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How to text a guy about yours. What is better to write to a guy so that he smiles and understands what he needs

If you are not familiar with it - (step by step instructions for beginners, examples):

Start with a simple hello! If you want to remove the banality - write "hello" and put a nice emoticon after the word.
Pause for him to answer you. And he will answer if he is not busy, not upset and is at the screen of his laptop.
Most likely, he will write you a similar greeting. Of course, you can "throw" the question: "how are you?" or “do not distract you?”, but it will be too trite to read. Write, for example, such a question: “didn’t expect to receive my message?”. And again there will be a pause.
A guy or a man will answer like this: “Where are you from?”, “Who are you?”. Don't laugh at his banality! Guys and men are too lazy to be original "at first" of communication. They are afraid of women's initiative and interest at the initial stage of communication!
Variants of answers to such (or similar) message of a man or a guy: I am your reflection in that mirror that is in your hallway! And where I'm from - guess yourself! Look carefully at my profile to answer this question for yourself! Me (write your real name). I am from (write your current location). Let's talk further - I'll tell you everything! I am your destiny! Do not be afraid of me. I did not intend to do anything bad to you (I do not intend to).
When the conversation about hobbies starts (when he starts asking about what you are fond of) - write everything as it is. But detailed and humorous. Tell us what attracted you to your particular hobby.
He will say what you are like and add what else he likes. You keep up the conversation, "clinging" to every word.
Answer his jokes not only with emoticons, but also with “jokes” and jokes in response.

Tips for continually improving your written conversation:

Warn me when you leave your computer even for a minute or two. Do not explain the reason for leaving, unless the interlocutor himself wants to clarify it.
Watch for the correct spelling of words. A guy or a man will appreciate your literacy and attentiveness! He will be embarrassed, because he (perhaps) will not be as literate as you. He will speak out on this matter, but do not humiliate him, but support him. Say it doesn't matter to you. Reassure him that you understand him well enough.
When arranging a release time online, do not be late. If you're late, apologize. Explain why you are late. And promise that you will do everything so that this does not happen again.
Show a photo if you promised to show it, or he has already asked you to do it.
Meet him when he asks to meet. You can set the place and time yourself. This step will even please the guy, the man!

How to interest him on the Internet if you know him well?

There is also a small instruction for this:

Say hello to him just like you do in real life. So he will understand that you are you, and not someone else, "fake".
Ask how he is doing, how he spent his day, what plans he has for the coming days.
Tell us about your plans (in detail, in "exciting" language). Answer all his additional questions.
Do not think very long about what and how to answer him. They don't like to wait for an answer!
Start the topic that will be of interest to a guy or a man. Remember: you must choose the topic in which you really "do not swim", but are competent.
Call him by his first name often. He will like it very much in you. You will call by name - you will receive further success in a conversation with him!
Don't interrupt him! Even in writing it is impolite to do so! He will definitely not approve of such "impoliteness".

What to write to get him interested in mobile messages:

Poetry. Start with a funny poem. It would be great if it was also your own composition!
Nice little joker. Such a joke that almost everyone would laugh at! Briefly speaking! Have fun without fail!
Words of encouragement or praise. Guys and men just such words and not enough! Do not regret, please, such words. If you know for sure that he needs them at this or that second.
An invitation to a holiday or an interesting event. He definitely will not refuse and will come if you manage to interest him verbally.

Signs that a guy or a man is interested in you:

Message reply.
A sea of additional questions addressed to you.
The use of affectionate words (sun, bunny, cutie, kitten, kitty).
Conducting correspondence.
Call.
Compliment to you.
Meeting talk.
Maintain active correspondence.

Words and phrases:

"I'm very interested in you."
"I was waiting for you online."
"When will we see you?"
“Thank you very much for your messages, for your understanding….”.
"I'm really glad we got to know each other."
"You are so cool!"
"You're so cool!"
"Thank you for being with me".

You can write an e-mail to a guy or a man. Just specify its exact address so that it does not fly to another addressee! What exactly to write? All that has accumulated in your soul and in your heart! They (heart and soul) will tell you what to write.

Do not rush to talk about love so immediately. Wait! If you hurry, he will become conceited or shy, and it will be even more difficult to “reach out” to him.

What can't be done?

Be imposed. If you see that he doesn't care about you, get out of the way! Don't cry and don't waste your time. There are other guys and men.
Be rude. Who likes being rude? It can only push a person away from another person!
Insult and humiliate. Leave these "troubles" for someone else! But not for the guy or man you're so eager to win over.
Be silent for a very long time. Guys and men do not like silence! They will stop paying attention to a woman's appearance if excessive silence takes place!
Threaten. Do not say (do not write) to him such phrases: “If you don’t communicate with me, I will die, I will do something with myself!”, “I can’t live without you!”, “If we don’t meet, I will die!”. You definitely won't get anything good from it.

Continuation. . .

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School of Yuri Okunev

Hello dear readers! In order to please your loved one with pleasant words, it is not at all necessary to have writing or, even more so, poetic talent. After all, you can express thoughts, feelings in the simplest words, and this will not diminish their significance at all.

Do you still doubt that you will be able to do it beautifully and romantically enough? Especially for you, I decided to talk about how to write a truly sincere SMS in my own words to a loved one.

good morning wishes

A day started with a ray of goodness received by SMS from a lady of the heart may not be the most successful and productive, but it will definitely be more joyful. Every day you can come up with new wishes. They can be tied to those cases and problems that your boyfriend has to solve during the day. Or they can simply contain affectionate words, designed to support, give a charge of vivacity and optimism. So, we start with those same two words of welcome, and then the options can be, for example, like this:

May your boss have a great epiphany today and finally see how much you are doing for your company.
May you meet at least three good people who will make your day kinder.
I wish that today the sore is disappointed in you and proudly leaves, taking with it a temperature, body aches, sore throat and fatigue!
This day will be one of the happiest and most successful of the week! Why? Yes, I just want it that way, and a woman's desire is the law!
I asked the sunbeams to fly into your window, wake you up and convey gentle kisses and good mood from me. Have they already carried out my order?
So we became one more day closer to each other. Looking forward to your arrival, dear!

good night wishes

Wishes for good dreams in SMS to your beloved guy will set you up not only for, but also for a good awakening and a good new day. In the same way as in the previous version, you can write about anything. The main thing is to show that the young man is very dear to you, important and necessary.

