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How to get rid of an annoying man. How to get rid of an annoying admirer

Never go on about a fan and do not give in to him. He can put pressure on you, sensing weakness, and then you will not get away from him.

Alice's story from Kharkov:

“Two years ago I met a young man. After talking a little, I came to the conclusion that we are not a couple. I thought that everything would be easier than a steamed turnip - it wasn’t there. It turned out that during the time we talked (did not meet), he fell head over heels in love. I don’t deny my guilt - I should have said no right away, but I felt sorry for the guy and I didn’t dare to offend him. As a result, I constantly yielded, stepped over myself, and he “sat on my neck” (in a figurative sense, of course). I realized that I felt sorry for him and started playing on it. Another guy helped to ward off the obsessive gentleman, for which I am undoubtedly glad!

LEAVE ME ALONE

Constantly repeat phrases to him - “I don’t need you!”, “I don’t like you!”, “Get off me!”. If the guy is not a fool, he will understand everything (maybe not immediately, hoping to achieve your location), but he will understand. If he has a pathological love for your person, everything is much more complicated. But we will not discuss men who persecute their lovers and sometimes their persecution reaches insanity - this is a completely different story, subject to the Criminal Code of Ukraine.

The story of Daria from Chernigov:

“I had a friend who didn’t let me pass - he liked me very much. His obsessive courtship terribly pissed me off. I no longer knew what to do, but one day he pissed me off so much that I openly (not without a mat) told him “You got me!”, "Leave me alone!". That was enough, he understood everything and fell behind.

DON'T FOLLOW THE EXCHANGE

There are instances that blackmail the object of their desire with their suicide, if only the girl agreed to meet with them. Never give in to his phrases, such as “I will throw myself out of the window”, “I will hang myself”, “I will open my veins”, “I will jump under the train” ... If the guy does not suffer (and that's another story), he will never carry out his threats.

The story of Vasilisa from Kramatorsk:

“I, like many, felt the whole “charm” of obsessive courtship. Day and night he wrote sms and called, hung around near the entrance and wrote, gave flowers and gifts. But there was so much of it that I could not stand it and decided to put an end to this madness. Such an outcome of events did not suit the fan (it turned out that in his mind he had already built our ideal life) and threatened me with suicide. Frankly, at that time I was so tired of him that I did not pay attention to his threats. Naturally, he didn’t do anything to himself, and I got rid of my pursuer.”

DO NOT ACCEPT GIFTS

The main mistake of the girls who became the “victim” of an obsessive admirer is that they accepted and continue to accept gifts from him. In no case should this be done, otherwise, he will think that he has the right to you and he has a chance. Refuse any gifts, no matter how alluring and expensive they are, otherwise, you will have to pay the boyfriend (and it is not known what he will choose as his payment).

The story of Valentina from Lisichansk:

“Oh horror, I did not understand how wrong I was, accepting gifts from a hated but obsessive fan. He literally bombarded me with flowers, jewelry, accessories, newfangled gadgets… Oh, how I liked it all, but for the time being. Other than accepting gifts, I didn't give any reason, but that was enough. When I broke off this "relationship", my annoying boyfriend did not stop pestering me, and he also began to make dirty hints. Said that if I don't work off all the gifts, he will destroy me. Thank God, a person appeared in my life who solved this problem, otherwise I don’t know how I would have resolved this situation on my own. ”

DO NOT TAKE HELP

Religious reading: a prayer from a boyfriend to help our readers.

Got an unwanted suitor?

In order to excommunicate an unwanted admirer from yourself, you need to do the following. On the waning moon, sew a bag of black fabric and embroider a cross on it with threads. Then put 3 chopped bay leaves, a tablespoon of salt and 7 black peppercorns into it and say the plot aloud 7 times:

“You, (name of the unwanted gentleman), leave me alone. Don't follow me, don't follow me, don't look at me! I excommunicate you, I deliver your heart from love. May it be so! Amen."

