My boyfriend is very tall and I am short. Interaction between a tall girl and a short man
06/09/11, NataliliaI love my height, 151, despite the fact that everyone calls me girly and thinks that I haven’t graduated from school yet)) Short people always look younger than their age)) And we make any guy more courageous, they feel so tall) The problem with there is buying shoes, but you can wear high heels and not think that my boyfriend will be shorter than me and we will look stupid. =))
30/09/11, Inken
I’m one of those people myself, that’s why I love it. It's quite simple, isn't it? :)
29/10/11, hashmalai
Little Women is a song. Especially miniature ones, like Barbie. You fuck them, and they feel like a pedophile. Oh my. Standing on them is like after a dose of Viagra. Particularly valuable shots are the little brunettes, with short legs- just sex bombs. I had one like that - God, I remember - my heart skips a beat. Such a sweet masochist, yes.. But in life, by the way, she is talented, tenacious, and cool. Of course, I’m not against tall ones - they can be more impressive to look at. But damn, they don’t have that kind of traction. I just want to rape the little one. And also taking care of her like your daughter is also a cool topic.
29/10/11, hashmalai
Oh, I’ll also add - I don’t like it when little women put on heels. This suggests that they themselves do not like their height. Ballet flats are the best - they're a miracle on small feet, believe me. And in general, I prefer short-legged ones with beautiful legs- somehow these mops sticking out from the hips are not for me. There can be any breast, in principle, zero too - but what is the practical meaning of it? And they fed with zero breastfeeding. But don’t spend money on bras. Perfect size- fits in the palm of your hand. That is, no more than the second.
22/11/11, Xmaxsax
I myself am 185 cm and I especially love thin people with voluminous hair. They are so cute and fragile, I just want to hug you. The main thing is that you don’t think that they don’t take you seriously because of your height, if they don’t take you, then they won’t understand being tall From the outside it often seems that if there is a tall guy and a short girl, then the guy has the same love as his brother for little sister, I I think this is just an illusion.
24/11/11, LoveOliver
I don’t know, maybe someone has envy tall girls I didn’t have anything like that. I myself am 158 cm) and nothing. I have no complexes. I weigh 48 kg and guys are constantly trying to get acquainted. And I’ve met guys below 170 and above) I’ve never heard any complaints or insults :) and short girls wear heels , not because of a complex) but because all girls love high stilettos. I myself wear mostly 7-8 cm) and even 12, but I calmly walk in sneakers, without any complexes :) I have a friend who is 170 cm and she I haven’t dated anyone, no one has proposed) so the number of guys depends not on height, but on appearance, character, common interests, etc.)
25/03/12, Lui Yogurt
Okay) Let's start with the fact that my height is 161 cm and weight 45 kg, I am 19 years old. I look quite fragile and I don’t complain about my figure, it’s in shape hourglass. But you rarely see such a figure in tall girls. They are either angular or mares. I don’t want to offend anyone, but why do so many people decide that short girls are evil and complex? Do not make me laugh! My boyfriend is significantly taller than me, but I don't care and he doesn't complain. He says there is no need to go higher. As one guy told me, “Tall girls are made for basketball, short girls are made for love!” Many tall girls are slouched and look like a question mark. Beautiful? I don’t think so) It’s up to the guys to judge!
25/03/12, Alisia k
All sorts of girls are beautiful - both tall and small) Somehow it happened that all my friends are short, well, just mice compared to me) They’re cool - it’s easier to choose clothes and shoes, and you don’t have to worry that the guy will turn out to be shorter than them)) They are real beauties for me, but the most important thing is that they really wonderful people! But I myself am 179 cm tall - and I also really love my height. Someone here wrote about stooping, “a figure like a mares”... what kind of nonsense is this? Envy, is something bothering you, or I don’t even know what?.. Envy in silence! =)
02/04/12, Teresa98
Girls who write here are losers. I find your stupid and unfounded comments funny. Does it matter how tall a girl is? There are other criteria for assessing a person in the world. If I were 140 or 190 cm, I wouldn’t care because there are other ways in the world to achieve success and happiness. And for this I will give you examples of the growth of girls from sports who have achieved significant more success in sports and life than all those who write here combined: Alena Savchenko (152 cm), Narumi Takahashi (146 cm), Megan Duhamel (152 cm), Yuko Kawaguchi (157 cm), Cady Denny (147 cm) , Sui Wenjing (143 cm!), as well as tall girls: Maria Sharapova (188 cm), Ekaterina Gamova (202 cm!), Malgorzata Didek (213 cm), etc. The whole world knows them... And here you are doing something unclear... P.S. Absolutely all facts are from Wikipedia, i.e. from official sources. P.P.S. I hope this message ends this incomprehensible dispute...