Let the night take away all the negativity of today, and in the morning you will wake up rested, joyful, renewed, ready for new achievements.
I'm looking at the moon now. Look out the window and look at her too. Do you feel? We are now bound by her ghostly light...
10 more nights like this and we will finally meet! Looking forward to this magical moment, my tenderness!
You know, now I hurry to bed every night, because dreams are now the only place where we can be together. I hope they come true soon!
I asked Ole Lukoile to give you fabulous dreams. Before you go to bed, dress warmly. I wished that you were Aladdin, and I was Jasmine. It will be cool to fly on a magic carpet at night, so a warm sweater will not hurt.

Letters about what you miss and are waiting for

Experience shows that a long separation, although it brings a lot of grief, is the test that truly loving couples can handle. Therefore, do not despair and just patiently wait for the cherished moment of the meeting!

They say that not very easy and simple love usually encourages writing poetry. But if you don’t have a craving for this, then feel free to write SMS in prose to your beloved man. It seems to me that it is better to express your feelings in simple words than in iambic pentameter.

Today is exactly 2 weeks since you left, but it seems like a whole year has passed. It's amazing how fast time goes by when you're around. And how painfully long it lasts in your absence.
It seems to me that it was parting that allowed us to understand how strong feelings are. After all, usually a person begins to truly understand and appreciate those things that are inaccessible to him. So in our separation, it turns out, great wisdom was hidden. Thank her for this...
I never thought I'd miss the dirty cups you always leave in the sink. By grumbling in a dream and loud songs in the shower. By the way your stubble pricks my cheeks. It's amazing how much you really mean to me. Not by its individual positive features, but entirely and completely!

Bon appetit wishes

I told you that there can be any number of reasons for a message. Why not include this one as well. After all, eating is an important part of our daily routine. And in order for food to bring more joy, it will not be superfluous to flavor it not only with spices, but also with bright feelings.

I hope you enjoy what I have prepared for you. Let the porridge give strength, fruit give life energy, and the cake will please my beloved sweet tooth.
Recently I learned that cooked with love does not turn into fat on the belly. So eat with pleasure!
Today I added a handful of tenderness and affection to the stew / borscht / pie, seasoned everything with kind words and praises addressed to you, and generously sprinkled love on top. I hope you enjoy...

About their hopes, a joint future

Having found her “prince”, a woman usually soon begins to think about how she would like to see relationships through time. She tries on her chosen one first the image of a guy, then a groom, and there she already begins to think about how she will write SMS about love to her husband and father of her children ... If you have been together long enough, and discussing such dreams is not something out of the ordinary , then you can safely share your thoughts with a partner.

Rather, I look forward to the moment when we begin to live together. I think about the love with which I will cook for you, wait from work, take care of you. Being constantly around is wonderful, because you are my soulmate!
Today I was walking home through the park, I met so many couples in love. I sincerely envy them and dream that soon you and I would walk like this on weekends, holding hands. And then, having breathed fresh air, they would go home, have dinner and watch some movie.
I like every feature of your face and character in you. May our children certainly take the best from you. A sweet smile, the brightness of green eyes, inner charm and kindness that make everyone around love you.
With your appearance in my life, I really thought about how I want to see my home, my family. Previously, these were only timid youthful dreams, which today are acquiring the features of a real adult life, where I am already a wife and mother myself. Very exciting, but also pleasant at the same time!

Just about my feelings

Only next to you I feel truly protected, only next to you can I be weak, indecisive, trusting. Therefore, when you are not around, it is very difficult and sad for me. Let's do our best to be together.
There was the smell of your cologne on the pillow, on the table - a cup of coffee you had not finished drinking, and in the bathroom - a tube of toothpaste that you again did not spin. J You know, these little things make me incredibly happy, because they say that I'm not alone! Thank you dear for having me! You are my happiness, my joy and great value!
Right now I hugged you tightly, tightly, kissed you gently, gently! I love!
I just want to say that you are very dear to me. Thank you for your care, attention, affection! You are the best man in the world for me! Come soon, we are waiting for you with the cat.
I'm sorry I lashed out at you yesterday. I was wrong! It's not your fault, I just had some trouble at work that completely ruined my mood. Don't be angry... I love you!
I always hated men who tried to call me "one of them". It seemed to me that by doing this they were infringing on my freedom, they wanted to appropriate me as some kind of thing. But now I realized that I just didn't like them. Because today the thought that I am YOUR warms my soul!
I'm sorry I haven't written to you for a long time. There were difficulties at work and at home. I know it's not an excuse, but still... Thank you for sending those wonderful flowers! The bouquet is still standing and makes me happy! Let's meet at the weekend if you have time. I miss you so much, I want to see you.
And I have prepared a little surprise for you ... Hurry up and come home from work, I'm waiting for you!
I baked such a pie for you (you will need to attach a photo), it will be waiting for you until dinner. Do not linger, otherwise you will eat everything! Kiss!
Thank you for leaving me breakfast, dear! It was amazingly delicious and incredibly enjoyable! You are the most caring and romantic person in the world!!! Have you opened your portfolio yet? If not, then it's time to do it so that the yummy that I put for you does not spoil! You see how everything is mutual with us.

It will help you better understand how to build a happy relationship with your partner and yourself. Very simple, very feminine, about the most pressing questions, the answers to which often determine the quality of life. I recommend it to my readers!

Well, for my part, I am ready to answer any of your questions on the topic of the article. If you have any, feel free to share them in the comments!

That's all for today. Don't miss out on new posts. The site news subscription function will help you a lot with this. See you again and all the best! Yours, Yuri Okunev.