Always carry a charmed bag with you. After the gentleman leaves you alone, burn the bag in a deserted place.

Get rid of an annoying boyfriend

If a guest that is unpleasant to you, who is also trying to court, has started to go to your house, and for some reason you can’t kick him out, then try my method.

After that person nevertheless leaves your home, you need to immediately wash the floor after him, dissolve 1 tablespoon of table salt and a pinch of ground hot pepper (“chili”) in water, while pronouncing an even number of times through clenched teeth :

“Salt is salty, pepper is peppery, stayed with me and went out. As I wash out the traces of your feet, so you, (the name of that man), forget the way to me. Amen".

The water left after washing is not poured out, and with this slander, the floors are washed again the next day early in the morning (the sooner the better, the most wonderful time for this is sunrise, and then, how it will turn out.).

Such "cleaning" is usually enough to do 1-2 times.

Similarly, you can get rid of an annoying young lady by replacing a male name with a female one in a conspiracy.

Prayer from boyfriend

I will become a servant of God (name), blessed,

I will go out, the servant of God (name), crossing myself.

From doors to doors

From gates to gates.

I will go to an open field, I will go down to the blue sea.

In the blue sea lies a stone

John the Baptist himself guards that stone.

As if on this stone

All the servants of God fled,

All bright angels flocked.

Prayer for longing

And I miss you. Amen.

Then take the sand to the cemetery and leave it there.

A conspiracy if you made a mistake or a love spell did not work as it should

She wears a golden robe.

Detachment from the boyfriend-drunkard

So is this guy

Will never fit me again.

In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Amulet from frostbite

A moon in the sky, a worm in the ground,

And my amulet is on me, God's servant (name).

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen!

On the sea, on the ocean, on an island on Buyan, a dry tree stands.

Under that dry tree the gray hare sleeps.

Move from me, famously, quietly.

A conspiracy to make a hateful husband leave

And he gave me this power, his servant of God (name).

I also drive God's servant (name).

He would walk away from me,

From the holy images back,

From my dear empty door.

His spine does not bend

His leg won't come back.

Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

A conspiracy to chastise yourself from longing and return the joy of life again

And longing, and insomnia.

Come out, my kruchina, from the eyes of the servant of God (name),

Bones, from all her living relics.

Spell to get your husband to leave you alone

So that the servant of God (name) fled from the porch of his native.

My word is strong, my work is sculpted.

Go, servant of God (name), from me,

Servants of God (name), do not look back.

Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

How to get rid of a girl

In this case, read a special plot over a piece of paper, a candy wrapper - over something that burns well - bring the piece of paper to the girl's house and burn it there. And from that moment on, she will forget about you: a girl's love melts away as quickly as smoke. The spoken words are:

Prayer from boyfriend

Please Pray, Russia

christian prayer center

drive away an obsessive boyfriend

From whom: Not specified

God! Your servant Faina asks to drive away the servant of God Valery from her! He trampled on her bright feelings, since he has another woman (is it one?) R.B. Elena. Now he pursues, sometimes shows aggression! Lord, unite R. T. Valeria and Elena are in an honest union, and if this is not possible, send him another free woman (but not Faina!) To create a strong family! Let him soon forget forever, and be happy, but away from Faina! May everything be according to Your will!

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit! Amen!

Number of those who supported this prayer: 17

The site administration publishes prayer requests practically “as is”, correcting only spelling errors if possible (when we have time) or retyping requests from “transliteration” (Latin) into the Russian alphabet. In all other respects, we trust God that He hears all prayer requests from us sinners and does not put an obstacle to our prayer. If you, spiritual brothers and sisters, think that some kind of prayer request is unacceptable from a Christian point of view, do not condemn the author of the request, but PRAY for him or her, as God puts it on your heart. In all things may God be glorified and may all know His love and salvation. Amen.

