How to determine the betrayal of a girl from a distance. Signs of female infidelity

If you have reason to suspect your girlfriend of infidelity, then the sooner you find out the truth, the better. In this article, we will tell you how to spot the signs of infidelity and confirm or dispel your fears.

Steps

Part 1

Watch how she act

Notice if she's suddenly starting to pay a lot more attention to her appearance. If your girlfriend's wardrobe has suddenly tripled in the last couple of months, while you hardly go anywhere together, then she's dressing up for someone else. This could be a work colleague, a classmate, a classmate, or anyone else in her circle. If she overdresses to have coffee with friends or go to the market, she may be hiding something.

• If she suddenly began to follow her figure and disappear in the gym, perhaps she is trying for some guy.
• Let's be a little clear: it is likely that she just wants to look more attractive and get in good shape. However, this item, along with the rest, may be a signal of treason.

1. Consider if she has distanced herself from your family. Maybe she used to love your aunt's monthly meals, but the last three times she refused, citing being busy? Or maybe she used to love shopping with your sister and now they haven't spoken in weeks? What about time with your parents? She used to be friendly and outgoing, but now she's more and more silent and looks ready to leave at any moment?

   • If she's cheating, seeing your family will remind her that she's unfaithful, so she'll naturally avoid your family.
   • It can also be a signal that she wants to end your relationship, whether she's cheating or not.

2. See if she has distanced herself from your friends. Here the situation is the same as with the family. If she has suddenly stopped hanging out with your friends and avoids interacting with them, she may want to break up with you. If she's cheating on you, she may think she doesn't deserve to be in your social circle, or doesn't want to remember how fun and good you were together before everything went awry.

   • If it becomes obvious, don't be afraid to ask why. She may have another explanation for why she doesn't want to spend time with your friends.
   • If she continues to communicate with your friends, but their attitude towards her has changed and some kind of awkwardness is felt in him, then perhaps your friends know something. A classic of the genre: your girlfriend is cheating on you, and you will be the last to know about it.

3. Pay attention to whether she has cooled off for sex. While cheating men may become more active in having sex with the partner they are cheating on, women are less likely to do so. If a woman falls in love with another, she may feel guilty or simply lose interest in having sex with you. If you've had a pretty busy sex life in the past and now she keeps saying she's tired or not feeling well, she might be being satisfied by someone else.

   • If she cheats, she will also cover her body. She will not want you to see her naked and will always wrap herself in a blanket.
   • Of course, not having sex can also be because she's unhappy with your relationship or her own life, or with health issues. If she is ready to flirt and have fun outside the house, and she only becomes detached with you, you probably have a problem.

4. Think about whether she has become too distant or, on the contrary, strives for closeness. Common sense dictates that an unfaithful partner will become indifferent and begin to move away. In some cases, this is true, but in others, the opposite happens: an affair with a new force rekindles romantic interest in a permanent partner. So both distance and unexpected rapprochement can become an alarming sign.

   • A girl's increased interest in you is sometimes accompanied by new sexual positions and movements. If a girl suddenly starts surprising you with new "tricks", maybe someone taught her them.
   • If this happens, it is better to speak directly. There is no point in continuing to pretend that nothing is happening.

5. See if she's suddenly too busy to spend time with you. You used to have dinner together on Sundays, walk, make love, and now for the whole weekend she cannot find a minute for you? You used to watch your favorite show with her on Tuesdays, but now she disappears for the whole evening? Does she not even apologize or notice that the two of you are no longer doing things you love? If she began to often stay late at work, spend more time with friends, go to the gym more often - and all this at the same time - perhaps this is a sign that another man has appeared in her life.

   • Pay attention to how she is going to meet her "friends". Does she dress too sexy, hum to herself, or act unnaturally playful? If so, she might actually be dating a man.

