his interest in you.
3. Try to catch his eye. Shy young men only look furtively at the object of their affection. Look at him with peripheral vision so that he thinks that you don’t see that he’s looking at you. If he looks several times, then he is definitely interested in you. You better not look at him directly, otherwise he will become embarrassed and turn away. You can smile at him to somehow cheer him up.
4. Pay attention to whether he is friendly with your friends and girlfriends. He may not be very comfortable with your company, but he just wants to learn more about you from your friends. Especially when he has already become friends with all your friends, and not with you, this may indicate that you are the object of his sympathy.

What do you want under no circumstances should this be done if the young man is very shy:

• Don't directly ask him if he's interested in you. He will never admit anything, but will deny everything, and then he may even begin to avoid you.
• Don't ask his friends how he feels about you. If a shy young man is in love with you, he will never tell his friends about it. And friends, not having accurate information, can give false information.

Yes, it’s difficult with a shy young man, but if you act carefully, you can get a lot. Try to communicate with him by chatting online, he will have time to think about the answer, and he will not be nervous about answering inappropriately. So you can - make him fall in love with you by correspondence -.

How to tell if your ex-boyfriend likes you

You live an active life, and events, like kaleidoscope pictures, replace each other, but no, no, and you remember your ex, returning to your past. You go to his page on social networks, casually ask mutual friends about him and look for a chance meeting. Why do you need it? You want to renew your relationship and don’t know how to get your ex back, you’re wondering what feelings he has towards you.

Let's look at what signs you can use to determine that your ex is still in love with you. The situation is simplified if you work together in the same company or study in the same class or school. The behavior and words of a former lover can tell a lot about what feelings he experiences towards you. He you still loves you if:

• finds any reason to call;
• asks your friends about you;

• compliments you;
• talks about you with friends;
• slightly jealous of others.

It’s worse if you broke up and all your paths diverged: you don’t have common friends and you live in different parts of the city. In such a situation, it is very difficult to find out about his feelings. The only acceptable option would be write him an SMS. You should not talk about your feelings, but simply ask how you are doing. Well, all that remains is to wait.

If he doesn’t answer or answers coldly, then there is no chance, but if in the answer you feel interest on his part, then this is a sure sign that he cares about you, and you have a lot of options on how to get your guy back.

Situation according to zodiac signs

It happens that sometimes the actions of the opposite sex are very strange and ambiguous, and it can be very difficult to interpret them correctly. A young man may show sympathy for you in an unusual way, but you still won’t be able to understand whether he likes you or not.

It has already been noted that certain personal characteristics are tied to the date of birth and horoscope: young people of different zodiac signs show their sympathy in different ways. Let's look at each zodiac sign.

How to understand that an Aries guy likes you

Aries operates according to the principle: I came, I saw, I conquered. He is assertive, straightforward and will not hide his feelings if he cares about you. The Aries young man is smart, stubborn and inclined to dominate. He can get you by any means.

How to tell if a Taurus guy likes you

Before they start conquering their girlfriend, Taurus will weigh the pros and cons and draw up a whole plan for conquest. They will act according to the classic scenario: flowers, ice cream, chocolate, cinema and a lot of laughter and fun, because Taurus have a great sense of humor.

How to understand that a Gemini guy likes you

You don’t even need to ask this question, because if a Gemini boy likes you, absolutely everyone will see it. If he likes you, he will fill all the space with himself, there will be too much of him. He will tell you all the news and interesting stories that he learned, invite you to parties, call you endlessly and flood you with messages.

How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you

Cancer is a rather closed sign, and you won’t be able to immediately understand whether he likes you or not. He will look closely at you for a long time, and if he decides that you are the one, he will let you know it in action. He won't take you to parties and don't be surprised if he is silent for a long time, and then joins the conversation and tells cool and funny stories. He has a narrow circle of friends - friends whom he trusts 100%. He is secretive, unpredictable and very vulnerable at heart. Always ready to help, he doesn’t skimp on compliments and gifts.

How to understand that a Leo guy likes you

Leo is bright and assertive. Sociable, cheerful, believes in his irresistibility and his strength. He is always right, and criticism is unacceptable to him (in one word - a king). Leo will pursue his beloved in any way; the presence of rivals does not stop him, he will sweep them away. It is very important that Leo is incapable of betrayal and meanness.

How to understand that a Virgo guy likes you

With a young man, Virgo cannot be intrusive, hot and assertive - this can push him away. You should not expect surprises and invitations to romantic dates; rather, you will walk in a nearby park, but at the same time you will have to look your best, because Virgo appreciates it.

