There are no ugly women. Scientific explanation of a common truth
Real women don't sleep alone. The energy of femininity and the secrets of seduction Spivakovskaya Oksana
Not beautiful women can not be. Scientific explanation common truth
This chapter is a kind of summary of everything that has been said above about the “decoy woman”. This is what will help you part with your last inner doubts and believe that beauty is a certain amount of work on yourself, that there are no ugly women, but there are women who care little about themselves and love themselves little.
So, what did you and I get? And what is the scientific explanation for the common truth: “There are no ugly women”? And it consists in the fact that a beautiful woman in the perception of a man is a woman who has 4 ( not more!) female indicator + grooming (this means health and self-love) + dynamic image shown by female type, in other words, female plastic surgery. That is, to be a beautiful woman is to be a “decoy woman.” This means that any woman can be beautiful or ugly at will!
What happens if you are in a "bait" state? It starts flowing towards you from everywhere male attention, they show you theirs best qualities, trying to win you. Do you remember that in nature, males often look brighter and more elegant than females? Such coloring and readiness for mating games in men manifests itself in the form of generosity, gallantry, generosity and other other pleasant manifestations. Men themselves will seek your attention, and they just need help with this.
Each of us has 4 markers of femininity in stock. And you don’t need more... Believe me, this is quite enough to include a man in the hunt for you, and the rest is an element of your will, desire and skill.
Let's in Once again Let's remember about the egg and sperm. The egg's job is to lure, right? This is the ability to give signals and create a reason for initiative. If you stand confused in the Spare Parts store, you are luring, if you are sitting in a cafe and reading a magazine with an attention-grabbing title, for example, “Hunting and Fishing,” you are luring. Is it clear? Media sources would say, "She's creating a news story." A reason to approach you, ask, in a word, to start pursuing you. Create similar “reasons” everywhere, expand the circle of those fighting for you. Remember that all this is in the interests of both parties, and such a drawing love game created by nature itself.
Well, let's sum it up? So, for a man, a beautiful woman is healthy woman. A healthy woman is a woman who is well-groomed and shows full energy. The rest is the manner of presenting oneself, charisma and other social settings. And grooming, my dear, is solely a matter of your hands, taste and invested energy. Not enough information? No problem, we'll get there. Now yours the main task do not be lazy, and put into practice the knowledge you have already acquired in order to gradually turn it into your skills, your natural behavior. No time? This is already a matter of self-love, the desire to put yourself first in your life. Everything has already been given to you by God, my dear Goddess! Remember this and be grateful to him. Decorate your gifts and care for them generously.
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There are no women who are absolutely and unconditionally satisfied with their appearance. But some, when talking about their appearance, are flirtatious, while others are sincerely convinced that they are ugly. "There are no ugly women!" - a convinced teacher with many years of practice; a master who possesses ancient techniques, knowledge and who herself resides in the source of energy, trained at Unity University in India Diana Shcherbanskaya.
Why ugly? Because I'm lazy!
There are no ugly women, it’s just that some of us benefit from being like that. At first glance, this may sound crazy. But the fact is that, considering herself ugly, a woman is simply trying to avoid responsibility for some moments in her life. They say, I’m ugly, which means I don’t need to take care of myself. There is no need to look for a handsome and successful man; you can quite be satisfied with someone simpler and, at the very least, live your whole life with him. You don't have to get married, you can be a single mother. There is no need to run at least every other day Gym to fit into a dress from fashion designer: “It still won’t decorate me...” It turns out that beauty is not only serious dividends, but also big troubles, and not each of us wants to shoulder them. So it turns out that a significant part of women owe their ugliness to... classic laziness. Another reason is the reluctance to stand out from the crowd and be in the spotlight, because this, again, requires a lot. And, oddly enough, in some ways these women are right. The fact is that men have ambivalent attitudes towards beautiful women.