6. See if she has become more private about her phone and computer. She used to show you funny articles on her computer, ask you to check if she got a text message, and always left her phone in plain sight. Now she immediately slams the laptop as soon as you enter the room, does not send any messages in front of you and put a password on the phone, and even on the computer. If she wasn't so concerned about privacy before, but suddenly things have changed, then she may not want you to see who she's talking to.

   • If you're willing to take the risk, then when you see her texting someone, ask them directly. Look at her reaction. Does she answer quickly and honestly, or does she snap and dodge?

7. Think about whether she began to disappear for a long time without explanation. This is one of the surest signs that a girl is unfaithful. If you call or text her and don't get a response for hours, you may have a problem. If it happened once or twice, no big deal. But if this happens many times a week and she always says that her phone has run out of battery or that she didn't hear the call, it's time to sound the alarm.

   • Casually ask her what she was doing when she wasn't answering her calls. See if her expression changes and if she looks embarrassed.

   Part 2

   Hear what she says

   1. Notice if she suddenly mentioned "new friend". Has she mentioned the name of a colleague or classmate once or twice recently? Or much more often? If so, perhaps this is the mysterious man whose existence you fear. Try to ask the girl simple questions about this person - who is he, where does he come from. If she blushes or becomes defensive, she may not want you to know anything about him.

      • Pay attention to her facial expression and tone of voice when the person's name comes up. Does she look excited and dreamy, or maybe guilty? If so, then she might be cheating on you.

   2. Notice if she picks on you more than usual. Even if she has a million reasons to grumble at you, one of them may be that you are no longer attracted to her. She may also feel guilty about betraying you and use her grievances against you to justify her behavior. If she points out to you every little thing she thinks you did wrong, it may be easier for her to convince herself that even though she treated you badly, you deserved it.

      • Again, this may simply be a sign that she is unhappy in the relationship. Either way, this is not a good sign.
      • However, if this your behavior has not changed for the better, she may have a reasonable basis for expressing her dissatisfaction.

   3. Notice if her affairs and plans have become too mysterious. If earlier she reported: “I’m going with Katya to a cafe. I'll be back in two hours, ”and now it just disappears without explanation, there is a possibility that something is happening. If you no longer know where and what she does for hours on end, and she answers all questions evasively, she may be spending time with another man.

      • If she first says that she did one thing, and then something completely different, you caught her in a lie.

   4. Notice if her interest in your plans. You may think that this is a genuine interest, but perhaps she just wants to take care not to get caught. If she asks you to tell exactly what time you will come home, and even asks about it via SMS, then perhaps she is not really looking forward to your return. Also, she may want to make sure that you do not end up on business in those parts where she has a romantic rendezvous.

      • If you want to try to catch her, say you won't be at a certain place at such and such a time, and then at the last minute "change plans" and show up there.

   Part 3

   Expose treason

   1. Follow her. Of course, this will undermine the trust between you, but if you have already reached despair, but are afraid to ask directly, follow her. No need to play secret agent and follow her car. Just show up where she says she should be and check if she is there and with whom. Here are some options.

      • If she says she stays late at work, stop by to see how she's doing and bring her something to eat. If it is not in place, there is a problem.
      • If she says she's going to a bar or restaurant with her friends and you don't think it's too much of a sham to "accidentally" be around, pop in an hour after the scheduled time and see if she's there. Come up with a good explanation for why you were walking by.

   2. Come to her house unannounced. If she says she is expecting you in half an hour, come immediately. Say you just couldn't wait any longer to see her. Does she run for the shower or does she try to hide the signs of another man's presence? Does she not let you into the bedroom, or worse, doesn't she let you in at all? This is a very disturbing sign and the right time to catch her in a lie, if you really want to.

      • When you come to her, do not pretend that you suspect something. Say that you were itching to see her, that you got the time mixed up, or something like that.

   3. Check her things. Again, this is another way to permanently lose her trust. However, if you feel like there is no other way out, check her phone and computer. If all SMS and letters are erased, this is rather suspicious. Once again: this is a very unseemly act, but this way you check whether she is cheating on you or not.

