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13 . Ask about music. If you are in a club, cafe and he listens to music that you also hear, ask him if he knows the name of this song that was just played or at least the name of the group that performs it. You can say something like “I really love this song, do you know who sings it?” You can also hum this song along with the artist on the radio. Support your boyfriend eye contact, smile and say “I love this verse” and wait to see what he says. Either way, this is a good way to establish a common understanding.

14 . Trite, but sometimes effective way- ask for directions. It is advisable to resort to little trick. You need to force the guy to take you to the right place. Let’s say you “need” to find house 25 on third street. Builders or Red Square or general store. You walked around and asked all the passers-by, but you couldn’t find this enchanted place. You need to portray a confused look and some helplessness. It is also necessary that the “searched” place be nearby. If a guy starts showing the way, waving his arms - first to the left, then to the right, then you have already been there and don’t understand anything at all. Of course, some acting skills are needed here, but when later this guy is yours, and he is yours, you can reveal to him the small secret of your acquaintance.

15 . The textbook method of dating, seen in numerous melodramas and TV series, is a “random” encounter. To meet a guy on the street, organize this event, preferably not in a very crowded place. Don’t forget to take with you “to get acquainted” some folders with a bunch of papers or a bag with small objects. It is important that the folder opens easily and the bag opens. When collecting items with a stranger, express complete confusion and disappointment. It is advisable that some important item (for example, an old mobile phone) from your purse breaks - you need to break it in advance. The young man will feel discouraged and somewhat guilty, and this is what is needed. By the way, considering that you are now without a cell phone, you can ask him to call from his cell phone. (See method number 5)

16 . Praise his dog. Let's say a guy is walking in the park with his four-legged friend. Admire his dog and ask if you can pet him. This is a great conversation starter because you can keep asking questions about his pet and he will of course participate in the conversation. Ask the animal's age, name, breed, say something good about its behavior and training. If a guy is interested in you, he will be happy to continue the further conversation on a topic that is not necessarily related to his favorite. But if he is indifferent to you, then he will answer your questions and move on in his direction.

19 . Volleyball on the beach. As a rule, on the beach most often men play volleyball, gathered in a circle. You, presenting yourself for treatment during the game, ask to be taken into the game (as in childhood). Play all the time for the man you like.

20 . A method for girls with good acting skills. Rush to the object from behind, hug, kiss and... apologize, citing the fact that you confused him with your brother or childhood friend. After which you make excuses for a long time that you are very similar, how awkward it turned out, it’s very awkward for me, although it’s a very funny situation, and what’s your name - maybe your names are the same.

21 . Use this one too feminine cunning. Hide one earring and begin an intensive search for the second one in the place where the man is until he offers his help. In this case, you need to lift your hair and show him the second earring. Joint searches can lead to life together- why not!

22 . Sit next to the guy on the bench, pretend that you are getting ready to go somewhere and forget your thing on the bench. A decent young man will definitely call out to you or catch up with you to give you a forgotten item. If, having moved away to a distance of 10 - 20 meters, you do not see any actions on the part of the guy, then come back for the “loss”, and this goat turns out to be not decent at all.

25 . And finally, the most unattractive and somewhat criminal, but at the same time the most effective way of dating. Unnoticed, steal something from a guy at college, school, or work, and then “accidentally find” it and give it away. Naturally, the guy will be happy and try to thank you in some way. But be very careful - don't get into a criminal story. Therefore, it is better to accidentally find an umbrella, sunglasses, a flash drive or notes from lectures at the University than a good mobile phone.

Previously, the initiative to meet and start a relationship mainly came from men, but nowadays everything is changing, and girls themselves are able to start a conversation with the young man they like. For some, this process goes easily and naturally, but, more often than not, the fair sex needs some hints.

Where can you meet a young man?

Spontaneous acquaintance on the street, in the park, on a walk

Let's meet on the Internet, in contact, on a dating site

How to meet someone in a club or cafe

It’s very easy to make friends in the company of friends, at work or at school.

