The ideal through the eyes of men is what modern girls lack.

I'm looking for "something elusive" - ​​what the male gender refers to when they describe the ideal woman through the eyes of men.

You are the perfect woman!

Friday night, trendy nightclub. I immediately feel that the average age of those in the club is far from my 37 and a half years, but, fortunately for me, the room is quite dark. The air is electrified: the desire to seduce and be seduced comes from everyone - both from men and women.

Right in front of me is a tall blonde. She has a perfect appearance, but her bored gaze is directed to the void. Will anyone notice her? A little further away - a girl with glasses, with a bold hairstyle, slightly plump. She just gave the handsome boy dancing next to her a cheeky smile.

Outside, on the terrace, I see a girl in a pantsuit. She listens, laughs, gesticulates - it is obvious that her interlocutor feels comfortable in her company. And I? Today I am not looking for a man, but I am doing research on what men mean when they describe the ideal woman.

What do men like in women?

What is it that grabs them? Extraordinary beauty? Not at all, if there are as many emotions on the face of her owner as on the face of a porcelain doll. Maybe a revealing outfit? Of course, this is the best way to attract unambiguous views, but it is unlikely to interest men with serious intentions. Prominent bust, plump lips, ass like J.Lo?

Nonsense: I studied the results of 42 surveys on female attractiveness and the opinions of a dozen men I know. What did they call the main qualities of an ideal woman? Self-irony, a sly look, the ability to cook, mimic wrinkles from a smile, gait, intelligence, education, courage, ability to listen, inner confidence in one's own attractiveness.

The woman who first identified these patterns and called them "erotic capital" is Katerina Hakim, an economist and sociologist. She identified five main aspects that play a major role in the process of seduction: self-confidence and self-presentation, social interaction, lust for life and femininity.

The main thing on her list is that he exposes the cult of beauty as a waste of the past. All of these features are more or less typical for every woman, the main thing is to determine your strengths and start developing them. So, are you ready for introspection?

Self-confidence and self-presentation

This is the first point of "women's capital", let's look at it in more detail.

The Secret of the Invisible Dress

A girl walks into the club where I'm doing field research. She is very attractive, although her appearance is far from model. Clothing size 46th. The eyes are brightly colored. Thanks to Katerina Hakim, I know that girls with a 46th clothing size are all right with self-presentation and self-confidence.

The appearance of Miss 46th Size speaks for itself: I am who I am - real, I like myself. Potential fans immediately come to combat readiness. Meanwhile, the gorgeous blonde at the bar is still sitting alone. Beauty lies in the field of vision of the audience, but the most important viewer is you yourself!

We look in the mirror about 200 times a day and at the same time we usually give ourselves not the most flattering assessments. "I'm too fat, my breasts are too small, my butt is too flat..." - and so on.

Such thoughts suppress our inner radiation, like a shapeless gray dress that hides the figure. Get rid of them! The one who loves and appreciates himself looks much more attractive. Start working on yourself right now!

social interaction

Oh, this magical power of the society around us!

On Exhilarating Laughter and the Power of Listening

On the summer terrace, Lady Trouser Suit continues to captivate her interlocutor with words, looks and laughter. Compliments are the key to the soul of every person, female laughter is associated with excitement, and sincere questions are inviting - all this belongs to the art of social communication and is the best capital in your attractiveness fund. It is important that this capital does not disappear with age. Youth is gone, but the charm remains ...

Every woman has her own strengths in this matter. One girl is an easy-going "lighter", the other has a rare sense of humor, the third knows how to listen and hear. Do not pretend to be something that you are not, but often use those positive traits that nature has given you.

Enchant him with your voice

A woman's voice can express more intimacy than a whole platoon of patent leather over the knee boots. Take Scarlett Johansson: her unusual voice envelops like melting chocolate. Play with your voice, speak more slowly, mentally put a period at the end of each question. This technique is taught in business trainings: questions that are pronounced as statements will help you look more confident and significant in the eyes of the interlocutor.

lust for life

What is your real temperament?

I looked again towards the beautiful but cold blonde. Like a statue, she continued to sit in a spectacular pose. And, like a sculpture in a museum, the men walked past it. She just sighed. Then she went to dance, but as if she was very afraid to sweat.

I wondered if she was happy at all? Love for life, cheerfulness and energy are closely related to our temperament and life experience.

Passion for life is manifested in many ways: in love for simple pleasures like delicious food, a relaxing spa or great music.

In an interest in people, in optimism and curiosity, in a love of travel, in a fighting spirit, in the courage to laugh at oneself. Passion for life is the inner strength of every woman, a hidden energy that makes her attractive, interesting.

Coldness is out of fashion

My research in the club on the topic “Cold look vs. natural smile” gave the following result: men spoke to “mysterious” women much less often, and even then only in order to quickly “see through” them, and not to get to know them better. Most men preferred girls who had a slightly embarrassed but infectious laugh. Conclusion: no one needs soulless coldness.