02/04/12, Rigoletto
I’m 176... I’d like to be at least 10 cm shorter, and I also have a weakness for high heels. But how I sometimes wish I had a 36 foot size, and not 40 like mine... The little ones are lucky....
03/04/12, Reila
Because they carry them in their arms almost every day: I have never seen tall friends being carried in their arms. And I hopped and lifted my 40kg carcass: Small, neat, everything is in place. And it’s cool when your boyfriend is taller than you, even if you’re wearing heels: D And it’s also cute when they make me look like 14-15 years old. Yes, and the choice of things is oh, what, you just need to hem them, but this takes about 15-20 minutes, so it’s normal: Z I also read somewhere that short people get sick less!:DD
28/04/12, Kenny249
Because they are short and fragile, and therefore you want to carry them in your arms. But for fat and short people, well, that’s too much, except for the moderately plump ones.
12/05/12, Ket13avg
I myself am very vertically challenged only 1.47 in junior classes always ran around, but from 9th grade they started with me normal attitude and now I understand that it doesn’t make any difference whether someone is short, tall, fat or thin. The main thing is that the person is interesting:)))
25/05/12, qazwsxedcrfvtgbyhnujmik
And I like little girls)) they are so cute =)). I’m big myself, I always wanted to be small. Small ones - they're cute :D
27/05/12, Angelina
A girl should be small so that when she wears heels she will be tall and not a horse! My height is 161 cm, it’s okay, I live with it) And in general, you need to love yourself)
05/07/12, Yana555
Dear girls)) Girls from height m.60 are considered average height, not low! :)) I really love small and tall girls alike)) I like the miniature nature of little ones, proportional figure, and tall ones are slender long legs, waist:)) In general, so:)) I’m neither for nor against.. Guys like different things.. Believe me)) Some people say I’m this shorty?? Ew! Aw, what a little sweetheart)) I would like someone like that to be my wife!! OR wow, what a mare is coming!! Ay, what a long-legged beauty, ideal!! In general, the point is that everyone has different tastes. Some people like being tall or short, but others don’t. I myself am exactly m.60 :) Average))! I have a lot of both tall and short girl friends! And I like both)) Be more diverse.
08/07/12, Alexrush
1. because I love all girls 2. I am not the coach of the basketball team
10/07/12, Valerian9393
my height is 1.63 I love short girls because I feel like a man, and I can fight with everyone
24/07/12, polupalma
We are fragile and petite. And we don’t have situations where a guy is shorter than us, which looks extremely ridiculous.
27/08/12, metalEasT
And I like it :) and that's all
02/09/12, DarkMudastarkK
No higher than 165 cm - that’s it! For what? For THAT SAME!;)
19/09/12, Lesha Lesha
My opinion is this: the main thing is not height, the main thing is proportions. I’m not even talking about beauty now, the fact is that there are tall girls, but at the same time 2/3 of this height is back and head, standing on short, plump legs. Even if two girls are from the same beautiful legs are standing next to each other, then the one that is taller will look unfavorable compared to the small one... But what can I say, there are beautiful feminine girls both tall and short and even very little charming princesses and no less attractive volleyball and basketball players together. It's not a matter of height. But personally, I prefer short girls, they somehow is it easier or something?, there is no arrogance, but tall girls often turn out to be not so difficult, sometimes you can talk to them very, very pleasantly, but for some reason these are less common)))
14/11/12, Litany
Fire! But fucking is not very comfortable.
22/11/12, Ultrasovsky
I am in love with a girl with short stature, and in general they are more attracted to those with short stature:) They are so... Cute, neat:)
02/12/12, Eva Jazz
I myself am 165 cm. In my opinion this is normal height. Helmut just tells me that I’m compact :) That’s great. They say about me, kleine Frau - grosse Stimme. That is: a small woman - a big voice.
If the girl is taller than the guy
Differences in Relationships
If the girl is taller than the guy
Almost all people are accustomed to the fact that in relationships the man plays a leading role; it is he who directs the couple in the right direction and makes fateful decisions for both of them. The woman is assigned the creative role of the keeper of the hearth, which is possible due to her sensual and patient disposition. This is considered normal and “correct”.
