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The first letter to a man for dating is an example. Examples of dating profiles in English for girls

Talking to a girl who likes the Internet is easier than in real life. In a couple of clicks, you can find out everything about her: where she works or studies, what her hobbies are, what films she watches and what music she listens to. But what to write to her in the first message in a contact so that the girl pays attention and wants to continue the conversation? In our article, we will talk about what must be in the first message, and what should not be there, and at the end of the article you will find several examples successful dating over the internet...

Preparing to meet: a few important rules

Before starting a conversation, you need to:

Tidy up your page. Choose a good avatar, fill in the “About Me” section, publish beautiful pictures etc.
Choose a girl. We choose a girl from our city, weed out fake accounts, we find common interests, possible topics for conversation.

How to properly prepare your page in the social. networks to meet and choose the right girl we discussed in detail in . Be sure to read this article before you start writing your first post.

What should be the first message to a girl: 3 main questions

The first message should be brief, but should directly or indirectly answer the 3 main questions, which will surely appear in the head of any girl after she reads your "Hi".

These are the questions:

Who you are: what is your name, how did you find it online;
Purpose of acquaintance: chat, have fun, go on a date;
Reason why you chose it: what do you have in common, what do you like about it.

The order of these theses may vary depending on the situation.

The main task the first message is to interest the girl, make her pay attention to you. To do this, you do not need to write a whole sheet of text or come up with complex greetings. 1-2 well-chosen simple sentences are enough.

Don't forget to say hello and introduce yourself the name your friends call you. Avoid too familiar forms ("Sanya", etc.). Yes, the page already has your name on it, but the introduction is a simple form of introduction etiquette.

Don't know what excuse to come up with? Desire to chat- this is already a great pretext for the first message. Do not intimidate the girl by talking about the desire to start a family and have children, even if you are really looking for a future spouse.

Carefully review her page - pay attention to books, music, films and publics. How is a girl different from others? What is she proud of? What unites you?

Write that you saw on her page a photo from a recent concert of your favorite band or that you noticed a selection of Nolan's works in her videos. Show her that she's not just another girl, with which you "copy-paste" the prepared text, and that it is special. She will at least be interested in what kind of person you are, if you point out the commonality of interests, and she will want to continue communication.

Examples of successful dating phrases

Here are 3 original examples from the life of starting a conversation on VK that can be used as a model.

Example 1. A beautiful compliment is an original conversation starter

Hi, Olya! My name is Vadim. I stumbled across your page by accident and wanted to get to know you. Painfully charming smile on the avatar :)

Well, hello, Vadim! Thanks for the compliment…

Or maybe we will meet and continue communication outside the Internet?

I'm sorry, but I don't go on dates with the first person I meet.

You can go to my page - there is quite a lot about me. You won’t learn so much about a stranger from the street if someone approaches you to get acquainted :) By the way, I also have a Rottweiler. Maybe we can meet and walk the dogs? How about tomorrow evening?

Good. Here is my number +79212345xxx

Example 2. Shared Passion - Travel

Hello Sveta! I was looking for posts on the hashtag Baikal in the news, and accidentally landed on your page. I saw that we are both from the same city, and that you went there this summer. Wouldn't it take me a long time to ask a couple of questions about the trip? By the way, I forgot to introduce myself - my name is Grisha)

Hello! It's nice to meet you :) Few people get to Baikal from our city - now it's closer and cheaper to fly abroad than to such a distance. Ask what you want. I'll try to answer)

Or maybe we'll meet somewhere for a cup of coffee? I think that it will be more convenient. In general, I really like to travel around Russia. I can give you more interesting routes)

And why not?)) Today I'm busy, but I can tomorrow after work. I finish at 8 at Amethyst. Comfortable?

Yes, it's convenient. Leave your number please. In case I lose you there)

79213345ххх see you soon)

How not to start a correspondence: the most common mistakes

Most common mistakes the following:

platitudes The first post must be original. You can’t start a conversation with cliches or hackneyed phrases, for example: “Hello! How are you?". If you write something like that - in 9 cases out of 10 she will simply ignore the message;
Hints of a sexual nature. And this includes not only messages like: “I would like to take a closer look at you!”, But also “compliments” to the girl’s figure, even if she herself put herself in a swimsuit with a profile photo;
Use of slang expressions and obscene words. It seems that this is understandable, but many of the first messages from men are still replete with various “che”. And if a girl decided to ignore you or immediately sent you off (albeit in a rude way), in no case should you call her names. Even if you never cross again, keep your face and don't stoop to that;
Presence of grammatical errors. Check what you write. Special attention leave commas. No one will find fault if small punctuation errors slip through the message, but complete absence ideas about the grammar of the Russian language adult girl definitely scare away;
Deception. Using a "fake" page or one where there are no personal photos. Put yourself in the place of a girl: if you were in her place, would you get acquainted with a person who has no friends on the page, and a Hollywood actor is depicted as a profile photo or latest model Lamborghini?