The language of views

Nothing can be more effective than a direct look. This advice was given to me by a famous actress (and I always forget about it when I talk to someone, but when I remember it immediately takes effect): let your eyes shine. Imagine that instead of eyes you have two spotlights that you direct directly at men. Your pupils will dilate, and your eyes will become burning!

Correct gait

Men always react to movement and may find a woman incredibly attractive just because she "walks very beautifully." They are not attracted at all by the gait of a model on the catwalk. Relaxed shoulders, straight feet, swaying hips, a look (in no case at the floor) and a smooth step.

By the way, some sports contribute to the development of such a gait, such as tai chi, Pilates, as well as power loads, in which the back muscles are developed.

Live in vain

Are you a rebel at heart? Do you think that originality is more important than etiquette, and the impulses of the soul cannot be sacrificed for the sake of the rules? Many men find this incredibly attractive. They are sure that such a woman will understand their boyish, slightly stupid dreams, for example, learning to fly and flying over the night desert. Will not laugh at their quirks. Support all their ideas. With such a woman, you want to always be together and never let go!

PS: Eat! Women who do not eat anything in the presence of men act depressingly on them. For men, the pleasure of eating is no less important than the satisfaction of sexual intercourse. Don't ruin his appetite!

Most advice on the topic of bed comes down to how a woman will like a man. But this is wrong: as practice shows, the one who demonstrates what a man should do to please her receives an award.

Men like to please a woman. In this case, they begin to feel like great lovers. Give him the opportunity to take the initiative into his own hands: be a little lazy, relaxed, show him your most sensitive places - and he will be happy.

For those who take numerous clichés about men into bed with them, it will also be one big cliché. Trust your experience, not what you read somewhere. Don't trust claims that men love it when a woman shaves everything "out there" / puts on a corset / makes him feel good in the shower.

Every man likes something different. And your natural curiosity in this case is the best gift you can give him.

Unrestrained sensuality and impulses of passion, free from prejudice - this is what excites men the most. By the behavior of a woman, you can determine how she relates to her body.

Often this manifests itself in seemingly unrelated little things like the way a woman walks or dances. Embrace your nature and use its energy as a powerful force.

Femininity

I am a woman and proud of it!

Love lives through common interests and the spark that is born from your difference. Your femininity is one of the components of your erotic capital. In the club, I notice two types of women: in trousers and in a miniskirt. We were taught: you must not be too beautiful, otherwise you will not be taken seriously, you must not look too much, otherwise you will be considered cheap!

Remember French women: they wear heels for any reason, not thinking that their feminine appearance can confuse men, discredit them and reduce their chances of professional success. Little secret: love yourself and show it with the clothes you like yourself in.

Conclusion: Do not be shy to show your femininity. Play with the possibilities offered by clothing, lingerie, jewelry, accessories and cosmetics. Dress to be the perfect woman for men, because it sounds proud!

Imagine: you woke up one day and suddenly realized that you have the superpower of the movie hero Mel Gibson, only on the contrary - you began to hear the true thoughts of men. Now they will not be able to hide anything from you - not even a secret idea of ​​​​how an ideal woman should look like through the eyes of a man.

Think you can just ask them about it? And who said that you will receive a sincere answer? Speaking aloud about the ideal woman and his dreams, a man always remembers his own image, the stereotypes accepted both in society and in a purely male company. Which of them confesses their own weakness for chubby brunettes with glasses, when everyone around them worships two-meter skinny blondes? Have you seen how the men in the group demonstratively depict admiration for the girls of model appearance from the covers of magazines? And surely they believed their feigned admiration? So others believe, and pass this belief on to each other - and a lie repeated a hundred times is indistinguishable from the truth.

Ideal appearance. So is she important?

Indeed, only the appearance of the ideal woman is discussed, but never her character traits, behavior, or such an abstract concept as femininity. This statement is reinforced by the stereotype that for men, the eyes are the main organ of love. Why are they trying to convince us that supposedly a man loves with his eyes? The logic is clear:

• you can measure your waist and hips with a centimeter, but not kindness;
• breast enlargement is much easier than becoming caring and understanding;
• you can use tons of makeup and defiant clothes - it's easier than becoming more feminine;
• on all external attributes they earn huge money in the fashion, cosmetics, fitness industry.

Do you understand the connection? Someone, wanting to get rich thoroughly, preaches a commercially profitable image of an ideal woman through the eyes of men. Poor girls hear about it from everywhere - from magazines, from screens, from girlfriends - and inevitably begin to believe. Further it is clear: any available wallet (not necessarily your own) is taken, and wads of money go into the pockets of cosmetologists, nutritionists, plastic surgeons, fitness centers, and to the cash desks of clothing and footwear stores. However, even being under tons of silicone, Botox, cosmetics and various things, the girl is not one step closer to the ideal. On the contrary: seeing such a miracle of the beauty industry, a man understands that he will not pull this “treasure” financially, and turns his gaze to the contenders more modestly - especially since the girl who has spent a lot on herself begins to demand from the applicants the return of “investment in herself”.

