First day in the garden. The hardest thing is breaking up in the morning? Determining the optimal age

What happens when you bring your child to kindergarten for the first time - complex issue. This largely depends on the character of the baby. A child with a sociable nature, when he sees an interesting company, may not immediately remember that he did not come alone. For other children, with a more withdrawn character, separation from their parents is stressful. In any case, do not forget that any child is a researcher, and kindergarten is another discovery, and your task is to be there and help the little discoverer.

Be that as it may, the process of development in new environment should be smooth. The most irresponsible thing on your part would be to quietly leave, leaving your child alone with his problems. The consequences can be severe.

It would be better to stick to some plan.

Let's say something like this:

First day

You come to kindergarten with your baby. Get used to it together. Take part in breakfast. The child eats, you get to know the menu yourself. After a while, without waiting for lunch, you return home with the child.

Second day

Spend about a quarter with your child in kindergarten full day. Be nearby so that he does not lose sight of you (this is important - he will feel more confident), but acts independently. Agree with him that you will come soon and leave him in the kindergarten for an hour and a half. When you return, take it home. Under no circumstances should you leave your child without warning him about leaving - you risk losing his trust.

The third day

Stay with your child in kindergarten for two hours. Agree with him that you are leaving, and after kissing him goodbye, leave him until the end of the day.

Fourth day

When you bring your child to kindergarten, talk to him and make sure he feels confident. Agree that he stays until the evening, say goodbye and leave.

The above plan is designed to allow parents to stay with their children for some time in the kindergarten. Alas, Not all kindergartens have such liberal rules. For example, it was impossible to stay in the kindergarten where I came with my three-year-old daughter.

We did this: after walking around the kindergarten, we examined and examined the territory, and talked with the teacher. We met and talked with the nanny. We agreed that she would stay with her favorite toy until the walk began (for about two hours). We kissed and said goodbye. The next day she spent half a day in kindergarten (all before lunch). Soon the daughter herself asked to pick her up in the evening.

Now, advice for those who are planning to take their child to kindergarten. I hope they help you get comfortable in the first few days.

First day in kindergarten stress is more likely for the mother than for the baby. If the waking up schedule has been worked out, then take your child to kindergarten for the first time it will be easy enough for you. It is more difficult for a mother to survive the moment of separation from her child. I didn’t mistype, it’s not a child who finds it difficult to part with his mother, but the other way around. I will describe our personal experience.

Child's first visit to kindergarten

We signed up for kindergarten in one year, so that we could go there at 2. About a few months in advance, we went to the manager to confirm that we would go to the kindergarten, so that the place would not be given to another child. Then it turned out that my daughter did not have enough vaccinations (since she had a medical exemption from vaccinations until she was one year old), we took some strong drugs, their compatibility with vaccines was in question. A vicious circle has emerged. The nurse in the kindergarten says: “Let the pediatrician write a conclusion that with the existing vaccinations you can go to the kindergarten.” The pediatrician insists: “If the garden concludes that they are taking you with these vaccinations, I will write that they are enough.” As a result, we completed all the missing vaccinations within a month and a half so that there was an acceptable minimum. We bought a special pink form-card for the kindergarten, where the tests will be pasted and where the doctors will write down after the examination that the little one is healthy.

Tests for visiting kindergarten:

• Urine (general analysis)
• Feces for pinworms
• Scraping for enterobiasis for a child, for mom and dad
• Blood (general analysis)

Which doctors should be seen?

• Oculist
• Dentist (checks the number of teeth by age and correct bite)
• Surgeon/traumatologist
• Dermatologist (will examine the skin)
• After signing by all these specialists, your pediatrician will issue a statement of vaccinations and give the card to the head of the clinic for final signature. After her resolution, you can go to kindergarten for the first time.

What you will most likely be asked to bring to the group:

• Napkins
• bib
• Diapers at the rate of 3 pcs. per day, or the required number of panties (I brought 3 pieces)
• Panama
• Sandals, slippers for being in a group
• A few spare T-shirts, pants and shorts (in case the baby spills compote on himself), you can

However, a week later we were given an “additional list”:

1. Album
2. Children's book (by age)
3. 2 files
4. Checked notebook
5. Toilet paper
6. Dish detergent
7. 20 UAH Monthly donation to the kindergarten fund.