The world of modern young people is mainly concentrated in social networks. Now it has become bad form to get acquainted in real life. The Internet makes life easier for girls and boys. After all, it’s really true, a representative of the opposite sex liked it, came home, found his page on VK, learned everything you need and don’t need about your sweetheart, perhaps even added her as a friend, and then, as they say, a stupor sets in. This especially happens with the weaker sex, girls are more indecisive in matters of dating.

We were taught from childhood: the guy should be the first to take the initiative. Of course, you can continue to study by heart the profile of a guy who has sunk into your soul, or you can muster up the courage and write a few simple, but overnight well-chosen words to the person who will become your destiny. How to do this, we will understand below.

How to write a guy to like him?

Initially, you need to distinguish for yourself that the words addressed to the guy you see for the first time, and then according to your VK profile, and the man with whom you had a relationship before, will be different.

We start a correspondence with a guy we didn’t know before:

The first word you write to a young person will say everything and almost nothing about you. Simply and banally: over time, the guy will generally erase his memory of how you greeted him at the beginning. However, it will depend on this main word whether they will answer you. If you want an exact answer, write "hello" or "hello", put a well-chosen emoticon. Of course, you can pass for the original and ask the guy right off the bat any question regarding his photo on the avatar on the social network, any of his interest. Just remember to say hello. Men welcome clarity, logic and common sense more.
Write first, but don't be intrusive. Men love proactive young ladies. At first, there will be enough light secular chatter “about this and that”, the main thing is to use positive language more often, embellished with healthy wit.
Remember: few people like whiners. You should not immediately write to the man you like about the tragic death of your beloved poodle and the impact of his death on your mood. Although, if you present this information with humor, you can write. Just remember that while you are not connected with this guy, he will not waste his time comforting your person.
During the conversation, cling to what specifically interests your sweetheart. If he is interested in football, you can criticize the game of some player or sincerely (!) resent the game of his favorite team - this will make the guy interested and want to discuss with you. The main thing here is to know the measure and not push the young man away from himself.
A categorical mistake is the use of the words “kitty”, “zaya”, “baby” in the first days of correspondence, because in this way you cross the intimate line of your interlocutor. These words appear in the correspondence of people who are in love with each other in a natural way, and this happens, as a rule, mutually. You just have to wait until the guy you like becomes yours. Then you can already swim in the sea of tenderness.

The exchange of sms, letters, messages on VK and other social networks containing various pleasant words can turn into an interesting exciting game. Once again, you will begin to wait for the next message from your loved one, and he - from you.

Why do men need beautiful words?

Some girls are convinced that men should take more initiative in relationships, constantly look after their lovers and give them gifts, so they don’t really pamper their chosen ones with special signs of attention. This is a fundamentally wrong opinion, because it is very important for the stronger sex to feel like someone his beloved admires, to be surrounded by her care and warmth, and also to constantly increase her self-esteem due to the pleasant words spoken to her.

No matter how selfish it may sound, beautiful words benefit both partners. A man always needs an incentive, he will not try for that woman who does not appreciate him. Praise will make him feel confident and he will have the desire to achieve new heights, because there is someone for whom. Is it worth it to say nice words to your beloved guy? Undoubtedly yes!

We write pleasant words to the guy in VKontakte (vk, vk)

We discussed above what is pleasant and how you can write to an unfamiliar guy in contact. Now let's think about what words to choose for a man you know in real life using a social network. After all, it is during a long correspondence that people now open up completely, sometimes exposing the most hidden nooks and crannies of their souls.

What is pleasant to write in VK to your beloved guy whom you know for a long time? Here you have been corresponding with a guy on VK for a long time, you have a period of mutual exchange of tenderness and amenities, and you do not want to lose such good communication. This period is indeed one of the most important, because it will completely affect your future relationship with your beloved guy.

How to avoid it?

Write about everything, the main thing is not to inspire boredom, that is, avoid messages like “Darling, I'm bored”, “I'm sitting here without you and I miss you”, “Darling, I'm lonely”.
It is on the social network that you should write to the young man directly about your feelings. You will never go wrong with a wording like “How glad I am that you appeared in my life” and so on, “Thank you for understanding me.”
Be patient and do not start a conversation with phrases like “Where are you?” If a person is online and simply wants to take a break from communicating even with you.

We write pleasant words to a man in the morning

Finally, you started dating a guy and you want his morning to start with your SMS message if you live apart for now, or so that your SMS pigeon finds its addressee at work if you already live together.

What should you write in the morning?

"Good morning my dear. I slept so sweetly with you, and I didn’t notice how you left”, “Good morning, my love. How did you sleep without me? And so on. Bring his attention to you. It’s bad if he woke up without you, but if it’s good, then veiledly thank you that you woke up together.
Pick up clue words, if you are dating your loved one for a long time, do not be afraid to write gentle words to him: “Darling, my pillow smells like you. Come home quickly."
Psychologists say that poems of their own composition are a good clue. The main thing is to use this technique if you really have a talent for rhyming. If not, use cool ready-made rhymes from the Internet. Poems are more original than letters in prose.

Nice night messages

Letters at night depend on the degree of your relationship. When you had only a few meetings with a man, it would be wrong to write “I would like to be next to you now”, “I can’t sleep without you”. Why? Guys do not find any romantic halo in such a phrase, they perceive it as a signal for intimacy.

When you and your boyfriend are in a long-term strong relationship and for some reason you sleep apart, don't forget to write: "I want to sleep on your shoulder." Men are very greedy for such gentle and touching formulations overnight.

If you don’t know the guy well, you can laugh it off and write: “Good night and let me dream about you.” Here again, the main thing is to transfer the attention of the guy you like to your favorite person. It’s also a good idea to have some kind of unobtrusive rhyme sent to the guy in time before he goes to bed.

Pleasant SMS for a loved one is a whole art

SMS is a short message that can attract a guy's attention even more than correspondence on social networks. Writing a good sms to interest a person is a whole art. What's nice about sending SMS?