Are the meanings so clear?

But what women rarely admit to themselves is that they make such sacrifices solely for the sake of attracting male attention. The fewer worthy men around, the tougher the hidden competition becomes, the more dishonest tricks are used. Others, having assessed their strength, voluntarily leave the race and found various feminist movements, preaching a complete rejection of femininity "in spite of preoccupied males." Alas, both of them see only a small part of the real picture.

But now you can’t be deceived anymore: here it is, the secret image of an ideal woman. Or rather, images, because each man for himself brings several deeply personal touches to the overall picture. But our cause is not hopeless: a dozen common features unite all men's ideas about the ideal, and appearance here, although a part, is an important part.

Features for the portrait

Here we note that women traditionally break the image into many small details - hair, eyes, nose, hands, figure. A man, on the other hand, sees the object of adoration as a whole, sometimes not realizing what specifically attracted his attention. In the eyes of men, it is incorrect to divide the ideal appearance of a woman into components, because a lack in one part of the image can easily be compensated by dignity in another. Ask any of the men about the color of the eyes or the waist of his companion - units will answer correctly. Ask differently - about the look, about the expression of the eyes, about the general harmony of the figure - and you will immediately receive an accurate detailed answer.

Girls rightly pay a lot of attention, but mistakenly assume that in the eyes of men, a woman who takes care of herself must have something extraordinary on her head. No, it’s not the color or length that matters here at all (although some “researchers” genetically justify the predilection of men for long-haired blondes). This is a matter of personal preference, but in the general portrait of an ideal woman, only brilliance, purity, pomp and grooming matter. At the sight of such hair, the subconscious, as it were, says to the man: “This woman is healthy, she is full of strength, takes care of herself and will probably take care of me and our children in the same way.” By the way, all these “Leaning Towers of Pisa” on the head, hairstyles in the style of “crazy hairdresser’s nonsense” cause just the opposite effect, because they look unnatural and frightening.

Eyes - no matter what different "psychologists" say about legs and sirloins - this is the first thing that men pay attention to. It is in the eyes that they determine whether a woman is interested, whether it is worth starting an acquaintance, and what are the prospects for a relationship. A woman, on the other hand, can be arbitrarily well-groomed, beautiful and bright, but the dull, lifeless eyes of a sleepy fish break into pieces all her work on her own appearance. By the way, have you noticed - is it just such a cold contemptuous look of the model on the catwalks and covers that they pass off as "languid and mysterious"? Someone, tell them the truth: lively, sparkling eyes with a spark can instantly conquer any heart, and a smile hidden in the depths lays at the feet of an outwardly “gray mouse” just stacks of men who have been smitten on the spot.

Tell me, what smart guy came up with this fashion for lips in the form of two sausages? What kind of intelligence do you need to have to disfigure yourself in this way? Apparently, it should be called something like: "big sensual lips, thirsty for a kiss"? Yes, sometimes there is a prejudice that women with thin lips have a grumpy character, that men like childishly plump lips - but not to enlarge them to the same extent? And one more thing: how often have you seen girls on the streets with a slight benevolent smile? But this simple habit of smiling is exactly what makes a woman attractive. In combination with the same "smiling" eyes, this is already a weapon of mass destruction, and the bearer of a smile will immediately be ranked among the males as holy ideals.

The image of the ideal female figure

This is generally one of the most terrible male secrets. No one admits aloud that the model standards for a woman - in the eyes of men, of course - are as far from the object of dreams as the image of a two hundred kilogram hamburger lover is from them. Men, as connoisseurs of beauty, love precisely harmony and femininity - a pronounced waist, flexibility, smooth lines, chest and hips proportionate to the figure. No fifth size will save the owner of a stooped back with stocks of cakes on her sides! Men feel weakness for long legs for a simple psychological reason: the longer the legs, the closer the visual center of the figure is to the “same” place that is the main object of their fantasies.

Without an emphatically feminine style in clothes and a soft melodic voice, the ideal image of a woman would be incomplete. Moreover, both extremes are equally unacceptable in clothing - both baggy that disfigures the figure and vulgar frankness. A real woman should not demonstratively flaunt herself to everyone, while shapeless hoodies devoid of grace will not inspire a man to exploits.

But the voice and smoothness of speech is something that can instantly devalue all the efforts expended on the ideal appearance. Imagine: a man, seeing a fairy-tale fairy, is filled with inspiration, poetry and lyrical music sound in his head, the matter is already going to the wedding ... and at this moment the “fairy” opens his mouth and demonstrates his knowledge not only in the literary language, but also in the dialect of the market women. Everything, the spell is broken, the fairy princess turns out to be a cook, and our sad knight continues his wanderings in search of an ideal.

What's inside?