Lapel from a pushy suitor or lover

In all these cases, you can use such a ritual as a lapel from an annoying admirer or lover.

The conspiracy is best read in plain water. At the same time, water must be collected from the evening and put on the window so that moonlight falls on it. In the morning take the glass to a sunny place. When the water warms up under the sun's rays, you need to bring it close, close to your lips and pronounce the words of the lapel:

"In the name of the Son, the Holy Spirit and the Father,

Let my lame words be heard

How easy it is for you to turn the sun and the moon,

Mother Earth and water jet,

So turn away from me the servant of God (fan's name),

Let him forget me forever

Let him leave me forever

Let me stay away from me forever

Doesn't come close to my house

My hands are missing.

Dear father, Spiridon-solstice,

Do not let the servant of God (the name of the admirer) come to me anymore,

Don't let him on my doorstep

How can you manage the moon and the sun,

How to send, turn away from me the servant of God (the name of the opponent).

The key floats on the river

The castle is buried in the sand

Word to word sticks

And the servant of God (the name of the opponent),

Get rid of me forever!

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.

Now and forever and forever and ever.

You need to splash the charmed water on your face three times (you don’t need to wipe yourself, let the liquid dry itself). The remaining water can be poured either near your house or near his (admirer's) house. At the same time, you need to clearly know and follow all the Rules for the Success of Rituals, otherwise, there will be no point in your lapels, because they can work quite the opposite, a person will stick to you even more.

Surely every woman in her life has come across an overly persistent and stubborn admirer, for whom the word “no” practically does not exist. Such a suitor can ruin a girl's life, because obsessive love is very annoying. Perhaps the girl likes a completely different guy, and instead of establishing a relationship with him, she is forced to fight off the courtship of a hateful gentleman.

There are also situations when a girl or woman cannot part with a former lover in any way, due to his excessive perseverance - in this case, you can use the best and most effective magic - the Magic of Tantrism, having collected the sperm of an annoying lover, conduct a rite of passage with her through a wax doll with the help of a professional magician.

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The lapel of the importunate lover

For a girl, sometimes the attention of a guy inspired by feelings is not pleasant. In such a situation, you can escape from the company of an annoying boyfriend by completing the lapel of an annoying lover. The magical effects of such rituals cannot spoil human health. This is due to the purposefulness of the ongoing manipulations, causing the resumption of harmonious mental balance.

Depending on the type of magical ritual, the lapel of an annoying lover can carry the destructive energy of the union of two people. Such rituals can be performed not only to get rid of feelings, attachment, but also to create a counterweight to the love spell. In the latter case, it is necessary to conduct the ceremony not on your own, but by asking an outsider for the service - only he can dispel the spell. Such an action aimed at ending unwanted emotional attachment is called a cold.

Gypsy lapels from an annoying admirer

There are a couple of effective lapels that are often used in magical gypsy rituals and allow you to get rid of an annoying admirer. The gypsies are convinced that any of their lapels, acquired over the centuries, correctly carried out, helps to achieve that the lover, “cooled” in his feelings, will no longer disturb.

To conduct the ceremony, take a white candle, an equilateral sheet of small paper, a pen with black paste. Write on the piece of paper the full name of the suitor you want to get rid of. Light the wick of the candle and burn the paper in its fire, imagining how a stubborn person is running from you at all costs. Next, pick up pieces of ash and go out into the open space (usually a slope was used for this purpose, but living in the city it is enough to go to the balcony). Sprinkling ashes on the back of the right hand, say the lapel:

North wind, south wind,

Wind west and east.

Take away his (her) passion for the (one) who is waiting for her.

Let him (she) be free (free) in his feelings,

Let him love the one who desires it.

After what has been said, blow on a handful of ashes so that it is picked up by gusts of wind.

