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How to flirt with a man correctly. How to flirt with a girl correctly

The girl should know from the very beginning, What do you like. Otherwise there will be no flirting. That is, initially there must be attraction to a girl. If it is not there, then flirting is out of the question.

What it is

Flirting means showing your intentions. Flirting is a game between you when you like each other. This is flirting and coquetry, this is the exchange of pleasant vibrations among people of the opposite sex, a manifestation of sympathy.

You can flirt both verbally, with the help of words, and without words. There are no boundaries!

Happens light flirting - this is a more superficial manifestation of sympathy for each other, usually in words or with a glance, without long touches. This may be short lived chance meeting or a short conversation.

For example, a fleeting and passionate glance at each other unknown guy and girls can already be considered easy flirting. Or if one of them winks or smiles flirtatiously at the other.

1. Voice what you like about her

Let her know why you are with her now. Tell me why she attracts you and turns you on. Showing your intentions and sympathy is the basis of flirting.

If a girl is somehow capricious or testing you, you as if you remind both yourself and her why you are together.

An example of my acquaintance

She needs to see that you are sincere and real sympathy . It is to see and feel, and not just hear in words.

Then she will open up to you and the course of the acquaintance will change.

Voice it and don’t be shy to say what attracts you to her. It could be her hairstyle, her nose, her femininity, her birthmark, her cuteness, whatever.

If you're in a situation with a girl where she's being rude, testing you, or talking about boring things, remind yourself why you like the girl: she's sweet, harmless, innocent. Voice these things.

Answer these questions for yourself and tell her about it out loud.:

What does she do that makes you glow inside?
What is it about her that makes your eyes sparkle?

Important video from me

My video on the topic of why persistence is so important when flirting with a girl. Also here I talk about how guys stuff their brains with unnecessary pick-up information, and how this prevents them from meeting the girl they like.

2. Look - why is it so important?

I'm very open with girls. I look boldly and playfully into the eyes. I project my intentions towards her through my gaze.

Everything becomes clear through a glance. You let this wave of passion be in your eyes. Keep it in your sight.

You give her your love. You get into what she does and how she does it.. You understand everything by looking at each other.

What you need to be able to see in her eyes

Know how to see in a girl's eyes:

Free spirit and sense of adventure.
Learn to see yourself in her! See the adventurous characteristics of your personality in her eyes!

Let go of the result. Otherwise, you will ruin the whole process of pleasure and pleasure from flirting with your eyes.

The girl is literally can tell everything by the eyes. Your eyes can tell whether you are relaxed, centered, confident or tense. Or he feels comfortable, in the moment and free.

Video “What a good look should be”

The most neutral look is the look with which you are not trying to please. Natural non-reactive natural flowing look.

Watch this video and see why the look is much more important than words, and why it is so important.

How to hug a girl correctly and all the subtleties of hugs.

3. Give her the opportunity to talk too.

If you're invested in the conversation only you is not real interaction. She won't even see you as a person, but just a walking emotion.

Start focusing on a longer conversation in time. Otherwise, in the opposite case, it doesn’t cost her anything to say goodbye, since she didn’t say anything. To learn how to flirt with a girl, you don’t have to be chatty and talk a lot.

4. How to stand or sit: correct position

Sideways communication is awkward position.

If she stands sideways, has not fully turned to you, stands half-turned, That:

Turn her towards you. So that you look directly at each other. Eye contact very important.
Or stand in front of her yourself, right in front of her face.

« Turn around, look at me. Don't sit half-turned"- say this phrase to flirt with a girl in a more comfortable position.

5. Smell her neck - arousal and sensuality will increase

To sniff your neck correctly, read the following 5 points:

Don't go kissing right away. Gently lean her against the wall.
Don't lean on her with all your weight like a faucet. You don't even have to touch it.
Just tell her the phrase: “I want to feel your scent, how you smell!”
Everything you start doing now — is to inhale her aroma, carefully sniff her neck.
If her hair is in the way, move it away. Do this for ten minutes.
You will change the side of your neck, at this time you should be eye contact.
Look at the lips, build up sexual tension and move to the other side of the neck.
Don't puff on a girl's neck - it won't excite her. Your breath is soft and fresh.

As the distance between you decreases, sensuality increases.

6. Talk cheek to cheek

The closer you are to a girl, the more she feels you and your condition. The closer you are, the stronger than yours presence for her.

Communicate at a minimum distance from her face. To literally feel her breath. Communicate so that your cheek touches her cheek.