And all because in the eyes of men, the ideal woman does not stop at appearance - which 90% of girls successfully forget about. She can be infinitely beautiful, with a perfect figure, lips and hair - but if there is emptiness under this hairstyle, further struggle for male attention is meaningless. Men do not like stupid women, no matter what they say. Every man endows his ideal with wisdom, intellect and the ability to think logically - except for those who are very unsure of themselves.

However, if you read all the encyclopedias of the world and the collected works of Aristotle in ancient Greek, do not try to show it to your chosen one. Imagine the humiliation a man will experience when such an "intellectual" will destroy his self-esteem at every opportunity! No, the ideal woman should be able to use knowledge and logic, but on her part it will be reasonable to look at least a little, but simpler than her man. This is a simple psychology: in the eyes of a man, a woman “too smart” and a wise woman differ precisely in the fact that the first acts as an aggressor and rival, and the second is calm about the man’s desire to be a leader. After all, we are so flattered!

Have you noticed how lately the image of what an ideal wife should be has been preached - that she should supposedly sit at home, sit back and mindlessly spend the capital earned by her husband at three jobs? From the point of view of a man, this state of affairs is a crime, and guess who benefits from it (hint - to marketers who create a consumer society). We will say that the ideal woman is characterized by:

1. frugality . Attacks of irrational shopping and thoughtless spending without attempts to plan finances hint to a man that such a woman needs constant control, that she is infantile, that she cannot be trusted with a credit card and given freedom in decisions;
2. Diligence. Men do not demand a high salary from a woman, not at all. But in the eyes of a man, a real woman should be passionate about something (even work), develop and move forward somewhere, have a goal and strive for it, and not sit in front of the TV, while pumping gossip from one ear to another on the phone ;
3. Thrift. If even scrambled eggs seem to you the height of culinary excellence, the house is a chronic mess, and the quality of your man's clothes is out of your sphere of interest, it will be difficult to find a common language with them;
4. Dignity. You can include here the taboo for all actions that in one way or another humiliate both the woman herself and her man - caustic remarks, criticism, envy. A woman with dignity will never tell anyone that her husband is bad - for by doing so she humiliates herself more than by silence;
5. Loyalty, and absolute fidelity. A man wants to believe that his companion under no circumstances will betray him, will not take the side of the enemy - no matter what the man does.

And most importantly - the ideal woman will never try to remake a man in her own way. Accept a man as he is: you should not put things in order in the dusty closet of his worldview, where all things and concepts have long been neatly laid out on shelves.

About deeply personal

“Well, what about intimacy, what’s with him?” - you ask. Yes, just like with the rest - the best choice would be the golden mean. Men are equally unimpressed:

• from completely passive, boring and shy women, who are served only in the dark under a blanket in a classic pose and without these “perversions”;
• from too active girls with hypersexuality of a teenager. It will be very unpleasant for him to deal with a woman more active, proactive and relaxed than himself: men are reluctant to share a leading role both in life and behind the closed curtains of the bedroom.

Women of the narrow-minded believe that a man measures his strength in the number of defeated beauties and in abstract "times per night." In fact, the most striking proof of his own masculinity for him will be the reaction of that very single woman. Could he give what she wanted? Did he cope with the task assigned to him? That is why men dream of such women who love not only the process itself, but also themselves, their body, the body of a partner and know how to have fun, and not "perform a painful marital duty."

And now what i can do?

Decide for yourself - do you really need it? Perhaps in life everything is not so bad? Do you need continuous and sometimes obsessive attention from men? The process of achieving the ideal can be long and difficult. And is it needed at all? Often, having found his own, a man begins to complex, evaluate himself critically and inevitably comes to the conclusion that he himself seems to be unworthy of such happiness! In this case, it will be effective to come up with some kind of cute and safe disadvantage for yourself - start to be afraid of mice or some kind of spiders, for example.

Try to love yourself - no one loves someone who does not love himself. Then love men for who they are: awkward, rude, straightforward. And start developing - read books, get a pet, find a hobby, sign up for a gym. This process, having become a habit, will imperceptibly and inevitably improve your outlook on life. Alas, there is no faster way to how an ideal woman should look through the eyes of a man. Suppose everything is clear and fixable with appearance, but do not have illusions that you can reliably portray kindness, loyalty or intelligence. One way or another, a man will recognize your deception - they are not as stupid as glossy magazines inspire you. Starting with yourself - you will inevitably change the world around, in which we wish you good luck!

No matter how they talk about the tenderness and fragility of female nature, about her susceptibility and subtle mental organization, men are not far from women in terms of their ambitions and given preferences. So, representatives of the strong half of humanity are rather capricious in choosing their ideal in the face of current charmers. They use quite a lot of evaluation criteria, parameters of compliance and aspects of the proximity of a potential beauty to the level that will allow her to call herself an ideal woman in his eyes.

Male vision of the ideal woman

The fact is that the concepts of ideal female qualities through the eyes of the strong and weak halves differ significantly. But what is she, the ideal woman for a man?