The girl replied to the message: what's next?

So, you managed to interest a woman and she responded to your message. How to be further? Most the best solution- go directly to your goal.

If you want a close relationship, immediately invite her on a date and take a phone number. You need to take advantage of the moment while her attention is completely focused on you. The longer you pull, the more likely that she will refuse to meet in person.

Remember! Pointless messaging is a waste of precious time.

If the girl agreed to go on a date, you need to immediately appoint a place. Here is a selection of where you can go on a first date.

Great way to make good impression on a date - to surprise a girl, to surprise her. Here are a few how to do it.

If a girl did not agree to a date, this is not a reason to give up. No need to remove it from contacts and send it to the black list. You can communicate with her further. Do not forget, the more you communicate with girls, the better it will turn out. In addition, if you are interested in her correspondence, then she will definitely give a second chance. A few that can be used in correspondence here.

In any case, if you want success with women, then you need to develop.

Brief conclusions

In a word, for a successful first message, it is necessary to briefly and succinctly describe the purpose of the appeal. Sometimes you can directly talk about the desire to get to know each other, but it is more effective to use some kind of pretext. Don't forget to clean up the page, double-check your grammar, and be prepared to handle objections.

Don't pressure the girl, save positive attitude and remember that the purpose of your first message is a meeting. Communication just for the sake of communication in this case doesn't make sense. And if at first the young lady refused to meet with you, but continued the correspondence, then it’s just worth the wait. Give the girl a couple of days to get to know you better.

Often, young people do not want and do not know how to get acquainted on the street (due to innate modesty) or do not have the time and opportunity for this (due to a busy schedule and high employment), but everyone wants to build new relationships, which is why men turn to social networks and dating sites in search of the perfect girl.

Interesting phrases for guys: use when meeting

Despite the fact that the world is now propagating the idea of " magic pill”(pump up the press in a week, lose 17 kg in a month, get a girl in 1 day, buy yourself cool clothes and you will become cool yourself), there are things that really work.

For example, when you first meet, you can use these options:

You know, the Constitution says you can't deprive a person of the right to happiness.
Today I finally understood for whom I registered on a dating site ...
Hello Anya! My name is Maxim. I stumbled across your page by accident and wanted to get to know you. The smile on the avatar is painfully charming 🙂
Hello Sveta! I was looking for posts on the hashtag #anapa in the news, and accidentally landed on your page. I saw that we are both from the same city, and that you went there this summer. Wouldn't it take me a long time to ask a couple of questions about the trip? By the way, I forgot to introduce myself - my name is Arkady.
I lost the bet, and for that I have to ask the most beautiful girl in the world on a date!
Hello Tanya! My name is Oleg. I saw the photos and videos that you recently posted to the Bon Jovi group and wanted to ask how it went? In Moscow it was not possible to go, but the day after tomorrow they will be in St. Petersburg. So I'm wondering if I should go or not?
Hello. I know things about you that others don't know...
Hello! I'm one of those pushy guys who think you're stunningly beautiful.
Your parents deserve a Nobel Prize. Or what do they give out to the creators of world masterpieces?
I guess I'm not the first one who wants to meet you. But I am the best. Do you want to check?

Or simpler, uncomplicated phrases like:

Hello! I have been looking for you for a long time, and you are here!
I've wanted to meet this girl for a long time.
Your beauty cannot be compared to anything. You are unique!
Is there any chance for me to meet such a beautiful girl? If yes, let me know.
Are you by any chance from royal family? Look like a princess!
I had a desire to find happiness after seeing your profile.
Girl, do you have a dream? And I dream to meet you.
Hello. And I saw you today in a dream. Help me make it a reality.
I read in your profile that you don't smoke. Always dreamed of meeting a girl who leads healthy lifestyle life.
Do you remember me? We met in a dream. But I was sitting on a white horse.
Are you looking for the perfect man by any chance?
Let me make you happy.
Today is such a wonderful day. How not to write to such a beautiful girl?
I got very lucky today. I found the most charming and sweet girl. May I meet you?
Girl, what are you planning to do for the rest of your life? Is it possible to include me in the list of your life plans?
Do you know that you hit me with your look? You are insanely beautiful!
You must have put in a lot of effort and energy to look so good. I fell for your bait.