A very, very, very funny joke. Such that not only the young man would laugh, but also his mother. Everyone knows that God is hidden in a sense of humor. Be lively and witty. A spontaneous joke will boost the mood of the young person you like for the whole day ahead.
Again, my own poetry. Your young man will know that next to him is a creative girl who can write not only messages in prose. With a beautiful rhyme, your sweetheart can brag to relatives, colleagues and close friends, which will certainly increase his mood and self-esteem. After all, for the sake of it, they even go to writing poetry! Only a very callous and mundane person will not like this approach. Here, too, do not overdo it and send a rhyme once every six months.
Praise words. Your boyfriend will only be happy if you remind him more often how good, sweet, handsome, kind, the best he is in the world.
Ask the guy for some advice more often. How do you find a particular store? Where is the best place to fill up in your area and more. This approach is especially good if you know the guy quite recently.
Send him an invitation to an event. Everyone loves unexpected surprises. Be Santa's grandfather for the guy. More often rejoice with all sorts of unexpected invitations somewhere.

If your communication is just starting to develop, it is better to choose a neutral tone of messages, no need to overwhelm an unsuspecting guy with confessions and frank words. Let him first show more initiative - this is useful in general for the development of your relationship.

What should not be written or typical mistakes of girls?

Don't write with mistakes. When the guy you like doesn't have perfect literacy, don't stoop to the same. Be for him initially an authority, at least in matters of spelling and knowledge of his native language.
Never right off the bat do not demand increased attention to yourself. Does the guy not respond to you for a long period? It means he is either busy or has lost interest in you. And with questions like “Where have you gone?”, “Answer me, I’m waiting,” you will not return attention to yourself, but rather push the person away from you. Interested guys will always find time to write. Wait and be patient, it will pay off later on.
If a loved one does not want to write to you, do not try to blackmail him with SMS messages like “If you don’t answer, I will jump out of the window” and other similar formulations. You will not return a guy like that, but even this way you will leave only bad memories behind you.
Do not humiliate the guy in the correspondence. You can poke him in moderation, make fun of him, but you must always remember that all people are selfish, and once you have strongly hurt the feelings of an unfamiliar young man, you will hardly return those pleasant impressions that he initially made about you.

We write pleasant words to the conscript soldier

One of the most pressing is the issue of correspondence between a girl and a young man who is serving in the military. Write him long letters about how you are waiting for him and miss him. The main thing is not to be overly sentimental, because your boyfriend also has a hard time being separated from you. Lively and interestingly describe everything that happens in your city, on your street with your families and mutual friends. The immutable truth is that a loving heart will always find the right words, no matter how difficult it is to find them and write to your beloved guy. Be decisive. Dare!

nice words for husband

Sometimes it is necessary to leave aside all your household chores, caring for children and pay attention to the man with whom fate brought you. Tell him that he is dear to you. Below are some phrases to express your feelings.

Since you burst into my life, peace has appeared in my soul, and happiness in my heart;
You are the best husband, being your wife is a great happiness!;
I still remember the day when we, two parts of each other, united. I pray that we will never be separated;
I am a happy woman. Will you ask why? Because I got the best husband!;
You are my own kitten (bunny). I need your love so much
For so many years you and I have been united by the bonds of marriage, and you still deprive me of my mind.

Send your husband a message when he is at work, at home, or on a business trip. You will see, he will come home in an excellent mood.

Psychologists advise girls to be open, friendly, nice when communicating with a guy in correspondence and remember that you should never get hung up on any person, because this leads to personality breakdown. After some attempts to get a man interested in you, stop it and turn your attention to someone else.

Often girls also ask other questions regarding correspondence with young people. They are interested, for example, how to regain the trust of a man with whom you broke up through correspondence. There is also a way out here. Try to start a conversation with your ex at the same level as you had at the dawn of the initial acquaintance. Greet him and write about common acquaintances, common interests, and what once united you. Most importantly, don't be pushy.

How to tell a man about your feelings for him? What words to say to a man?