If a girl comes close to your head during communication, speaks in your ear, lightly touches your cheek, then do the same! Keep this closeness between you!

Kiss on the cheek. Smell her neck. Whisper words in your ear. These are very subtle and pleasant secrets of flirting.

7. Use the secrets of your smile

A smile is an excellent method of conveying your state..

Remove the stone super serious face. Smile. Even an inner smile is enough.

Smile whenever you want, for yourself, and not because you have to.

I smile sincerely, from myself. The girls tell me: “ You have such an infectious smile. You smile, I want it too smile".

8. Hold her hand in yours

The way she lets you hold her hand says a lot. You can adjust your calibration when you hold her hand.

You can do massage her palm.

9. Know what you will do with a woman.

Know what you want to do with her, how you want to spend your time with her. Tell me what you want to do with her.

You can give her a massage

For example, give her a massage. “If you want, I will give you pleasure, pleasure and massage.”

Let each other relax and relieve tension, experience pleasure from touch.

Do fun things that bring you together.

It's a mistake to go out to eat or go to the cinema.

No need to go somewhere to eat or watch a movie together. I've never gone to the cinema with a girl. There you will not get close at all, and you will not be able to flirt with the girl.

Project calmness, humor, non-judgment, and your own passion, for example.

Life is a great experiment. You can make a lot of cool stuff.

10. There will be no flirting if there is no attraction.

The whole flirting process will be effortless and stress-free if you feel attraction and passion for her, sexual attraction . If all this is there, then there should be no problems with how to flirt with a girl correctly.

Otherwise, if you're flirting with a girl you don't like, That there will be following errors:

She feels that you don't like her.
She feels that something is wrong.
You start trying. As a result, you try to do what you don’t want to do.
You are not yourself.
Lost interest and passion.
You get the feeling that you are wasting your time and the girl’s.. This condition is transmitted to the girl.
The situation will be similar to when the package runs out of ketchup., and you squeeze the rest out of there. In the same way, you will squeeze out of yourself a passion for a girl that actually does not exist.

Put your new knowledge into practice. Re-read the 10 rules for flirting with a girl.

More more secrets You can learn about flirting from me in the training program and individual training.

An article about how to flirt with a girl correctly and why you should do it at all)).

Flirting is an element of seduction.

The purpose of flirting is to show the girl that you are interested in her, that you want her as a girl.

But! Not directly, not straightforwardly, that is, not openly and directly saying hey about it.

All these ala style, I like you fucking, lead to ala style - Vasya, go for a walk.

And with hints / in a playful manner, with emotions, interest, play, not predictability, not banality, originality, wit, humor, lightness, etc. Understand? This is what flirting is.

Why is flirting necessary?

Then, seduction is a game.

It's a game. A game. Once again. A game!!! I repeat, seduction is not straightforwardness. Alya: I want you - come on right now - I want you. No. That's not how it works. It's boring. It's corny. It is not interesting.

Absolutely every girl/woman wants to be seduced.

But! Only pumped up worthy men can do this truly beautifully.

Flirting is exactly what will help you stand out from the crowd of illiterate men.

Logically convincing a girl that you like her will not work.

She must feel it. Inside yourself. Because all women are emotional creatures!

For women, everything is through feelings, emotions, intuition. Logic doesn't work with them. Forget about her.

Seduction is a game, and flirting is one of the chic elements in this game, which allows you to achieve the ultimate goal - what is this goal? - conquest - victory - success - sex - further relations etc.

Types of flirting...

Flirting can be verbal (speech) and non-verbal (gestures, facial expressions, etc.).

Nonverbal is without speech, this is when, for example, you:

Smiling at a girl
Waving your hand, hello
Look him in the eye and wink
well that's all in short...

This is all flirting, this is all an element of seduction (game).

Verbal is already words, speech, sentences, this is already in the process of conversation, well, for example...

Boring, banal, etc. normal dialog for example:

AND: What did you do yesterday?
M: I was walking in the park.
AND: And How?
M: Fine. Liked. What did you do?