In this video, psychologists Anton and Ekaterina will tell you how you can determine how interested a girl is in you using tests:

With these options, you will surely be able to win her attention:

You couldn't smile, otherwise it's dark outside.
How do you do it?.. Look so good.
Why did you stop smiling, I just started falling in love?!
Have you had young people crawling at your feet before?
You are so beautiful that I forgot the phrase with which I wanted to address you!
Many already today sent away? I have only three so far. Well, the arrogant girls are gone now.
You must have started. By at least, you start me terribly.
You are so cool that I am ready to drink bath water after you!
Girl, are you interested in cute unmarried guys? No, I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about a friend. His girlfriend is a bitch and left him. And you are not a bitch?
On the street: Walk past her, then turn around sharply and ask: "Didn't you just pinch my ass? .. No? .. Too bad ..."
Is it okay that I come to you with such a smart look?
Could you wake me up tomorrow morning by calling my cell phone, otherwise I'm afraid to oversleep.
Girl, can you tell me how to get to your heart?
I looked in the dictionary for a synonym for the word "beautiful" - your name there was also...
Girl, I'm looking for a dance partner... Allow me to examine you more closely.
And you, by chance, do not have my book? .. No? Yes, I gave it to someone to read, and to whom ... I only remember that someone is very nice!
And what will you do tonight, after we get to know you?
Shall we talk, or will we continue to wink?
You did not see by chance, here five minutes ago my White horse did not run?
You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going.
Unfortunately, now I don't have time to melt your cold look, but I can call you in the evening.
What is your shoe size? .. I have the 45th. Well, we got to know each other!
Girl, how long do you think it's decent to be late?
Hello! Today we are lucky ... We met.
Girl, please call an ambulance! Cupid just shot me!
Hello! Recognized? ... So I didn’t recognize you right away either.
Let me take you home. At least with a glance.
I have an unusual question for you - what do you need to say to a girl to get a slap in the face? ..
Girl, excuse me, but your legs are not tired? .. You always do not get out of my head.
Girl, do you know what makes Tefal dishes good? The fact that it can hit on the head of someone who is very tired, and since you now do not have this valuable dish, I decided to get to know you better and ask for a phone number.
Do you play trombone? No... Me too! See how much we have in common. Let's get to know each other better?
Sorry I forgot my phone number. Won't you borrow yours?
You know, after a long search, I finally found a cafe where you and I can have a wonderful time.
Do you have a thread to start our relationship right here?
Girl, do you have a compass? BUT hourglass? I think it's not worth asking about the barometer.
Girl, your help is urgently needed! .. The fact is that I'm going to drown. And your eyes are perfect for that.
The only thing your eyes didn't tell me was your name.
I'm a visitor. Can you tell me how to get to your house?
I noticed that you noticed me, and I would like to notice that I noticed you too.
Girl, don’t you know why the lens is round, but the photos are square?
Giving flowers to a girl: “I really wanted to show this rose (tulip, mimosa, etc.) how beautiful you are ...”
If you think that I am going to meet you, then you are mistaken - I also want to invite you on a date!
Girl, don't you know New Year will it be this year or next?
Girl, get out, see that young man? So he doesn't know yet, doesn't know yet... And what's your name?.. And my name is Sasha. So, here - that young man does not yet know that we just met.
You know, I have absolutely no idea what I should say to get to know you, but let's better imagine that I have already said all this.
Girl, did you sleep well yesterday? And didn't even flinch? I couldn't sleep all night waiting for our meeting.
Girl, do you have a home Plush Toys? Me too! Let's introduce them.
I bet you are a stubborn person... I read in a magazine that girls who wear round earrings/red pants/green bags/whatever have very stubborn personalities. (Most people consider themselves stubborn, so it's easy to strike up a conversation.)
Can you tell me in which direction you need to go in order to meet a SIMULTANEOUSLY ATTRACTIVE AND SMART girl?
Don't you remember me, I lived next door? Not? And no wonder - after all, I have never lived near you. Maybe we have everything ahead of us?
When I get old, I will remember the brightest moments of my life: the day my children were born, the day of my wedding, and the day I met you.
Please remind me what I was wearing when we saw each other last time?
Girl, do you meet young and pretty people?
Girl wait! You seem to have lost something!.. I don't see your smile anywhere!! Ah, no! Here I found it!!
Girl, kiss me if I'm wrong, but it seems your name is Antonina?
Girl, you know what I just saw? I saw a young man just meet a girl. And literally after five minutes of conversation, they communicated as if they had known each other for 100 years. By the way, you know how the young man started the conversation. He said: “Do you know what I just saw? ..”