To attract a guy, watch your appearance and behavior

To meet someone, don’t stay at home

Walk without company - it increases the chance of making acquaintances

How a girl should behave

How to meet a man beautifully

Previously, it was still too new, unknown, it was even scary to think about it. However, already Nowadays many couples meet online and, at the same time, build full-fledged relationships in the future.

Online dating for girls can be very useful. This is just perfect for those who are shy meet guys in person, does not know what to say when meeting, or is simply afraid of being disappointed when he sees his chosen one. IN real life, when we see a person, we may misjudge him at first glance. After all, we do not allocate time for further assessment. On the Internet, it's the opposite. We can learn in a short time not only the outer shell of the person we like, but also his interests and inner qualities.

So, let's talk about how a girl should meet young people online. We are used to the fact that the guy always seems to be the first to take the first step, but you can also wait a very long time for the weather to come by the sea. Therefore we need to act. But, nevertheless, the girl should be tactful and unobtrusive, and everything will go smoothly.

Getting ready to meet

So, the first thing every girl should do is prepare yourself to meet guys. The guy will meet you “by your clothes,” that is, by looking at your photographs, flipping through your albums, as well as the information that you leave on your page. Every little thing can either repel your gentleman or attract him.

So make sure that everything in you're ready to show the world on your page, does not embarrass you in any way or does not bring any unpleasant sensations.

Based on the photographs, it will be possible to form a certain impression about you: where you go, what you love, who your friends are, what your habits are. You may sometimes seem stupid and frivolous, so remove all unnecessary photos from your page, there is no need to create distracting moments. Write on the page about yourself what you love (hobbies, interests, things that you just like). There is no need to invent anything, write as it really is. The most important rule is to be yourself.

Guys don't like me at all girls with bad habits and those who look bad and unkempt. To the girl it's not appropriate to smoke– it’s not fashionable or stylish at all. Drinking is also not encouraged. In the photographs, for example, it will be immediately clear how well-groomed you are and how you take care of yourself. It is not at all necessary to be a written beauty. You just need to take care of yourself - light, unobtrusive makeup, natural hair, soft skin, slim body - all this will attract attention to your page. If you haven't had much time yet get yourself in proper shape– then act!

After all, if you are lucky, and after meeting you have to meet a guy in person, he should not be disappointed when he sees in life something completely different from what is in the photo.

Let's act! Just don't despair!

So, we have put the page in order, everything is fine with ourselves too. top level- Great. It's time to take action.

The first thing we must do– decide who we are looking for. We enter in the search the data that we would like: year of birth (primarily), city of residence. The rest is up to you.

The VKontakte website offers huge selection search queries, because every girl needs something different. You can choose the religious or political views of your chosen one, a page with or without a photo, place of study and work. Please, Everything depends on you.

To make the choice wider, you can remove several search criteria, because not all guys indicate all the necessary information. But it is among these guys that the only one may be.

So, the search criteria have been defined. The system will find thousands and millions of guys who also want to meet beautiful young ladies. Of course, there will be many, many options, so there is no need to rush. It's better to spend a little more time on good selection and choose those guys who you liked the most.

So, we chose the guys we liked. Let's start by choosing a few young people. If anything happens, you can always start again. We look through their pages, photos and decide who we like the most.

Now is the time for decisive action. We gather our thoughts and write to the guy, or add him as a friend. If he accepted the application, then you can already be a little happy - it means that he is interested in you. Then you can start even with the simplest phrases. We write everything we have the courage to write.

“Hello” I liked you. Let's get acquainted"

“I see you play tennis. Me too. It would be interesting to chat with you.”

IN modern world The laws that were applicable before have no longer been in effect for a long time. Nowadays guys pay a lot of attention to girls who are the first to take the initiative.

There's no shame in this. Why not? Even if you are very shy and worried, It's OK. Get together and write to him. What if you miss out on your happiness?! This is the Internet, and they don’t punish you for demand anywhere.