Here is an example of SMS flirting:

AND: What did you do yesterday?)
M: Hunted for ladybugs) (intrigue, joke, joke, mystery)
AND: Whaaah, haah)
M: yes, I’m kidding) go to the park for a walk - I’ll tell you (well, I would do that, I don’t like correspondence, I like live communication, so it’s faster right away)

Here's another example:

M: How's your pussy doing? (that’s what girls call a cat) (flirting: playfulness, provocation, ambiguity)
AND: Almost ate me this morning
M: All in the hostess) (flirt: teased, joked, teased her)
the conversation went on

Here's an example female flirting with a man (an example for women, so that you too can develop):

AND: Do you have a cat?
M: No.
AND: It’s a pity, otherwise my pussy is bored.. (you see this is flirting: playfulness, provocation, ambiguity)
M: What are you talking about? (a bad mark for the boy - it’s immediately obvious that he’s not pumped up)

In short, examples can be given for a long time, this is not the point, the point is that flirting is a game, playfulness, positivity, it is wit, a sense of humor, lightness, ambiguity, hints, etc. and not banality, boredom, melancholy, predictability, ordinary dialogue, etc. and so on.

P.s. one more moment, guys, girls. You don't need to behave like this all the time. This will get boring. Alternate your behavior patterns. And you need to communicate seriously, and in a fun, relaxed, easy way, in short, in different ways.

And so, okay, to flirt with a girl correctly you should be:

Confident in yourself, be pumped up like a man;
Be completely uninhibited and as relaxed as possible
Have wit and a sense of humor
Be positive, playful, cheerful
Not to be: boring, serious, banal, always logical, humorless (not funny), angry, depressive, negative, gloomy, straightforward, predictable, etc. and so on.

No. 1. Body language (complete relaxation)

Flirting is, first of all, liberation.

When girls start talking to you = it’s so easy with you, you’re so endearing, I feel like we’ve known each other for a year, not an hour, I feel so much fun, easy, good with you = so to achieve all this = you have to to be as liberated as possible, relaxed, and in order for this to happen = you must be pumped up like a man, confident in yourself, you must have a strong internal state man.

That's why, in the beginning, I told you that you should be confident in yourself - work on yourself!

If you are constrained there, nervous, worried, worried, afraid, uncomfortable, etc. and so on. = all this will be transferred to the girl, she will see / feel it, in short, there will be no ease between you, there will be no complete liberation between you = as a consequence = on our topic, flirting too.

Because flirting implies ease and freedom.

Without lightness and emancipation there will be no flirting; it is impossible in tense situations, etc. conditions...

Flirting is possible when it is easy, between you, flirting is when it is fun, interesting, witty, etc.

No. 2. Smile/positive

If you are angry, negative, depressed, etc. and so on. = what kind of flirting is there anyway?

Flirting - I repeat - is lightness, it is fun, it is playfulness, etc. this is a special mood.

So be positive. Anger, sullenness, depression, seriousness, etc. = will not bring you closer to desired result, on the contrary, they will move away. Believe me, girls adore positive men, and not those who are always whining, whining, whining, everything is wrong for him, life is bad, the country is not the same, there is no money, crises, all women are whores, etc.

No. 3. Wit and sense of humor...

Wit shows your erudition and education.

And girls adore witty, educated, intelligent, etc. men, of course, along with adequacy and a sense of humor (more on this later). Therefore, communicate with her in the most various topics, you must have your own special view on many, even the most banal topics.

But! Even being smart, educated, etc. = a man without a sense of humor (for girls) is a boring, banal, well, not interesting guy. Why? Read on!

With such guys/men = girls don’t even really want to communicate, let alone anything more..

And all because all girls are emotional. They care about emotions emotions emotions.

The rule that works with girls is that there can never be too much emotion.

If the girl with you really laughs, smiles, hey, fun, etc. = you're handsome.

Believe me, it has already been half conquered by you as a conqueror =)

But! What is important. You don't have to be a clown all the time. Make jokes, say some bullshit, well, in short, everything should be in moderation. Girls are not interested in clowns. So she may think that you are not a serious guy, ala-ulu, and you won’t make porridge with him.

Alternate your behavior patterns. Well, for example. Now you are serious (and the girl sees it = feels it = adequate worthy man) = switch and bam = cheerful, playful, silly, wet, etc.

This way your conversation will be varied, in terms of peak, emotions/adequacy/seriousness, etc.

If you are constantly serious = there will be no emotions. There will be no emotions = you will be uninteresting, boring, banal, etc. There must be emotions = it must be fun, cool, interesting, amusing, etc.

At the same time = you cannot be a constant fool = a clown. Understand?

Learn to combine flirting with regular cute communication, etc.

Show him also that you are smart, educated, interesting, etc. and so on. worthy man.

Tell us a little about yourself, talk about abstract topics, reveal yourself as a person, etc.