However, in a situation where a girl’s height exceeds a guy’s height, people tend to believe that such a discrepancy will have a detrimental effect on basic principles creating relationships. This is where an extremely difficult contradictory situation arises among girls, which can be determined a simple question: “Is it normal to date a guy shorter than you?”
What we see on the screens
If before people strictly believed in the need for conformity in height, then Lately We are increasingly seeing refutations of this fact. A huge number of celebrities and male idols of the generation have very reasonable measurements, for example, Tom Cruise is 174 centimeters tall, and our beloved Harry Potter (Daniel Radcliffe) is 173 centimeters tall. Can such men be called “small”? Definitely not!
Also, according to surveys, there is a huge number of women who prefer men of moderate build and height. They find them ambitious, caring and passionate.
The test survey showed the result that more than half of all couples surveyed, where the girl is taller than the guy, existed for at least 10 years. And couples over 35 believe the height difference has helped strengthen their marriage. In general, couples with this feature are much stronger than others.
Interaction between a tall girl and a short man
Couples where the girls are taller have become very popular lately. They are expected to become even more numerous than couples where the girls are older than their partners.
As statistics show around the world, in 5 percent of couples, the girl is taller than the man. This indicates that the trend is increasing. And soon public opinion will stop being so sharp. And this, perhaps, is the main deterrent for many girls.
Why is the number of couples where the girl is taller than the guy increasing?
The reason for this is discrimination against both groups of people. Many men think that their height is a kind of inferiority, and if so, then they have nothing to be ashamed of. They easily start dating extremely tall girls who also feel a little “special”. Therefore, the union of a short man and a tall girl is guaranteed to be successful.
In addition, such people often have increased aspiration, and, therefore, achieve more significant success. And this allows them to meet wherever and however they want.
If you're interested in a girl who's taller than you, don't be afraid. Be confident and go to her. Don't be bothered by outdated stereotypes!
Girls think short men are cute and good
Most quick way getting to know a girl means approaching her. If you have self-confidence, as well as qualities such as kindness, success and a sense of humor, growth is not a big obstacle. It is unlikely that any of the girls will refuse you because of their height.
Don't be afraid to meet others and not fit into someone else's mold. You have nothing to lose, but a girl can lose someone like that good man, how are you. Do good, give the girl a gift in the form of yourself.
Remember, a man who is not ashamed of his height - successful man. And all girls love successful ones!
Question: Stereotypes of height embarrassment. Although this problem seems quite simple, it hides a whole set of difficulties, both on the part of the girl and the man. And only after defeating all of them will you be able to adequately date a girl taller than you.
Difficulties for girls:
“How will I look with a man shorter than me?”- This is the question many girls ask themselves who have received an offer to date from a guy shorter than them. And although everyone understands that love, understanding and trust should be put at the forefront in relationships, the issue of growth still does not leave them. Fortunately, most of the photographs and images presented in the public domain offer a completely usable appearance, which is good news. However, there are still categorical individuals who do not want to come to terms with this fact.
“What will my parents say about him?”- in many ways, everything depends solely on the worldview of her parents and the freedom that they offer her. In some families, relationships with any guy are allowed, as long as the hands are strong right place and the wallet was not empty, but in others everything was quite categorical. A man must be... and then there is an endless list of a wide variety of requirements. It is likely that when a girl falls in love with you, she will do everything possible to convince her parents that the relationship with you is correct. However, on the very first day the girls do not fall in love, but rather brainwash themselves.
“What will other people think of me?”- the most difficult and dangerous question of all. Most cases of failures and breakups in the “girl is taller than guy” situation occurred precisely for this reason. The girl was simply afraid to appear in public with a guy who was shorter than her. This is emotional pressure and judgmental views from others. Of course, over time, such fear and awkwardness in a relationship passes, and this is right, but in the first stages of dating you can feel extremely awkward.
Difficulties for men:
“Will I look strong?”- as already mentioned, a man walking next to a girl above may feel awkward, clumsy and weak, and no one wants that. This can often be observed in cases where the guy is categorically against high heels at the girl, forcing her to wear pumps or something else flat.
“Am I coping with sex with her?”- for some reason it is believed that if a girl is taller than a man, then the man will have problems having sex with her. By at least A good percentage of men think so. This is absolutely not true, but such a thought is not so easy to get out of your head. Can you imagine the fear a man has before having sex for the first time? So, for the first time you want to be on top, and in such a situation the fear is even greater.