Girl, I'm sorry, didn't you get hit by a shrapnel? .. It's just that you, passing by, broke my heart. I thought, suddenly I hooked you?
Such a beautiful girl should have a beautiful phone number!
How did you know that I'm here?
Can you forgive yourself... if I don't get to know you?
My friend said that being sent by a girl is very difficult. I made a bet with him for 20 rubles, so you can help me earn money for beer. But I ask you - the message must be of high quality and original!)
You appear in front of a sitting girl, you say: "I'll come right now." And you disappear, after which you reappear, but already as an old acquaintance of hers.
I knew that the most beautiful girls are here!
I am ready to erect a monument to the inventor of the Internet - because without him I would never have seen a photo of such a charming girl like you!
Girl, I can’t help myself: the charm emanating from you works even through the Internet.
My dream is to get into those 30% of the lucky ones who found their soul mate on the Internet. Can you help me with this?
From your page on the social network I learned that you are a big fan of vanilla coffee. But, unfortunately, the Internet is not yet able to convey the taste and aroma of this drink of the gods. Can I still treat you in real life?
I don't know what Internet gods to thank for seeing your photo on social networks. And it's a spark, it's madness!
Girl, can you help me find my pulse?
I don't usually meet girls like this...
I'm sorry to interrupt, but I need to urgently inform you that you are terribly cute.
I've been thinking about a reason to meet you for an hour, but so far nothing has come to my mind.
You know, I just realized one thing. I could have stayed at home today and never found out about your existence. Terrible prospect, right?
Hello! I have a completely unconventional question for you. I am interested in what you would say to a young man who turned to you with the phrase: “Let's get to know each other?”
And what does it feel like to be beautiful girl in this city?
The gypsy told me that today I would meet a beauty in (say the color of the girl's clothes). Does this description remind you of anyone?
Allow me to offer you a hand and a heart. I am a surgeon, I have this stuff in bulk.
Your right eye is lighter than your left - I've never seen anything like this in my life! Or so it seems to me? We need to figure it out and get to know each other better.
There's something wrong with my eyes - I can't take them away from you.
Oh my God! Imagine, I thought I was gay until I met you!
Excuse me, but what do you do the rest of your life?
Are you Catherine, my contact? Not? It's a pity ... Maybe then I can treat you to coffee as a token of apology for mistaking?
You are beautiful like a star! Only the stars are beautiful at night, and you are beautiful during the day.
Did you meet me in Anapa in 2008? Not? And no wonder, because I was not there. And where did you meet me, do not tell me?
Can you tell me what the current rate of the Spanish peseta is? And the Portuguese escudo?
You have arrested me with your beauty, and I would be happy to serve a life sentence in the captivity of your heart.
You know, it's terribly nice to see at least one girl walking slowly. In our time, everyone is running like that ... In our city it will soon be like in the ancient tribes: caught up - it means you got married, if you didn’t catch up - it’s your own fault. Do you know such a custom?
My request may seem crazy to you, but I just bought lottery ticket and I want you to kiss him and bring me good luck.
I'm sorry... I just want to thank you!.. Have you ever had a day when you felt alienated, indifferent? When you're not entirely happy, and not...when you feel like you're going with the flow. And suddenly you run into someone and see a surprisingly warm and beautiful smile, which instills in you a feeling of happiness, fairy tales, a sense of beauty for the whole day? .. You see, I didn’t want to distract you at all, but you look like you have adorned my life with your appearance ...
Your parents are thieves! Two stars have disappeared from the sky, they are burning now in your eyes.
I wanted to compare you to a star, but that would be unfair to you. After all, the stars are beautiful only at night, and you are always beautiful.
Excuse me, can you help me? I am a journalist and I am assigned to interview the most beautiful girl in the city.
Hello! The ruble is falling, and my interest in you is growing ...
Girl, you look so much like my first wife! I haven't met her yet...
Hello. I decided to open a help center for homeless cockroaches. Can you help me with a pet?
You are so sad... Can I take your sadness? I need it for experiments.
Hello! Listen, my friends and I are doing a study on the topic "What is the best phrase to get to know such a spectacular girl, How do you…"
You are so sad. Can I take your sadness? I need it for experiments.

These words should never be written

This will only push the interlocutor away from you, never text her:

I would like to see you up close!
Hello! How are you?
Wanna ride my Hummer?
I really like you, and I don't know why.
You look like my ex, only much better!
I oh...ate when I saw you.
It seems to me that I don’t fit you in status, but I’ll try anyway ...
I like pose number 69 from Kamasutra, how about you?
Girl, don't you know how I'd better spend my ten thousand?
Girl, I'm on the ad. Are you giving away your phone number for free?
Girl, does your mom need a son-in-law?
And you are awfully beautiful. It's even scary to approach you!