According to friends and personal experience When going to the garden with your daughter, you will subsequently need plasticine, pencils, coloring books, crayons, cardboard, scissors, colored paper and much more. This is not a pity, because these things contribute to the development of our little ones.

When a child goes to kindergarten for the first time, he should be able to:

• Eat by yourself
• Asking to use the potty

To be honest, the manager at the moment when I was just registering my princess (she was a year old) reassured me in every possible way. Nowadays, more and more often children are brought to nurseries who, even at 2 and 2.5 years old, do not eat on their own and wear diapers. The teachers of these children supplement their feeding, and the nannies change them. I was worried whether my Anechka would go to their very ordinary potty. On the first day, the teacher reassured me: “Everything is great, I went to the potty, I even ate.” However, just in case, I put 3 panties in the locker.

Preparing a child for kindergarten

It's better to start this process early. Tell your baby more often that he will soon go to kindergarten where he will play with the children. Kindergarten is good and fun. You should definitely say this to your child only in a positive tone. Some experienced mothers advise (I personally haven’t done any of this, but maybe someone will find this advice useful):

• Ideally, at the time of visiting all the doctors a couple of days before the baby goes to kindergarten for the first time, give him a tour of the future group.
• You can also take your little one to play at the future play area for several days in a row at lunchtime (having found out in advance where it is located).

How long does it take for a child to adapt to kindergarten?

Typically, a child’s first day in kindergarten is left for an hour or 2 hours, depending on the baby’s behavior. The first day we exchanged phone numbers with the teacher, and frankly speaking, for the first hour I sat under the group on the street, periodically approaching open window in fear that my daughter was bursting with tears and could not be calmed down. It was incredible to me that after I left, she whined for just a few minutes, periodically remembering and calling me (the teacher did a masterful job, and rolled me on a swing and read a fairy tale and distracted me as best she could). An hour later I called and, having heard the recommendation to stomp home quietly (kindergarten located a 2-minute walk from our entrance) and did just that. At home, I didn’t let go of the phone for another hour, so as not to miss the call and have time to get there. In general, on the first day Anechka spent 2 hours in the group. The next day again 2 hours and so on all week. Now we have already started leaving it until lunch (week 2), we will soon try to leave it for nap.

When is the best time to send your child to kindergarten?

Here opinions differ, since each parent pursues his own goals, let’s designate them:

• In the summer, adaptation is easier - there is no snot, and the children go to school a lot. fresh air. The downside is that in the summer the group is like a hodgepodge in terms of the age of the children (from 1.8 to 3). In the fall, the group is disbanded and children with a minimal age difference remain.
• When you give your baby away in the fall, you will end up in a group of babies of approximately the same age. It is better to do this in the first months of autumn, since then the season of “viral” infections will begin. There will always be an unscrupulous mother who will bring her child sneezing, and with a nose full of green snot.

I hope this article about your child’s first day in kindergarten will be useful to you. The author of the text is Natalya Chalaya.

Today I will tell you in detail how it happened, and also tell you about the daily routine in our kindergarten, because for parents planning to send their child to kindergarten, it is advisable to adjust the daily routine “for kindergarten” in advance to make it easier for the child adapt to new conditions.

To be honest, I was very worried how everything would go despite our preparation; after all, a child’s first day in kindergarten is very an important event in the life of the baby and parents. Now he is one step higher, older, matured. Sometimes parents worry about how the first day of kindergarten will go even more than the child. :)

How we prepared for kindergarten

They constantly walked around the territory of the kindergarten, every day they took and picked up their son and daughter from the kindergarten, telling how good it was there - the children play together, eat, sleep, the theater often comes. In general, they were only positive.

On the eve of going to kindergarten, the older brother instructed his sister: “Nastya, behave well in kindergarten so that the teacher does not scold you! I don't want anyone to scold you! If someone offends you, immediately tell the teacher, tell everything to me and your parents! Don’t lose your toys; after playing, put them in your purse, don’t throw them away. Don’t forget to wash your hands before eating, and don’t run away from the playground while walking.” My daughter listened carefully to her older brother, because he is already experienced, he has been going to kindergarten for several years, so he knows everything. :)

Child's first day in kindergarten August 20

Our whole family woke up at 7 am on August 20th. While my husband ate, I took care of the children - washed, collected, watched a little cartoon and were finally ready to leave the house.