Pleasant words to the beloved and only man:
1. My gentle fluffy! I can't live without you even for one second.... Even a millisecond without you is a long eternity. Come, hurry up, my love, I'm waiting for you!
2. Look to look…. Lips to lips... Stay close forever. I won't give you another! If necessary, I will fight. I want to be with you always. After all, I'm looking for your image everywhere .... And I want to say yes to you!
3. I just opened my handbag. Found, in it, my favorite phone. I spent a lot of time searching. But, on the screen of the phone - your photo! I can't stop looking at you. You are the most handsome man . I love admiring you….
4. Words of love in prose. - Why do you have so much tenderness? If it were measured in numbers, I would just lose count. Darling, you drive me crazy! I promise that I will repay you the same ....
5. You draw me in your imagination…. I am also a good artist. Therefore, I, with all love and warmth, also “make”, mentally, your imposing portrait. Do you want to see him? Dream me, please, tonight ....
6. Words of love in prose. - The best, favorite, the only one! I give you all my love. And you take it as much as you want. All love is yours. All love is for you. Manage it the way you want. Only…. Don't kill her, please!
7. What words to say to a man? - Your palm warms my soul .... Dear, darling and sweet .... If you knew how much I love you...
8. No need to cry with your eyes or soul .... I will not leave, but I will always be with you. If you want, I will be your angel. And love the clouds, we'll fly away together!
9. I am your new page in life. Don't tear me apart and don't burn me. I allow you to ignite only with the flame of love and passion. In such a flame, believe me, I will burn with great pleasure!
10. Words of love in prose. - I love…. I love…. I love…. I love…. How many times, for you, to repeat these pleasant words, so that you, without the slightest doubt, believe in them? I can write all the entrances, all the roads and all the notebooks, if you want. Perhaps everything will get tired of my handwriting and writing, but I will never get tired of convincing you that I love without memory ....
11. Pleasant words to a beloved man. - Honey, I'm so bored that I can't work normally. All thoughts, literally, are clogged with you. And I don't want to get rid of this "downtroddenness". I am pleased to think of you, dedicating every moment of thought. Catch my pleasure!
12. You are a prince. And I don't care that you have neither a horse, nor palaces, nor overseas riches! You are the prince of my heart. You rule, in it, the kingdom of our love. And love, taking me away on its wings, to beautiful skies, reminds me that you are waiting for me, and that you need me very, very ....
13. Warm and affectionate words to your beloved man. - I'll call, so as not to let go .... I need you. I'll die without you…. Stay there as long as possible, I beg you! I'll drown in your arms... I love to dive into them... You and your eyes are the most beautiful oceans on the entire globe!
14. Give me your hand. Can you feel my hand reach for yours? And attraction is inevitable. So, let's not avoid them! Let's go meet them! I want to feel the attraction of feelings ....
15. Only yours…. I don't want to be anyone but you! With others - bad, dreary and boring. With you - fun, comfortable and positive. Thank you for being with me and not someone else!
16. Words of love in prose. - Thank you for the ocean of your love .... Thank you for the feelings that you give me so sincerely .... Thanks to the earth that you are on it .... Without you, the earth will perish. And, along with her, and I ....
17. My favorite! You are the most wonderful gift on my birthday! I don't need another gift. You appeared in my life, and I will appreciate this appearance. Thank you dear for being with me!
18. You are a hero! You are the first who was able to conquer, without difficulty, both the top and the depth of my loving heart. Take it, it's yours! It has so much love... By the way, she's also yours. And I belong to you. I love you madly and passionately!
19. My angel…. You gave me your wings.... And I fly without them: from love! I'm sorry that I, then, was in a hurry, and did not say: "I - to you, catch!". Word me, squeeze me into your arms! I want to drown in them, fall, resurrect .... And kiss... After all, again, I want to understand how great it is, love, in you, to look for ....
20. I count the seconds until the meeting .... Here, a few more seconds flew through me, reminding me of waiting. Oh, how painful it is! I can not wait! But, the hands of the clock, to turn, at least in some way, I can not: they do not obey me. I don't need anyone's submission! I really want your love .... Give, share, donate!
21. Come close to me. You are so warm and sweet. You are my favorite pillow. Not offended, right? I so love to fall asleep on your chest, to the beating of your loving heart .... Your heartbeat is a lullaby. Let it sound forever! Live because I live by you….
22. What can I do for you so that you believe in the eternity of my love? I will do whatever you want: I will come to your dream, I will become the moon or the sun, I will disappear and appear, I will turn any page of life, I will say (or shout), any confession ... .. Say .... Only one word of yours .... And I can melt, a drop of a smile on your face .... Which I love very much.
23. Give a ring - I, without hesitation, will tell you, "yes." If you don’t give it, I’m ready to wait for you all eternity. You are life, you are the continuation of the lines in my destiny. And I'm ready to beg that you remain mine and with me. Do you agree?
24. Words of love in prose. - Thousands of "sorry" and thousands of "love." Everything is for you. I can say even more. You are the light. You are the breath. You are the whisper of all the sweetest words in the world. You are my luck. You are the beginning of all beginnings. You are the only person for whose sake, if necessary, I will be able to say goodbye to my only life!
25. Your name rushes through me with a pleasant sound. Your name is an amber light in the semi-darkness of loneliness. I love your name: it saves and protects me. It is my talisman. I won't give you to anyone! Never ever, my love.
26. Forget everything bad and gloomy. Let's leave everything light and bright. Let's turn our lives, thanks to each other, into a solar rainbow .... I want you to live on earth so cloudlessly and happily that all the angels who look at us from the clouds envied us with "white" envy. We, being together, will be able to repaint envy into rainbow walls ...

Millions of girls compose romantic messages to their loved ones. It is this method that allows you to express your thoughts, giving them clarity, sublimity, which is not so easy to do with a personal date. Nowadays, there are many mobile apps to send a quick message. But at the beginning of a relationship, some are interested in the question of what to write to a guy in order to be able to interest him in various circumstances of his life.

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How to start?

Written messages help to overcome stiffness and uncertainty, focusing the interlocutor's attention on their winning features, charming him and penetrating his soul. Messaging does not imply obsession at all, this method only indicates interest in the guy you like.

An ordinary short "Hi, how are you" can lead the first message from a girl to a guy. The first phrase is acceptable and quite original, for example: "What a wonderful man, everyone, now it's your turn to come up with compliments!" You should not start a relationship with straightforward confessions that alarm the chosen one and can produce the opposite result.

A phrase invented by yourself will sound more sincere than borrowed from the Internet. It is possible that the guy has already had to read this from other girls. A message of a benevolent shade, without a hint of aggression, is appropriate. It is good to say what is in the heart.

It is necessary to tune in to a light friendly tone, moving away from familiarity. Boredom and melancholy should be avoided. Any person likes attention, but it is important to monitor the literacy of writing and punctuality, to avoid tactlessness, obsession. If there is a long pause, it is regarded as a lack of interest.

Before writing to a guy, you need to study his page on social networks, pay attention to his favorite books, films, hobbies, life events. To interest him, it is good to prepare a little for the conversation by gathering additional information about his hobbies or the upcoming topic of communication. At the end of the conversation, it’s nice to exchange photos, videos, posts, music.

Terms

The beginning of communication in Internet correspondence depends on whether people already know each other or not, whether they are in peaceful relations, whether they like each other.

If no holidays are foreseen in the near future, you can use a simple form of address to send a message to your ex: "Hi, I missed you. Let's put up." Men are straightforward, so grandiloquent meandering expressions can cause more misunderstandings than encourage frankness.

You should not write to the former immediately after a quarrel, parting. Let him think long enough. Then, without any "remorse" and explanations, in simple words, ask how his life is, mentioning that "I haven't written for a long time."

If a guy has a girlfriend, you should think about how much it is necessary to write him a message. Threatening someone's relationship, not having confidence in the successful development of events, will give a disastrous result, leaving a residue in everyone's soul. It is permissible to make a hint so that the guy understands that he is welcome and ready to communicate.