If one guy didn’t respond to your message, it’s okay, another, a third, a tenth will answer. You can also leave enticing graffiti on his wall (for example, soccer ball if he loves football; headphones if he likes music). Browse the playlist, there may be songs there, which you also like.

“And I noticed a song on your page... Could you explain what it’s about? I don’t think I quite understood.” “That’s so interesting, but I thought this song was by another artist. Can you tell me about him?”

“It’s cool, our tastes in music completely coincide. It's interesting to find a like-minded person. By the way, my name is Katya.”

So the conversation began. If the guy doesn’t make contact (he answers confusingly, incomprehensibly, in monosyllabic sentences), then drop the matter. Ease of communication will be felt from the first minutes if you have really found “that” person. Starting a conversation with standard phrases, like “You’re cool, let’s get acquainted” and “What kind of girls do you like? I’m just like that, that’s how lucky it is,” you can go much further. As a result, you will sit for hours in front of the computer, busy communicating.

But there is no need to impose. If the guy did not reciprocate - nothing. Do not write anything back to him, do not be sarcastic or swear. Firstly, this is of no use, and there is no need to waste your nerves. And secondly, it’s not his fault that he didn’t like you. Everyone is free to choose for themselves.

One more trick- is to disappear for a while. You can write something interesting to your guy every day to interest him. And then one day they disappeared for a day. Just know when to stop. There is no need to run away for a week and behave incomprehensibly. Create interest in yourself.

So, finally, you have achieved the result. You met a guy. Now you need to somehow not lose his attention and keep him. How to achieve this? Yes, there is nothing complicated. The main thing is don’t get lost. Periodically write to him first. The guy also gets tired when nothing is important or heard from you. He will also think that he is imposing himself on you. But don’t impose yourself either. You don’t need to write meaningless messages every hour in order to attract all his attention. Keep the middle ground.

Ask him questions, be interested in his hobbies and his life. This will prepare the ground for the real meeting. Show your imagination You are a girl, you have to be a little cunning. Casually throw in some phrase like “Oh, it’s raining today, but I wanted to go play basketball with the guys.” Now the conversation will begin. This is just one of the topics. And you can come up with everything that your imagination is capable of.

Well, here we go time is running, it's getting close to the meeting. First, think about whether you need it or not. If you are truly interested in a person, then you need to act. If you are just bored, then it is better not to injure the guy. Maybe he really likes you and is already making plans for you. If a guy still doesn't ask you out, then maybe he's just shy or thinks he doesn't like you enough. So take the first step yourself! Invite him!

If it makes it easier for you, you can first prepare the ground for real meeting. For example, offer to chat on Skype, maybe this will speed up the desire to meet. Well, if this doesn’t help, pull yourself together and offer it yourself. Surely nothing will happen because you are refused? I'll refuse once, twice. And they will agree to the third, and this option will be even better! For example, “Why are we bothering here, let’s go outside and let’s stretch our bones.” Why not?!

Let's sum it up

So, we have already identified the main points that we need to work on in order to meet a guy online.

• We look after and take care of ourselves, create beautiful image, which will not disappoint the chosen one in the future.
• Next, we select “victims” and write to them first. We are not timid. Confident girls will always achieve their goals!
• We don’t impose ourselves on the guy when communicating, but we also don’t disappear for a month. Let's keep the limits.
• We are not afraid to write what we want, to be inventive and witty. Guys love active and interesting girls. You can withstand one or two refusals. The best option will not leave you!
• And finally, we meet! If you are not offered a meeting, then you offer it yourself.

Our main motto is Don’t be afraid of difficulties and be confident! Your energy can be felt everywhere, so go ahead!

Even if you want the man to take the initiative, he can be gently pushed to do so. Use following tips to increase the likelihood of dating.