In the morning, Nastyushka was excited about kindergarten, she didn’t even allow anyone to help me dress her, she kept repeating “I do it myself,” pulling on her pants, T-shirt, jacket, socks and sneakers.

Finally, everyone was gathered and dressed. The children armed themselves with bags of toys - the son took a car and an excavator to the kindergarten, the daughter took a pussy, two plates, spoons, mugs, a toy knife and a watermelon (which is glued together with Velcro) so that the kindergarten would have something “of its own”. Our teacher Elena Nikolaevna told us that it will be easier for a child to adapt if the kindergarten has something that he likes to play at home (construction set, blocks, etc.). My daughter’s favorite thing is to “cook” and eat in toy dishes, and also to draw and sculpt from plasticine. So we settled on dishes.

My daughter rode a bicycle to kindergarten, we walked, everyone was looking forward to the first day in kindergarten. To tell the truth, it was very exciting, even though we were preparing in advance for kindergarten, we constantly talked about it and my daughter asked every day, “When will I go to kindergarten like Lenya? I want to play with the children in the kindergarten, I will eat, play, sleep and wash my hands there.”

Lenin’s group was already walking on the playground of the kindergarten, the son left his toys on the playground and went to accompany his sister to the kindergarten, he really wanted to see her group :) Nastya was very serious)))

In the kindergarten, she quickly changed clothes herself, not allowing anyone to help her, repeating “I myself.” :) I carefully put everything in my green box, after admiring the cherry glued to the door.

The teacher met our daughter, said hello and took our daughter away with a bag of toys. I warned the teacher that my daughter did not pee before leaving the house, so that they would show her where the potty was, otherwise she would suddenly be embarrassed to ask, she is such a shy little thing. So our first acquaintance with the kindergarten took place from the toilet room :)

At 8:00 My husband and I left the kindergarten and went - I went home, and my husband went to work. An unusual silence awaited me at home, the children’s laughter and squeals were inaudible, no one was playing, running, jumping, that’s what it means for a child’s first day in kindergarten))). Every now and then I looked at the clock, could not do anything, could not concentrate on anything, I thought, how is my baby, my little princess?

At 10.50 I was already approaching the gates of the kindergarten (on the first day my daughter was told to be there from 8 to 11 o’clock). And just at that moment the teacher called and said that Nastenka was crying, someone wanted to take her toy, she burst into tears. Well, yes, my girl doesn’t like it when people take her toys, there is such a thing :) especially without asking. If you ask, say “please”, then he will give :)

Lenya was walking on the site, seeing me, he said that he wanted to pick up his sister from the group with me, he missed me. They asked the teacher for leave and ran after their sister. We open the doors to the group - there are kids sitting on chairs and our little princess, tear-stained eyes, our tiny little one. They called her and she ran to us, hugged and kissed. :)
Elena Nikolaevna said that she behaved well, did not cry, but when someone encroached on her toy she was upset. Well, she didn’t have breakfast, although she loves milk porridge and this morning I didn’t feed her, deciding that she should get used to having breakfast in the kindergarten. I played a little with the kids and even had time to walk for 40 minutes.

On the way home, my daughter said that she drank cocoa for breakfast in the kindergarten, ate some bread and cheese, asked for more cheese, but they didn’t give it, as mom always gives))) She complained that they tried to take away her toy, calmed the baby down, said that we had to play together, “cook”, eat together and feed each other for fun.

Overall, the first day went great. My daughter is happy and ready for kindergarten. When she came home she said that tomorrow she would go back to kindergarten, play with the children and eat porridge :)

Child's second day in kindergarten August 21

On the second day, the teacher decided to leave her daughter until lunch. We agreed that the baby would eat and I would immediately take her home - I would take her home and put her to bed. In general, from 8 am to 11.55 am.