There is an opinion that the way to the heart of a young man lies through the stomach. This is undoubtedly a true belief, but only to the extent that the powerful of this world really love to eat deliciously and prefer ladies who know how to cook more often than lazy people. However, the fallacy of this judgment still takes place, since the first meeting of two opposite sexes is based on visual contact and visual scanning of each other. A man, first of all, evaluates with his eyes, and not with his stomach. What he sees is what makes his heart beat faster, the pupils of his eyes dilate, and the skin of his palms becomes covered with light perspiration. Guys fall in love with their eyes, and only then they evaluate the female insides. Therefore, among men there is an unspoken list of criteria for evaluating ideal women, which includes a complex of analytical features of external and internal data of charming persons.

Criteria for evaluating the female ideal through the eyes of a man

What kind of woman is ideal for a man, and what parameters do modern gentlemen measure the belonging of their chosen one to the ideal?

Appearance. This is perhaps the first thing that draws male attention. Meet by clothes, see off by mind. So it is with alpha males: the ideal figure of a woman and a pretty face serve as the basis for her success on the way to the ideal of beauty through the eyes of a man.

Inner world. Any female person, according to a man, should have the lion's share of charm, charm and wealth of the spiritual world. She should be interesting. She must be kind and caring. It should combine those positive human qualities for which a man could love her, and not just feel sexual attraction.

Mind and erudition. The girl should not be empty. She should participate in conversations, express her assumptions, thoughts, logical conclusions, but in no case should she overshadow the mental abilities of the youngest person with her intellect. Young people do not like overly smart ladies, because with them they do not feel such self-confidence as with silly ones.

The ideal of a woman based on external data

The appearance of an ideal woman for a man, as a paramount factor in the selection of a chosen one, must correspond to some parameters:

The ideal of a woman as a man's best friend

In addition to appearance, the ideal woman should have a lot of inner qualities that will help her become her man's best friend: show tenderness when a young man wants warmth and sincerity, be caring when a tired male body requires it, be able to listen and give parting recommendations, when it is so necessary for her chosen one.

The ideal of a woman as the guardian of the family hearth

There is also a third factor, which is a prerequisite for a man to recognize his lady as ideal. This, of course, is economics. A deliciously cooked dinner, a clean apartment, washed and ironed shirts - these are the requirements that, in the opinion of a man, a loving wife, girlfriend, chosen one must unquestioningly fulfill. To be able to keep the family hearth and keep it clean and comfortable is a fundamental feature of any right woman in the understanding of the representatives of the strong half of this world.

How does the ideal woman behave?

A true beauty must know how to present herself and how to behave in order to meet the criteria for evaluating her young man. Every little thing plays a role: the way a girl straightens her curls on her head, the way she smiles seductively, how she “shoots” with her eyes, how she walks and enchants those around her with her gait. The movements and habits of a lady should be filled with femininity, sophistication, elegance. With her appearance, she should personify the very superiority and grace - such is the man's vision of the ideal female mannerism.

How should an ideal woman not behave?

There are several forbidden aspects in female behavior, the manifestation of which by a lady can forever push a man away from her at the first meeting:

• habalka habits - young people categorically do not perceive rude and boorish women;
• excessive arrogance - a girl should radiate modesty and submissive humility, and not arrogantly advertise her belonging to the "blue blood";
• stupid laughter for no reason - hysterically uttered laughter during a conversation, filling awkward pauses from nothing to say, can only provoke irritation of a young man and draw conclusions about the insufficiently high level of intelligence of his interlocutor;
• empty incessant chatter and regular interruption of an opponent in a conversation - the guys do not like it when a lot of useless information is poured into their ears, and even showing tactlessness, not allowing him to insert his pair of words.

How to become an ideal for a man?

You may not be the standard of beauty and perfection, but you must always strive for this. What could be wrong with trying to please your beloved young man even more? That's right, nothing. But how to become an ideal woman for a man?

The key to success in this case lies in the assimilation of three simple rules:

• bring yourself to a decent appearance - the appearance of a girl should be to the liking of her young man;
• not to be a "saw" in a relationship - not to make a man nervous after a hard day's work even at home;
• to be submissive and not contradict your spouse - to be able to adapt to your chosen one.

In fact, there is nothing difficult in meeting the ideals of your man. Listening to his desires and giving him leadership positions in a pair is normal. However, do not overdo it and turn into a nun. Humble and indulgent women can get boring. You need to be a diligent wife, but have your own opinion and defend your convictions in the right moments of life together.

Forbidden female habits on the way to the ideal through the eyes of a man

What female actions repel young people at the very first stages of communication? What prevents even a beautiful and smart enough girl from becoming ideal for her future chosen one?