In general, there should be golden mean, everything should be in moderation. Understand?

Jokes, in addition to being witty, must also be appropriate.

Remember this. Otherwise you will look ridiculous/stupid, etc.

There’s no point in trying too hard to do anything, being funny, trying to show yourself off as such, no, it all has to be natural - otherwise it will be visible, she will feel it, so there’s no need for that, be natural, yourself, don’t push yourself, relax, and generally just try to enjoy yourself.

And also, be able to laugh at yourself, because this also indicates that many complexes are alien to you, and it is inherent positive thinking, and girls, as I already said, adore such men =)

OK. What does flirting have to do with wit and a sense of humor?

Well, with wit, I think everything is clear/understandable. Flirting is an art - not given to every man.

If you are as dumb as a plug = and can’t put two words together = not developed intellectually, not educated, not erudite, or “mu-mu”, etc. = then there’s hardly any cool flirting here.

In order to flirt really well, a man must be of a certain level. Have many qualities (self-confidence, sense of humor, intelligence, erudition, intelligence, ability to make jokes, see these moments, feel a girl, experience also plays a role, and a lot of things).

As for the sense of humor = flirting without it = does not exist. I, by at least, I don’t know that. Flirting is when it is easy, fun, funny, amusing, interesting, etc. and so on.

How can you flirt with a girl while being serious? E-may)) this is a game... you need to be in this mood, it should be simple, easy, fun, not forced, etc.

No. 4. Sincere compliments

It’s not for nothing that the expression “girls love with their ears” was invented =)

Compliments act as an element of flirtation, for more experienced men also as suggestions (for example, I don’t just give compliments to anyone).

So don’t be shy to say hey, what cool little thighs she has)), or she has a beautiful nose, or gorgeous breasts, or there’s a mole or it’s very feminine or something else (depending on the girl).

The main thing is that it is sincere. Young ladies feel it immediately. Sincerity.

If you sing to everyone in a row just to make it = no, it won’t work.

No. 5. Tease her / make fun of her / make fun of her, etc.

When there is already comfortable communication between you = easy = established rapport = be alive.

Don't be afraid to tease her, you can twist her, make fun of her, tease her, etc. and so on.

But! Within reasonable limits, of course. There must be a line, a golden mean, a measure in everything.

This will also show the girl’s level, whether she has a sense of humor, whether she can laugh at herself, whether she has complexes, whether she has positive thinking, etc. and so on.

Is she there immediately in hysterics, A, HA? WHAT? WHAT YOU SAID? NOT TRUE, NO, SHUT YOUR MOUTH and so on, then it’s immediately clear / understandable, at least for me - it’s time to move on.

So. Why is this even necessary, teasing her, making fun of her, making fun of her, etc.?

Besides the fact that it will tell a little about the girl (her sense of humor, playfulness, etc.), it will also demonstrate your good feeling humor (if you do everything correctly), it will also evoke emotions, and emotions are always good - the more emotional connection she has a crush on you = so much the better for you (and vice versa, by the way, for a girl with a man).

This will also make your element of the game (your flirting) more original, it will catch her, she will be interested in you, she will join the game and try to tease you back, etc.

No. 6. Don't be straightforward (boring, banal, etc.)

Don't answer all her questions—directly—as is.

For example, if she asks what you do, who you work for, etc. and so on.

And you immediately: I do this and that, I work here there there, I get paid so much, blah blah blah.

She: clear/understandable. It's boring. It's corny. It is not interesting. It's predictable.

Don’t immediately answer “everything is as it is.” Do you understand what I said in the previous paragraph?

Try to tease the girl, joke, joke, before giving her information.

For example, if she asks: what do you do? say some crap.

I would answer that I herd cows, sell shawarma, sell watermelons, hunt ladybugs, or whatever else comes to mind. Here the girl’s sense of humor is immediately tested.

Because this is not a standard answer. This brings a smile/laughter, well, at least.

And it's not a lie. This is an element (flirting) of the game (seduction). Understand?

And even the answer “what do you think?” better than dealing all your cards at once. Understand?

This is just an example with work. In general, it concerns everything. Flirting is not straightforwardness.

Any question can be turned into a game.

Use ambiguity, it’s like different roads, paths, junctions, traffic in all directions.

Intrigue is another key to success in seduction (in the game).

Naturally, then if you want, you can tell him the truth, but you don’t have to right away, from start to finish.