   4. Just ask. Say that something is bothering you and ask her to talk in private. Don't make accusations ("I know you're cheating on me!"), but tell her how you feel ("I feel like you're losing interest in me").

      • See if she answers you. If she does not cheat, she does not need to get out and convince you that everything is fine. If she cheats, she can beat around the bush, but never say anything specific.
      • If she snaps, tries to "turn arrows" on you, this may be a manifestation of guilt.

Perhaps every young person at least once in his life faced with such a question: “Are my feelings mutual?”. Of course, you can ask the girl directly. But what to do if there are too many doubts, but you don’t want to make yourself look stupid?

In this case, the unconscious actions of the girl come to the rescue, which she herself may not notice. But knowing about their existence and being able to read them, you can easily determine whether you really have a chance for reciprocity.

Signs that she loves you

All unconscious actions of a person can be divided into 3 groups: behavior, look, gestures. Let's analyze each separately.

Behavior

In order to find out if a girl is in love, you need to observe how she behaves. Here are the main signs:

1. Interest. A girl who is not indifferent is usually very pleased to hear about your affairs. A sure sign - if a girl tries to ask someone else about you, she asks mutual friends about your condition. If a girl is always ready to help you, regardless of her own affairs, then most likely she likes you.
2. Communication. The girl who likes you will seek communication with you. She would rather talk to you than talk to a friend.

   Pay attention: if a girl stays close to you at all general meetings and tries to speak, this is a sure sign.

3. self-sacrifice. Do you know that she is terribly afraid of drowning, but she boldly climbs into the boat after you? She definitely likes you.

   A girl in love very often puts the guy's interests in the foreground, forgetting about her own for a while. But remember that the girl will expect the same from you, do not disappoint her.

4. Present. A gift without a reason is a reason to think about the nature of your relationship. This is the most obvious way for a girl to convey that she likes a guy. If you were presented with a handmade thing, in which a lot of time and effort was invested, this can be a help for a long, serious relationship.
5. Jealousy. Caught a look full of displeasure when he spoke to her friend? Helped a sweet stranger on the street, and then you can’t understand what upset her so much? She's just jealous of you. Even if you are not yet in a relationship, a girl in love does not want to share you with others at all.
6. Care. If you get sick, and she comes to you more often than all the other friends, if she wants to take care of your condition, she definitely likes you. All girls have a maternal instinct that makes them take care of people. But only about special, dear people.
7. Happiness. There is one more, perhaps the most not obvious sign. But it is also worth paying attention to: a girl in love (even if unrequited so far) looks like a little sun. She rejoices in every little thing, and it seems that nothing can upset her.

Sight

1. You are capable catch her eye on you when you are in a big company? See if this happens often. If at least three or four times during your meeting - you are definitely interesting to the girl, she wants to look at you.
2. If looking at you the pupils of a woman in love increase, then this is a true physiological sign. But please do not try to see the changes in girls with dark eyes. Even if you succeed, you run the risk of embarrassing or scaring the chosen one.
3. You looked at the girl and saw how she looked sharply in the other direction? This means that she is in love with you and is embarrassed by this. She wants to look at you, she wants to date you, but she is afraid that you will not reciprocate her feelings.

Sign language

1. touch.A girl in love will constantly look for touches to the object of feelings, often even unconsciously for herself. She will sit closer to you in a cafe, in all the attractions, in a cinema and in other places. What for? Hoping that at some point your hands will meet.
   If a girl is constantly trying to straighten your hair, slap on your shoulder or remove an invisible speck of dust from you, you can safely confess your feelings to her - and you will surely get reciprocity.
2. Excitement. For any woman, meeting with objects of sighing is a very exciting event. Looking at her at this moment, you can easily understand if she feels something for you.

   A girl in love may have a slight blush on her cheeks and rapid breathing; she will not know where to put her hands and may even answer inappropriately. In order to notice these subtle, almost invisible signs, you need to develop good powers of observation.