This rite of passage from an annoying lover must be carried out for three nights. The period of the waning moon is best suited. Light a fire. Picking up pre-prepared leaves of dried verbena (another name for the plant is “pigeon grass”), say loudly the name of the boyfriend who bothers with his undivided attention. Now immediately throw the leaves into the fire, accompanying the actions with the text of the gypsy lapel:

Take her and disappear.

Run away from me."

The most common effective lapel from an annoying lover

Ritual actions using a safety pin are considered a fairly popular lapel.

The pin needs to be pinned to any element of the young man’s clothing so that no one will notice these actions and say:

“I wish this pin pricked you, irritated and wounded you. I want her to get rid of you forever. Let your strong love ardor gradually cool down and your love for me will flow away from your heart forever. As soon as you remove the pin, your love, which I don’t need, will cool down forever!

It is best to pin a small pin so that the lover does not notice and does not remove it. For the maximum effect of the ritual, it is recommended to perform it, adhering to certain rules:

the ceremony is performed on the waning moon. The energy and strength of this cosmic body will reduce the influence of emotions that often arise when a relationship breaks up, and will also accelerate the “cooling down” of feelings;
on Sunday, Thursday it is not recommended to make a lapel, since Thursday is a sacred day for love magic, but Sunday is a day on which any magical influences are of the least power;
the words of the lapel text must be pronounced clearly, distinctly, with the greatest concentration on one's desire to get rid of the stubborn lover.

Despite the fact that the influence of the lapel rite does not pose a serious threat to the guy you want to turn away, you need to take the rite very seriously. After carrying out a magical effect, it is categorically not recommended to continue even friendly relations with this person. Attempts to be friends with a former lover can arouse hatred and anger in a man. Therefore, friendly communication can end quite badly.

A strong lapel of an importunate lover is carried out by a girl who has become the object of his attention. Moreover, it is important to understand that the boyfriend should not suspect that the cooling of his feelings was due to a third-party magical influence created by you.

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What you will learn from the article:

How to get rid of an annoying admirer

Albina did not like Alexei. She thought for a long time how to get rid of an annoying admirer and once and for all. The fact is that, to the best of her mild nature, for her 27 years she never learned to say “no” and tell people directly if something does not suit her.

Alexey just went crazy - he no longer knew what else to come up with in order to win the girl's favor. And Albina, on the contrary, the further, the more I wanted to send him to hell. That evening they walked together for the tenth time, this time in the park. Albina walked without listening to her interlocutor. Only one thing was spinning in my head - I would rather go home. But this only inflamed the guy's feelings more, already at a subconscious level. It just needed to be cooled down.

And then Albina came up with a strange idea at first glance, but she never left her until the end of the evening. When she finally came home, Alya took a piece of paper, wrote the name of an annoying admirer on it and sent the piece of paper to the freezer. To be honest, she considered herself a little crazy at that moment. But ... The next day, Alexey did not call her - for the first time in the entire time they met.

The girl finally breathed a sigh of relief. But later it turned out that Alyoshenka had caught a bad cold, despite the fact that it was the end of summer, warm and cozy in the pre-autumn way.

Albina, having learned what happened to the guy, was frightened, took out a piece of paper from the refrigerator and thought. After a while, she worked on the mistakes and she got a wonderful recipe,

How to get rid of an annoying admirer

1.we cannot and do not have the right to try to influence the will of other people, so you need to formulate what you want only regarding yourself

2. if there are other participants in the situation - in the case of Albina, this is Alexei - you need to clarify the wording with words and thoughts “for the common good”

3. it is necessary to be as clear as possible: Albina actually wanted to cool not Lesha, but his feelings for herself

So, what did the girl do in the end to get rid of an annoying admirer:

*mentally thanked him for everything and asked for forgiveness

* wrote on a piece of paper: “Alexey’s feelings for me cool down and stop disturbing me, if that’s the will of higher powers and for the common good. May it be so!"