In the morning, my daughter dressed herself again, got ready and went hand in hand to kindergarten together (my husband is with us, he was given the day off today). The son went to see his sister off again, to make sure that she had reached the group and that everything was fine with Nastya, after which he ran to the playground to join his classmates.

We kissed our daughter, waved goodbye and the little girl ran to the group. This time we arrived a little late - at 8.30 my daughter entered the group, the children were already getting ready to sit down to eat, we need to leave the house early :) But we avoided watching the morning crying of the babies, whom the parents brought earlier than us. Sometimes sobs are heard in the group, but there is no outright inconsolable crying. Elena Nikolaevna masterfully distracts the little ones and prevents them from crying.

While the kids were in kindergarten, my husband and I went on business and at 11.50 we were already near the kindergarten. The teacher said that the daughter cried several times, but she behaved well, ate, and played with the children. Later, my daughter said that she saw Lenya on a walk (they have playgrounds opposite each other), her son called her, she ran to him, but the teacher did not allow them to meet/hugging. The kids were a little upset about this. But still, the fact that we saw each other was great.

When picking up the baby, the teacher offered to let our girl sleep on Monday, but I refused for now. I don’t want to rush things, let him get used to it gradually. Moreover, I was afraid that over the weekend my daughter would lose the habit of kindergarten and would not want to stay for a sleepy hour. We'll get used to it gradually, there's no need to rush :)

Child's third day in kindergarten August 24

Well, today was our third day in kindergarten (now my daughter is sleeping at home in her crib). We started off in the morning with cocoa and cookies to wake up, cheer up and get ready for the day ahead. Then the children got dressed (I didn’t know what to give them to wear, it was 14 degrees outside in the morning, 24 in the afternoon - it was necessary so that they would not freeze in the morning, and not be hot in the afternoon). But after we decided on clothes, we got dressed and ran to the kindergarten.

All weekend my daughter was thinking about pussy and watermelon - toys that she left in the kindergarten. I was worried about how they would do without her. So she went to kindergarten with great desire, because her toys were waiting for her there. :)

Today my son did not see his sister off, he ran to his playground to play with the guys, my daughter and I went to the group together. My daughter changed clothes herself again, she didn’t let me help her in any way, she even wanted to put her clothes in the drawer herself. So all we had to do was sit next to each other and wait :)

After changing clothes, the little girl took a ball (soft so that if it hits someone in the forehead it wouldn’t hurt), they kissed and ran into the group. I went home to work)))))) Today my daughter is in kindergarten again until 12 o’clock. I was very worried that I wouldn’t want to go and would be capricious, but, fortunately, everything worked out. Today Lenya just didn’t want to go to kindergarten))) He asked to stay at home (tomorrow and the day after tomorrow he will not be in kindergarten - he will go with his dad to visit his grandmother in another city, at the same time he will take a break from kindergarten).

I came to pick up my daughter at exactly 12: the kids had already gone to bed, and my little one was sitting at the table and leafing through a book. I called her, but my daughter... didn’t want to leave))))) She said the book was interesting, I wanted to look at it, look through it))) I had to carry it out of the kindergarten crying, promising that tomorrow Elena Nikolaevna would let me look through the book again.

And tomorrow is... our first day when my daughter will stay for an afternoon nap. oh, to be honest, I’m very worried. How will she fall asleep) At home she tells fairy tales before going to bed, sings songs until everything she remembers is told, sung, calmed down and goes to bed) The actress is small.

Daily routine in kindergarten

I already wrote about the fact that my children live according to a certain daily routine in , but our daily routine was different from the daily routine in kindergarten, so we had to adjust it. For example, we went to bed for a nap at 13:00 and slept until 16:00, but in kindergarten they start putting the children to bed immediately after lunch at 12.05-12.15 and wake up at 15.00. We have adjusted some aspects of our regime. Well, for those who are interested in the daily routine in kindergarten, I am posting a sample (other kindergartens may have a different routine).