Typical mistakes guys make when texting a girl

Below we describe the most common mistakes of all guys that only repel girls:

Don't text just for the sake of getting positive emoticons and good reactions from her side. It will only destroy everything between you.
Don't pretend to be someone you are not.
Do not "mow" under too smart in private messages with her. Don't quote Shakespeare or facts from evolutionary biology.
Don't write overly large, unwieldy texts. Volumetric texts take a very long time to write. Because of this, the thread of the conversation between you is lost. Brevity is the soul of wit.
Don't go overboard with compliments. No need to remind her through every word that she is beautiful, and this is your first experience of correspondence with such a beautiful girl.
Communicate with her in private messages, and not somewhere in the comments under the photo. The girl will behave in a completely different way and write the wrong things at all if your correspondence is going on in front of everyone.
Write correctly and without errors, without swearing. This will only be a plus in your piggy bank. The girl is not your bro. She does not need to write all sorts of curse words that you use in correspondence with friends.

Know that you want to see her in person first and not chat forever on the internet. Do not stick with her on the Internet for hours. Call for a meeting as soon as you feel that this moment has already come.

Video: how to chat with a girl correctly?

In this video, Alexey Samsonov will tell you what to write to that very impregnable beauty from the social network:

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What are you doing tonight, after our date?
Do you think I like you more than you like me?
Hello, can I talk to you? And then all sorts of girls stick around, trying to get acquainted ...
Hello, can you tell me how to cook dumplings?
You have a very happy nose!
Can you tell me the recipe for birch jam?
Hello! Today is an amazing day, can I cheer you up?
Hello! Are you on VK too? And I. Do you play flute? Me neither. See how similar we are!
Do you meet nice young people? Here I am!
At your place beautiful eyes And what color are they?
And I bet you can't guess what your name is?
You probably won't give me a chance to meet you... But send me a smile if I'm wrong!
I'm clearly not the first person to want to meet you. But I'm the best! Do you want me to prove it?
Hello! I sell happiness! Do you want me to give it to you for free?
Can you tell me where is the best place to spend my salary?
I'm tired of waiting for you to make the first move. Hello!
You have amazing eyes, I can't tear myself away from them.
I look at you and understand that we definitely need to get to know each other!
Tell me, how many did you send off today? I'm four. Oh, and cheeky girls!
I looked at your photos and forgot to meet you. Hello!
Do you believe in love at forty-eight glance? And then I look at your pictures for so long that I fall in love!
How did you know I was online?
Let's change? You give me two hundred grams of sadness, and I give you a kilogram of my joy?
Can we talk already or will we just like each other?
Remember me? I dreamed about you!
Hello, I was reading an interesting story just now. The guy met the girl, and they lived happily ever after! By the way, do you know how he met her? Said, "Hi, I'm reading an interesting story right now!"
You know, before I met you, I was sure that I was gay!
How about flirting?
Hello! I want to interview you. Tell me what it's like to be the most beautiful girl?
Can you help me learn how to talk to girls?
Hello, I'm doing a census and I want to start with you!
Hello, please change mine free time to communicate with you?
You are very mistaken if you think that I want to get to know you. I want to invite you on a date!
That's where the two fucking met attractive person. Hello!
No, well, if you keep silent all the time, no one will get to know you. I'll help, hello!
You know, I didn't have a very pleasant day. I was upset, but then I saw your avatar.
Can you forgive yourself if you don't answer me?
Have you ever had young people crawling at your feet? And at the hands?
And if I were such a beautiful girl like you, I would get to know myself!
And who are you dating? And come with me!
Hello! I'm writing a book about what girls want. Won't you tell?
A stunning girl like you should have beautiful font!
Hello! I got lost in life and barely found you, will you lead me out of the dim world of loneliness?
Can I flirt with you?
You know, there are things that are easy to imagine together - black and white, day and night, oil and porridge, you and me ...
Don't want to talk to someone who really likes you?
What questions do you think guys get slapped for?
You have a boyfriend? Maybe you need something better?
Are you in love with your city?
I love dogs very much. Could you tell me what breed is better to have?
Are you professional stylist?
You are beautiful! Can we switch to "you"?
You spend a lot of time online, can we go to unwind?
You're so beautiful! Or do you know a professional photographer?
Imagine, I wrote you a huge text, and then they turned off the light. So just hello!
Wow, I love this band too! And what is your favorite song?
You have a very cute face!
You have such beautiful eyes! Especially the left one!
Gorgeous legs! And the right one is doubly gorgeous!
I like your mouth ☺
You know, you have such a cute chest! And there are two more of them!
Nice dress! You know, the purse doesn't really fit.
Have you heard the phrase that with whom you will lead, from that you will type? So, I like you, and I decided that I would get enough from you!
It was difficult, but I was able to write to you! Reward with an answer?
Have you ever ridden an escalator? Do you want me to ride?
I think I have amnesia, otherwise I would have written to you!
Do you happen to have a red thread? We would be able to make friends with her.
Your beauty struck me so that I forgot what I wanted to tell you.
Have you ever been offered a hand and a heart? I am a surgeon, I have a lot of them!
Excuse me, can I tweak your plans for tonight?
Didn't you just hit the "I like" button on my photo by accident? Not? It's a pity…
Interesting, but your inner world matches your photo?
It must be bad to be your girlfriend, because you overshadowed everyone with your beauty!
I miss two things in my life - you and hair.
When I see you, I understand how good it is that I am single!
You know, your hair matches the color of my pillow perfectly.
Must it hurt to fall from heaven?
Girl, does your mother need a son-in-law?
I bet ten thousand that I ask you out on a date and you say no?
Marry me!
Urgent, call an ambulance, I was shot by an arrow of love ...
Give me your sadness I need it for experiments.
Hello! Could you please wake me up tomorrow? I'm afraid to oversleep.
Are you from a fairy tale?
Do you know what love at first sight is? If not, I'll write again!
Are you Alice, my contact?
Girl, are you probably tired of the question about your son-in-law?
I bought borjomi and salami, come eat!
And here I am collecting a harem. Only you are missing.
When are you going to take your first step? I'm tired of waiting and I'm doing it myself! Let's get acquainted!
I've definitely seen you somewhere, can you remind me where?
You are beautiful on the Internet, show yourself in life?
Hello! Amazing places in your photos. Where is it?
You wrote that you love “….” group. Do you have any of their songs on cassettes?
Have you ever really seen interesting girl?
You have a very familiar face! Were you at the club yesterday?
You know the saying "listen to a woman and do the opposite"? Now, I don't want you to answer me!
I have a great job! Man/Girl to go to the cinema with me. Don't you want to try?
Hello. It's such a good day today. I want to cheer someone up. Maybe you?
Today I saw you in a dream, but you managed to say only your first and last name. And so I found you!
Do you have such Perfect eyes. I have been looking only at them for a long time, but I do not dare to write.