3. flirt. Girls are big coquettes. And it is not surprising that a girl in love with you will flirt with you. Flirting is a sure way to determine sympathy, "test the waters." How do you know if a girl is flirting? A sure sign of flirting is compliments. They can be both direct and veiled "woven" into the conversation.

   Often, flirting, a girl teases, teases you. Do not be offended - this is a sign that she likes you. Of course, provided that the girl does not do this often and only on those topics that you make fun of in yourself.

   An equally important sign of flirting are gestures and movements. If a girl in a conversation “shoots” with her eyes, twists her curls and smiles sweetly - be sure she likes you, and she flirts with you.

4. rapport. Another sign is that the girl unconsciously “mirrors” your poses. She can keep pace with you, sit in a cafe in the same position, hold her hands in the same way - all this will be a sign of sympathy.
5. Personal space. If a girl is calm about your intrusions into her personal space, this will also be a sign of her sympathy for you.

   What is an invasion of personal space? This is if you touch her hair or cheek without her permission, if you suddenly bite off a piece of her ice cream, or take a ringing phone out of her purse to give it to her. Did the girl endure it all? She really likes you a lot.

Signs of indifference on the part of a woman

Here are some of the main signs that indicate that a girl does not love you:

1. If a girl calls you not for the purpose of talking, but only in those cases when she needs something, this may be a sign - she's just using you.

   But feel the difference. If you chatted with a girl for an hour, and in the course of a conversation about books, she asked you to nail the bookshelf, then she is probably just looking for a meeting. And if she, having called, began a conversation with the words “fix”, “borrow” or “buy”, then you are completely indifferent to her.

2. Young woman tells you about his relationships with guys? So you are only a friend to her, and she is in love with another. If she liked you, she (even when meeting with someone else) would not once again remind you of this.
3. If you have already met, but the relationship has already deteriorated, and you decided to break it off, look at the girl's reaction. If she is sincerely upset, then she still has feelings for you and everything can be restored. If she doesn't care, then the relationship has become obsolete, and you did the right thing that you decided to break it.

   But if, under the threat of parting, a girl suddenly begins to show such interest in you, which has never been before, this is a reason to think - maybe she is just using you and does not want to lose a source of money or help?

In this video, you can see how a girl in love behaves with examples:

Now you have all the information you need. You just need to look closely at the girl. She will definitely give herself away in a word, gesture or deed.

Sometimes a girl begins to behave strangely, and this is easy to notice if you do not “close” your eyes. Many smart guys immediately wonder if a girl is cheating? However not any unusual behavior of a girlfriend can be regarded as a sign of infidelity. In this article, I will tell you how to find out if a girl is cheating. But first, a little psychology again.

What is the reason for the betrayal of the guy? In most cases, this is a desire to diversify their sexual life, because all men are already polygamous by nature. And therefore, when a guy meets his girlfriend for a long time, sooner or later he will want novelty, but this does not mean that he has stopped loving his girlfriend. Moreover, after the betrayal, he will treat his regular partner more carefully and affectionately. And this, of course, often leads to suspicion.

If we talk about girls, then the reasons for cheating are completely different. This may be a one-time weakness or accumulated dissatisfaction with a permanent partner, leading to a complete break. There are other reasons, but this is not the topic of this article. All I wanted to say with this is that in most cases the signs of infidelity in a woman are different from those in men. And this is worth paying attention to. There can be many reasons, but it is also possible that emotions and feelings for a loved one have disappeared ...