Child's daily routine in kindergarten

7.00-8.00 reception of children, examination, independent activity
8.00-8.35 Morning exercises, personal hygiene, preparation for breakfast
8.35-8.50 Breakfast
8.50-9.15 Games, preparation for direct educational activities
9.15-10.15 Direct educational activities
10.15-10.35 Games, preparation for the walk
10.35-11.35 Walk (outdoor games, observation, work, independent activity, individual work)
11.35-11.50 Return from a walk, water procedures, preparing for lunch
11.50-12.20 Lunch
12.20-15.00 Getting ready for bed, sleep
15.00-15.15 Gradual rise, hardening activities
15.15-15.30 Preparation for afternoon tea, afternoon snack
15.30-16.15 Games, Team work, individual work with children
16.15-16.45 Preparation for the walk, walk
16.45-17.00 Return from a walk, water treatments
17.00-17.30 Preparation for dinner, dinner
17.30-18.30 Games, independent activities, reading fiction
18.30-19.00 Children go home

How was your child's first day of kindergarten? What daily routine is the same or different in your kindergarten? I will be glad to see your answers in the comments!

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There are only a few days left until your child's first appearance in kindergarten. Have you mastered the procedure for breaking up with him so that the morning is not darkened by tears? Have you switched to a kindergarten daily routine to make it easier for your baby to adapt to new conditions? Here are some more tips on how to make it easier for your child to adjust to kindergarten.

The hardest part is breaking up in the morning?

The first day of kindergarten is a real test for both the child and the parents. What to do? Instill self-confidence! How better baby will be prepared for the garden, the less he worries and worries about this, the less he will feel lost and abandoned in a new environment for him.

Even if you have prepared your baby well, it may happen that he will cling to you when you try to leave him in the group. You will feel sorry for him, and, like many parents, you will experience uncertainty. Are you right in deciding that your child should go to kindergarten?

However, such behavior of a child does not necessarily mean that he will feel bad in kindergarten - there can be many reasons for tears.

“Every day it’s the same story,” says one mother. — Thibault gets up and begins to gradually get ready. He looks happy and has nothing against the kindergarten. The road is also quite normal.

However, the closer we get to the garden, the more tense he becomes. As soon as I cross the threshold, Thibault grabs me and starts crying.”

This doesn’t mean that Thibault is bad at kindergarten, it’s just that parting with his mother is not easy for him. How to deal with such a situation?

Wake up your child early from the very first morning so that he does not have to get ready in a hurry. Don't be nervous or rush him.

Let him have breakfast in peace, prepare something that he especially likes.

Choose clothes and shoes that are easy to take off and put on.

Place in his pocket a handkerchief moistened with a few drops of your usual eau de toilette- the smell will remind him of you. You can also give him a small toy (to fit in his pocket) that will remind him of home.

When saying goodbye, avoid two extremes: do not leave your child in a hurry, trying to hold back your own tears, and do not look into his eyes and do not say goodbye to him for an hour. Tender kiss, a calm and confident expression on your face, a parting word to the teacher, a farewell hand gesture at the door - and that’s it, you can leave. The faster you do this, the easier child will get used to the new rhythm of life.

In the first days, the baby may have problems with sleep, with eating, he may have nightmares, he may act too excited and even pee in the crib... Don’t worry - everything should quickly fall into place.

If, after a few weeks, the child continues to cry in the morning, and the teacher confirms that he is sad and apathetic during the day, then it makes sense to contact a child psychologist.

Problems of children's adaptation. How to understand that a child’s adaptation to kindergarten is difficult?

• he begins to behave like a baby - he pees in the bed, speaks slurred;
• he withdraws into himself;
• at the end of the day he seems unnaturally tired;
• he suffers from dermatitis, nightmares or recurring sore throat;
• he has been crying every morning for more than three weeks straight.

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Discussion

The first days in kindergarten are not so scary; the child still doesn’t know or understand a lot of things. But after a few days he begins to understand that home is better than in the garden. Then you need to actively talk with your child. We tell our son that we are going to work, and you have to work like everyone else. Your job is to go to kindergarten. By the way, it works, the child is more willing to go to kindergarten, knowing that he will earn money and mom and dad will take him for a ride on cars on the weekend.

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Adaptation in the garden. - gatherings. Child from 3 to 7. Upbringing, nutrition, daily routine, visiting kindergarten and relationships with teachers. Please tell us, how is/was your adaptation to kindergarten going? shove them into a group and let them yell...