In the process of communicating with an unfree young man, it is worth asking him a delicate question of how serious he is about relationships. The answer will give a lot to understand and draw conclusions. If a man evades a direct answer, then it is clear that it is unlikely to get the truth from him in the future. Some say they are free, others philosophize about freedom in relationships.

If the reasons why he does not write become known, then it is necessary to form a speech taking into account the existing wishes and mistakes. If he prefers more tenderness, use a similar technique.

Dialogue development

Approximate dialogue development plan:

Intrigue. If the dialogue has taken place, the next task is to consolidate the achieved result, plus the ability to intrigue for further communication. For this purpose, various techniques are suitable: a proposal to describe each other. This is fun and educational, because in the process of getting to know each other, it allows you to get to know each other better, and the intertwined conclusions amuse and provoke communication.
Compliment. All men are susceptible to compliments, praise, positive assessments, it is only important to proceed from real facts, without exaggerating dignity. To do this, you need to pay attention to interests, photos, and other details related to the guy's account.
Request for help. The soul of a protector lives in every man, so the task of the girl is to help him open up, to show himself as a superman. The request should not strain, let it look unpretentious: the question of choosing a smartphone, regarding the rules of the road. In conclusion, you need to thank the interlocutor.
Mysteriousness. Creating uncertainty, ambiguity, when there is interest, but there are no answers regarding certain aspects of life. If there are significant events in a personal biography, then they will later pleasantly surprise a man.
Finding common interests. Gradual communication allows you to naturally identify common hobbies. Regardless of the type of hobby, they are very close.
Comment or question. Ask the guy if his girlfriend studied at such and such a university. Note his resemblance to his relative; identify.
Support. Banal words of kindness, wishes for success at work, concern for well-being - an occasion to feel the support of friends, which will be appreciated by a young man. It is recommended to write to the guy about his own readiness to listen, to support him at a difficult moment. It is worth taking note of phrases that emphasize the positive features of the interlocutor: his lifestyle, sense of humor, erudition, love for animals, sports.

SMS messages:

if it is SMS, several messages sent one after another will be of interest;
some use SMS as a means of getting to know each other, referring to a wrongly dialed number.

What to be silent about

There are phrases after which the conversation is not easy to bring to the previous level. They are detrimental to results.

List of possible unwanted phrases:

unpleasant comparisons (with someone from the past, etc.);
remarks, criticism, accusations, including the question of why he does not answer for a long time;
it is not recommended to mention absentees in a conversation, characterizing them negatively;
complaints and everything connected with them should be avoided - dissatisfaction with life, etc.;
do not show jealousy: she will immediately discourage the desire to communicate, emphasize the girl’s intention to manipulate, control, especially if you use questions about why and when the guy could write;
vulgarity creates an unfavorable impression on everyone, otherwise rarely would anyone agree to build a serious relationship with such a girl.

Girls mistakes:

frequent use of emoticons: will create the impression of frivolity, although in general such signs are necessary to maintain a relaxed atmosphere in communication;
the presence of punctuation errors discourages the desire to communicate even among those who are not strong in spelling;
a quick response to his message will show excessive interest, which is undesirable, especially at first;
voluminous paragraphs: it is better to divide them into several small ones to make it easier to read;
if during correspondence the message remains unread, it is no longer worth writing anything to the interlocutor;
a read and unanswered message means that it put the interlocutor in an awkward position or another reason why the dialogue should be suspended.

Ignorance of the true reason will bring a lot of inconvenience if the guy wants to communicate, but sees words such as: "I miss you, where are you"; an open confession of feelings cancels all other options for the development of events, leaving only reciprocity or immediate refusal.

Social networks and dating sites

If you like a person with whom you have not communicated for a long time, it is convenient to start a correspondence with him on the social network. Today it is clear to anyone: if you do not know what to write in the first message, it is easy to use the comment under the publication of the person of interest. Thus, you can unobtrusively attract his attention.

Girls need to be aware that the content on a personal page leaves a meaningful impression. Candid photos, information that can be ambiguously interpreted are undesirable. Well, if the avatar, visible every time you read messages, will look attractive.

Diminutive appeals can scare a man away, causing associations with excessive care.

Dating sites usually have options that allow you to track general parameters, interesting data or hobbies, by which it is possible to "filter" and get to know those who are significant.

The emoticon sent as a message will eloquently reflect the mood of a girl who wants to communicate with a guy she likes, and this is enough for him to answer. If a young man does not react, it means that he is not ready for the development of relations, he is not set up to exchange positive emotions.

If he doesn't write

Guys prefer to correspond with witty cheerful girls, free from problems, not complaining about life.

There is no need to be obsessive so that he only thinks of you. A man should be comfortable, pleasant, easy, interesting. If he does not write, you cannot send messages with claims, insults, questions, or bother him with jokes.

To make the guy want to meet, the girls use the anonymous letter method if they have the person’s email address, where they indicate the meeting place and time. If curiosity works, then the quality of the meeting depends on the participants themselves.

Social networks and mobile communication create many opportunities for starting a romantic relationship. And if traditionally female initiative in relationships is not welcome, then writing to a nice guy who you like is the first one that is quite acceptable - this is how you signal to him about your sympathy, but leave the choice.

At the beginning of a conversation with a nice guy, especially if you have not communicated live before, it is important to remember:

Even a simple "hello" will raise his self-esteem to the sky. But how, a nice girl herself seeks his attention and dared to write first! So it is not necessary to build yourself the queen of the epistolary genre, inventing pretentious verbal turns for each letter.

Mystery is your main weapon. If he does not even remember your face, and you write interesting details about him that he does not publish on his VKontakte page, the boy will be interested in the source of information. You should not write that you have admired Sherlock Holmes since childhood and practice deduction skills or accidentally got into a conversation with his drunken friend in a bar. Let in an attempt to find out this little secret, he himself will write and make an appointment with you.