How to understand that a girl is cheating? Main features

• Before that, you did not pay attention to it, but recently you began to notice that your girlfriend began to look better. She spins more in front of the mirror, new things have appeared in her wardrobe. It is possible that the reason that she wants to look better is you. But think what did you do for this? If nothing suitable comes to mind, then it’s worth considering for whom she began to wear beautiful sexy lingerie and devote more time to makeup?
• In general, a phone and a computer are a personal thing for everyone, and everyone should have their own personal space where we store some intimate things - it doesn’t have to be correspondence with a lover. However, if you began to notice that she often received messages on her phone that she prefers to view away from you, someone calls her, but she does not answer or calls back later so that you do not hear, then there is a reason to think about how to find out does the girl cheat? How to behave in such cases, I will tell at the end of the article.
• In principle, the sign is similar to the previous one, since it is also associated with the phone. It’s just that in this case, when communicating with you, she turns off her mobile device, supposedly so as not to interfere - such an excuse happens. To check this, you can ask to dial your number, for example, under such a good reason that you cannot find your mobile phone. If something is wrong, she will start to fuss, look for the phone. Here it is better to ask directly why she turned it off.
• I already said at the beginning of the article that after cheating, a man becomes more "loyal" to his woman in terms of sex. With women, everything can happen exactly the opposite. How to know if a girl is cheating on you? Just think about whether your sex life has changed lately. If she has become cold to you, and you have sex much less often than before, then everything is possible.

• The opposite situation can be if a girl cheated on you by accident - it happens to them, and she is tormented by guilt. A rarity, of course, but it's worth mentioning. In this situation, how do you know that the girl cheated on you? You will surely notice that she suddenly put on beautiful new lingerie, agreed to do something special for you in terms of intimacy, or simply started complimenting you, although you had not noticed this before. It is very similar, isn't it, to how, after treason, a man buys flowers for his girlfriend? Only for a guy this is the norm, and girls rarely change by mistake.
• Everything happens in life, but rarely, something appears out of the blue. So, if your girlfriend has never been late at work, and now some urgent business has begun to delay her regularly, then this is at least suspicious. The same applies to school delays. One way or another, everything leads to the fact that she returns home later, and you see her less often. Is this a sign of infidelity? Sometimes yes. It's just that if she has other relationships, then they take time. And from a streamlined daily routine, it is very difficult to pull out two or three hours for a lover without you noticing it. How to understand that a girl is cheating on you? Take a closer look at whether her daily routine has changed recently, whether it has become chaotic, for example, she suddenly began to disappear from sight. By the way, at the same time, she may begin to take a keen interest in your plans for the day, for example, which institution with friends are you going to in the evening. She needs to somehow adjust her plans so as not to get into an awkward situation.

How to Tell if a Girl Cheated on You: Less Obvious Signs

• You heard from her the name of a man unfamiliar to you - a new acquaintance or work colleague. And she mentioned him casually or completely by accident. Should you be worried? If she called you by his name in a fit of passion in bed, definitely worth it. But sometimes, when a person constantly thinks about someone, he can accidentally also name the object of his passion or fantasies. Therefore, although this sign is not obvious, it is a sign. It is worth asking about the new sign in more detail to see her reaction. If she gets confused, starts talking nonsense, or vice versa gets angry, then something is clearly wrong. Maybe she has not changed yet, but she thinks about this man.
• If earlier she often talked with your family, or even she and your mother often called back and went shopping, but then it cut off, or this communication was noticeably reduced, then this also leads to bad thoughts. How do you know if a girl has cheated? Unexpectedly invite her to spend the weekend with your family. If she starts to “break down”, look for excuses, although she hasn’t said anything about her employment before, then she may be tormented by guilt before your parents for cheating. Moreover, she may deliberately reduce all such contacts before parting with you - in order to avoid unpleasant sensations. By the way, almost the same can be said if she has recently begun to avoid communicating with your friends. How to find out if a girl cheated or not? Ask her directly why she does not want to communicate with your friends? It is possible that there is another good reason for this.

Conclusion

But if the problem is in you, then you will have to change, otherwise, if the girl has changed once, then this can easily be repeated. And most often this happens because you, as a man, have ceased to attract her. Read this article "How to become desirable for her?", here you will definitely find something for yourself.