Men are afraid of beautiful women
If women knew how many men - by virtue of the most various reasons- they are afraid of beauties, they would not strive to become one. The beliefs that guide men in this regard, in our opinion female gaze, do not stand up to any criticism, but they seem more than convincing. Men, for example, seriously think that " beautiful wife“This is someone else’s wife.” They are afraid of the competition that they can enter into by being the husband of such a woman. In addition, representatives of the stronger sex are sure that beautiful women are more prone to cheating, if only because male demand for them is much higher. So, excuse the banality, you need to be born not beautiful, but happy. And even better, self-confident.
Don't be born beautiful, but be born confident
“Don’t be born beautiful,” said the heroine of the cult film “The Most Charming and Attractive,” “but be born active. More precisely, become active.” This thought, wise in all respects, can be rephrased as follows: do not be born beautiful, but be born confident. More precisely, become her. True, self-confidence is always a consequence of something that distinguishes us from others and elevates us in our own eyes. For example, a woman is smart. Or charming. Or incredibly well-groomed. Anything that somehow distinguishes you from others and makes you unique is suitable. “I may be ugly, but I’m smart,” the woman says to herself. And with all his might he gnaws on the granite of science, graduates from university and graduate school, makes brilliant career. And she marries a man who appreciates and loves her precisely for her intelligence.
Two ways to become attractive
Intelligence is, of course, good, but you shouldn’t forget about appearance. In this case, a woman has at least two options.
The first is to become an ideal. This is difficult, but by no means impossible, especially when modern ways work on yourself, such as fitness, massage, beauty salon, good hairdresser, beautiful things. True, this method is quite expensive in a material, moral and physical sense. Yes and quick results As a rule, he doesn't. But when you achieve what you wanted, as a bonus you will also have a reason to be proud - after all, you created yourself.
The second path requires the ability to think creatively and fantasize. It is about creating your own ideal and following it. Create your own canons and standards. Decide once and for all that your face or figure is beautiful and believe it. Also, come up with some feature, a highlight that will be unique only to you: say, beads, brooches or neckerchief, and appear everywhere in these things. Katya Osadchaya’s extravagant hats are just such a distinctive sign by which even those who never watch TV recognize the TV presenter. By the way, sometimes such a feature can also play a utilitarian role, for example, lengthening your legs, as Madame de Pompadour once did when she put on high-heeled shoes for the first time in history.
Alexandra Voloshina
- “God, I’m so scary”
- “Why am I so unlucky, why is everyone beautiful, but I’m not?”
- “It seems to me that it’s uglier
I'm not in the world"
- “With such an appearance, no one will love me.”
And someone lives with such thoughts every day.
What to do if you consider yourself ugly?
If, as you think, you are unlucky with your external data?
I won’t write to you that happiness is not in beauty, that “don’t be born beautiful”
or “don’t drink water from your face.”I will not advise you to turn your shortcomings into advantages. I do not know how to do it.
I will not advise you that if you are ugly, then develop in a different direction.
Because I am convinced that it is very important for any woman to feel beautiful.
Beauty and appearance for a woman are not just important, but extremely important.
I will say more, a woman who does not feel beautiful does not feel feminine.
So what to do?
The first thing you need to understand is that there are no ugly women. Beauty is not only external data. This is first of all grooming.
You need to take care of your beauty, your appearance, and devote time to it.
I talk about this in class, I write a lot about it on the website, see the “Beauty and Health” section.
Next point:
Beauty is self-confidence.
If you are not confident in yourself, then no matter what you look like, you will not feel beautiful.
Recognizing yourself and your strengths and virtues helps increase self-confidence.
Many people don’t know anything about themselves. You need to get to know yourself and your body and simply look for your strengths. Carry out an “inventory” :))Maybe you short, you do not have blue eyes and your breasts are not size 5, but you have something else, no less beautiful, for example,
- long fingers;
- silky skin;
- thin ankles;
- graceful lift of the foot;
- beautiful knees;
- thin waist;
- straight back;
- long eyelashes;
- thick eyebrows;
- beautiful nail shape;
- slimness;
- pomp;
- skin elasticity;
- or maybe your hair is easy to style and lies beautifully.