Alcohol. There are, of course, situations when an acquaintance is made in a nightclub and the fact that a girl missed a glass of champagne or a cocktail cannot be considered by a man as something contrary to his beliefs. However, every self-respecting woman should remember that the use of alcoholic beverages not only intoxicates her mind and makes her behave not quite correctly, but also badly affects her appearance and the smell emanating from her. By the way, the smell of fumes from consumed alcohol has a very negative effect on the impression that a man has of a drunk lady and involuntarily repels her from the first minutes of communication.

Cigarettes. No less nasty stench spreads the smell of a freshly smoked girl's cigarette. You need to understand for yourself once and for all: no matter what a man says about his loyal attitude to women's habits, kissing an “ashtray” is extremely unpleasant and rather disgusting for him.

Foul language. Not a single man, no matter how liberal and modern views on life he may be, likes rude cursing ladies. They are associated in males with bazaar grandmothers or shoemakers forging iron heels for metalworkers. Therefore, it is extremely important to monitor your speech and not scatter swear words in front of your man right and left.

Women who will never be ideal for men

Contrary to all the beliefs of our time and a departure from the prevailing stereotypes, there is a category of ladies who will never become ideal in the perception of a man. This category includes overweight women, overly masculine girls and infinitely stupid, empty young ladies.

No matter how the world associations for the protection of women's rights and other organizations founded by ladies with curvaceous forms defend the right to exist of the female ideal in the face of large overweight ladies, men will never give in to their preferences in contemplation of sophisticated slender figures by changing privileges towards plump.

Also, tomboy girls with shaved bald heads and brass knuckles in their hands can never be close to the ideal of visual perception by the strong half of humanity - such an image does not harmonize in any way with elegant femininity and attractiveness in the understanding of a man.

One or two dates is the maximum that uneducated and devoid of intelligence girls can count on, who delight the male eye with their beauty, but do not impress with speech and thoughts in order to enter into a more or less long-term relationship with them.

In many magazines and women's sections on the Internet, you can find a description of the ideal woman and tips on how to quickly become one. According to the recommendations, the ideal woman looks dazzling, well-groomed and slim, has a good job, many hobbies. At the same time, she is a caring wife, an excellent housewife and cook, a wonderful mother and a wonderful lover. Can a woman be like that? Maybe a few days. Then he collapses from exhaustion. This is the ideal seen by women. What do men really value and what do they expect from their chosen one?

Caring for appearance

It's not about the appearance of a woman, but a man. As you know, ladies take care of themselves more, are interested in fashion trends, body and hair care. It is important not only to take care of yourself, but also to help your man in this. The combination of shoes, suit, accessories, subtle perfume, neat haircut and well-groomed hands - this is the ideal image of a man, which the ideal woman will help to create. A man will appreciate such self-care much higher than another dress bought by his girlfriend.

Interest in the outside world

Many women, having married, completely dissolve in the interests of the family, giving up their own desires and goals. This happens not due to lack of time, but from the desire of the representative of the beautiful half of humanity to better cope with the role of wife and mother. As a result, a woman who has no interests, no hobbies, no girlfriends becomes boring and uninteresting both for herself and for her husband. The ideal woman knows the measure of her care and has a bit of healthy selfishness. Hobbies and hobbies not only bring her joy, but also help to be an interesting person.

Seductive but not vulgar

Many women cannot find the line between sexuality and vulgarity, considering these concepts to be identical. Men do not at all consider a woman who dresses inappropriately frankly, sexy and attractive. Rather, it will be considered frivolous and will be treated accordingly.

Sexuality in the concept of men is sophistication, understatement and self-confidence. You can be sexy even without makeup, in closed, but tight-fitting clothes. A free, flying gait makes a sexy woman, the presence of a heel does not play a role. In a word, sexuality is a state of mind, and not clothes or makeup at all.

no pressure

Many men admit that very often they feel pressure on themselves from their girlfriends and wives. What is pressure? These are constant reminders, reproaches, control and untimely calls. Men sometimes want to be distracted, be alone, meet friends or just work. Respect the freedom of your loved one, and he will carry you in his arms. If a guy wants to call or write, he will definitely do it. And if you didn’t, then you didn’t want to - why impose yourself.

Being an ideal woman in the eyes of the stronger sex is not difficult at all. For many men in our country, the absence of constant criticism and “sawing” would be enough for happiness. It is worth becoming an ideal woman at least so that an ideal man appears next to you.

All men want to see a beautiful and intelligent woman next to them, who will be a good housewife and a great lover. However, such qualities are highly generalized, since for each representative of the stronger sex they have their own meaning ... One considers perfection, who knows how to cook deliciously, and the second - maintains perfect cleanliness, the third does not think at all about whether his wife should have culinary skills, beauty is more important and attraction.

And yet, you can find an impeccable life partner if you turn to astrology, thanks to which you will understand who your ideal woman is according to the sign of the Zodiac and you can choose her from many others.

Aries- hot temperament and determination! At the same time, she should be open and sincere, with a well-developed sense of humor and a sense of duty. Aries are very jealous, so they require one hundred percent fidelity. If you have dark hair, a deep look, full, sensual lips, medium height, feminine forms, then you are already among his favorites.