It would seem that it could be easier - to write a letter or a message to the person you like. It's not personal, looking straight into the eyes, to say about his sympathy. Stuttering, skin color change to bright red, embarrassed and stupid facial expression and other unforeseen troubles are excluded. However, in reality, writing a letter for acquaintance turns out to be much more difficult than it seemed. Let's try to understand how to do it according to the rules.

How to write a letter for dating: important rules

There can be many ways to find friends or a soulmate. Of course random encounters and dating are the most romantic means. However, a regular letter can be a much more attractive reason to get to know the person you are interested in. So, how to write a letter to get acquainted with the object of your attention?

The sequence of your actions

First of all, we decide who and why we are writing a letter. Perhaps you are planning to romantic relationship, and business acquaintance or friendly relations. In any case, your interest should be reflected in the style of writing the letter;

The way it is written is also important. You can write a letter for acquaintance in a modern way, that is, using a PC, or by hand, as in the old good times. Be that as it may, literacy is above all.

How to write a letter for dating for different purposes?

First, greet the recipient. The first greeting will set the tone for the rest of the letter and will also give the person an impression of you. The respectful opening is the most neutral and common. However, if you wish to demonstrate a friendly disposition or readiness for more intimate communication, it is perfectly acceptable to make it easier, especially if you are going to write a letter for an acquaintance that is not related to the business sphere;

Tell me about what attracts you to specific person. Perhaps he owns some special technique, skills that your business cannot do without. Or, let's say you liked the appearance of the chosen person, his tastes or views on things;

Give a couple of compliments to the addressee. Do not stoop to outright flattery. Indicate only what the person himself knows and is proud of without you. For example, a scientist can be praised for knowledge, and in beautiful girl accentuate a wasp waist or perfect line lips. Two or three similar remarks in the whole letter are quite enough;

Tell about yourself. Here you can exploit your imagination with might and main, the main thing is not to write too much. For example, a potential partner should not talk about “how I spent my summer”, and an object of attention or a friend should not talk about where you work and how much you earn;

Do not overload the letter with information, try to write a short acquaintance letter. Even when you're trying to impress an honest man, do not lay out all your “underground” in the letter. Then you will have a chance and a reason for subsequent letters;

How to write a letter to a guy for dating

So, your journey through the Internet space has finally been crowned with success. On the screen - a photo of the very prince for whom you will become perfect second half. Only now he does not even know about it.