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By the way, if mine went with some business, then it went much more willingly. He needed a justification for why he needed to go there at all...
Here, a lot depends on the contact with the teacher. In one of our kindergartens they worked every other day; I went to one willingly, but had to be persuaded to go to the other.

Why shove it? It’s so interesting there, lots of toys.
I brought mine and left it on the first day until lunch, on the second I took it after sleep, on the third for the whole day. Because mom needs to work. Until he was three years old, he stayed with a nanny. (I believe that a child does not need kindergarten until he is three years old.) On the fourth day, he cried a little, but the teacher immediately distracted him. A couple more days like this, and I stopped crying altogether.
We also had a group on duty for the first hour. Every day is different. How he loved it! He especially liked the preparatory group Spend this hour - the most interesting toys are there.

Share your experience. Kindergartens. Child from 3 to 7. Education, nutrition, daily routine How to help a child? Preparing for kindergarten Hello, kindergarten! A child's first days in kindergarten Adaptation of a child to kindergarten is often not easy.

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Come up with something that will happen immediately after sleep. For example, you will come with a gift. But only after sleep, because before bedtime “mom won’t have time to buy it,” etc. Then transform this into the idea that mom works while she sleeps in the garden.

After another two-week sick leave, I brought him to the kindergarten, came to pick him up after lunch (at most he had lunch there), and the teacher said that he himself had already undressed, apparently with everyone in the company, he was confused, probably, after the break. We decided to leave it. He's been sleeping there ever since.
But we never even talked about sleep, but about the offer to stay for an afternoon snack, he immediately throws a tantrum. So for now I'm waiting.
If you just don’t show up, maybe he’ll also join everyone for company?

Difficult adaptation to kindergarten.. Education. Child from 3 to 7. Education, nutrition Difficult adaptation to kindergarten. My son doesn’t want to go to kindergarten when he’s 3 years old, and he’s still crying. If he doesn’t adapt, I’ll transfer him. Because the child is very sociable, loves children...

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My eldest is like that, she cried constantly in the garden, they started walking and stopped, they made visits at 3, 4 and 5 years old, from 5 she went because there was nowhere to retreat, she cried constantly until the end of the garden, she cried not only in front of the entrance to the garden, but also in the garden, I didn’t eat anything there, I began to get sick, in short, horror. The youngest went from 2.5 straight to a full day, cried for two days at most, always ate and slept first, bigger and better than everyone else))) constantly came with medals - to the first one who fell asleep) or - to the one who ate everything and asked for more) A in his group he has a boy who has been crying every morning for three years now, and he sheds such tears and hangs on his mother that it is scary to watch and does not immediately come to his senses after she leaves.

Try to take a break - 2 months (if possible) ... then he will forget a little and will be older - maybe he will look at the garden differently.
If she continues to cry, then try to change the group or kindergarten - perhaps she has not found contact with the teacher or she has not found contact with him - anything can happen. If it doesn’t work out this year, postpone kindergarten for 1 year - my son was crying when he was 3 - postponed for a year. At 4 I went without any problems at all - I immediately got involved in the game. GKP didn’t go with her 2-year-old daughter - over the course of a year they tried to start walking several times: first with interest, then gradually worse and worse, until she couldn’t even walk towards the garden without hysterics. I took a break 2 times - it didn’t really help. Now I’m older, I hope that I should go normally from September 1st. If it doesn’t adapt, I’ll translate it. Because the child is very sociable, loves children... I think that the problem is with the teacher.
I also can’t stand a crying child. It may be difficult for a child to adapt for 1-2 days, but if he cries for a week, then he doesn’t need to go there.

Section: Adoption (adaptation of abandoned children). The child is a refusenik. Is adaptation always difficult? Difficult adaptation to kindergarten. How to help a child adapt to a new social environment?

Discussion

Refuseniks may exhibit problems that are specific to refuseniks: lack or underdevelopment cognitive activity, which is formed during the first year of life, hospitalism, which has external manifestations similar to autism, inability to recognize emotions and their external manifestations, inability to adequately interpret own feelings and feelings.

The child who was seized may not have this, or it may be more severe - it depends on where it was seized from, what happened before the seizure. If a child is exposed ill-treatment, this will have consequences that will manifest.