If you say everything directly and openly, then no flirting will work, because flirting is when it is fun, not boring, not banal, witty and playful (for flirting is elements of the game). Along with flirting, I also use the following in seduction (No. 8 and No. 9).

No. 7. Flirting is also the way you speak...

Different intonations applied to the same word take on diametrically opposed meanings in flirting. Understand? This also needs to be learned. It will not come from the bay of floundering.

This cannot be explained in words; you need to see it live in practice.

No. 8. Touch (required)

I don't know how you can be with a girl and not touch her.

Everything, again, depends on whether the man is pumped up, if so, he will touch, touch, touch from the very beginning, as early as possible, he will start doing this - take my word for it...

If not, he is afraid there, shy, nervous, doesn’t know how, etc. and so on.

My hands automatically reach out, touching something, touching it, looking at it, feeling it, I really can’t just sit and communicate calmly. I need to touch. Look at something there, feel it)), touch it, etc.

Then I'll touch my hair. Then I’ll look at her chain. It's a bracelet. Then I’ll touch the legs. Then I’ll touch the hands. I’ll sit closer, then I’ll hug her around the waist. When I already feel it, both on the ass, on the tits, well, in short, such places already clearly demonstrate my desire. Briefly speaking. Constantly touching, touching, touching.

Sometimes I even flirt, poke her with my finger, tickle her, etc. and so on.

I don't have to force myself. I like it - if the girl (of course) I like, is pretty. With this I show everyone (again, not directly, but with hints) that I want her, I like her, I’m interested, etc. and so on.

By the way, girls do the same)) (if you don’t do this, dear, with someone you like, someone you want, I strongly recommend starting) because. it really works very hard, really, especially for those who care tactile contact with a girl/man (on sensitive people).

No. 9. Talk and persuade her to have sex

Talk to her about the topic of sex, just not seriously)) when appropriate, move on to this topic, persuade her to have sex, use wit, make jokes, etc.

This is all according to the situation, just like that from the bay of floundering = no need, be appropriate, it’s like a sense of humor, it should be in moderation and in right moment and witty, and not harshly vulgar and banal.

Overall, there are many elements to seduction—there are many things that can be used. This is a long topic. There is no need to take this difficult and seriously, as many men do, seduction is a game and the game uses a wide variety of tools to achieve victory.

We won’t talk about this now. I talked a little about flirting, learn guys, this skill can be developed, if you know how to do it, learn it, little by little, but don’t stand still, develop.

Flirting is a game, playfulness, positivity, wit, a sense of humor, lightness, ambiguity, hints, etc. and when you also meet a girl who knows how to flirt, it’s a very exciting and interesting game.

Any worthy girl will appreciate this in a man, because flirting is an art that not every man really knows well. Good luck to you!

Congratulations, administrator.

» How to flirt correctly

Book fragment Green F. The language of flirting. Words and gestures - M.: Peter, 2012.

The language of flirting is the most common language in relationships between a man and a woman. Some are natural at it, but most need lessons! The language of flirting is words and gestures. Words whose meaning can be explicit or hidden. And gestures that are sometimes clearer than any words. Do you want to easily get acquainted and produce from the very beginning? indelible impression? Do you want to shine like a diamond in any company? Do you want to be noticed always and everywhere? Do you want to easily discover the path to love, friendship, sex - with the most interesting people?

What is flirting? It is a set of verbal and nonverbal actions that we perform to express interest in another person. Flirting is fun, flirting is safe, flirting is natural! Knowing how to flirt correctly, you can meet people you would never dare approach before. With the help of flirting, you can express yourself more fully and unusually, add romance to any conversation, and also increase the self-esteem of your interlocutor. When you flirt, you feel more confident and energetic - and this is the foundation on which more deep feelings, this is the basis of your journey. Where can this road take you? Yes, anywhere! To friendship based on interests, professional connections, romance, romantic relationships, marriage or one-night stand that will remain a pleasant memory. No matter what the outcome of your actions, flirting makes dating and communication magical. You might say that flirting is wonderful, but at the same time so scary! Sweaty palms, dry mouth, rumbling stomach or just a feeling of anxiety or restlessness - familiar feelings? We have experienced these “symptoms” more than once when we tried to meet a young man or girl we liked, say, at a party. So you look at him or her, and the same questions are pounding in your head.

Should I even approach him/her?
What can I say? And why not say?
Do I need to look him/her in the eyes?
What if I get sent away?
What if I don’t like him/her later?
What if he/she doesn't like me?