How to tell if a Libra guy likes you

There's a gentleman in front of you. He is smart, charming and smiling and has good manners. They will definitely not force their chosen one, and you may even have to take the first step yourself. After that, if he really likes you, you will receive a lot of attention and advances.

How to tell if a Scorpio guy likes you

This is a purposeful and consistent sign. Scorpio boys have charisma and are very charming. If you had the imprudence to fall in love with him, then it will last for a long time. Scorpio beautifully wins the girl's favor: flowers, gifts and compliments, but when the goal is achieved, he may suddenly lose interest in you, and he will start looking for the next one. Scorpio is also distinguished by courage and determination, he knows how to make friends and is always there in a difficult situation.

How to understand that a Sagittarius guy likes you

Sagittarians make acquaintances easily. Guys, representatives of this sign, are very self-confident, they are always right and it is unrealistic to argue with them. Sagittarius is smiling and gives a lot of gifts. He loves it when a girl appreciates his mental abilities. He knows how to find a way out of the most difficult situations and keep secrets.

How to understand that a Capricorn guy likes you

This zodiac sign is attracted to calm, friendly and fair girls, because by nature Capricorn also has such qualities. He is confident and practical. If he sets a goal for himself, he will definitely go towards it in an honest way. It is important for him to be appreciated and praised. This is the most constant partner in friendship and love.

How to understand that an Aquarius guy likes you

Before you start hunting for Aquarius, think carefully about whether this is what you need. Yes, he is charming, but unnecessary and unpredictable.
He has his own rules of life, and if you accept them, it will be easier for you to find common ground with him.

How to understand that a Pisces guy likes you

Pisces guys are afraid of the object of their adoration. They admire silently and from afar, only sometimes they swim up to their beloved. Pisces will be grateful to you if you show attention to them, and will reciprocate.

You like a guy, and you even dream about him at night, but you don’t know for sure how he feels about you. You can watch him and understand from his gaze and gestures whether he likes you or not, or you can seize the right moment and talk to him about your feelings. Maybe after this you will start dating, and everything will be fine, but there may be a second scenario - he will just laugh at you, and nothing will work out. You just have to be ready for it, although it is always bitter and offensive. Remember that life is beautiful and goes on.

Incredible facts

Can you imagine a world in which there is no deception? It is unlikely that anyone will have enough imagination to realize how much we will lose or how much we will gain if we stop lying to each other. The man is lying every day, so the skills of bringing an interlocutor to clean water will be useful to everyone.

Moreover, each of us has once made mistakes about people. At such moments, we think about how it was possible not to immediately notice that the person is unreliable and cannot be relied on. And it also happens that we simply cannot find a common language with someone because we did not bother to observe the person in order to create his portrait.

But how do you really get to know a person? Colleague, potential partner, friend? There are a lot of articles on the Internet like “ask these questions to really get to know a person.” But how do you imagine this? Do you sit a person in front of you and start interrogating them? Not many people will agree to this.

The other extreme is to believe that a person can only be known over a long period of time. However, coach John Alex Clark is confident that the key in this matter is not time, but observation and the ability to connect the information received into one chain.

There are several very simple and at the same time powerful techniques that will help you identify patterns in a person’s behavior and learn about his character. Let's talk about them.

How to recognize a person

1. Notice the details

Every day a person performs a huge number of routine actions: buying food, traveling in public transport, talking on the phone, etc. A person's actions can shed light on his personality and also help predict how he will behave in a given situation.

Example A. If a person chooses the same dish in a cafe every day, then he probably avoids change and does not like the state of uncertainty. Such people can be faithful and devoted spouses. But on the other hand, it will be extremely difficult to convince him to make risky investments or move to another country.

Example B. People who enjoy gambling and other risky activities are more likely to take risks in other areas of their lives. For example, such a person may quit his job without finding another one and without thinking about financial security during unemployment.

Example B. A person who always looks both ways when crossing the road is likely to be prudent and cautious. He will carefully consider every detail before making any decision, and will only take well-calculated risks.

That is, if you analyze a person’s actions in one area, you will be able to understand how he will behave in other areas.

2. Pay attention to how the person communicates

How does your interlocutor behave in communication? Does he try to build relationships with each person, or does he single out those who are close to him in spirit, and holds the rest at arm’s length? Does he talk without a clear plan, on a whim, focusing on impressions, or does he constantly analyze, try to be objective and do not trust his intuition?

Is a person more of a thinker, relying on concepts, images, diagrams and ideas, or is he more of a practitioner, living in a world of measurable quantities, tasks and facts? If you observe everyday words and behavior, you will be able to trace a general line.