The most interesting person in the life of any person is himself. Your chosen one is hardly an exception to this rule, so the correspondence should be at least 50% about him and for him. Be interested in his hobbies, ask if he was at a concert of the bands that are in his audio recordings. Use his profile for analysis - it contains almost everything you need: what he loves, what he is proud of, what he boasts about to his friends. Example: if the wall is full of videos, photos and articles with information on caring for exotic animals - read it, note a few facts for yourself and write about it. A guy who loves to travel will probably post a lot of photos of himself with mountains in the background with all the travel gear. You just have to act according to the circumstances - sign up for the next trip with him, go to his sports club.

“What a wonderful car in the photo - is it yours? And how much do you earn? Maybe you can give me the same? You don't want to seem too mercantile, do you? Young ladies, who first of all pay attention to the financial condition of their partner, do not command respect. And as a smart girl, you could determine his status without further inquiries and not write about it.

“Who is the girl in the photo? Are you sleeping with her? What about her friend? And that brunette in the leather miniskirt that you left the bowling alley with yesterday, is that your sister?” Maniacally jealous girls look unattractive in the eyes of normal guys. Of course, if a guy defiantly emphasizes that girls are not indifferent to him and you, even if you really like him, are not the only one, then this is the role that he likes. But to write in this spirit and build relationships with a ladies' man - doom yourself to the fate of an evil jealous bitch who will drive away annoying fans from him with a fly swatter.

“Wow, what a slender handsome man in the photo next to you! Can you text me his number or introduce us somehow by chance? Do you have other beautiful friends? - perhaps the most unattractive version of the conversation. Men are very jealous, and you are also asking for an acquaintance with strangers. This will hurt the guy’s self-esteem very much, and he will take out his anger on you during further communication. However, if you are really interested in one of his friends - go for it. But provoking male jealousy in order to attract attention is very risky.

What position do you prefer in sex? And you're not gay? How about tomorrow to come to my house with a bottle of wine? I bought myself some new underwear, do you want to check it out?” - of course, mothers and grandmothers inspire us that men only need sex. And the offer of intimate contact will undoubtedly attract the attention of the opposite sex, but you should not write like that. But the price of such an offer is too high - you run the risk of being considered an affordable girl. And such men are appreciated, but only at the moment of satisfaction of passion. You will not build long-term and reliable relationships in this way. By the way, the same applies to intimate photos that are undesirable to send guys, even if you have been dating for a long time. Once you have a fight, your ex may send these photos to mutual friends, post them online, or use them as a means of blackmail.

Well, SMS sent, but there is still no answer and no. What to do? Bombing a guy with angry messages in the hope that at least annoying incoming SMS alerts will make him think about you even for a second? Of course, this is not an option, although resentment and pride often push girls to such actions. The same applies to messages in the spirit of “?”, “How are you, are you still here?”, “Did the SMS reach you?”.
Ideally, a girl should not send more than one message in a row and pause for 15-20 minutes between replies.

No need to come up with excuses for him - he was tired, he was busy, the money ran out on the account, the phone was dead, communication problems, the crocodile was not caught, the coconut was not growing. The guy you like is probably an adult and independent person who is able to independently replenish the account and decide who, what and when to answer. So, most likely, the lack of an answer means a lack of interest in the question or in talking with you at all.

But it happens that the reason for silence is really respectful (more details here -). Then, all the more so, leave him alone - if a man trusts you, he will definitely tell you himself.

Men like self-sufficient girls with many interesting hobbies, whose social life is not limited to one person. And in correspondence, you can tell him as much as you like that you are doing in-depth study of Japanese or writing a scientific dissertation, but all this does not negate the fact that the answer to his messages comes at the same minute at any time of the day or night. It is unlikely that such a busy girl is waiting for his precious SMS every second. Be inaccessible. Make him wait for an answer, stop the conversation herself, do not answer after midnight - busy people sleep at this time.

The ultimate goal of virtual communication is to bring the object of your love to live contact.

To delve into such relationships and lose touch with reality is a bad option. Intrigue, tease, lure - but do not let the guy evade real dates through Internet communication. After all, if you wanted a fictional character, you wouldn't have to try so hard.

Finally, an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to "read" men. Like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man - and you immediately know everything about him and understand what is on his mind. You would be able to get any man and have an ideal relationship and would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

Who said it's impossible? Of course, you won’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

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Modern communication has become much easier and more relaxed than it used to be. This greatly facilitates the task of how to start communication and how to maintain it in the future. Since now the “carrier pigeon” is not even a simple letter that needs to be waited for several days or weeks, but an electronic one, not only communication itself has accelerated, but also the speed of making some decisions that are the result of this communication. Clever, right? But this is a fact.

In other words, in our time, in just a few minutes, you can achieve not only a response from a person, but also any actions from him. Therefore, be bolder and start communicating with the guy who interested you first. Now this is not something strange and reprehensible, because today's girls are in many ways bolder than young people. So, read and remember what to write to the guy so that he answers.

The easiest way is to write about that you want to get to know him. Believe me, all guys are polygamous. Even if he already has the “one and only”, then he will not refuse the offer to meet a beautiful lady. At first, this may be just a joke or flirting on his part. What happens next will completely depend on you, i.e. How can you interest him?
If we are talking about an unfamiliar guy (but you would like to get to know him), your main cunning will be the weapon. Yes, yes, it is female cunning, which is too tough for even the smartest man. Ask, for example, if he has a sister who is so many years old, and if she studied at such and such a school. Like, he is very similar to the brother of your former classmate, whom you have already despaired of looking for in all social networks.

The object of your attention will definitely fall for this "lure". Of course, he will answer that you were mistaken, and he may not have a sister at all, but does it matter? The main thing is that the conversation began. Then you will write about your inattention and repent of such an absurd oversight. Thus, everything will continue to roll by itself.