Aries man very demanding of his life partner. He wants to see a temperamental, decisive, open, sincere, but faithful woman with a wonderful sense of humor near him. Prefers brunettes of medium height with lush, feminine forms, loves a deep look, sensual lips.

Aries may like a person who is self-confident, bright, energetic and cheerful. Any manifestations of blues and decadence can repel him, or even cause complete disgust. Away with fears, doubts - and forward, chest to the embrasure. Also, Aries will appreciate your grooming and beauty - he will especially like your rapid success with men, although this will annoy him. But it will make you fight for you.

Taurus- a woman who is able to easily create a pleasant emotional environment, and has good culinary skills. The ideal companion of Taurus has a calm, balanced character, reliability and a certain degree of conservatism. In addition, she is intelligent and responsible. These men highly appreciate girls who are passionate, but have a calm and balanced disposition. Outwardly, this is a luxurious woman with earthly views on life.

Taurus Man wants to see a woman next to him who will share his tastes, able to create harmony around him. The ideal woman for him is a calm, balanced, reliable, responsible woman who is distinguished not only by intellectual abilities, but also by culinary ones.

Taurus loves smart and healthy women. Frivolous fools plunge him into complete horror and force him to quickly retreat. Cheerfulness and energy will also play into your hands - Taurus needs a source from which it will periodically “feed off”. Show yourself as a skilled housewife, and in general - a jack of all trades. Make bold decisions, put forward interesting ideas. In general, demonstrate that you can be relied upon.

Twins- a woman with a special mental organization. The ideal woman is generous, friendly, impartial, erudite. Able to see beauty in everything. He will never impose his society. This lady does not allow tantrums with screaming and breaking dishes. She is talented and well educated. Most likely, this is a slender and fragile brunette with a swift gait.

Gemini Man will be delighted with a generous, friendly, erudite and well-mannered woman. It is very important for him that his chosen one could see not only the bad in life, but also the beautiful, was fond of music, drawing or dancing. He will not tolerate arrogant, obsessive women who believe that shouting and fighting can solve any issues. He will like a slender, fragile brunette with a flying gait.

Gemini will like a woman who keeps a certain distance. Frankness and frank talk are contraindicated. Your "open pure soul" will be deeply indifferent to him. Gemini is just one of those men who love secrets and riddles, and lose all interest in clues. In addition, your chosen one should constantly doubt whether you are really attached to him. Or maybe you don't like it? Or maybe you have someone? In a word, intrigue ...

Crayfish- a woman who is able to be a complete altruist, who will be content with little, and give herself entirely. She is usually a blonde of medium height with light eyes and mermaid hair. The ideal for the representative of this sign is a woman - a mother, a loving, caring, excellent housewife, devoted to the family and belonging only to him. A girl who looks like her mother.

Cancer Man dreams of a woman with great dedication. The ideal woman for him: a blonde with long, falling to the neck and shoulders, hair and bright eyes. If a woman is ready to give her whole self, cook the most delicious dishes, keep the man's clothes clean and praise him every minute, then she is an ideal for the Cancer man.

Cancer loves those women who solve all his problems. Or at least household. He will gladly entrust you with management in your pair, and in this regard, he will endow you with all conceivable and inconceivable virtues. An intelligent, educated female leader is his ideal. Cancer is also very sentimental and romantic. You should pay attention to the spiritual life and the development of your inner world. Just a beautiful Cancer woman will definitely not suit you.

a lion- a cheerful adventurer who loves travel, children and universal signs of attention. This is a prominent woman with a bright, unique, often demonstrative character. She must radiate inner strength, dignity and confidence in order to excel. It is very important that she has a regal figure, be spiritually rich and generous.

Leo Man needs a cheerful, direct, active, positive woman. His ideal companion will be a bright, spectacular, but faithful wife, the keeper of home comfort, as well as a lover of adventure and travel. He will appreciate devotion, empathy, and he will also like the general attention of others to his woman.

Leo loves everything unusual, brilliant, "standing out from the crowd." To attract his attention, it is necessary to demonstrate your best qualities, to behave with dignity - and, of course, to have these very advantages. Your beauty is not as important as the ability to present yourself. In addition, Leo can be attracted quite unexpectedly by a woman who is absolutely unadapted to reality, dreamy, hovering in the clouds. That does not negate, however, your social significance.

Virgo- very selective in relation to the opposite sex. It has a soft, flexible character, a comprehensively developed personality. Monitors the cleanliness of the house and relationships, neat, pedantic. She thinks ten times and answers once. Most likely, this is a nice brown-haired woman with a chiseled figure.

Virgo Man wants to see a complaisant, neat, pedantic, comprehensively developed personality next to him. The ideal woman is able to understand him without words, express support and depth of empathy with a simple touch of her hand. She monitors the purity of relationships, makes only balanced actions.