Your adaptation is unlikely to have anything to do with this. This is your addiction to the child, not him to you.

How your child gets used to you depends on his individual characteristics and your addiction to it

18.09.2013 09:56:02, _______

NOT always, it all depends specifically on the child. With children removed from social families, and also those who have suffered violence, everything is much worse.

Difficult adaptation to kindergarten!!!. Adaptation to kindergarten conditions. Child psychology. Well, just imagine, a child vomits, but then he still eats. If a child doesn’t like being in the garden, will he eat after vomiting?

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Well, just imagine, a child vomits, but then he still eats.
If a child doesn’t like being in the garden, will he eat after vomiting?
The only thing I don’t understand is what she vomits in the morning? Do you feed her breakfast at home?

Well, your child is not ready for kindergarten, not physiologically ready, imagine that doctors forbade you to take her to kindergarten, what would you do? Probably they would have come up with something, a nanny for half a day, a grandfather, a change of job to a second shift. But it turns out that the child must adapt to your conditions, not you :(

Adaptation to kindergarten. Massage, gymnastics, hardening. Child from 1 to 3. Raising a child from one to three years: hardening and development Before kindergarten, my son suffered from acute respiratory infections once. He is now 2 years and 3 months old. The first week in the garden ended with green snot and cough.

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it will still hurt. This is already an “unwritten” script - we go for 2 weeks, we get sick for a week. Despite the immunal, Aflubin’s first sneeze and my vigilance reaching the point of insanity, the child still gets sick as scheduled - they left for 2 weeks, had a fever on Friday evening and were “completely free” until the next Friday.

We started taking Immunal two weeks ago, after the first day in kindergarten we started drinking snot, we took it right away emergency measures: milk in the nose, Nazivin, a loading dose of Immunal, garlic around the apartment::)) Now I resumed vitamins and began to smear oxolinic ointment in my nose before kindergarten, and then Immunal:) Don’t get sick!

Adaptation to kindergarten. How to help a child? Adaptation of a child in kindergarten and nursery. Podcasts. Polls. Therefore, it is very important whether your baby can successfully adapt to kindergarten, and helping him with this is not only the task of teachers.

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Don't worry, children adapt just fine, and another language is not a barrier for them at all. When we arrived in Australia, our daughter was 5 years old and in 5 months it was necessary to adapt the child to kindergarten. How to help a child adapt to a new social environment?

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Don't worry, children adapt just fine, and another language is not a barrier for them at all. When we arrived in Australia, our daughter was 5 years old and in 5 months she had to start school. We sent her to kindergarten for 1 day a week so that she could get used to communicating with children, and all she could say then was toilet, the first thing we memorized was so that no sin would happen. She walked with pleasure. By school I had made a lot of progress in English, thanks to English-speaking relatives and neighbors, and at school I also had no problems - I started chatting instantly. Plus, the school had special teachers for newcomers, plus for those who speak English as a second language. Moreover, her English is much better than that of English speakers from the cradle; she comes to the Olympiads in the highest percentage. Honestly speaking, you will have to worry about how to maintain Russian, because... children switch to the language spoken around them and do not really want to speak Russian.

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We gave our son away early, at 2 years 3 months. Moreover, since we are liberal and inexperienced parents :), together we got used to the kindergarten very gradually. The first week we sat with him for two or three hours until he went to bed. Then I left for work. He was crying and didn’t want to go. One day I left early (at about 10 o'clock), he cried all day, so I had to leave work in the afternoon and pick him up. Arriving at the kindergarten, he sat on my lap and watched the children play, but he did not want to go play himself.
Then, gradually (even very gradually :)), he began to move away from me a little. I demonstratively talked to the teachers, saying that these were our friends, that they loved Roma, so that he felt that he could trust them. Then, I started leaving early. The teacher took him in her arms, he screamed, but then (as they said) calmed down, although he went on strike for various reasons - he refused to eat, sleep, etc. Then (after 2-3 months) he finally began to calmly let me go, even going to close the door behind me.
Now Roma has been away for almost a year, he loves his kindergarten (we all call his kindergarten “work”, which he is very proud of). He made friends, he just became older and some interests appeared that he shared with the guys in the garden.
So the moral of this story is this: it won’t be easy at first, but then everything will pay off in full. The main thing is not to delay the process and everything will work out.