*put the leaf in the fridge to cool

As a result of such manipulations, Alexey found himself another girl literally within a month, and with Albina they remained friends - and everyone is happy and satisfied: Albina got rid of an annoying admirer and got a friend, and Alexey, in addition to a friend, also got a girl who loves him mutually. Everyone wins, for everyone's good :_).

This is where the problem lies: the fear of offending a good person. Like, let's be friends. But for another person, it may not be easy ...

And if you do everything as you said, but only burn all the feelings?

It’s just that feelings are kindled by fire… I don’t even know – passions have flared up, they say… but if you don’t have this in your association, then try and share your experience with us!

Pauline! My question is, is it possible to try to freeze your own feelings for a person in this way?

Elena, hello! Experiment using the essence of the method. True, I do not quite understand how you will represent this symbolically. Just freeze your name - it will not be clear why, the goal is unclear

Hello! How long do you keep this sheet in the fridge?

Leila, unfortunately, noticed that if you pull out a piece of paper, the situation returns again. So hold on while you can

Hello. How long do you keep the paper in there? And won't everything go back to hell when you pull it out? And then what do you do with it? Just throw it away?

Alla, you know, can return ... It was like that in my practice. It's just that some people break up quickly and enter into new relationships. And some are more drawn into affection

What about the phase of the moon? Thanks

Well, to be sure, try it in descending order. But not at all

I met a man, he did his best to please any desire, controlled me from and to ..., I tried not to accept any help from him, but he filmed our date on camera and recorded all our conversations. I wanted to part with him, but he begins to blackmail, threatening to show the video to all my relatives and friends. Forces intimacy. He says that he was in the war and nothing is scary in this life anymore ... Judging by the stories of the neighbors (she was an accidental witness to their conversation), he was hit on his head. It feels like there is no way out.

Julia, we should probably let go of the situation. To say - show what you want and to whom you want. And warn relatives, if your relationship with them, of course, allows it. And "freeze" to perform as written.

Yes, great advice. Fields, and if you write a name and put, say, in the oven?

Bayas, more than ever, passion will flare up)))))

Male attention is not always pleasant. At times, fans can be overtly obsessive. If on the way you meet a man who is absolutely uninteresting to you, but who is also very persistent, it will be useful to learn how to drive such a boyfriend away from you.

Rules of conduct with an obsessive boyfriend

All annoying fans, regardless of age, social status and level of education, behave in approximately the same way. As a rule, such admirers go beyond the classic courtship, not having received the favorable location of a woman. So, they assure that they will commit suicide, ignore the words of refusal, fill up the object of love with expensive gifts, and sometimes even pursue a woman. Familiar? All these are signs of a pesky boyfriend, with whom you should say goodbye as soon as possible. Otherwise, his mania will go so far that you will not be able to cope with him alone.

It is very important from the very beginning to take the right position and behave correctly with such a gentleman. You can get rid of an annoying admirer only through methodical and consistent actions. You cannot first give a man hope for intimacy, and then be surprised that he does not lag behind you.

So, the first rule: repeat "no" over and over and never say "maybe". Sometimes men simply prefer not to hear the refusal, they take the words that are convenient for them out of context and pervert them in such a way as to turn the situation in their favor. One "maybe" against the backdrop of a thousand "no" sounds like a "yes" to them. Be patient and confident in your decision. No means no.
The second rule of behavior with an assertive gentleman: do not believe his threats. Some men say they will kill themselves if they refuse, or they will die of boredom. Do not give in to provocations. Either teenagers with an unstable psyche or truly mentally unhealthy people are capable of attempting suicide from unrequited love. The usual sympathy of one adult for another cannot lead to such tragic consequences.
The third rule: do not accept gifts and any help from him. A man will regard any of these gestures as sympathy and a signal for further communication. Politely reject gifts and all offers from an obsessive boyfriend. And in no case do not turn to him for help or advice. At least once making it clear to a man that you need him, you will never be able to dissuade him from this.