Fears are a pretty debilitating thing. Moreover, often because of fear we do not do something that could ultimately help us achieve what we want. Remember: we are all afraid of something. When at my seminars I ask those who are afraid of rejection to raise their hands, I see the hands of 99% of the participants.

To the list of ten best advice included the most important facts about flirting that are worth remembering. They will encourage you to Hard time and will become an excellent mini-guide to flirting.

The most experienced experts use at least six of these tips in every flirtation. And you? Try it!

People who flirt are usually confident and not afraid to take risks. Do everything with enthusiasm and a positive attitude!

The best phrase to start a conversation is the usual “Hello!” Talk about what's around you this moment, ask a question, ask for help, or give your opinion on something.

Be fun, carefree and relaxed. Showcase your sense of humor or any other talent in all its glory.

Never leave home without “props” - they will make it easier for both you and those around you to start a conversation. Best accessories for flirting - these are pets, unusual jewelry, perfume, a T-shirt with the name of the university or school where you studied, a catchy tie or interesting book or magazine.

At any party or similar event, try to behave not like a guest, but like a host. Instead of passively waiting in the corner, become the head of the hospitality committee!

Come closer, say a compliment, set eye contact or simply say hello to someone you would like to get to know better.

You have two ears and only one mouth, so you must listen twice as much as you talk. Practice listening actively and carefully.

Try to immediately establish direct eye contact, but at the same time strive to keep your gaze gentle and kind. No boring eyes or intensity in the gaze - this is repulsive.

Give compliments to your interlocutor. This will let him (her) know that you pay attention to every detail in his (her) appearance. Just speak honestly and sincerely. This may lead to unexpected results!

A smile is contagious! Plus, it will make you more open to communication. A smile lights up the face and attracts people like a magnet. Try it!

We wish you successful and pleasant flirting!

You can also test your flirting knowledge with a quick online quiz:

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Sometimes there are girls who perfect appearance. Chiseled figure, long beautiful hair, elegant style clothes and natural makeup. But something is not going well in your personal life, and after communicating with such a girl, you want to run away from her, because she gives off a cold feeling. At the same time, there are girls who do not differ in special external characteristics, but there are always a lot of guys around them. They smile mysteriously, flirt and flirt. How do they do this? What is flirting? How to learn to flirt with guys?

What is flirting

In ancient times, seductive women were called witches. And this is not surprising. Such a woman could drive any man crazy with a look, a word and a touch. Modern women are not devoid of this art. Only in a world where the line between men and women has blurred, where women occupy leadership positions and fly airplanes, they gradually forget about their natural essence.

As you know, a man is a hunter. But we girls know that a woman chooses her life partner. It is important to let him know that you are interested in him, and only then does he begin to “win” his lady. Men think that they chose their victim and achieved it. Well, let them think, right?

Flirting is the subtle art of seduction. It should not be intrusive, otherwise the man will simply run away from you. On the other hand, it should be understandable, because men often do not understand vague hints. How can you make your chosen one notice you?

The art of getting attention

Eye contact. This is the very first and effective method attract attention. You need to casually look into the eyes of the object and hold your gaze for a few seconds. It's like you're trying to say something. This method can be used both for a man you know and for a stranger. You will confuse your acquaintance, and the stranger will certainly want to get to know you better.
Smile. Another powerful weapon. With the help of a smile, you can let a person know that you like him, that you have good-natured feelings for him, and even that you want him. The smile should be fleeting, so that no one except the guy can see it, let it be your little secret.
Gesture. A casual gesture can also tell a lot. You accidentally touched his hand, touched his shoulder and smiled sweetly with words of apology. After that, you flew away like a bird, and the man is certainly left wondering, was it an accident?

You have known each other for a long time, communicate as close friends, he trusts you with everything, but has absolutely no idea that he is interested in you as a man. How can I make him understand this?

First you need to find a reason to go to the cinema, cafe or club. This can be motivated by the fact that it was difficult work week and need to unwind. Come to the meeting beautifully and smartly dressed. If you work with this man and he has only seen you in faded jeans and a stretched turtleneck, you need to change his perception of himself. Put on a dress, heels, let your hair down. The image should be cute, but not vulgar. Let him see you as a woman, not as a friend.

After this, you need to go to the planned event. Be light, mysterious and seductive. Men are far from fools; your target will quickly understand what you are getting at. And then you can unleash all your secret feminine charms.