You need to learn to look at yourself and find your beauty.
And here, attention, some parts of the body do not need changes, but simply proper care.
I wrote that my hair was very wavy and unruly, I spent my entire youth trying to style it somehow, sometimes I hated it and envied women with straight hair. Is it the hair's fault? And am I unlucky?
No, I just didn’t know how to care for them and style them.
How many emotions and beauty have I missed by simply not knowing how to take care of my hair!
You need to learn, look for a specialist, take a master class. Fortunately, today there are so many opportunities.
I recently met with a friend, and she said to me: Do you remember, you wore glasses...
The next point: beauty is greatly hampered by tightness. You need to work with it and learn to relax.
Slowly crawl out of the hole: become more visible, communicate more, try something new.
I highly recommend doing physical exercises: dancing, stretching, yoga, and so on. Bring these skills to perfection.
Just recently he comes to stretching classes an ordinary girl, not noticeable, no special external data, and how let’s bend over and do all the splits, and at that moment she became very beautiful and immediately very noticeable.
I repeat once again, external data can be anything.
But take care of your posture,
Everyone can have flexibility, a smile, skin and hair. Today there is so much information, so many offers, so many opportunities - just choose!A woman is always beautiful when she is confident, when she is relaxed, when she is happy and content.
When she not only MUST, but also WANTS. Wants to live, enjoy and have fun.
If you want to learn more about this, really take time for yourself, get to know yourself, find your pleasure and happiness - come to lessons at
Together we can do a lot. Move faster and more confidently towards the life you've always dreamed of.This article was written only for the website, and can also be published in a book. Cannot be published on other resources without the consent of the author and publisher.
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In a woman, even weakness conquers.
Beauty - mysterious power.
There are no ugly women -
Each is beautiful in its own way.
We are looking for one among the beauties,
Because falling in love with a woman -
It's like sailing under the skies
Born again, a bird of paradise.
Our chosen ones are drawn to us,
What is it for? good reasons:
After all, beautiful women are even more beautiful
Made by men in love;
After all, the face of a lover looks like
To a living mirror in which,
A woman can see herself
The queen is domineering and submissive.
To see a woman beautiful,
We need no more and no less -
Every day a man needs to be a man
And be able to be a mirror for women,
Confirming to them with the sparkle of his eyes:
Each is a divine wonder.
There are no ugly women.
Each is beautiful in its own way.
Vasily Fedorchenko
There are no ugly women
And there is only one more beautiful of all:
The cherry blossoms bloom for her,
The man drinks to the bottom for her.
Next to her and winter is summer,
With her there is heaven in the hut.
There's no special secret in this
After all, she lives in his soul.
There are no ugly women
And there is only one more beautiful of all:
Her beauty does not fade,
Like a bouquet of ancient wine.
A woman's beauty is from God, -
There is no reason to doubt this, -
Just for some reason it’s touchy
Most desirable for men.
“What did he find in her,” they sometimes ask, “
You can meet things a hundred times more beautiful,
Why does he carry it in his arms?
And doesn’t sleep for five nights in a row”?
Someone will say: “The devil knows him!”
But one truth is indisputable:
There are no ugly women
And there is only one more beautiful of all!
Eduard Vartanov
There are no ugly women!-
I declare to other skeptics.
In a woman, a man opens
Something that is not noticeable to others.
The time for defense is gaining,
Like the motor runway…
There are no ugly women
It's a pity, not everyone is happy.
In the shimmer of rainbows and dewdrops
On the ground, under the blue sky
There are no women who are not beautiful
Among those who love and are loved.
Years, you have no power over a woman -
And of course it's no secret
For children, all mothers are beautiful,
This means there are no ugly women!
Let the rains ring on the sidewalks,
Let the snowflakes swirl, teasing -
I know: there are no old women,
If there are friends from their youth.
A woman forgets even in grief
Draw a line to your love...
There are no ugly women
You just need to see the beauty!