Now you know how to understand if a girl is cheating on you. However guesses guesses, signs are signs, but you have to talk to her. So, if you have suspicions, then you should calmly and confidently tell her about it. Moreover, your words must be justified, that is, explain where your suspicions come from. Ask her to explain. Let her know that if she is deceiving you, but you don’t find out from her, then you will part forever. After all, the most important thing in a relationship is trust.

If you want to know even more secrets to seduce girls

The main signs of a girl's infidelity are easy to recognize. But it is important not to confuse them with the usual changes in the life of a loved one. And before you decide how to convict a girl of treason, think about whether there is another underlying reason in her behavior.

The main signs of deception

Parallel relationships or their development are not easy to hide, a friend will resort to various tricks. Before planning how to check a girl, you need to try to figure out whether he is cheating or not. Patience, endurance, observation - and the secret will be revealed. So here are the warning signs:

1. The unexpected arrival of a new friend. This item may be useless if the girl has recently changed her place of work or study - new acquaintances are natural. You should be vigilant if a mysterious friend appeared literally “out of thin air”, you have not heard of her before. Recently, her beloved complained that she was lonely wandering around the shops, now she spends most of her time with the mysterious Masha. How to understand if a girl is cheating on you - ask in more detail about a new girlfriend, common interests, place of acquaintance. Remember the answers, after a week, repeat the collection of information - compare the result.

Another option is how to determine the betrayal of a girl: ask to introduce Masha. Prepare in advance to listen to a thousand excuses from your beloved, how impossible this mission is.

1. Indifference to partner's leisure. Before, the girl was interested in where you were going, but the interrogations with prejudice were left behind. Beloved managed to be jealous of the friends with whom you spent your free time. Now the traitor benefits from your absences. She will not say a word across, because her hands are completely untied. This is another sign in the piggy bank of observations, how to find out if a girl is cheating or not.
2. No claims. Beloved is not only not interested in the leisure of the chosen one - she has sharply reduced the level of bitchiness to zero. More recently, in the morning you listened to an angry tirade about a mirror spattered with toothpaste, and in the evening you got stuck for picking your teeth with a fork. Now peace and quiet reigns in the house, and God's grace, but it's too early to relax or rejoice. Girls act like a tyrant when relationships are important to them – they want to make a perfect partner. Instead of searching the Internet for days and nights for information “how to find out if a girl is cheating on me,” it is enough to assess the degree of her indifference.

Important! When a romance is born on the side, the traitor is indifferent to what is happening in the “Danish kingdom”. She doesn't care about anything other than a new developing relationship. How to determine that a girl cheated on you - deliberately cause an explosion of negative emotions, asking for a comment. The storm passed by - the opponent is much closer than on the horizon.

1. Change in behavior. Sudden change of interests and sexual habits should alert. For example, the girl has always been indifferent to football, and now she can say with confidence that Messi is the best scorer of all time. A rare representative of the fair sex cheats for the sake of banal sex - women need attention and communication. She subconsciously absorbs the information heard from her lover. Unexpected experiments in sex are also transferred from someone else's bed to "native" - ​​and her beloved began to bite her neck in a fit of passion for a reason.

Important! The lack of an intimate life is not a reason to accuse a girlfriend of infidelity. The first item on the popular lists “How to find out if a girl is cheating on you” is precisely sexual abstinence. To lull vigilance, she may not refuse sex on the principle of "satisfied - disarmed." In the wake of an emotional upsurge, a girl is able to simultaneously indulge in sexual games with her lover and with a permanent partner. However, small adjustments and new addictions will always be noticeable.

1. Improvement in appearance. The main mistake of all guys thinking about how to catch a girl cheating is to pay attention to the wardrobe. Women of any age and status love new clothes, so buying clothes can hardly be called the main indicator of infidelity. Much more important is what is under the clothes. The closer the X hour, the greater the emphasis on underwear. Permanent relationships relax the girl at the everyday level: she ceases to be ashamed of unshaven legs, dirty hair. The gentleman on the side keeps her in good shape with sudden calls, unexpected dates - you have to live up to the ideal.