3. Talk to the person about relationships with mutual friends and contacts at work.

Many people believe that gossip is an empty activity, devoid of any meaning. However, the main thing in this matter is what qualities the interlocutor gives to other people, how he explains their behavior. Often, when we talk about other people, we unconsciously notice what is present in ourselves.

These conversations will help us understand what we value in the people around us, who we want to be like, and also what we want to change in ourselves. The more we say that others are emotionally stable, happy, kind-hearted, or polite, the more likely we are to have these characteristics ourselves.

If a person says about another that he is pretending to dig a hole for someone, then this may mean that such a person is calculating and builds only relationships built on momentary gain.

4. Probe existing boundaries

When a person wants to build a relationship, he sees the good and ignores the bad. However, sooner or later, the illusions will still dissipate, and the person will appear before you in all his glory. A person who knows how to communicate correctly will, first of all, look not for the good in his interlocutor, but for his boundaries.

If the opponent is nice, where does the niceness end? He wants to help, but where does this desire stop? If he is sincere, then when will it start to get dark? Until what point is he tolerant of his subordinates’ mistakes? Are you honest with your clients? What if we are talking about a sum with a lot of zeros?

Adequate, sober-minded, understanding, reasonable? Where is his limit, beyond which he turns into a madman?

5. Pay attention to the person’s behavior in a critical situation

When force majeure happens, a person shows himself in all his glory, he simply cannot play or be disingenuous. He doesn’t have time to put on a mask, so he begins to behave as his instincts want.

How to really know a person

6. Pay attention to his attitude towards the service staff

People whose life has been unfair, in their own opinion, have a habit of taking it out on the service staff. Sellers, waiters, cleaners - everyone gets it. If your interlocutor calls the waiter by snapping his fingers or whistling, then this is the first sign that the person is, at a minimum, poorly brought up with all that that implies.

7. Observe intonation and body language

There is a lot of information on the Internet about body language. Liars are recognized by certain signs: they pause in the conversation, change the topic of the conversation, begin to make excuses even if there is no reproach, look away when answering a question, and often touch their face.

Colleague, friend, potential partner... You like a person, but you don’t fully understand what kind of person he is, how he will react to your vulnerability, can you trust him with a secret, ask for help? There are articles circulating on psychological “life hacking” sites like “If you want to get to know someone, ask them 38 questions.” Let's imagine what it looks like: you sit a colleague or acquaintance opposite you, ask him questions from the list and carefully document the answers. How many will agree to this?

The other extreme is to believe that you can figure out a person only through several months or years of close communication. Coach John Alex Clark is sure: it’s not about the amount of time, but about observation and the willingness to connect facts into a single chain. There are several simple techniques that can help you discover patterns in behavior and understand your character.

1. Notice the details

Every day we perform thousands of routine actions: talking on the phone, buying food. People's actions can provide insight into their personality and help predict how they will behave in similar situations.

Example A. Someone who chooses the same dish at a restaurant every day may avoid change in life and dislike uncertainty. Such a person may turn out to be a faithful and devoted husband, but it will be difficult to convince him to move to another country or make a risky investment.

Example B. A person who enjoys trading the stock market and other risky ventures is likely to take risks in other areas of life. For example, he may quit his job without finding a new one and without taking care of the financial “safety cushion”.

Example C. A person who never forgets to look both ways before crossing the road can be a cautious person. He will carefully consider every decision before making it and will only take calculated risks.

By analyzing a person’s behavior in one area, you can evaluate how he will manifest himself in other areas of life.

2. Pay attention to communication methods

How does he communicate? Does he build relationships with everyone or single out those who are closest in spirit, and try to stay within the bounds of decency with the rest? Does he act on a whim, without a clear plan, is he guided by impressions or does he try to analyze everything, does he not trust his instincts and strives to be objective? Is he rather a practitioner who lives in a world of facts, tasks, measurable quantities, or a thinker for whom ideas, concepts, diagrams and images are important?

3. Discuss relationships at work, with mutual friends

It seems that “washing the bones” is an empty and meaningless activity. But the main thing is what qualities a person imparts to others, how he interprets their motivations. When talking about others, we most often notice what is in ourselves. Our personal “pantheon” can tell us what we value in people, who we strive to be like, what qualities we try to change in ourselves.

The more often a person evaluates others as kind-hearted, happy, emotionally stable, or polite, the more likely it is that he himself is endowed with these traits. Reasoning like “he’s just pretending, he’s digging a hole for someone” can mean that the interlocutor is calculating and understands only relationships built on benefits.