You can get acquainted under a variety of circumstances, and not just while languidly sipping a cocktail at a bar. First, try to understand what kind of partner you need, and, based on this, choose a location. Do you want to meet an intellectual? Go to an exhibition or lecture. Do you dream of being an athlete? Take a closer look at those who visit your gym and whom you often meet while jogging.

In general, pay attention to the places where you often visit. Most likely, there are men there with whom you have common interests.

It's a good idea to think about the skills you've been wanting to learn for a long time. There are also plenty of suitable candidates in language schools or DJ courses.

Another option is to look for places with a large concentration of men, where you will stand out. For example, visit sports competition, a car show or just the tool department in a hypermarket. You are unlikely to remain there without attention.

2. Become a regular

Still, you shouldn’t forget about bars and cafes. But instead of visiting a new establishment every time, try choosing one and visiting it regularly. In the usual comfortable environment It's easier to meet new people. And the wild rejoicing of the bartenders over your appearance will definitely turn all eyes in your direction.

3. Be alone more often

Don’t scare off strangers with the sight of your laughing girlfriends, and especially your male friends. Practice walking (or even traveling), hiking cultural events or in a cafe.

Just don’t try to replace a temporary lack of communication by listening to music on headphones or constantly checking your smartphone. Let others know that you are alone and are not waiting for a belated boyfriend to appear.

If you want to meet someone, forget about the mask of coldness and indifference. She repels rather than attracts. It’s also not worth using all the possibilities of facial expressions. In order to show your interest, a glance and a slight smile are usually enough.

5. Take care of your appearance

This does not mean that you need to urgently take out everything short and shiny from your wardrobe. Screaming sexuality rather speaks of the desperation of the girl and her bad taste than about readiness for a normal relationship.

It is better to bet on simple, but stylish solutions in clothes (the main ideas can be gleaned from the article) and choose correct makeup and hairstyle (and an article to help).

And is it worth saying that you need to look good whenever possible everywhere and always? Well-groomed and neat appearance- at least a sign of politeness towards yourself and others.

Active methods

The time of complete patriarchy has already passed, but total feminism has not yet arrived. However, a woman who takes the initiative in a relationship is now unlikely to be stoned. The list below contains ideas for the first step that any girl can safely implement.

1. Use a trick

It is not necessary to openly express your interest. You can get acquainted using various kinds tricks. For example, approach a man in a cafe and say that you lost an argument with a friend and, according to the terms of the bet, you must take his phone number. Or say a joke out loud, then turn around and apologize, saying that you thought you were talking to someone you know.

Of course, this method requires certain acting skills. But a slight adrenaline rush is guaranteed.

2. Ask for help

You can attract a man's attention in the most innocent way. Alternatively, ask for directions, get something from the top shelf in the store, or simply hold the door.

The main thing is not to become a problem woman who constantly needs help. strong man. Not everyone likes the role of father-savior.

3. Ask a question

Men love attention no less than women. Especially if this attention flatters their outlook and intelligence. Take advantage of this little weakness to win over an unfamiliar guy. For example, ask a nice colleague with a professional question or ask a stranger from a language course to explain a grammar rule.

4. Give a compliment

Everyone enjoys being praised. Men are no exception. At the same time, singing praises of their appearance or masculinity is not at all necessary. You can compliment a stranger's performance at a conference or open mic event. Or approach a cute dog owner in the park and compliment his four-legged friend.

Getting your own dog is also not a bad idea: animals tend to easily bring strangers together.

5. Be open about your interest.

Tired of playing role-playing games and wait by the sea for weather? Just tell the person you like that you are interested in him. Another option is to approach a stranger in a cafe and ask if you can sit at their table.

Someone will say that a man wants to be a hunter and he doesn’t need “ easy prey" Someone - that such behavior can frighten and repel. But the question is: do you want to be the prey and be around a man who has female initiative?

The truth is that men, like women, are different and want different things. But men, like women, are often similar: they are also afraid of being rejected and also dream of having someone new in their life. interesting person. It’s great if the desire of two lonely people coincides, and it doesn’t really matter who was the first to take a step towards.