Because right now you are painfully thinking about how to compose the first message so that it does not go unanswered. After all, such a handsome guy probably receives letters in whole batches. And your "Hi, how are you?" or "Let's get acquainted" are unlikely to receive attention.

Obviously, before writing a letter to a guy, you need to thoroughly study his profile. What he does, how he likes to spend his free time, what exactly he hopes to find on a dating site, etc. It's great if you find common interests, then the task is greatly simplified.

But even if you didn’t find any, you can pretend for a good purpose. For example, he plays the guitar very well. Then you can build the first message in this way: “Since childhood, I dreamed of playing the guitar, can you teach it?”

However, the first letter to the guy can be longer. So you will demonstrate a genuine interest in his person, which the prince will certainly be pleased with. It would be nice to emphasize your similarities in the message - it's always nice to find your soul mate. Ask him about something not listed in the questionnaire.

Make a compliment - believe me, they give pleasure not only to women. Why not just write the truth - after all, you really liked these mysterious grey-blue eyes. Or you can also ask in a half-joking way who gave him such a wonderful smile.

By the way, humor is an indispensable assistant in communication through correspondence. It makes dialogue easier, more relaxed, more interesting. And besides, a sense of humor can say a lot about the intelligence of its owner. So it would be quite useful to joke a little in the first message, showing yourself to be a smart and cheerful interlocutor.

Speaking about how to write a letter to a guy, one cannot ignore flirting. In reasonable doses, it is very useful. It is only important not to go too far, otherwise you can easily scare away the prince who has dawned on the horizon.

The same undesirable effect is likely to be caused by complex long phrases. Brevity is the sister of talent, and everything refined is simple. Do not forget about this - and your message will definitely reach the goal.

Finally, it's best to forget about template expressions. In the first message, as nowhere else, it is important to emphasize your uniqueness. Moreover, having received standard letter, the prince may decide that you are simply copying the text and sending it to everyone in a row. Would you like to after that handsome guy from photography to deal with you? Of course not. Moreover, he has enough other fans.

If you really want to get to know him better, try to write a sincere and sincere letter to the guy for dating, coming straight from the heart. Do not be afraid to even honestly admit that you really hope for continued communication. It is unlikely that such an act will go unnoticed.

How to write a letter to a guy on paper: important rules

You can frame a piece of paper. You can come up with several dozen design styles in the form of a frame. You can simply decorate the paper with small hearts, which will be neatly and asymmetrically arranged.

But naturally, the most important thing in a letter is the text of the letter. You should not torment yourself with endless thoughts on how to write a letter to a guy. It is worth expressing thoughts evenly, consistently, but not too dryly, because our goal is to write a letter for acquaintance, i.e. to continue the relationship.

It is worth not to impose yourself, but to submit if you decide to write a letter for dating. No slogans or appeals should be written. If you need to write a letter to a young person with whom you do not know, then in the first lines you should introduce yourself and describe yourself.

It is not worth lying and embellishing reality. It is necessary to tell truthfully, but not in too much detail about your life and interests. It is not worth writing in detail about work, family and income level. You can talk about looks. Once again, do not embellish or downplay the facts. You can talk about why it was decided to write. In addition, it will be interesting for a young person to read about entertaining facts from the life of a girl who can characterize her. But it's really worth writing. interesting stories.

Confessing love in a letter to a stranger not worth it. After the letter is written, the only thing left is to send it by mail.

If a letter is written to a well-known guy, then it’s worth laying everything out as if in spirit. To say about everything that cannot be said in person. In this case, delivering a letter to the addressee will be even more difficult. It will be necessary to quietly throw the letter in a place visible to the young man.

You can put the letter in a jacket pocket or in a case, briefcase or bag of a young man. Naturally, all this must be done away from prying eyes. Strangers they might think that some strange machinations are being committed.

If the guy did not pay attention to the girl who threw the letter, then maybe he just did not find the letter or accidentally lost it without finding it. You can write another letter to the guy and try to re-toss it to the addressee. You can put the letter in the mailbox or under the door. If in this case, the young man does not give a look, then he does not want to communicate. And most likely, he considers the planted letter a misunderstanding.

In this case, you can gather your will into a fist and talk to the young man about everything to be honest. In this case, you don’t have to bother yourself with questions about how to write a letter to a guy. It will be possible to resolve all difficulties with the help of a confidential conversation.

How to write a letter to a man for dating

Your first letter should be carefully thought out. It should be short but meaningful. Try to keep within 200 characters and at the same time describe yourself. A woman should remain a mystery, so you do not need to immediately lay out all the information about yourself. Men love cheerful and a little self-critical females.