How to properly refuse

You need to be able to refuse a boyfriend. Doing this is rudely not recommended - you don’t want to hurt an already suffering heart and pass for an unprecedented boorishness? Saying an irrevocable "no" must be very careful. To get rid of an annoying admirer, you must be extremely polite, sincere and delicate, but at the same time firm. Do not try to get away from an unpleasant conversation, hoping that everything will somehow be resolved by itself. Squeeze your will into a fist and intelligibly explain to a man in love that you cannot have a joint future. Speak the truth, even if it is bitter. Say directly that he is not your type, that you have another, that you do not want to commit yourself to a serious relationship. Whatever the reason, name it. A person who loves you, even if you don't need him, deserves to know the truth.

If a man turned out to be more persistent than you thought, and no decent measures help, you have one more way out - to play. Find out what traits of a female character your admirer does not tolerate, and be sure to show them the next time you meet. Act up, ask stupid questions, make fun of him in front of others. Just keep in mind that after such behavior, someone else who is among your mutual acquaintances is unlikely to be interested in you.

How to act in critical situations

Unfortunately, it is not always possible to get rid of a boyfriend with simple conversations. There are such men who, in pursuit of the object of their passion, are ready for anything - up to persecution and even attacks. In this case, take care of your own safety.

If a man calls you several times a day, although you asked him not to do this, bombards your mailbox with letters, guards near your home, work and other places where you are, feel free to seek protection from law enforcement agencies. Feel free to bother them on such a seemingly ridiculous occasion. History knows cases when men in love and rejected in a state of passion committed serious crimes.

What you will learn from the article:

Albina did not like Alexei. She thought for a long time how to get rid of an annoying admirer and once and for all. The fact is that, to the best of her mild nature, in her 27 years she never learned to say “no” and tell people directly if something does not suit her.

The girl finally breathed a sigh of relief. But later it turned out that Alyoshenka had caught a bad cold, despite the fact that it was the end of summer, warm and cozy in the pre-autumn way.

Albina, having learned what happened to the guy, was frightened, took out a piece of paper from the refrigerator and thought. After a while, she worked on the mistakes and she got a wonderful recipe,

How to get rid of an annoying admirer

1.we cannot and do not have the right to try to influence the will of other people, so you need to formulate what you want only regarding yourself

2. if there are other participants in the situation - in the case of Albina, this is Alexei - you need to clarify the wording with words and thoughts “for the common good”

3. it is necessary to be as clear as possible: Albina actually wanted to cool not Lesha, but his feelings for herself

So, what did the girl do in the end to get rid of an annoying admirer:

*mentally thanked him for everything and asked for forgiveness

* wrote on a piece of paper: “Alexey’s feelings for me cool down and stop disturbing me, if that’s the will of higher powers and for the common good. May it be so!"

*puts leaf in fridge to cool

Probably, any of the women like to bathe in male attention. Unobtrusive flirting always cheers up, self-esteem and gives the female nature more charm. Flirting can be seen as a certain instinctive behavioral strategy aimed at finding the perfect partner. Flirting is always based on sexual interest, while remaining a game without predetermined boundaries, but leaving a chance to continue the relationship. However, sometimes male attention can be too intrusive or undesirable for a woman.

Women cannot enjoy flirting with a man who is simply not pleasant to them or who seems dangerous. In such cases, attention from a man will burden and strain a woman. Not only to flirt with him, but in general, a woman will not want to meet by chance. Of course, men themselves can suffer from too obsessive attention. But it is much easier for a man to eliminate this “problem” due to the peculiarities of the mechanism of female flirting and courtship.

As a rule, a woman almost immediately understands whether a man is pleasant to her or not, whether she wants to continue the relationship, or whether this is impossible for her in principle. Therefore, it is better to stop unwanted courtship immediately. It is worth mentioning, however, that women who do not quite understand the psychology of men sometimes provoke male “attacks” themselves.