Hello, our dear readers! Our article is dedicated to couples in whichgirl taller than man. We'll talk about whether it's good or bad when a girl is taller than a guy. How to cope with difficulties arising from height differences.
What does psychology and aesthetics say about couples in which the woman is taller than her man? Read the opinion of experts in our article!
A girl is taller than a man - a side view
Conservatives think that traditional model- a man is taller than a woman - the only correct one. Slightly more liberal views allow the same height for both partners. But both opinions are similar in one thing: a woman cannot be taller than a man.
But life shows that these opinions are not true! Otherwise, it turns out that short men have no chance for a personal life! And the tall girl will remain alone if she doesn’t find herself a giant! But people don’t fall in love when they’re tall!
Although many men like tall women. Especially self-confident, impressive adult men who can be proud of their tall companion. But it will be difficult for the weak and insecure - he will simply get lost against its background.
A difference of 5 centimeters is in favor female height is already considered a deviation from the norm. This is due to the possibility for a woman to wear heels. Having taken off her shoes, she will still be short.
A man, as a protector, should be able to cover her with his body. So it is considered. What if she’s tall and he’s up to her shoulder? Folds up natural feeling that he is weak, although in fact everything is exactly the opposite.
Men like tall women
The guys themselves admit: by and large, a tall girl is very attractive. An elongated slender body is very erotic. If a tall girl looks well-groomed and is dressed tastefully, she will attract more attention than a short girl. This is an additional opportunity for a man to be proud of his chosen one.
One gets the impression that physically protectinggirl, which higher guy, difficult. He is next to her, which means he is able to protect her. And this is plus a hundred points of his masculinity! Men need to overcome difficulties.
A tall girl looks spectacular, and will choose only the spectacular and worthy man. Another confirmation that he is worthy.
A short girl, in addition to everything else, it seems little sister a man, and that she should always be taken care of. High in to a greater extent looks expectant mother. If a girl doesn’t have a complex about her height, she is confident in herself and inspires a sense of reliability.
In the sphere of intimacy, even if this is not the case, a tall, thin girl seems more mobile and flexible. And variety is an especially desirable thing for a man. Tall also looks successful. By her own. Sodo guys like tall people– 80% – yes!
A man with short stature - difficulties
WITH feminine side everything is a little different.Short men– it’s physically uncomfortable. You cannot hide behind it if necessary. When short man begins to command, he seems more like a spoiled child than an adult. The woman looks more to the sides, and tall woman It has good review. The short man is not on the same visual wavelength as her. He has to constantly pull himself up and peek out to see where she's looking.
An emotionally short man is perceived as sweet and affectionate, but not strong. I want to protect him. And involuntarily - teach. This manifests itself at the level of a woman’s instincts.
There is only one thing in absolute agreement - this is the bed. Mobileman having short stature, feels more confident and relaxed, and provides such variety that the woman remains satisfied.
But in the kitchen, not a trace remains of the former agreement. Agree, it is inconvenient for a man to ask a woman to get something from the top shelves of the refrigerator!
A tall woman should always be neat, well-groomed and neat. Any little detail on her is easy to notice, and her man next to her can look like anything. And no one will find fault.
A woman is taller than a man: what to do?
Love will sweep away all barriers! And it will even tolerate differences in height! Ifthe girl is taller than the man,she should avoid shoes with heels or platforms. And do not wear clothes with a pattern of longitudinal stripes - they visually draw out even more.
A short man should try the opposite, wearing shoes with wide soles or a slight instep. You should choose clothes of a cut that visually stretches it out. It is better for him to avoid accessories that are oriented in width. This is a long, not wide organizer, wallet, purse, phone. And you should choose jewelry that is not flat; rings and chains should not be massive.
The main thing, of course, is inner confidence! Sincerely loving friend the friend's couple looks great in any case. And if one partner is shy, and the other seems to be apologizing to everyone for his choice, an experienced stylist will not help. Only an experienced psychologist.
A woman who is not comfortable that her beloved is short just needs to appreciate his strengths. To an insecure man it should be understood that he is magnificent if such a woman chose him. The couple should always focus on positive aspects relationships.
A woman is taller than a man - advantages
A tall woman will not look down on her charming, erudite, short lover! And the man, in the name of a relationship with her, will strive for development. In order not to get lost against her background, a man takes good care of himself. And he is more interested in what his beloved is doing than a guy who is taller than a girl.