Important! How to understand that a girl cheated on you? Observe her behavior after returning home. She will probably go to the shower, and put the laundry in the washer. The make-up she's been working on all morning will be gone.

1. Inseparability with gadgets. Modern people are literally glued to laptops, tablets, smartphones and computers, but the traitor has a special attachment to instant messengers. The blush does not leave her face when she selflessly scribbles text messages, she answers questions about the interlocutor inconsistently or aggressively. The phone can hardly be seen accidentally forgotten on the bedside table, access to the computer will be password-protected.

Important! This behavior can be observed if a loved one is preparing a surprise dedicated to a birthday or memorable date. If no celebration is expected in the coming months, most likely, bad news awaits you.

How to check the fact of treason

There are several simple tricks to check a girl for treason:

1. Mobile phone check. It is more logical to cover your tracks, but how to resist the temptation to re-read the love messages of a secret admirer? The messages contain comprehensive information.
2. Regular calls. The less often a girl answers calls, the higher the likelihood that she has a boyfriend. She can refuse dates on weekends, strictly forbid meeting her at the end of the day.
3. Word confirmation. Before the girl leaves, ask where and with whom she is going. "Accidentally" find yourself in the agreed place. If the "alibi" is false - call back, specifying the information. Her answer will finally dot the i's.

Important! Sometimes it is dangerous to dwell on the thought of how to find out that a girl has cheated on you. It is not uncommon for a loved one to simply move away: life is stuck, a partner deprives her of attention. The fact does not add optimism, but we are not talking about treason either. If after the checks the presence of an opponent is not confirmed, this is a chance to refresh the relationship.

It is necessary to look for indirect signs and hints: late delays, long gatherings with friends and the emergence of unusual interests. The search for a telephone contact "Lubovnik Oleg" is unlikely to be successful. Sometimes a man, with his own indifference, pushes a girl into the arms of a lover - an accidental female betrayal is extremely rare.

Betrayal of a loved one becomes a terrible blow to self-esteem. But most men prefer to find out about the infidelity of their soulmate as early as possible than to be in the role of a deceived lover.

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Often, men learn about the incident of infidelity from neighbors or relatives, although it was possible to guess about the problems that arose in the family earlier and without the intervention of strangers. The easiest way to find out the real feelings and thoughts of the woman you love is just to talk to her.

Signs of betrayal

It is often difficult for husbands to recognize female infidelity, because lovers usually do not leave such traces of infidelity as hair on clothes or accidentally forgotten hairpins in a car.

It is still possible to determine that a beloved woman has another man by several signs:

sign	Description
Frequent mood swings	If earlier the wife was in a balanced state, and from some moment she suddenly began to abruptly move from causeless joy to sudden aggression, then such emotional “swings” can hide betrayal. For any person, the need to lead a double life is fraught with the appearance of nervousness and constant anxiety, which will result in sudden mood swings. Naturally, it is necessary to exclude other possible causes of such a restless state. For example, if the family is experiencing financial difficulties or the spouse has a difficult period at work, then the cause of mood swings will be banal stress due to financial difficulties, and not treason.
New skills in bed	When a wife, who previously did not have a special fantasy in terms of intimacy, suddenly begins to show miracles of acrobatics in bed that her husband did not even ask for, this can be a serious cause for concern. It is highly likely that she learned new poses and techniques from an outsider. But it is necessary to exclude other possible reasons for repeating the honeymoon: for example, it seemed to the wife that her marriage was on the verge of collapse due to boredom in bed, and she decided to follow the advice from the literature regarding the renewal of her sex life
Dramatic style changes and experiments with appearance	Sometimes women begin to dramatically change their wardrobe when the reflection in the mirror simply ceases to please. But in most cases, the efforts of women in terms of bringing an external gloss are fraught with a desire to please a particular man.
Frequent absences under various pretexts	If the wife began to often linger at work, spend the night with her friends and disappear for hours in beauty salons, it makes sense to check whether her beloved is really there. It is not uncommon for a woman to go to a fitness club several times a week, and then it turns out that she has never been seen there. Therefore, you need to try to accurately find out the address of the spouse’s stay and sometimes arrange unexpected checks for her.
Deleted chat history and passwords on the phone	A happy married life involves no secrets from each other. If a woman used to leave her phone in a conspicuous place, but now she constantly keeps it with her or put a password on it, which she doesn’t want to tell her husband under any circumstances, this also indicates the wife’s infidelity. In certain cases, a sign of infidelity is the fact that the girl began to leave the room to talk on the phone, or close the screen of the mobile phone when she received an SMS message. If before she was not so secretive, it is worth considering - perhaps now the girl is trying to hide something
Frequent dissatisfaction for no apparent reason	When a cheerful and cheerful girl suddenly becomes grouchy and dissatisfied, at every opportunity she tells her husband about his shortcomings (she earns little, is bad in bed, looks untidy), there is only one conclusion - she has someone to compare with. Well, if she is just jealous of one of her friends, who is more fortunate with her life partner. But such an option is also likely that she compares her annoying husband with a new lover, and this comparison is clearly not in favor of her husband.
Presence of a stranger	This is the most obvious sign of infidelity. There is no need to mention the situation when the husband suddenly returns home and finds his wife in bed with her lover - this is no longer a sign, but a clear betrayal. But an outsider may not be in the matrimonial bed, but sit peacefully on the sofa or drink tea in the kitchen. In this case, the cheater usually presents her lover as a distant relative who dropped by for a visit, or as a plumber, electrician, courier.
The appearance of things of unknown origin	If a woman suddenly began to receive new expensive things, the purchase of which was clearly not at the expense of the family budget, then it is worth asking where such gifts came from. Jewelry, fur coats, expensive watches or phones can be a gift from a new lover, received as a thank you for passionate nights of love. Usually, if a girl is cheating, she tries to carefully hide the things received from her lover. Therefore, it makes sense to pay attention to the wife’s wardrobe and jewelry collection in order to notice the appearance of new items in time and understand their origin.

Any changes in the behavior and appearance of the woman you love may indirectly indicate a possible betrayal, but you should not make hasty conclusions. Perhaps the reason for these actions lies in something else.

While serving in the army

When in the army, guys do not have the opportunity to personally verify whether their beloved girl is cheating on them at a distance or not. But a few basic signs that could confirm guesses about infidelity still exist:

• Rare letters. The girl suddenly began to rarely answer letters and practically does not write herself. This sign should not be taken into account if the girl does not like paper correspondence, and messages from her have been rare since the moment of parting.
• Reluctance to come. The girl does not come to meetings, even if there is an opportunity.
• Suspicious photos. Photos of her beloved appeared on social networks, in which she is depicted having fun in clubs or restaurants in the company of young people.
• Reluctance to discuss further relationships. When talking on the phone, the girl evasively answers questions and refuses to talk about a joint future, although she used to willingly talk about continuing relations after the army.

With frequent business trips

It is not for nothing that folklore is replete with numerous anecdotes about a wife's infidelity during her husband's departure on a business trip. It is possible to find out whether there was a betrayal of the beloved while the man was away on business, according to several signs:

• Witness testimony. If an outsider visited his wife, there will surely be a well-wisher among the neighbors who will hasten to report a possible adultery.
• Communication problems. The wife's phone began to break down or discharge too often on those days when her husband was on a business trip.
• Strange behavior. The situation when the husband returns from a business trip, and the wife is not happy, but noticeably nervous, is also a sign of infidelity. Most likely, she is worried that there are some dangerous clues left in sight.
• Foreign things in the apartment. Other people's socks or underpants lying in a conspicuous place are an obvious miscalculation of a traitor, but such cases are not excluded.