There is another unique way. Of course, it is not suitable for social networks. But if you suddenly by some miracle recognized his e-mail (e-mail), then God himself ordered to use in exactly this way. Make an appointment, write down the place and time. Believe me, the guy will be shocked. After his stupor passes from such a letter, he will definitely answer you. Then act according to the situation. He may ask, for example, "who is this." Answer him. If he writes that “he doesn’t know such people,” write so that he doesn’t pretend. After another stupor, he will guess that you made a mistake with your email address and will tell you about it. Well, here you are again portraying the "poor sheep" who just wentof off.

"Hi. How are you?" - many consider these phrases to be hackneyed and unoriginal, they say, modern guys will no longer fall for this. Ha, how they peck. It's like if you write that you want to get to know him. And since it was said earlier that all male beings are polygamous, he will not leave your banal “hello” without attention. Maybe because of simple interest, or maybe in order to amuse their pride. After all, all the guys are very proud. He will be flattered that the girl herself wants to meet him.

Once again I will say that if he already has a lover, he will still reply to the message.

After all, if they don’t consider real betrayal a betrayal, then, just think, some kind of answer to a girl who herself wants to get acquainted. What's special here? This is how they all talk. Eh, you guys... And why only we believe you? Or are we just pretending? Okay, let's drop the lyrics. It's not about that now.

In general, these few ways will 100% help you get to know a pen pal. Next is a matter of technology. However, remember that in any case don't be intrusive and forget about tact. Try also not to make obvious mistakes in the letter. Although the guys, in general, do not shine with special literacy, it's still not worth the risk. Suddenly, your new acquaintance turns out to be an incorrigible intellectual or a fighter for the correctness and purity of the Russian language. Anything happens...

What to write to a guy so that he answers SMS?

I want to say right away that it is very, very difficult to “hook” an unfamiliar guy with one SMS. Many girls who spend time on the forums insistently demand an answer to this very question. And the answer is most often the same - not very decent, or rather, the proposal that the guy needs to make is not very decent. But since I am confident in the good education of my reader, i.e. you, let's omit this, so unworthy, way.

So, you have in your hands the treasured phone number of your chosen one (it doesn’t matter how you got it). How to use it correctly? Calling, of course, is scary. This is understandable. It remains to figure out what to write to the guy so that he answers. The best option is again to “mistake” the number. It's easier with a phone - just one "wrong" digit, and the message will reach exactly the right addressee. There are a lot of options for the dialogue you set up.

Can make appointment, ask if he will go to a lecture on computer science, will he let you rewrite yesterday's abstract, will he pick you up in a car, etc. Fantasize yourself. Just make a rough plan for your conversation in advance, i.e. exemplary his and his answers.
Can you write that girlfriend gave me his phone number say you want to chat. Only immediately, after the guy answers, transfer the conversation to another topic so that he suddenly does not become interested in that very “girlfriend”, and not in a dialogue with you.
Another option - send a smiley. This is the most unpretentious, but effective method. If the guy is not a bore and not a donkey, then he will definitely send a response emoticon. And you send another one, depending on which one he sends you. After two or three such SMS, he will write something to you.

Just limit yourself to neutral emoticons. No need to send him all sorts of “smacks” and “hugs” or a face showing the tongue. For the first message, one simple smiling emoticon is enough.

What to write to a guy in contact so that he answers?

So, in contact, in one of the most popular social networks, you can write to a guy to answer the most banal and unpretentious phrase: "Hi". The young man, I assure you, will also answer: "Hi." Only a point at the end will not put (in every sense).

Firstly, guys are usually generally practically avoid punctuation marks.
Secondly,he will be interested find out about the next steps you have taken to continue communicating with him.

Keep in mind that before you write to a stranger for the first time, put things in order on your own page. It should not contain photos with former boyfriends, as well as no "terrible faces" and pictures of pretty girlfriends. After all, a potential boyfriend will first of all climb to thoroughly study all your ins and outs on a personal page.

One more thing: must be on the avatar your photo, and not some kind of gibberish. The guy’s interest will immediately disappear, since men, of course, love mystery, but not to such an extent.

He may immediately think that for some reason you are hiding your appearance. And then doubts will creep in about your attractiveness. So no need to build an enigma out of yourself.

By sending a guy on his wall in contact with some picture with meaning, you will most likely wait for a message in which he will ask you to decipher your hint. Do not send too sophisticated and original picture, otherwise you will definitely scare the boy away. After all, men do not like "misunderstandings", and therefore they consider us women to be creatures from another planet. What for us is just a subtle, fairly understandable hint, for them it will be an unsolvable puzzle.

What to write to an ex-boyfriend so that he answers?

This is a difficult question. Moreover, the main difficulty lies in whether it is worth writing at all? First of all, remember HOW you broke up, WHO was the initiator, and WHY it happened. Perhaps it is better not to write anything at all, because a broken bowl, as they say, cannot be glued together. But if you have already decided on this act, stepped over all the principles and your pride, have already figured out what to write to the guy so that he will answer, then here are some tips.

Firstly, Don't text right after a breakup. Let time pass. Even if you want to return it (think again!), then you need to do it carefully and unobtrusively.

The best thing to do after a few weeks or months is to write a simple, “Hi. How are you? We haven't spoken in a long time." By this you will show that you have no resentment left (even if this is not the case), and you are not going to flood him with tearful messages asking him to return everything back.

Secondly, if in the past you had real feelings, and the guy is not the last one, then he be sure to reply to the email. After his answer, write that you are doing well, tell, for example, news about your mutual friends. In short, defuse the situation initially. You still have time to go on the offensive (unless, of course, this is your ultimate goal, although in another case it makes no sense to write to a former boyfriend).

If you feel that the guy just unsubscribes with on-duty phrases and does not ask any questions about you, it means that there is no longer a place for you in his life, it is occupied by another. Come to terms with this fact. Do not try to impose or threaten, as some "smart" young ladies do. This is not going through any gates! In the end, the world did not converge on your ex. If he's lost a treasure like you, then that's the way he should be. Someone else, more deserving, will be lucky. Be proud and prudent, value yourself and your dignity, do not be led by feelings alone. Remember that you are one of a kind all over the earth!

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