A man can interpret a woman's behavior as calling for flirting if she passively but kindly accepts his attempts at courtship or deliberately, as if challenging him, demonstrating her active behavior, even if it is associated with outright rudeness. If a woman actively demonstrates a lack of desire to continue any relationship or acquaintance, then most men can take this as a challenge. Accordingly, the man will try to break the “fortress” with the help of importunate courtship.

Therefore, wanting to stop any flirting, and simply send a man away, it is better for a woman to remain completely indifferent in behavior. If a man compliments, says something nice, just don't react. The man also understands perfectly well that he acts obsessively. Don't make eye contact for more than three seconds. Men take a direct and close look into the eyes as a hint. Answer any of the questions without any smile. Smiling in this case is not appropriate even out of politeness.

If you are witty in life, resist the temptation to start demonstrating it in practice. So the man will think that you are deliberately involving him in the game. Absolute indifference, on the contrary, will serve as an unambiguous sign for an obsessive gentleman, indicating that you are not inclined to continue communication. Soon, he will most likely give up his attempts to woo or flirt with you, because he will feel embarrassed at the same time.

Let the man know that you are protecting your own personal space from him. To do this, it is enough not to stand close to a man, not to lean towards him if something is not heard. By keeping your distance, you show that you don't want to get close. You can supplement this behavior with special gestures.

For example, cross your arms in front of you, as if explaining that you keep your space locked. In other words, deliberately build boundaries between yourself and a man. Make sure that a man cannot touch you even by accident. Don't let him hug you, even in a friendly way. And if touch is unavoidable, for example, as part of business etiquette, then show unequivocally that these gestures cause you discomfort and are not pleasant. Noticing an accidental touch, show the man that this has not passed by your attention. And be sure to move away immediately. Do not make any sudden movements. A man will perceive demonstrativeness on your part as cuteness. Maintain complete indifference here as well, and your reactions should be as negative as possible.

If in general you consider yourself to be friendly natures, then it will most likely be quite difficult for you to maintain a callous expression on your face. Men, who are prone to flirt, will certainly perceive a smile as a sign of readiness to communicate. If you laugh at all, then the man will be sure that you are extremely positive towards him and are also flirting with him. In general, men subtly feel how a woman can be influenced. And most likely the obsessive gentleman will make attempts to make you laugh. For this reason, nevertheless, make an effort on yourself not to laugh and not even smile.

As another technique to win the favor of a woman, a man can use indecision or feigned timidity. You need to immediately stop such attempts to court, if you know for sure that you don’t need a man. Don't be afraid to hurt men's feelings. It's not your fault that he has some plans for you. Critical statements and straightforwardness in this case will help you. If you still have to talk with an unpleasant man, do not hide your annoyance and bad mood at the same time.

If annoying courtship attempts do not stop, react to any rapprochement or the beginning of a dialogue with you as something incomprehensible. Make surprised eyes if a man offers you something specific. You can even play a slightly crazy person out of yourself. But try not to overdo it.

Do not flatter a man even when joking. Flattery wins people over, no matter how blatant it may be. And flirting, people always use at least a fraction of flattery. If you flatter an unpleasant gentleman in some way, then this will spur him on even more. Do not say anything pleasant to a man at all, even with overt irony. Such words in the mind of the “hunter” will give rise to thoughts that you are delighted with him. If possible, do not communicate with a persistent man at all.

Don't ask for help yourself, and certainly don't offer to help with anything. So his motivation will noticeably decrease. If, well, nothing works at all, call for help from someone you know. An annoying suitor will no longer feel so free if you are constantly in the company of third parties.

These tips usually help get rid of an unwanted suitor in a fairly short time. If, having tried everything, a person still imposes his society on you, then it makes sense to doubt its adequacy. But even in such “difficult” cases, along with indifference, keep politeness. In principle, men cannot be rude. And in such situations, rudeness will only work against you. Indifference, on the contrary, sooner or later will definitely do its job.

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