How to flirt with a stranger

Imagine the situation - you are sitting in a cafe, at the next table pretty man and you really want to get his attention. You remember that men are hunters, so we just need to lure him and let ourselves be caught. Let him think that he hooked you up.

You are sitting alone, he is sitting alone - this is already a reason for getting to know each other. Look at the man, and after he notices your gaze, look away in embarrassment. This can be repeated a couple of times. This works flawlessly, the man will certainly talk to you. If you made eye contact and mutually smiled at each other, then you can get hooked yourself. Drop an unobtrusive “Are you bored? Can I sit down?”, and then the conversation will begin by itself.

To flirt with guys, you need to be completely confident in yourself. Therefore, before leaving the house, you should always look well-groomed, even if you left the house for a couple of minutes to go to the store. The man of your dreams can meet you at every step!

Manicure and pedicure are a natural attribute of any woman. Nails should always be well-groomed, filed and painted at least clear varnish. When leaving the house, apply light natural makeup, put together a simple but neat hairstyle. Clothes should reflect your inner state. If you're going on a date, give preference light feminine dresses and heels. You can’t dress very openly, it’s ugly, vulgar and not at all attractive.

It is very important to pay attention to your aroma. It should be a light, unobtrusive scent that will barely leave behind. perceptible trail. Don't forget about your figure. Pay attention to her every day to remain irresistible. It is important to watch your diet, do physical exercise and monitor the condition of your skin, nails and hair.

Pay attention to how you carry yourself. If you are walking down the street, your step should be confident, your posture should be proud, and your head should be raised. After all, if the girl is walking small steps on shoes with flat sole, always looking at the floor and hiding in the collars of his jacket, there can be no talk of any confidence here. When talking, do not interrupt the man and chat incessantly. Don't gesticulate excessively, as this may scare off your crush. Good looks will give you confidence in your feminine charms and then natural magnetism will certainly manifest itself.

A few more ways to flirt with a man

The most unobtrusive, but effective way To get a guy's attention is to wink at him. Don't be shy, it's a game!
Don't cross your arms over your chest. This gesture subconsciously indicates that you do not want to communicate and are closing yourself off from your interlocutor.
A good way to attract a man's attention is to shake your hair and play with your jewelry.
If the guy for a long time doesn’t make contact, perhaps this is a reason to take the first step? Don’t be shy to speak first; perhaps the guy also paid attention to you, but was embarrassed to approach you first.
Don’t be afraid to seek out a meeting with your crush on your own. If he likes to jog through the park every day, take your dog for a walk along this route.
When talking, try to be flirty and mysterious. Don't answer his questions with specific answers. Do you say “Perhaps” or “What do you think”?
When talking, try to shift the topic to him. Take an interest in his hobbies, work or studies. People love to talk about themselves.
When laughing or talking, touch the guy as if by chance. Touch creates an atmosphere of trust and sincerity.
Call him by name. This makes the relationship closer and more trusting.
Find a reason to dance with your man. It could be a club, a disco, a party with friends, or even a dance group. While dancing, meet your partner's eyes, give him a hint of a closer relationship.
Don't think that men don't like compliments. But the compliment should not be obvious. Say something like “I would also like to be able to play volleyball like that.” The man will like it.
Don't force yourself so that the man wants to meet you again. Slip away secretly from a meeting or get ready at the most unexpected moment. And if a man bends over to you for a kiss when parting, smile at the most last moment and say that the evening was wonderful. This will excite any guy even more and he will look for a meeting with you again.

Flirting with guys is a complex science, but it is not taught anywhere. To learn how to flirt and be attractive in the eyes of guys, you need to feel your feminine power and charm. And then your natural magnetism will tell you what to do in a given situation. Be natural and don't overact. And then any man will submit to you!

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Flirting is essentially one of the good ways to attract attention. But easy way and unobtrusive. The good thing about flirting is that every man will like it. He doesn't promise anything directly, but he can imply a lot.

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The most important thing in flirting is enjoying the process itself. Don't be results-oriented. If you have one thought racing through your brain: “you need to get married urgently, otherwise you’ll be 30 years old soon,” light and playful flirting is out of the question. It is, of course, possible, but it will turn out to be tense, “heavy” and somehow serious. You won't get a good game with this approach.

The first thing you need to do is throw out of your head all the thoughts imposed by society and those around you that you need to get married quickly, have children urgently, otherwise it will be too late and so on. It's never too late, everything will happen, not now, then later. To flirt you need good mood, and with such thoughts it’s rare to be in a good mood?