If a mother is very worried and blames herself, if she is convinced in advance that nothing good awaits her baby in the first days of kindergarten, then these emotions will certainly be passed on to the child. The psycho-emotional state of mother and child is very closely connected, so mother should look at going to kindergarten as new stage knowledge of life, acquisition of new knowledge, experience and skills. If the parents are positive about the kindergarten, the child will feel it and will soon become infected with your optimism.

Enter new team Sometimes it’s difficult even for adults. It is especially difficult for those who already find themselves in a well-coordinated team. Sometimes already in school age there is a need to change school, in which case the child may experience conflict situations.

It is worth establishing close contact with the teacher. Many parents mistakenly believe that their mission is over the moment they transfer their child to the care of teachers. The more you communicate with the teacher, take an interest in how the baby behaved and tell the teacher about the child’s character traits and habits, the faster the teacher will find an approach to your baby. Knowing that you appreciate and understand the work of teachers will also have a beneficial effect on your attitude towards your child.

It is worth consulting with the teacher about the visiting schedule during the baby’s adaptation period. A teacher with his experience will quickly determine the time of the visit, since this issue is very individual for each child. Some babies can continue to nap after two weeks, while others will not need to. less than a month in order to stop being upset and crying due to the departure of my mother. In the first days, you should not leave your baby in an unfamiliar environment for a long time. One and a half two hours will be enough.

If the teacher doesn’t mind, mommy can be in the group in the first days and observe her child’s reactions. This way, he will relax faster and begin to communicate with other children. If possible, it is better to extend the period of stay in kindergarten gradually. Two weeks for 1.5-2 hours, another two weeks before lunch, another two weeks before afternoon tea and only then for the whole day. Unfortunately, not all parents have this opportunity. But still, the more gradual the child’s entry into a new environment, the better for him. psycho-emotional state child.

In the first years, the baby is more attached to his mother, so the moment of separation is very difficult for him. If there is such an opportunity, it would be better if his father or grandmother accompanies him to kindergarten. In any case, whoever it is, you shouldn’t drag out the moments of farewell and turn them into a tragic scene. You need to act in a businesslike and confident manner, telling your child that you need to leave now, but you will definitely pick him up before bed.

You can agree with your child about a small ritual. For example, wave to your baby before leaving. For emotional connection You can leave your child any item - a favorite toy, a mother’s handkerchief, or something else.

You can come up with some important mission that the baby must fulfill. For example, say hello to the fish or turtle. Or tell your child how much any toy in kindergarten misses him.

After taking your child home, play with him in kindergarten. Place bears and dolls instead of kids and let the child take on the role of teacher. Then you will be able to understand what difficulties your baby has faced, and this game will help him relieve stress and release the emotions that have accumulated during the day.

No matter how difficult the adaptation period may be, try not to take breaks from attending kindergarten. The only exception may be the illness of the child. When there is fever and obvious symptoms. If a child just has a runny nose, this is not an obstacle to visiting.

Praise your child more often and tell relatives in his presence about his achievements and how mature and responsible he has become. Openly express your joy at his independence. Under no circumstances should you criticize the teacher or discuss the negative aspects that you have discovered in the child care center in front of your child.

It is also worth understanding that a child does not have to love visiting kindergarten. Sadness, when parting with you, is natural. But the adopted child already understands the need to visit child care facility. His sleep normalizes, and negative reactions go away. But this does not mean that he will change radically. Don't expect your shy child to suddenly become a leader and ringleader.

In some cases, the adaptation period is greatly delayed. After several months, the child cannot get used to the new environment and more and more new forms appear. negative reactions: hysterics, aggression, fears, anxiety and increased fearfulness. In this case, you should contact professional psychologist, and he will help you figure it out individual reasons Such reactions will help develop an adaptation strategy.

Perhaps the individuality of your child indicates that he is not mentally ready yet and you need to wait a little before going to kindergarten. And if mommy definitely needs to go to work, she should take care of finding a nanny for the child.