Virgos love careerists. Your business acumen, practicality, desire to be the first and achieve a high official position will positively affect his attitude towards you. Women's weaknesses, alas, will have to be hidden for another occasion - only strong-willed and never discouraged ladies can keep his feelings for a long time. You can even command such a man - he will allow you to do this, unless, of course, you are really capable of being a commander.

Scales- A woman capable of satisfying all spiritual and physical needs. As a rule, she is an excellent family man, but it is extremely important for her that all family members recognize her authority, consider the spoken word as law.

Libra Man - gentle, caring, reliable family man who expects recognition of his authority from family members. He is looking for a woman who can satisfy all his spiritual or physical needs, will keep the house in order, listen to him.

Libra will appreciate your beauty and sociability. Friends, acquaintances, partners, colleagues - if you have authority with them, if they love and respect you, then the Libra man will also love you. He, like no one else, listens to the opinions of others, it is important for him that the chosen one is appreciated by other people too. Your ability for illogical contradictory actions, an easy attitude to life, the ability to joke gracefully will also attract him. In addition, it is important to show yourself as a special intellectual, educated and deep.

Scorpion- "a fighting person", which delights. He has excellent intuition in intimate terms and subtly feels what his partner needs. Smart, strong, self-confident, but at the same time feminine.

Scorpio Man dreams of a self-confident, courageous, energetic, lively person who will be able to protect her interests. His ideal is a strong woman with developed intuition, sensuality and sensitivity.

Scorpio does not like weak women - this is on the one hand. On the other hand, they also fail to command. We'll have to somehow adapt - that is, to be strong, but the second. Graceful manners, secular gloss, elegance will suit you. But vulgarity and swagger will repel the picky Scorpio forever. It is very important that your feelings are sincere - Scorpio feels very well and does not forgive falsehood. He generally forgives little, so keep your eyes open. Balance: be at a distance with him, but not cold; smart, but don't overwhelm him; show courage in actions, but avoid any sacrifice.

Sagittarius- A generous and kind-hearted woman. In addition, she must be a skilled mistress, a caring mother and an economical housewife. And its physical parameters should be as close as possible to the standard 90x60x90. Men prefer women who have similar interests, hobbies, passions, with which it is pleasant to travel.

Sagittarius man will not miss a fair, sincere, restrained, kind-hearted, generous woman, who, in addition, will be the happy owner of an ideal figure, an excellent lover. For his ideal woman, the man of this zodiac sign allocates a place near the children, the kitchen and the church. She should be a caring mother, a good housewife, a cheerful and resourceful friend of life.

Sagittarius absolutely cannot stand intelligent women. They annoy him. He knows what to do without them. Therefore, simplicity and a touch of light ignorance are just what you need. Let him not only manage you, but literally command you. Consult with him on any occasion. Admire his vision. Learn from him. Do not forget to do a good hairstyle and manicure. And you will be happy.

Capricorn- A way to understand the hidden sensual nature. Respectable, stable, calm and cautious, honors family traditions and has her own judgment on everything. Works out all the details. Romantic.

Capricorn Man quite sensual, so he will be most comfortable with a woman who is able to understand his nature. The ideal woman is calm, cautious, stable, respectable, able to have and defend her own opinion about everything in the world.

Capricorn wants his companion to be the best in the world. Your beauty, practicality, respect of others - all this is in your favor. But it is especially important to have a high social status. The higher the better. Be confident, passionate about your career and business. At the same time, you need to give space to Capricorn - never be intrusive and too sentimental. A woman weeping over a soap opera will terrify him.

Aquarius- friend and mother rolled into one. An inspiring wife who will periodically pull out of bouts of laziness, protect from everyday routine. In a word, turn every day into a holiday. And they themselves do not allow excessive sentimentality in relationships and never truly open their hearts completely.

Aquarius Man needs a strong, persistent woman who can dilute gray everyday life with colors. He will love a caring, gentle, sensitive woman.

Aquarius appreciates, above all, spiritual kinship. The similarity of interests and hobbies for Aquarius is a very important point in a relationship. He spends a lot of time with friends, so you need to show them complete loyalty. Compliance, the ability to find a worthy way out of a difficult situation - all this is very appealing to such a man.

Fish- has a very subtle intuition, humanity and outward calmness. She always knows how to restrain her emotions, generous, fair and sincere. Chooses a partner for a long time, but the choice almost always turns out to be right. Feminine, love of art and nature.

Pisces Man dreams of a feminine, calm, kind woman. The ideal for him is one who has a developed intuition, knows how to restrain her emotional impulses, loves art, nature, is generous, kind, fair, sincere.

Pisces find charm in romantic, sentimental women. Flirtatious, soft and trusting ladies, ready to shed tears of tenderness, evoke a touching feeling of affection in him. Your ability to show yourself as a good housewife will also come in handy, since Pisces like housekeeping ladies who know how to equip a house and cook deliciously. He will also like your friends - try to expand his social circle.