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A few basic flirting techniques

Catch his eye. If you succeed, wink or smile. Just don’t do this often, otherwise he will think that your nerves are getting off from hard work.
Be sure to smile. It’s easier to communicate with a smiling girl; the man next to her feels more relaxed and at ease, which only contributes to playful flirting. In addition, it is difficult to be flirtatious and maintain light casual conversation with furrowed brows and a pursed mouth.
Positivity and good mood are the basis for flirting. If you are clearly out of shape today, then you don’t need to overpower yourself and try to forcefully communicate with men. It’s better to sit quietly and next time already fully armed and in in a great mood amaze them with your charm and wit.
Use gestures, facial expressions, body position is also very important. Men are very good at reading such signals, so it is worth studying this topic in more detail. For example, lightly stroking the cap of the handle or stem of a glass of wine can let any man know that you want him. Especially if at the same time you look into his eyes point-blank. Here, perhaps, no words are needed. We advise you to do this trick only with those candidates with whom you really want to get to know each other better.
When flirting, you don’t need to make closing gestures, such as crossing your arms over your chest. With this you seem to be saying: “go away, fuck off, I’m busy, I don’t want to communicate,” although there may be a smile on your face. You seem to become unapproachable, which can turn off a potential suitor.

How to overcome shyness

Flirting cannot be learned from a book. If you want to learn how to flirt, take practice. If you are shy, you will have to overcome your fears. It's not as difficult as it might seem. Here are a few simple rules to follow:

Take every opportunity to communicate with men. Don't be afraid that people will mistake you for an adventurer. Men are unlikely to think so; they look at such things more logically and realistically, unlike women, who are sometimes ready to see a prince in everyone they meet.
Step out of your comfort zone gradually. If you are embarrassed to talk to an attractive young man, and the thought of flirting makes you tremble, do not “break yourself over the knee.” Start small - ask the guy you meet how to get to Pushkin Street (every city has Pushkin Street). Let it be small step, but in the right direction. When you get comfortable with this, you can “raise the bar.” Here's a good one. A must read.

How to become an interesting conversationalist

If you want to be interested in you, work on yourself. Beautiful appearance– a good “bonus”. But when it comes to flirting, this is not the main thing. The main thing is what's inside of you.

Although men pretend to love blondes with an empty brain, they are still more interested in smart women. There is no need to impress him with higher mathematics or knowledge of complex conceptual painting, or other In a similar way try to impress. It is unlikely that he will appreciate it, unless, of course, he himself is interested in the same thing.

Keep yourself informed of major world events in culture, art, perhaps a little politics, but without fanaticism, economics and the state of society. This is quite enough to maintain a conversation in almost any circle of people.

There is no need to pretend to be something incomprehensible. If you don’t know who the latest winner of the super prestigious competition of young jazz talents is, then don’t be shy about it. Not everyone is into jazz. Not everyone.

There is also no need to pretend to be a fatal devourer of hearts if by nature you are more inclined to quietly grow flowers on summer cottage. It will not be possible to be natural, and naturalness is something that greatly adorns a girl, no matter who she is or what she does. And it’s better to be a natural lover of Russian folk art and a participant in ritual shamanic chants, rather than an unnatural fatal seductress.

How to win people over

Develop your ability to hear your interlocutor. Do not listen to his eloquent stories, but rather hear what he wants to convey to you. Attentive listener highly valued as it is a rare skill. But at the same time, don’t turn your brain and ears into a sewer where you can dump everything. If you don’t like the topic of conversation, then feel free to stop it - you deserve to listen to what is pleasant, interesting and develops you.

Don't forget to compliment your man, they love them too. But it is advisable not to praise him beautiful eyes, but it’s better to focus on creativity and some of his working skills. Or how well he knows how to make money, and what success awaits him.

For men, success is much more important than beautiful and long eyelashes, and a compliment to his professionalism will be liked much more. But don't overdo it. If he has just started his working career, then it is still very early to say that he is super successful. We can simply say that he is going in the right direction and has chosen the right road.

Here are a few simple ones, but effective tips, .

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The ability to flirt is a pleasant and useful science, and once you master it, you will have no shortage of gentlemen. You can learn to let a man understand whatever you want with just a glance or a half-hint. Practice at every opportunity and you will undoubtedly succeed. By the way, a meeting with your boss at 11 a.m. on Monday in his office is not the most convenient opportunity.

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