In the first message, you should not write about your chest size, or the length of your legs. normal man these parameters are not initially of much interest, and he will not take you seriously. In this case, he may think that you just need a one-night stand and provide you with it. Only here it is not necessary to accuse him of being a bastard. Here it is already her own fault - what she offered him, he took advantage of it.

No need to think long about how to write a letter to meet a man. You just need to sit down and write a simple, short, but with a twist, letter.

You need to decide who you are going to write a letter to get acquainted with and for what purpose. You have the opportunity to plan a profitable business acquaintance, friendly conversations or strong personal relationships. Although your enthusiasm must be reflected in the words you have chosen.

Choose your own way of writing a letter. It can be done in the spirit of modern times using a computer or handwritten with a personal address. Be sure to keep an eye on literacy.

Greet the recipient. The style of the first greeting can determine the whole tone of your letter, as well as the first impression you make on the person. The most neutral and popular option would be a simple, respectful start. Although since you want to immediately show your friendly location and readiness for close communication, then you can arrange a greeting for the most familiar or easy.

Tell us about what lured you in this particular person, what prompted you to write a letter for acquaintance. He probably has some unusual technique or the skills you need to grow your business. Or you are interested in the appearance of the chosen one, his skills and tastes.

Also give a couple of compliments. But sincere flattery should not be written under any circumstances. You can only show what a person already knows very well about himself or what he is proud of. At the scientific worker, praise knowledge and merits. Be sure to point out to the beauty special eyes and seductive lip line. 2x-3x remarks for the first letter will suffice.

Tell about yourself. Here you have the most big choice for a flight of fancy. Although there are many tips on how not to write anything superfluous. Remember that it is likely business partner it is not at all necessary to know about your vacation, and it is not necessary for a fan or just a friend to tell about seniority and reputation of the company.

Be careful not to overload the letter with information, try to write a letter to get acquainted with a short one. Including when you are eager to make a representation of a frank person, then you don’t have to lay out everything “from” and “to”. Then you already have the opportunity for the 2nd and following letters.

Do not praise yourself in a letter. Including when you really want it - you don't need it. First of all, then you will have to convince the declared qualities, and, secondly, it is likely that your addressee is much more pleasant to talk about himself. Better let him ask you himself in his own answer. We hope that our tips have helped you answer the question: "How to write a letter for dating."

You can find a friend or soul mate different ways, each of which has the right to life. Of course, meeting a handsome prince in the park in the evening, who will take you into the sunset in his white limousine, is incredibly romantic, but it is more like something from the realm of fantasy.

It’s better not to wait until the guy finds you, which may not happen, but to start active search. How to search for it? Write a letter, for example. How to write a letter for dating?

To whom we write, for what purpose

Do you already have a guy in mind that you would like to meet? For example, a friend of your girlfriend, whom you saw only a few times, or a handsome guy who studies at the same university with you, in parallel. If there is no one in mind, first find someone to write to. Decide what the subject of the letter will be - whether you want to start a friendship or something more serious.

Way of writing

Anything you want to say to a guy can be handwritten and then sealed in an envelope and mailed.. This way is the most romantic, but the letter will take a relatively long time to reach the addressee. Although you do live in the same city, so it won’t take much time. You can print your kiss on a piece of paper with a letter, put your photo in an envelope along with a piece of paper, sprinkle your perfume on it.

Virtual mail sent to e-mail- a much faster way, because your letter will reach the subscriber's e-mail box in a matter of fractions of a second. However, there is much less romance in this way. Although you can attach your photo and choose a beautiful design, it’s still not the same as if you were writing a tangible, “alive” letter.

Greetings

say hello first. The subsequent text depends on what the greeting will be.. It is better to start with a respectful greeting, but only without unnecessary officialdom. Although you can allow a little familiarity if you immediately want to indicate your friendly position.

compliments

Guys love compliments less girls , it's just that they (compliments) must be correct. For example, your friend told about this guy that he loves poetry very much. Then you can write that you are crazy about romantic guys. You could write, "I know we haven't met in person yet, but I'm sure we'll get along great. You love poetry, which speaks of your romance and sophistication…”. Just make sure that your compliments do not turn into outright flattery.

tell us about yourself

Then you can tell about yourself. Do not write a lot, indicate only those moments that the guy should like. It is unlikely that a refined romantic will be interested in knowing what you visit on odd days of the week. gym. But write about your love for classical music very possible and necessary.

It remains to say goodbye, and also check your letter for errors. It's best to submit your creation when you're sure it's well-written.

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