A short man is more romantic because it is a little awkward for him to approach him head-on and state his desires or opinions. And a woman’s sensitivity does not depend on her height, and all his sweet inventions strengthen her love.
Such a couple is better harmonized. Household issues are resolved together, because if something is not taken into account in the furniture or furnishings in the house, it will be unbearable for one of the spouses to live there.
And fateful issues and little things are resolved together, as if everything around is setting the couple up to strengthen their relationship.
A girl is taller than a man: conclusion
As they say, as long as the person is good! And growth, even if it creates inconvenience, is not an insurmountable barrier to relationships. We have figured out:
- Pros and cons of relationships if the girl is taller than the man
- In the psychological background of relationships, when a girl is taller than a man
- How to adapt to each other for partners with different heights
The dignity of a person’s soul is still expressed in his nature, and not in his height!
Be happy! See you again!
When you see such couples, you always experience slight bewilderment, and sometimes it is not easy. It seems, well, why do this, can these people really attract each other, well, it’s strange. But there really is such a trend - big men like small women. I don’t even have to look far for examples - this can be clearly seen in my family - grandparents, uncle and his wife. The men are tall and large, and the women are barely over one meter fifty. And in my life I have observed such couples more than once. So why do tall guys like short girls?
Previously, it seemed to me that this was generally such a joke of nature - there are not only a lot of tall guys, but they also prefer miniature girls. Well, is this fair? What should we, the tall ones, do? Again, what is the harmony in this that nature loves so much?
The girl is taller than the guy
Although the opposite situations are not uncommon - couples in which the girl is taller than the guy occur quite regularly. Why does this happen if we are genetically programmed according to which a woman should be smaller than a man? And therefore, every time watching such couples, I want to correct it, as if it were something wrong, some kind of deviation that will not bring happiness to this union.
Only recently, in Once again While watching some couple, this suddenly came to my mind. I don’t remember, maybe that couple had a child, a boy or a girl, maybe they were both tall, but I thought about this: if both parents are so tall, then how tall will their daughter be?
After all, girls, as a rule, grow shorter than their father, but taller than their mother, so if the mother is short, then the daughter also has a chance not to reach ninety meters. If both parents are tall, then there is practically no chance, and it’s good if she is at least the same height as her parents, but what if she’s even taller? And then, it seems, I was completely imbued with the design of nature, according to which big men like small women, and tall girls choose guys shorter than them.
From my experience
I myself am tall, 182 cm, model height, as they say now. My happiness is that I was born at a time when high growth It is even considered a certain virtue, but even so, all my life I have to endure certain inconveniences because of it. So when I see girls taller and bigger than me, I can’t help but think that even if I, as a rule, often find myself taller than all the people around me, then how do such girls feel?
This applies to everything - both clothes and shoes, and especially, of course, the sensations next to men, most of whom turn out to be hopelessly inferior to you.
Although the most interesting thing is that tall girls often like guys shorter than them. Me myself, for example, tall men always attracted purely hypothetically, as an idea. But when it came down to it, my choice each time fell on fairly compact representatives of the stronger sex, so that they were all a little shorter than me. But what about the desire inherent in us by nature to choose a mate to match ourselves? Why doesn’t it work and we don’t find compatible partners? I always considered this to be something wrong, and stereotypes, of course, do their job, they put pressure and prevent you from being happy, even if the relationship itself suits everyone...
What causes the big difference in height?
And only recently I suddenly thought that there seemed to be no wrong with this. After all, what would happen if the tall chose the tall and they had even taller children? And at the same time, the short ones would meet with the short ones, and their children would turn out just as small?
Apparently, at some point, some kind of fuse, wisely installed by nature, is triggered, and we begin to strive to average our growth in procreation. And that’s why very tall guys like very short girls, and tall girls are attracted to guys shorter than themselves - after all, it is precisely these couples who will ultimately produce offspring who will feel normal among the people around them.
So don’t be perplexed when looking at couples with big difference in height, you shouldn’t feel sorry for girls who are taller than their boyfriends. There is a high probability that they really find each other very attractive. Big men are delighted with small women, small women are delighted with their big men. And tall girls like the fact that their guys are of normal average height, and guys of average height are proud to have tall girls next to them. In this way, everyone harmoniously complements each other, and you never know, some of them will actually have children together, and these children, with a high degree of probability, will not have to feel disproportionate to the entire world around them.
